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Scientists Explain What Happens to Your Body When You Meditate Every Day

Have you ever tried to meditate? Meditation is a huge trend right now and for good reason. Finally the scientific and medical field can agree. meditation has been shown to produce incredible benefits in the body.

To demonstrate just how much meditation has taken the medical community back by its health outcomes, consider that the most prestigious university in the world – Harvard – has an entire research center devoted to the practice. As does MIT, and Yale, and Johns Hopkins, and…well, you get the idea. So lets dive deeper into the subject.

Here is what happens to your body when you meditate every day, according to science:

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Meditation Increases Resilience to Stress

Stress – or, to be more precise, distress – is triggered by the hormone cortisol, which is released once the brain identifies something as a stressor. While the experience of stress is hardwired to ensure species survival, the majority of the available scientific literature concludes that regular meditative practice decreases our emotional reactivity.

In a study published in the journal Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, researchers state that meditation strengthens our resilience to stress by suppressing the activity of the amygdala. Part of the limbic system, the amygdala, is the brain’s emotional center, “responsible for detecting fear and preparing for emergency events.”

Meditation Enhances Our Ability to Focus and Pay Attention

Mindful meditation requires single-pointed attention onto an object or activity, (for example, a religious figure or the breath.) Therefore, it should come as little surprise that the act of meditation enhances our ability to concentrate on everyday events.

Ignoring distractions is part and parcel of attention. In this respect, the scientific literature shows that regular meditative practice inhibits the innate tendency of our brain to function on “autopilot,” that is, without conscious thought. Brain scans of long-term meditation practitioners show increased activity in the region of the brain known as the Lateral Prefrontal Cortex (lPFC), which allows us to pay attention while dismissing non-relevant stimuli actively.

Daniel Goleman, Ph.D. and Richard Davidson, Ph.D., in their book Altered Traits: Science Reveals How Meditation Changes Your Mind, Brain, and Body, say “(meditation) undergirds a huge range of what makes us effective in the real world – everything from learning, to realizing we’ve had a creative insight, to seeing a project through to its end.” All activities mentioned by Goleman and Davidson require the effective utilization of focus and attention.

Meditation Boosts Pain Tolerance

Per Kelly McGonigal, Ph.D., meditators process pain differently than the rest of us, explaining: “Meditators pay more attention to the direct sensation of pain. In laboratory studies that deliver painful stimulation, meditators’ brains show more activity in areas associated with sensory processing … non-meditators (show) more activity in areas associated with evaluation and language.”

But wait! Wouldn’t paying more attention to the pain itself hurt (literally) more than help?

It would indeed seem so! But, alas, this is not the case. It is not the feeling of pain that makes the experience (like stubbing a toe) more painful, but our reaction to the event that enhances the pain response. While undergoing voluntary pain stimulating experiments, the functional brain scans (fMRIs) of meditation experts show decreased activity in the areas of the brain responsible for interpreting pain stimuli.

Meditation Decreases Anxiety and Depression

Some studies show that regular meditation sessions may work just as well, if not better, than prescription drugs for relieving anxiety and depression symptoms. This research suggests that meditation changes the structure and function of some areas of the brain, including those affected by episodes of anxiety and depression.

In a meta-analysis of over 18,000 mindfulness meditation studies, researchers from John Hopkins University conclude that the number one use for meditation is anxiety relief. Other studies demonstrate that meditation helps a variety of anxiety and depression conditions, including addictions, agoraphobia, attention deficit disorder (ADD)/attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), binge eating disorders, bipolar disorder, generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), and social anxiety.

In other studies, mindfulness meditation has shown to influence the activity of brain chemicals, including GABA, serotonin, and dopamine. Predictably, all three neurochemicals play a role in anxiety and depression.mind

Meditation Strengthens the Immune System

It is no secret that chronic stress weakens the immune response. A weaker immune system makes one more vulnerable to sickness and disease. As we’ve touched on, regular meditation regulates the stress response – and, in turn, strengthens the immune system.

According to a study published in the journal Brain, Behavior, and Immunity, an 8-week meditation training known as Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) “resulted in a significantly smaller post-stress inflammatory response” in the participants’ brains.

Prolonged meditative practice does more than strengthen the immune system. Long-term meditators seem to show increased activity in an enzyme called telomerase – known to increase the lifespan of our body’s cells.

“Spiritual meditation is the pathway to Divinity. It is a mystic ladder which reaches from earth to heaven, from error to Truth, from pain to peace.” ~ James Allen

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Science Explains 5 Proven Ways To Boost Your Intelligence

“People who boast about their I.Q. are losers.” ~ Stephen Hawking, 1942-2018 (Rest in Peace, Sir)

The word intelligence never fails to spark a debate. Nevermind there are multiple ways to define intelligence; the truth is that there are multiple intelligences (plural) – and the notion of assigning a simple number to something so complex is borderline absurd.

