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25 Hidden Signs You Have Kidney Problems

We hear a lot about the dangers of breast cancer – and rightfully so. But did you know that kidney problems and disease kills more people than breast cancer and prostate cancer combined?

According to the National Institutes of Health, well over 660,000 Americans have kidney failure. The primary causes of kidney failure are diabetes and high blood pressure (hypertension). Kidney failure and other kidney conditions trigger waste buildup in the body, which can turn into more serious problems.

In this article, we are going to go into a bit more detail about the kidneys, including their location and function, as well as 25 hidden signs that you may have kidney problems. To wrap things up, we’ll elucidate on some ways that you can keep your kidneys healthy and – to the extent it is possible – “reverse” sustained kidney damage.

Let’s do this!

Introduction to Your Kidneys

Your kidneys are a pair of bean-shaped organs located just below the rib cage, one on each side. Roughly the size of a fist, your kidneys serve many critical bodily functions.

Properly-functioning kidneys filter about a half-cup of blood every 60 seconds. This filtering blood allows the passage of urine while removing waste byproducts. Urine travels to the ureters, a pair of narrow tubes on each side of your bladder. The ureters store urine until it is passed.

Other functions of the kidneys include:

  • Producing red blood cells
  • Maintaining bone strength
  • Producing blood pressure-regulating hormones
  • Balancing electrolyte (e.g. phosphate, potassium) levels
  • Preventing fluid and waste buildup in the body

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How the Kidneys Work

(Please note: To minimize potential confusion, the writer is placing complex medical terms – usually components of organs – in italics.)

While we don’t talk too much about our kidneys, they’re remarkably intricate, efficient, and versatile.

Nephrons are the filtering units within the kidneys, and there are about one million of them. Each of the million nephrons contains two filtering components – the glomerulus and a tubule.

Nephrons are constantly performing a twofold process:

(1) Nephron’s glomerulus actively filters the blood.

(2) The tubule transports the required elements to the blood while removing waste.

The glomerulus consists of remarkably thin walls, allowing it to pass fluids, tiny molecules, and wastes to the tubule. The tubule transfers the remaining fluids and wastes to the ureters to be excreted in the form of urine.

The kidneys are part of the body’s urinary tract (i.e. renal system or urinary system), along with the bladder, ureters, and urethra. The urinary tract’s primary jobs are to:

  • Balance electrolyte and metabolite levels
  • Eliminate blood waste products
  • Regulate blood pressure and volume
  • Regulate blood pH (acidity)

Common Kidney Problems

As with every other body organ, our kidneys are subject to problems. Here are the four most commonly experienced kidney issues:

Kidney cysts: Kidney cysts are small sacs of fluid that grow either on the surface or inside of the kidneys. The most common kidney cysts are “simple” or noncancerous. Simple kidney cysts rarely cause problems.

Kidney infection: Kidney infections occur when bacteria in the bladder or urethra spreads. It can reach the kidneys and cause infection.

Kidney injury: Acute kidney injury, or AKI, is a relatively sudden episode of kidney damage or kidney failure. It occurs over the course of a few hours to a few days.

Kidney stones: Kidney stones form when the urine contains abnormally high concentrations of crystal-forming substances than can be diluted. The most common cause of kidney stones is calcium oxalate buildup.

Risk Factors

“One way to reduce the economic burden of chronic kidney disease would be early intervention. In order to achieve this, we should … identify (those) with increased risk of renal disease … Factors such as race, gender, age, and family history are highly important.” – Kazancioglu, R., “Risk factors for chronic kidney disease: an update” (source)

Certain demographics are more at risk for kidney problems, including serious medical conditions (e.g. kidney disease and kidney failure). Certain lifestyle choices can drastically increase the risk of developing kidney problems as well.

In 2013, a Turkish researcher by the name of Rumeyza Kazancioglu published an excellent article in the journal Kidney International Supplements. Dr. Kazancioglu identifies all known risk factors for developing chronic kidney disease (CKD) and, one can deduce, many other identifiable kidney issues.

Here are all known risk factors by category – age, ethnicity, family history, gender, lifestyle factors, and others.

Age: Per Dr. Kazancioglu, “renal function decreases with age” in both sexes. Among the elderly, up to one-half of those screened for CKD tested positive for the condition.

Ethnicity: In the United States, African-Americans acquire end-stage renal disease (ESRD) at a rate that is three to four times higher than Caucasians. The risk of hypertensive ESRD is five times higher.

Gender: Many studies indicate the men are at a higher risk than women for developing kidney problems. Some experts point to the “damaging effects” of testosterone as the potential reason.

Family history: It is estimated that approximately 25 percent (1-in-4) of patients with ESRD have a family member with the same.

Lifestyle: Smoking and obesity increase the risk for CKD, as does excessive alcohol consumption, heavy metal exposure, and the use of analgesic medication (i.e. painkillers).

Medical co-conditions: A history of cardiovascular disease, hepatitis C, HIV infection, hyperlipidemia, and metabolic syndrome are additional risk factors.

25 “Hidden” Signs of Kidney Problems

If your kidney has something wrong with it, detecting any noticeable sign or symptom can be quite difficult. Hence, why such signs and symptoms are referred to as “hidden.” Here are 25 potential hidden warning signs of kidney troubles:

1. Fatigue:

Kidney problems may cause a shortage of red blood cells, which can quickly exhaust the brain and muscles.

2. Dizziness:

Feeling dizzy could be a sign that your brain isn’t getting enough oxygen due to anemia, or a shortage of red blood cells.

3. Feeling faint:

Similar to dizziness, feelings of faintness are not uncommon when kidney problems are present.

4. Weakness:

Most people with kidney conditions complain of muscle weakness. This most likely happens due to a shortage of blood oxygen.

5. Brain fog:

Brain fog is an umbrella term used to describe problems with alertness, concentration, learning, and memory. It is common among those with kidney troubles.

6. Shortness of breath:

Anemia can leave the body with a lack of available oxygen, as can extra fluid buildup in the lungs. Both are potentially triggered by kidney problems.

7. Itchiness:

As the kidneys as responsible for removing waste from the blood, kidney damage (or failure) can cause a buildup. One common symptom is itchy of this fluid accumulation is itchy skin.

8. Swelling of the hands and feet:

Kidney issues impair your body’s ability to get rid of excess fluid; as a result, the hands and feet may swell.

9. Swelling of the neck and face:

The same issue described in (8) applies here as well.

10. Metallic taste in the mouth:

Uremia, or waste buildup in the blood, may manifest as a metal-like taste in the mouth.

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11. Bad breath:

When the body can’t effectively rid itself of waste byproducts, bad breath may result.

12. Nausea:

Uremia may also cause nausea.

13. Upset stomach:

An upset stomach is often a co-symptom of nausea in those with kidney problems.

14. Vomiting:

Certain kidney issues, including kidney infection, may cause vomiting.

15. Weight loss:

Weight loss may result from poor appetite or excessive vomiting among those with kidney issues. The former being more common than the latter.

16. Feeling cold often:

Anemia may cause feelings of being cold all the time.

17. Frequent urination:

Damage to the kidney’s nephrons may lead to more frequent urination, especially at night.

18. Feelings of pressure during urination:

Kidney troubles may cause feelings of pressure during urination.

19. Changes in urine appearance:

Foamy urine or urine of a strange coloration (usually brown, purple, or red) is usually indicative of more serious kidney problems.

20. Trouble sleeping:

Researchers have linked poor sleep duration and quality to CKD.

21. Poor appetite:

Lack of appetite is common among those with kidney troubles. Poor appetite may accompany a metallic taste in the mouth.

22. Abdominal swelling:

If the kidneys are not properly filtering fluid, the effects may show up as a swollen belly.

23. Blood in the urine:

This is almost always a serious sign that something is amiss internally, sometimes with the kidneys.

24. Muscle cramps:

This may be caused by kidney troubles due to imbalances of electrolytes and fluids, blood flow problems, or nerve damage.

25. Twitching:

Fluid imbalances cause by kidney troubles may also cause twitching of the muscles.

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Final Thoughts: Maintaining Kidney Health

As is apparent, the proper functioning of the kidneys is vital for good health – and vice-versa. The good news is that there are many proactive steps that we can take to keep our kidneys healthy while significantly lowering the risk of kidney troubles. Here are five:

  1. Maintain a proper weight: There is a strong connection between obesity and kidney disorders, especially CKD. Make sure to take the precautions you need to and maintain a healthy weight.
  2. Drink water: There is no better way to detoxify your kidneys – and the rest of your body – than by regularly drinking the recommended amount of water. Most scientists seem to agree that eight, 8-ounce glasses of H2O daily is just about right.
  3. Get regular exercise: Physical activity helps maintain a healthy weight. It also staves off hypertension, another leading cause of kidney disorders. Aim for a minimum of 30 minutes of light-to-moderate exercise every day.
  4. Watch your OTCs: Over-the-counter medicines like ibuprofen and other NSAIDs may cause kidney damage if taken over a prolonged period.
  5. Stop smoking: Smoking constricts the blood vessels, in turn decreasing blood flow to the kidneys. This lack of blood makes it harder for kidneys to function properly. Smoking also increases the risk of high blood pressure and kidney cancer.

11 Photos Guaranteed to Pull at Your Heartstrings

What is life if we aren’t sharing a piece of ourselves with others? It may be tempting to shut ourselves off from the world to avoid pain, but doing that keeps love out of our hearts as well. We’re emotional creatures, seeking things that pull at our heartstrings, and we need human contact and connection to survive.

Without this intimate bond with our fellow humans, we would be nothing more than robots. Our emotions give life meaning; without them, we couldn’t comprehend anything happening in our lives.

With that said, the photos below capture the essence of what it means to be human, and they remind us that we can all afford to give a little bit more of ourselves.

11 Photos Guaranteed to Pull At Your Heartstrings

1. The emotions in this picture are powerful. Imagine if you were in his shoes!

Gabriel Nobre, 19, with his mom and sister right after he found out he’d passed Brazil’s famously difficult university entrance exam. The young man had cut a deal with a prep course to clean the building in exchange for free classes to help him prepare for the exam.
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2. Wow, that’s a lot of hair! Luckily, those locks went to a great cause.

She donated 30 inches of her hair to make wigs for children with cancer. (Post Credit-u/BlondeAussieGirl1990)
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3. Coolest Uber driver ever! I’ll bet that girl was so thankful she had someone to share such an amazing experience with.

4. Some soccer fans decided to give toys to sick children visiting from a local hospital. These children wanted to show support for their favorite team, so imagine their surprise at the unexpected gifts.

5. This teacher should win an award! If this doesn’t pull at your heartstrings, we don’t know what will.

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6. This man delivers 10,000 liters of water every day to animals who would otherwise perish in the dry conditions.

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7. This man is truly a hero! These dogs now have a second chance at life thanks to him.

 

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8. Callum had the best birthday ever thanks to acts of kindness from strangers. What a dream come true!

My son, Callum, suffers from a very rare muscle disease. He LOVES supercars! Recently, for his bday, 30+ guys who own supercars (Lamborghinis, Ferraris etc.) spent an afternoon driving Callum & mates in their amazing cars! Most were strangers who wanted to help. I was so humbled.
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9. Some people might have just taken the wallet, but luckily, a few kind people found and returned it.