In 1985, Robert Sternberg, a former dean of Tufts University, put forth his Triarchic Theory of Intelligence, arguing that previous definitions of intelligence are too narrow because they are based solely on intelligences that are measured in an IQ test. (I like him already). So in honor or Mr. Sternberg, we’ll define intelligence as:

“The ability to acquire and implement both innate and obtainable knowledge in three domains: analytic, creative, and hands-on.”

The chances are good that some of you reading this article believe that your smarts are fixed and unchangeable. You are not alone: scientists believed this very thing up until about two decades ago. Then, this little thing called neuroplasticity – the ability to grow new neural connections throughout life – changed modern medicine (and a countless number of lives.)

Brainline, an organization that focuses on brain injury and PTSD research, says: “Neuroplasticity is the brain’s amazing capacity to change and adapt. It refers to the physiological changes in the brain that happen as the result of our interaction with our environment … This dynamic process allows us to learn from and adapt to different experiences.”

In other words, we can become more intelligent with the right environment and knowhow.

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Five Ways To “Get Smart”

1. Do High-Intensity Interval Training (HIIT)

Forget the days of 60-minute workouts five times a week. HIIT gives you all of the physical and mental benefits of cardio exercise in much less time. (Regular cardio is still great if you have the time!)

First, here are the brain-boosting benefits of HIIT and other cardio:

– Improves memory, problem-solving, and decision making
– Relieves stress
– Lowers risk of dementia
– Releases feel-good chemicals such as endorphins
– Reduces levels of the stress hormones adrenaline and cortisol

HIIT training can range in duration from 5 minutes to 45 minutes. Some people do a 5-minute HIIT session and then strength training, for example. The Tabata routine is a textbook example of a short, efficient HIIT workout.

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2. Read

Become a lifelong learner by reading, preferably about a variety of topics – art, science, history, etcetera. Research shows that regular reading increases the brain’s white matter and speeds up the brain’s ability to process information.

Here’s a practical tip: try to work on one perceived “weakness” every three months. Buy a couple of books and implement the knowledge contained within during these 90-day periods. By committing, you are both improving your quality of life and boosting your smarts. Win-win, baby!

3. Learn a Musical Instrument

Regularly playing an instrument, studies show, changes the shape and power of the brain – and may even be useful for therapeutic purposes. It is suggested that critical parts of the brain that control hearing, memory, and motor skills become progressively larger as someone learns to play an instrument.

Lutz Jancke, a psychologist at the University of Zurich in Switzerland, says that increased intelligence from learning to play an instrument also applies to older adults:

“We found that even in people over the age of 65 – after four or five months of playing an instrument for an hour a week – there were strong changes in the brain.”

4. Play Dual N-Back

You’ve no doubt seen the proliferation of brain training games and systems, and neuroplasticity has much to do with this trend. Dual n-back has been scientifically shown to boost both working memory and IQ score – drastically in some cases.

Dual n-back involves remembering the sequence of spoken letters and positions of a square at the same time, and identifying when a letter or position matches at certain intervals. The game gets more difficult as you remember both letter and position at progressively longer intervals.

5. Eat Brain-Boosting Foods

While this last tip for making you a brainiac lacks in excitement, it is nonetheless vital. The foods you eat have a marked influence on your intelligence levels.

Here are these foods in order:

Fish oil: Omega-3 fatty acids are crucial to brain function.

B-vitamins: B’s improve memory and mood – both critical to a highly-functioning noggin.

Matcha: A powdered form of green tea, matcha gives a boost to your mental acuity and alertness.

Antioxidants: Besides protecting your brain against harmful substances, antioxidants also enhance memory and problem-solving abilities.

Blueberries: Lovingly referred to as “brainberries,” blueberries are an antioxidant powerhouse. No food promotes mental function quite like brainberries.

Avocado: Avocado is loaded with (healthy) fats, including monosaturated fat, which increases blood flow to the brain. Gingko Biloba, a supplement, reportedly has similar effects.

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5 Behaviors That Reveal You’re In A Codependent Relationship

There’s Clingy, and then there’s Codependent

Clinginess is different from codependency in that the former is much less extreme. Whereas a clingy person may “hang around” a bit too much, a codependent person believes that they can’t be alone. Their lives revolve around having the other person nearby all of the time.

A codependent individual must feel as if they are needed, even if it means leaning entirely into a person for physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Often, this exaggerated sense of neediness leads to the person compromising not only their self-esteem and self-worth but that of their partner as well.