My sister left her wallet on top of her car like a dingus, and then drove home 2 states away. She got a package with this note a few days later.

10. Are your heartstrings sore yet? Maybe this seems like a small act of kindness, but it probably made this woman’s day.

My wife’s grandpa died yesterday, and she hired a babysitter for the day so she could get things done. The sitter sent this to my wife using the money we paid her. (x-post from /r/pics)
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11. Sometimes, it’s nice to give more than what’s required. You never know who might need it!

Our waiter at IHOP had a nasty table and seemed to be having a bad day, so my girlfriend and I decided to leave this tip on a $30 meal.
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We truly hope these photos tugged at your heartstrings and inspired you to give more of yourself away. We all have the ability to love and care for one another, but we often hold back because of fear of rejection or embarrassment.

However, someone out there could really use your kindness and attention. Think about how one small act of compassion can turn someone’s whole day, even their life, around.

More than ever, we need to open ourselves up and shed our layers. Break down walls and build communities. Forget our differences and remember what unites us.

What do you have to lose by reaching out to someone who looks like they might need your help? If they don’t return your kindness, just remember, that’s on them, not you. Let’s all love a little bit louder. 🙂

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5 Ways to Respond to People Who Violate Your Boundaries

Settings boundaries is crucial, but it can be difficult to keep healthy and positive boundaries up when others violate them. It’s incredibly frustrating to draw lines, only to have them crossed again and again.

Most people do not intentionally violate boundaries. They do so out of ignorance, lack of critical thought, or because that’s their go-to strategy for building any kind of relationship with someone.

Still, regardless of good or bad intent, your boundaries have still been violated. And no matter how many times you try to protect them, they are just invaded once again. It’s a very uncomfortable and unpleasant feeling to see the lines you clearly indicate blatantly stepped over.

The trick to preventing this lies in learning how to deal with people who just can’t respect your boundaries. Simply allowing it to keep on happening is not the way to go! Here are some ways to respond to people who violate your boundaries.

5 Ways To Respond To People Who Violate Your Boundaries

1.    Make Your Boundaries Extra Clear (To Yourself And To Others)

It is possible that some boundaries you are setting are not consistent or clear, leading to confusion or making them appear less like boundaries and more like suggestions. You may feel too tired to enforce your boundaries one day and let them slip, allowing others to perceive that you are okay with whatever is going on.

You need to have a very good idea of where your boundaries are. When they are already being crossed, causing discomfort, it makes sense that you’d have trouble articulating them or making sense of them. As such, it’s important that you take some time to yourself to contemplate exactly what your boundaries are.

Why is this so important? In the event that someone crosses a line and you need to explain your boundaries to them, you want to be able to explain them in a foolproof, loophole-free manner that is consistent and accurate. When someone violates them, you’ll be able to calmly and quickly inform them where those boundaries are.

Not sure how to figure out where your real boundaries lie? You have to be honest with yourself, but that’s easier said than done. Here are some tips for positive action:

  • Give yourself permission to have boundaries and recognize that you deserve to have them.
  • Start small and work your way up.
  • Discuss them with a trusted friend, family member, or therapist.
  • Pay attention to your emotions and feelings.
  • Learn self-awareness and self-honesty.
  • Consider your past experiences.

Have trouble sticking to your boundaries? You can:

  • Write them down so you remember them.
  • Have a close, trusted person hold you accountable until you do so naturally.
  • Turn them into affirmations and repeat them to yourself daily.

Boundaries must be clearly articulated in order to respond to a person who is violating them. Without clear knowledge on where those boundaries are, you’re setting yourself up for inconsistency.

2.    You’re In Charge Here – Act Like It

This is your life, and these are your boundaries. You are the only person who is going to be affected by a lack of respect for them. This means you have the final say. Don’t allow anyone to boss you around when it comes to your boundaries.

This is crucial, as some less well-intentioned people may use manipulative tactics to get around your boundaries, especially when you start standing up for yourself. For example, they may use phrases like:

  • You’re just overreacting.
  • Calm down!
  • It was just a joke.
  • I obviously didn’t mean it that way.
  • You’re a little too sensitive, don’t you think?
  • You’re being unreasonable.
  • I didn’t know about it, so it’s not my fault.
  • Can’t you make an exception for me?
  • Aw, I thought we were close friends!
  • You need to lighten up.
  • Where’s your sense of humor?

Don’t allow these phrases to throw you off or make you soften up. Even unintentional manipulation is still manipulation, and you shouldn’t be made to feel guilty for having boundaries. There are plenty of ways you can go about correcting these negative people in your life, but it’s important that you do correct them.

Don’t back down, even if told to “calm down,” or any other phrase. You have the right to declare your values, so tell them that your boundaries are not on the table for discussion. It’s simple: no means no, no matter what.

Do note, though, that you do not have to be hurtful in order to be strict. Set boundaries and correct others firmly, but gently and kindly, too – especially for first-time “offenders.” Do not resort to personal insults like:

  • You’re just the type of person who tends to cause people to feel uncomfortable.
  • I don’t understand how this is so difficult for you to get.
  • You must be pretty dull if you haven’t understood me by now.
  • I’m getting sick of telling you about this.
  • You’re such an invasive person.

You should also be very clear and avoid using wishy-washy words, like:

  • Perhaps
  • Maybe
  • Probably
  • Sometimes
  • Possibly

Instead, use “I” statements that articulate feelings instead of pass blame, such as:

  • I feel uncomfortable when you stand so close.
  • I feel like you aren’t respecting the boundaries I’ve talked about.
  • When you say things like that, I feel very uncomfortable.

This is sure to get a more positive response.

3.    Record Violations For Further Adjustment

When someone continues to cross lines again and again, it’s time to collect evidence. Use a journal or document to take note of the dates, times, and natures of boundary disrespect. It is also helpful to record the replies that you provided to them in this respect.

This will not only allow you to prove someone’s negative track record, but it will also allow you to take an objective look at how you handle these situations, too. Are you not being clear or firm enough? Are your boundaries inconsistent? Do you tend to react very angrily, leading to more trouble down the line?

This can also help you to take a look back at someone’s actions and consider them carefully. You may learn more about yourself and the other person through this practice.

4.    Accept That Not Everyone Will Respect Your Boundaries

We always hope for the best of people, but for some, that just doesn’t work. There are people who will never listen to you, and will never take you seriously, and they will continue to overstep boundaries for as long as you have interactions with them. In these cases, your response has to be different – don’t invest too much energy into correcting them.

You cannot change the minds of these people. They may be toxic or just plain ignorant – either way, it’s not pleasant. Consider why they may be behaving this way and, based on critical thought, decide how you can best respond to their repeated annoying violations.

It can take a lot of positive thinking to get your mind on the right track in order to ignore someone who continually violates your boundaries, but there is a lot of wisdom in not giving them the satisfaction of engagement. Instead of reacting angrily or in a way that shows you are upset, you can:

  • Laugh it off
  • Make a joke about it
  • Ignore them completely
  • Smile and pretend not to care

Essentially, just don’t show them that they’re getting to you. It causes a great power shift, and your lack of reaction will make the process of goading you less fun for them. Often, this can cause the behavior to stop.

Do note that this does not apply the same way to someone who is hurting you physically; lodge a formal complaint, speak to a higher-up at work, or contact the police in these cases, depending on the situation.

5.    Cut Out Those Who Don’t Listen

Unfortunately, there may come a point when you realize that someone is a lost cause. If it’s a friend or family member – basically someone you can avoid, unlike a colleague at work or someone you have to see often – then it’s time to call it quits with them. It’s a tough choice, so here are some questions to consider.

  1. What is the nature of your relationship? Is there a purpose to the relationship, whatever kind it is? Is it healthy? Would it be easy to cut them off, or is this their one flaw while they provide kindness and support in other ways?
  2. What harm is the relationship causing you? Are you losing focus, becoming anxious or unhappy, or do you feel like you are being abused? Or does it not really bother you at all?
  3. Will burning bridges make things more difficult in the long run? Will it be a decision that haunts you, lands you in trouble, or causes you to lose other relationships?
  4. How easily can you cut things off? If it’s a colleague, can you request a work transfer? If it’s a family member, are you dependent on them in any way, and who’s side is the rest of your family on? Is it a housemate, and if so, can you move out quickly? If it’s a friend, will your other friends likely try to convince you to rethink?

It can be a difficult decision to make, but with positive thinking and confidence, you can and should make a choice that is most helpful to you. At the end of the day, you have multiple options to choose from when it comes to distancing yourself from someone who won’t stop violating your boundaries. You do not need permission or approval in order to do what’s best for you.

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Final Thoughts On Some Ways To Respond To People Who Violate Your Boundaries

Boundary-breakers come in all forms. They can be family members, friends, and colleagues. They can be toxic, manipulative, or actually have good intentions. But no matter who violates your boundaries and why, it’s important to keep in mind that your boundaries are valid and you deserve for them to be respected.

Setting boundaries can be difficult, and reinforcing them against those who break them is even harder. There is no easy answer, and solutions to this problem aren’t one-size-fits-all. You have to determine the cause for these boundary violations and figure out the best solutions to them.

Some people get angry. Others feel offended. Even more, they might seem upset. But the people who matter will apologize, listen, and learn. Remember, you deserve respect. Your boundaries (and those of others) should be heeded and abided by, and it is not okay to walk all over them!

8 Body Parts Most People Don’t Clean Enough

You have a bath daily. You brush your teeth, wear clean clothes, and make sure your hygiene is in check. But did you know that lurking away from your careful eyes and soapy hands, bacteria is finding places to hide on body parts you may not clean enough?

It’s true! Many people neglect certain spots of their body, or simply don’t clean them in the way that is needed. Luckily, we’re here to help you make sure you’re scrubbing them down.

Here Are 8 Body Parts You Don’t Clean Enough

1.    Underneath Your Fingernails

We know how important washing your hands is. That’s why we make sure to do it often. But even then, there’s a part of your hands that isn’t as easily cleaned with a few rounds beneath the faucet: the underside of your nails.

You may notice that dirt and grime can often get trapped beneath your fingernails, causing dark lines where they meet your fingers. Worse still, there may even more there than you can see with your naked eye! It’s not difficult for bacteria to begin building a colony there.

Multiple studies have indicated that most people do not sufficiently wash their nails. Here are just two of them:

  • An Aston University, Birmingham study performed by Dr. Anthony Hilton was done on male and female participants. The study collected their nail clippings for analysis. 15% of all female participants and 24% of the male participants had harmful, dangerous bacteria present in those clippings.
  • Supposedly, a shocking 95% of all individuals have no idea what the correct hand-washing method is! This is according to research that was published in the reputable Journal of Environmental Health.

How can you wash your nails in a positive way that actually works?

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  • Turn on some running water and wet your hands.
  • Pour some soap onto your hands. If your skin is particularly sensitive, an oil cleanser can have a similar and just as useful effect.
  • Rub your hands against each other so that the soap begins to lather.
  • Lather your whole hand thoroughly – do the in-betweens of your fingers, go behind your hands, and especially beneath the fingernails.
  • To really get under the nails, give yourself a lot of lather on your palm, then scratch your nails against the soapy palm.
  • Continue to scrub and soap your hands for around 20 seconds.
  • Rinse the soap off. Make sure the water you’re using is clean.
  • Allow your hands to dry on their own or dry them off with a towel – also clean.