The Effects of Codependency

A codependent relationship is characterized by “a person belonging to a dysfunctional, one-sided relationship where one person relies on the other for meeting nearly all of the emotional and self-esteem needs.” Psychologists often call the non-codependent person in a relationship the “enabler,” as they make it possible for the other to “maintain their irresponsible, addictive, or underachieving behavior.”

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The other half of the relationship often reports feeling as if they are always expending energy. A highly dependent person always seems to need something – a behavior that drains their partner. As a result, the other person may feel as if they’re trapped; sacrificing their personal happiness to meet the codependent person’s insatiable needs.

5 Characteristics of a Codependent Relationship

“Codependency is an emotional and behavioral condition that affects an individual’s ability to have a healthy, mutually satisfying relationship. It is also known as ‘relationship addiction’ because people with codependency often form or maintain relationships that are one-sided, emotionally destructive and/or abusive.” ~ Mental Health America

1. Excessively Controlling Behavior

Most people are more comfortable knowing that they are in control of their own lives. But comfort is not the motivating reason behind a codependent person’s excessively controlling ways.

For codependents, sensing that they are in control – often manifesting as an overly-bossy demeanor – is a must. Without controlling those close to them, codependents are vulnerable to “unacceptable risks,” such as having to share their feelings.

2. Displaying Painful Emotions

Make no mistake: most codependent people have lived difficult lives. Here’s just a short list of reasons why codependency develops in a person:

– Parental abuse and neglect
– Caring for a seriously ill family member at a young age
– Exposure to drugs and alcohol abuse

As a result of early life experiences, the codependent person has a tough time managing stress, which leads to experiencing painful emotions. They may show anger and resentment, or develop chronic anxiety and depression. Physical abuse is not uncommon.

3. A Near Absence of Personal Boundaries

A codependent person finds it nearly impossible to respect boundaries. The reason for this is that they don’t understand them. Innately, most of us know that an “imaginary line” exists between what belongs to us and what belongs to others. For instance, few people would willingly barge into a co-workers cubicle during work. They certainly wouldn’t presume to possess the other person’s feelings, thoughts, and needs.

But then again, most people are not excessively insecure codependents. What makes this whole scenario ironic is that codependents themselves have super rigid boundaries, often closing themselves off and withdrawing.

4. Poor Self-Esteem on Both Sides

A codependent personality could not develop without a deficient sense of self-esteem. Think about it: codependency involves latching onto others for the fulfillment of most needs. A person in possession of even a moderate level of self-respect wouldn’t think of doing such a thing.

And then there is the partner. While we’d like to make them out to be the innocent party, their behavior is often ignorant and twisted. Some people get off on knowing that they can “satisfy” an otherwise unsatisfiable person. This is the reason why partners of codependents are referred to as enablers, a not-so-flattering term.

5. People-Pleasing Behaviors

As mentioned prior, codependent individuals are often victims of abuse and neglect. As a result of this mistreatment, some have developed extreme people-pleasing behaviors where even the thought of saying ‘No’ exerts a profound sense of anxiety.

Though they are often withdrawn, people who suffer from codependency will often go out of their way to accommodate someone. Worse, some people notice and take advantage, further trapping the codependent person in their state of mind.

Treatment

Individual or group therapy may be more beneficial than couples therapy, as it emphasizes the treatment of underlying behaviors and feelings. Difficult though it may be, therapists often recommend some relational separation, encouraging them to find an activity or hobby in which to expend their energy.

The enabling partner must recognize that their actions are worsening the situation. If both individuals decide that the relationship is salvageable (a tough sell) it is paramount that both acknowledge specific patterns of behavior as unacceptable. This means awareness and adjustment of codependent behaviors and attitudes, ceasing appeasing behaviors by the enabler, and dedication to a healthy, non-abusive relationship.

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Researchers Explain What Your Smile Says About Your Personality

“Always remember to be happy because you never know who’s falling in love with your smile.” ~ Anon.

A Story in A Smile

Do you ever feel your heart melt a bit when someone you love smiles? Whether it’s a child, partner, or close friend, an ear-to-ear beamer is a beautiful sight.

Did you know that, by smiling, we’re displaying some of our personality? That the way you smile can benefit your life? That simple, sincere, and straightforward smile has a way of attracting all sorts of attention?

A smile is a powerful thing.

Let’s talk a bit about what your smile says about you.

Whether We’re Outgoing or Reserved

People who are outgoing tend to smile more broadly. Individuals who are shyer tend to grin, which shows they’re more comfortable with keeping to themselves. (As an introvert, I must say this is right on.)