Need additional help with your fingernails? Get a bowl and fill it with warm water. Mix in some soap. Then, take a cotton swab and soak it in the bowl, then use it to clean beneath your nails. Be sure to also keep your nails neatly trimmed!

2.    Your Back

Do you get acne all over your back? It’s likely because you’re not giving it as much cleaning as it needs. Sure, your back gets drenched whenever you shower, but you wouldn’t exactly call standing under the shower, unmoving, to be a good cleansing session, would you?

Since your back winds up lying down or resting against chairs a lot, it accumulates sweat and is in extra need of a good clean. The friction from rubbing against a variety of surfaces can also cause irritation, and trapped sweat can easily fester if not cleaned.

Even if you do try to soap your back, the issue is that there’s only so much that your hands can reach. Your arms aren’t designed to be able to efficiently wash your back completely since they can’t reach it – but that’s no reason to give up and stop your positive thinking!

Your best bet is to use a back scrubber or a similar device designed to reach behind you. You can also ask someone close to you to help you out with a loofah, sponge, or washcloth. Make sure you scrub it thoroughly around twice or thrice weekly!

3.    Your Buttocks

If you’ve ever had to deal with pimples on your backside, you know just how annoying they can be. Let’s face it – you spend a large portion of your day sitting down on your behind. Plus, if you tend to sleep hot, or you sweat in your clothes a lot, you’re in even worse trouble.

Why? Well, your buttocks are just as prone to acne as the rest of your body is, and the fact that it spends a lot of its time covered or hidden makes it even more susceptible. It goes through even more stress than your face does!

Naturally, you already wash your behind when you have a shower – or, at least, we certainly hope so! But sometimes, that still isn’t enough. You may need to give it some extra care to avoid pimples. Here are some tips:

  • Use benzoyl peroxide to clean out follicles
  • Use antibacterial soap to clean out follicles
  • Do not use any thick types of lotion, which may only clog your follicles more
  • Always wash your hair before your body to prevent dirt from your head from getting back to your body and clogging pores
  • Exfoliate with your choice of product to get rid of excess dirt
  • Try preventative care with the use of a product with glycolic acid

4.    Your Belly Button

Belly buttons aren’t exactly smooth. There are a lot of folds that hide all sorts of nooks and crannies. This not only makes it difficult to properly clean, but it also serves as an easy hiding spot for all kinds of gross bacteria.

This can lead to bad smells and even a good habitat for yeast since moisture can easily become trapped in all those little crevices. Worse still, this area is so easily prone to infections that it requires daily washing. Researchers have discovered a total of a whopping 1,400 types of bacteria within just a hundred individuals, according to the Belly Button Biodiversity project.

How do you clean it? Here are some tips:

  • If your belly button is an innie, soak a cotton swab in rubbing alcohol or a mixture of soap and water that is warm and clean it with the cotton.
  • If your belly button is an outie, a simple loofah, sponge, or washcloth can be used in the shower.
  • Wash your belly button every time you shower for added cleanliness.
  • Always dry your belly button with a towel post-shower.
  • Clean your belly button after a shower, not before.

5.    Your Tongue

Hopefully, you brush your teeth daily, at least twice a day. But even if you’re ensuring that your gums and teeth are in pristine condition, there’s a chance that you’re still neglecting something important – your tongue!

The tongue is covered in tiny little bumps and areas that can easily hold, conceal, and fester with bacteria. Bits of food can even be left behind! So if you have bad breath or still have tooth issues despite daily brushing, it may because your tongue is covered in nasty microorganisms.

You can easily use a tongue scraper in order to clean out your tongue – or even a toothbrush, which is just as effective. Do this every time you brush your teeth for the most positive results. (2)

6.    Your Scalp

Even when you wash your hair, there’s a good chance that your scalp isn’t being properly cared for. The standard shampoo isn’t quite able to give your scalp the care that it needs, often leading to itchiness and even flaking.

Why does this happen? Like the rest of the skin, the scalp has lots of sweat glands. The fact that these glands are completely covered by a head of hair does it no favors. Plus, most people don’t shampoo their hair every day, whereas the scalp needs daily cleansing, like the rest of your body.

Here are some tips to help you keep your scalp clean:

  • Use shampoo to scrub at your scalp, taking about two minutes each time to fully cleanse it.
  • If you have a sensitive scalp that becomes irritated by your shampoo, go for organic types – or, for a cheap fix, use baking soda and apply it to your scalp daily before washing off.
  • Use hair oil to massage your scalp if needed.
  • When you don’t want to use any products on your hair, get some warm water to slowly massage at the scalp so that you can get rid of dead skin while boosting circulation.
  • Lessen your use of dry shampoos, hair gels, and other styling hair products.

7.    Behind The Ears

The spot behind your ears is recessed, and it has a lot of special glands on it that work to repeatedly create something called sebum. This can then become a breeding ground for a wide variety of bacteria, often causing quite a stink!

Cleaning is, luckily, simple. Just wash behind your ears, or just get a cotton swab and use some warm water around the back of your ear. Make sure that, after you shampoo your hair, you give your ears a good wash so no product remains and dries it out. Don’t forget to towel dry after, too!

8.    Feet

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Your feet are arguably the most smelly parts of the body after a long day. They’re cooped up in socks and shoes, exposed to the ground, and often go ignored in the shower. Here are some areas to care for:

a)    Toes

The spaces between your toes can accumulate gross toe jam over time. Yuck! Make sure you make it a habit to rinse the areas between your toes, and be sure to dry them afterward to prevent moisture buildup. If you like, you can apply talcum powder to them after a shower for even more care!

b)    Base

You might think that all the soapy water collecting on the shower floor is enough to get the soles of your feet clean. Sadly, this isn’t the case. You need to tend to your feet in order to have the bottoms of them nice and clean. Mix soap and warm water in a basin and use this to soak your feet!

c)    Treat Yourself

Have corns, calluses, or other unsightly foot issues? Go and get a pedicure! Not only is it relaxing, but it’s also very effective and giving your feet a thorough clean, removing dead skin cells in a positive way. (3)

Final Thoughts On Some Body Parts You Don’t Clean Enough

Being clean isn’t just good for personal hygiene and health. It makes you feel good, boosts positive thinking, and makes you much more approachable. As such, don’t neglect these 8 body parts you don’t clean enough! They need as much care as other places, if not more.

5 Reasons People Have Trouble Losing Weight (Even With Diet And Exercise)

You’re doing everything you can to lose weight. You’re on a diet. You exercise. You’ve followed all the instructions. But somehow, you’re still not losing weight the way you thought you would…

Why does this happen? There are plenty of things that may be stopping you from shedding the excess weight you so desperately want to lose. You may not even realize that you’re jeopardizing your efforts!

5 Reasons You’re Not Losing Weight, Even With Diet And Exercise

1.    You’re Not Sleeping Enough

Sleep is restorative. It helps the body recover from the troubles of the day. It gives you energy, improves positive thinking, and betters your focus. Overall, it is great for mental and physical health all around.

Without enough sleep, you are automatically at a higher risk for obesity.  You are also 55% more likely to wind up being overweight or obese! This is because you’re depriving yourself of all the positive benefits that come from a minimum of seven hours of sleep per night. (1)

Why does this happen? Well, the body’s natural cycle – or the circadian rhythm – is based on hormones that are regulated by sleeping times and mealtimes. As such, you need to have a regular daily routine in order for your body to respond correctly.

2.    You Take Medication

Medications come with a whole host of side effects. Sometimes, those side effects involve your weight, fat storage, or metabolic rate. Here are some types of medications that may be giving you problems:

a)    Antidepressants and Antipsychotics

Many medications related to mental health can lead to weight gain in general, often gathering around the belly. These types of drugs can also negatively affect the levels of insulin within the body, leading to insulin resistance and other issues.

Some antidepressants can even lead to excess food cravings, causing you to feel hungry when you don’t actually need to eat yet. Of course, each type of drug is different, so ask your doctor about side effects.

b)    Migraine and Seizure Medications

These types of medications have a tendency to lower metabolic rates. This causes excess fluid to be stored within the body, and it can also make your appetite larger because it suppresses feelings of satiety. You may also experience heightened junk food cravings.

c)    Steroids

Sure, we all know that menopause can lead to weight gain due to the hormonal imbalance. But taking steroids to balance out those hormones can be just as detrimental to weight loss efforts.

This causes a change in fat distribution, and it can even lead to fat buildup all over your stomach. Yikes! Of course, people use steroids for other medical purposes, too, but the end result is the same: it can lead to added fat around the gut.

This also includes corticosteroids, which are commonly used for muscle gain, or to bring down levels of inflammation and counter pain. These types of products can lead to increased appetite.

d)    Allergy Relief

Allergy control medications that you can buy over the counter work by preventing histamines from overreacting and causing bad allergic reactions. What are histamines? – Special body chemicals designed to respond to allergens.

Unfortunately, histamine is actually fairly important for other bodily processes. As such, blocking its action can eventually cause weight gain.

e)    Insulin

Did you know that insulin is technically a steroid? As such, it leads to added fat buildup and can even cause you to lose some of your muscle mass. It’s a complicated drug and can often cause weight gain because it causes the body to better absorb sugar in the blood in order to balance out blood sugar levels.

f)     Beta Blockers

Beta blockers are endlessly crucial for those with heart disease. Unfortunately, it does so by lowering heart rate and blood pressure. This means that you don’t get the same benefits out of exercise as you would without this purposeful slowing. It can also lead to increased fatigue, which lowers your physical activity levels.

Remember, you should never stop taking prescribed medications without your doctor’s agreement, even if it’s preventing you from losing weight. Instead, talk to your doctor about alternatives that won’t give you these side effects.

3.    Your Diet Isn’t Balanced Enough

Yes, you’ve been trying to eat healthily, and maybe you’ve made yourself a good meal plan that you believe works well. But not all diets are effective for everyone. Some may not even work for you at all while giving positive results to other people. Here are some areas of your diet to consider when you aren’t losing weight.

a)    Too Many Carbs

Carbohydrates provide us with energy, yes. But too much of this component can actually make weight loss efforts much more difficult. Studies have revealed that low-carb diets can be up to three times more effective at aiding weight loss.

This is especially true if you have metabolic issues. Eating fewer carbs can also lead to better levels of blood glucose, cholesterol, and fat.

b)    Too Little Protein

Many people believe that high-protein diets are just for bodybuilders or those hitting the gym, but this couldn’t be further from the truth! If around 30% of your allocation for calories is taken up by protein, you can actually greatly increase your metabolism.

In addition, protein can help you feel sated, preventing unwanted hunger and cravings throughout the day. It’s one of the nutrients with the most positive effects on weight loss, so don’t discount it! (2)

c)    Your Drinks Have Too Much Sugar

Fruit juices, smoothies, diet sodas, and health-centric drinks are common go-to’s for those trying to lose weight, but they often contain a lot of sugar. Even sugar-free options can contain artificial sweeteners that wreak havoc on weight loss efforts. Stick to water and brewed tea!

d)    Ignoring Whole Foods

Whole foods with just one ingredient are often countless times more healthy than foods that have been certified as “healthy” for any other reason. Don’t let companies preying on dieting culture fool you into believing a granola bar is healthier than vegetables or whole wheat bread!

e)    You’re Eating Too Little

When you don’t get enough calories in a day, your body goes into starvation mode and begins stocking up on fat. This life-saving emergency bodily response works wonders in disaster situations, but for weight loss, it’s just not going to cut it. Make sure your calorie deficit isn’t below 400!

f)     Eating Too Many Times In A Day

At some point, information began circulating that eating more meals in smaller portions helps increase metabolism. This couldn’t be farther from the truth, and research indicates that it doesn’t actually do anything good or bad for you.

In fact, intermittent fasting, a method that involves eating less and not consuming food for prolonged periods, has actually proven to be much more effective than multiple small meals.

g)    Your Diet Has Stretched On For A Long Time

Have you been dieting for months and months? It’s time to take a break. Diets aren’t meant to be long-term options. They’re meant to help get you started as you incorporate more sustainable habits, like exercising, getting more sleep, and formulating better meal plans.

h)    You Care Too Much About Dieting

As we said, diets aren’t meant to be long-term solutions. The longer you force yourself to diet, the more likely you will gain weight, according to research. Regular deprivation will not do you, or your body, any favors.

4.    Your Workout Is Too Intense

Believe it or not, exercising too much can actually be just as harmful to your weight loss progress as not exercising enough. Why? Well, the body uses carbohydrates when you exercise, and only after it has burned off those carbs does it begin cutting down on fat.

What’s the problem with that, then? Many people engage in what is known as HIIT, or high-intensity interval training, to blast fat and burn excess calories. Unfortunately, these exercises are performed in very short bursts. This means you just have the time to burn away carbohydrate energy stores, not fat stores.

But fat also is much slower at releasing energy – more than twice as slow as carbs. As such, you can burn yourself out if you try to be intense for long periods of your exercise routine. Instead, take it slow and steady.

This type of exercise is called LISS, or low-intensity steady state. It is much gentler on the body, but it allows you to keep moving for long stretches of time, allowing your body’s energy burning to synchronize itself with the rate at which fats supply energy!

5.    Pollution

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Yes, surprisingly, pollution can have a severe effect on someone’s weight. Think about it – tiny bits of pollution in each inhalation; it’s not too out of this world to imagine that it builds up over time. Here are the two most difficult types of pollution that cause this:

a)    Airborne Pollution

A study conducted in Beijing and published in the FASEB Journal back in June 2016 revealed that pollution leads to a variety of issues within the body, namely inflammation, and oxidative stress.

These, in turn, lead to issues such as metabolic conditions. This includes heart disease, type 2 diabetes, and even hypertension – and, naturally, these all make weight loss much more difficult.

b)    Organic Pollutants

Studies have also found that the use of certain components known as POPs, or persistent organic pollutants, can cause increased weight with regular exposure. It may also cause other disorders, including glucose intolerance, insulin resistance, and, eventually, type 2 diabetes.

Unfortunately, avoiding pollutants is nearly impossible in today’s world. But don’t fret, and keep your positive thinking hat on. There are ways to combat the issues caused by pollutants. Avoiding meat and fish products can reduce your exposure to POPs; go for fiber-rich options instead. Some examples of safer foods are: (3)

  • Fruits
  • Vegetables
  • Seaweed
  • Tea
  • Mushrooms
  • Pulses
  • Rice
  • Nuts

In general, choosing organic food only decreases your risk of exposure to pesticide pollutants, which can also cause a variety of dangerous health conditions.

Final Thoughts On Some Reasons You’re Not Losing Weight Even With Diet And Exercise

Losing weight is an uphill battle, and it can be more difficult for some than others. The key is understanding that not all diets or exercise plans will work for you. By being aware of these 5 reasons you’re not losing weight, you’ll be able to make more intelligent and informed choices leading up to better, healthier, and more effective weight loss.

10 Comebacks For Dealing With Bad Behavior

The fewer words you use, the more effectively you communicate with your kids. It’s not unusual for children to become distracted and have short attention spans, causing anything more than a few words to be lost, no matter how hard you try to get through to them. It’s even more tricky to get a kid to listen to you when they’re exhibiting bad behavior. Most children have one-track minds, so once they’re upset or nearing a tantrum, trying to make them listen to you is nearly impossible.

That’s where good, one-line comebacks come in. For all the rocky ups and downs, a well-chosen comeback is perfect for knocking a child out of their negative thought cycle, allowing them to really think about what’s happening – and understand what you mean!

But you can’t just use absolutely any comeback. It has to be something effective that really gets through to the brain of a tiny tot. Short, sweet, and full of meaning – that’s a lot of boxes to check off! To help you out, here are some comebacks for dealing with bad behavior.

10 Comebacks For Dealing With Bad Behavior

1.    You must (insert action here) now.

You are an authority figure in your child’s life. As such, it makes sense for you to deliver firm and strict commands. When you sound sure of yourself and aren’t being overly polite, your child is more likely to listen to you. For example, don’t say things like:

  • I think it may be time for you to have a bath.
  • Don’t you think it’s bedtime now?
  • Isn’t it about time to do your homework?

These might sound like kind, patient ways to speak to your child – and they are! – but this is likely not the best time or place for them. Use firm language that leaves no room for discussion or arguing and your child will recognize it as your last word. For example:

  • You must have a bath now.
  • (Name of child), you must go to bed now.
  • You must do your homework now.

2.    I want to say yes …

Sometimes, when you’re considering approving of your child’s request, they begin to act out because they think they won’t get that approval. This can turn a potentially good, fun day into one filled with tantrums, and a headache for you!

So, when you see your kid begin to complain about not getting the “yes” they want fast enough, tell them that you want to say “yes,” but that certain things are stopping you from doing so. For example:

  • I want to say yes, but I don’t want to have to clean up all your toys afterwards.
  • Although I want to say yes, I have to finish all these chores!
  • I want to say yes, but I can’t until you show me that you can be responsible.

These types of statements encourage your children instead of discouraging them, showing them that if they do good things, help out around the house, and clean up after themselves, they’ll be able to enjoy more stuff!

This is also good because, instead of punishing bad behavior, you are using positive reinforcement for good behavior – something that science has proven works much better when teaching children (and everyone else!).

3.    Ask them to decide…is bad behavior worth it?

If your child already knows the consequences of bad behavior, the next time they start to act out, stop them with this simple phrase. By asking them if what they want is worth it, you’ll make them remember what consequences they will face for misbehaving.

This can prompt a kid to begin acting reasonably, allowing them to try and reign in their temper and irrational outbursts before they get out of hand. The more often you use this phrase, the more it works! Just make sure that they get bad consequences for bad behavior and receive positive reinforcement for good behavior.

4.    I love you too much to allow that.

Let’s say your child really wants to do something reckless or potentially dangerous, or something that just isn’t too good for them. Responding that your love for them is the reason you can’t allow it is sure to make them pause.

Why? Well, it’s flipping the script and showing them that you aren’t trying to take away their fun. Instead, you’re only caring for them. This can make many children view your intervention as a positive thing!

5.    You don’t need to understand.

Many parents believe that they have to explain each and every detail of matters to their children, making sure they understand everything in detail. This really isn’t the case. For a lot of young kids, nuanced and complex topics just aren’t going to be comprehended, much less retained as long-term knowledge.

Sometimes, it’s okay for children not to understand things. Explaining something that your kids don’t yet possess the cognitive abilities to process is only going to waste your time and make them more confused and frustrated. Learn to tell them that they don’t need to understand everything and that they can know more when they’re older.

6.    I can’t understand you.

Children often whine and complain, and it’s difficult to teach them not to. But with just one comeback, you can encourage them to simmer down. By stating that you can’t understand what they are saying whenever they speak this way, you are telling them that unless they speak correctly, their message won’t be heard.

Of course, your kids need to have been taught how to speak politely and properly before this can work. But assuming you’ve taken these steps in the past, insisting that you don’t understand them can work wonders. Just make sure you’re consistent – refuse to listen to them at all until they stop their whining or shouting.

This will also help your kids to speak well and effectively with other people. They want to be understood, and they’ll do everything they can to make that happen!

7.    This is not who you are.

If you’ve raised your child with intentional parenting, they likely have been taught:

  • Who they are
  • Their heritage
  • What your family’s values are
  • What your family stands for
  • How their actions can affirm these values

This means that, in the event that their actions stray from what is right, you can correct them with this simple comeback: this isn’t who they are! This can cause them to focus on trying to be good again, shifting their perspective.

8.    What do you want me to say?

It’s likely that you’ve taught your child the Golden Rule: to only do and say to others as they would like to be treated and spoken to in return. If you haven’t done so yet, you should; it’s a great way to align their minds to positive thinking and to developing empathy.

Once your child has learned this, you can incorporate this comeback. The next time they snap angrily about something or say something mean, ask them to imagine you saying those same words. Make them think:

  • Would they like to be spoken to like that?
  • Wouldn’t it hurt their feelings?
  • What would they rather you said?

This encourages children to think about what they are saying before they speak and choose their words carefully. It’s a great lesson to impart.

9.    What would you want me to do?

This continues on from our previous point regarding the Golden Rule. If your child does something bad, ask them how they would feel if you did that to them. It will definitely get their gears turning about how much that would hurt, making them less inclined to exhibit bad behavior of that kind to you.

10. No

The word “no” might be short, but it’s simple, and it is very, very clear. But kids don’t always completely understand what “no” means, and that’s why you have to make sure your “no” is non-negotiable. As such, be sure of the following:

  • When your child becomes upset after being told “no,” do not respond by joining in and making it a shouting match.
  • Provide quick reasoning (in five words or less) if your child asks why the answer is no, such as “It is too dangerous,” “We don’t have the money,” or “We don’t do that here.”
  • Do not allow your child to swindle you away from the “no” by begging or pleading or causing a scene – stick to your word.
  • If they are angry, leave them be to “stew” in that until they calm down, then, once they have, reopen the avenue for communication.

During calm times, teach your child what the “no” rule means. Here are some possible guidelines:

  • Encourage your child to do something productive and positive after being told “no,” such as go to their room and color a picture, especially if they are angry.
  • Teach them what you personally expect them to do after being told “no.”

Teaching your child to understand the meaning and value of the word “no” means that they’ll apply that to their own lives. This will allow them to respect other people’s “no”s and also that their own “no”s are worth valuing and respecting.

On top of that, it will encourage your child to know to react calmly and peacefully when they are faced with situations where “no” is the only answer they are given. This will prevent them from acting spoiled, and trust us when we say this will come in handy as they grow up!

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Final Thoughts On Some Comebacks For Dealing With Bad Behavior

A good parenting comeback can do many, many things. It can shift a child’s perspective, help diffuse tantrums, aid in attitude adjustments, and basically assist in teaching your child – all in one go! It’s pretty impressive, isn’t it?

Of course, do keep in mind that comebacks only go so far. You still need to be constantly teaching your child new things, especially through cause and effect. This type of teaching will tie easily into your comebacks and serve as reminders of lessons they’ve learned, instead of as half-lessons on their own that don’t quite get the full picture across.

It may take a while for these comebacks to work, especially if your child is quite stubborn! But if you keep at it with positive thinking and patience, you’ll soon see that they are able to understand and change their bad behavior.

As a parent, you’re probably always looking for more ways to parent in more positive and effective ways. At the end of the day, you’re hoping to be able to achieve your parenting goals easily but in the right way, and these one-liner comebacks are a great way to do so.

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