There are times when we may feel the need to be a bit more outgoing (e.g. at a work event or an interview) – this is when a glimmering smile can do wonders. Pamela McClain, a former president of the American Academy of Periodontology, says, “When someone has a big smile, it shows they’re willing to open up and expose part of themselves.”

Our Relationship Success

According to a study published in the journal, Motivation and Emotion, how a person smiles in old photographs is a good predictor of future relationship success.

“In one test, (researchers) looked at people’s college yearbook photos, and rated their smile intensity from 1 to 10.” None of the people who fell within the top 10 percent of smile strength had divorced, while (in) the bottom 10 percent, nearly one in four had a marriage that ended.”

Researchers followed this up with a second trial, in which people over age 65 provided photos from their childhood. After scoring each’s smile, only 11 percent of the “biggest smilers” had divorced someone. The “frowners” divorced at a 20 percent higher clip.

Our Fertility and Overall Health

Many studies show that a healthy smile may impact overall health. There also appears to be a possible correlation between smiling and fertility.

While this research is speculative, studies indeed have shown that oral hygiene is associated with health outcomes. Per a 2009 study published in the journal Obstetrics and Gynecology, “gum disease is linked to an increased risk of heart disease, respiratory disease and kidney disease.”

Researchers state that this link is related to the effect of gum disease on inflammation levels.

Our Confidence

“A smile conveys confidence and professionalism,” says Lily T. Garcia, DDS, a past president of the American College of Prosthodontists. As such, people with a broad smile are typically viewed as reliable, trustworthy, and flexible – they also demonstrate the ability “to cope better with challenges than those who are withdrawn and unsmiling.”

In one study, researchers asked random strangers to view multiple pictures of women’s college photos. Those who smiled in their photographs were presumed to be more optimistic and capable than women who did not.

Our Anxiety Levels

Social anxiety is defined as “the fear of interaction with other people that brings on self-consciousness, (and) feelings of being negatively judged and (evaluated).”

In this state, it’s going to be very difficult to summon a genuine smile. People inherently link this lack of smiling with anxiety and insecurity (*sigh* as they say, “Perception is reality.”)

However, it is fair to say that people with wider smiles are perhaps less anxious than others.

Our Happiness

Paul Eckman, Ph.D. and psychologist who studies facial expressions, taught himself to “arrange the muscles in his face to make certain expressions.” Eckman, despite his disbelief, found that he actively felt the facial expressions he was mimicking. He felt happier when he smiled expressively – by lifting his cheeks, parting his lips, and moving the corners of his mouth upwards.

To test his hypothesis that feigning a smile produces happy feelings, Ekman and his research team studied the brain images of college students while smiling. The interesting thing is that regardless of whether the subject’s smile was purposeful or spontaneous, the activity within the brain was practically identical. They felt happier either way.

Eckman’s test can teach us a great deal about the power of smiling. In fact, if you take just one thing away from this article, let it be the ability to make yourself happier by smiling.

It’s also helpful to know that your smile can produce benefits aside from a positive emotional state. Others will see you as more open, friendly, flexible, confident, resilient, and successful.

You are a beautiful person, whether or not you feel that way right now. Your smile is your shine, and as we love to say here at Power of Positivity, “Shine on!”

Any thoughts on the article? Any related personal experiences to share? Please do!

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3 Reasons Why You Should Start Talking to Yourself

Have you ever given yourself a pep talk in the mirror, maybe before a big job interview or a first date? Well, then you are already on the right track. Some people feel silly talking to themselves, and would rather work through their problems in a more stoic manner. But studies have shown that talking to yourself can be psychologically useful in managing a stressful or distressing situation. It can also help with problem solving, motivation and confidence.

Talking to yourself can help manage your emotions, de-stress and situation and calm you down when you feel like anxiety becomes overwhelming. And while talking to yourself isn’t for everyone, if you find that other ways don’t seem to work, you should give a little self-talk a try. Here are some reasons to start talking to yourself – even if you do feel a little crazy at first.

3 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD START TALKING TO YOURSELF

“We may not be able to change the reality but we can change how our minds see and store it.” –  Maddy Malhotra

1. MOTIVATION

Talking to yourself using second and third-person language is a great way to motivate yourself into being prepared for a task that is particularly stressful. Instead of just trying to will motivation out of nowhere, a better choice would be to give yourself a pep talk. By saying, “You can do this, you’re fully prepared,” you give yourself the strength and motivation to jump right into the task at hand.

Often, when we are struggling to find the right kind of motivation, we can be left frustrated and more stressed out than before. In fact, we can be our own worst enemies. By talking to yourself, you are giving yourself the exact ally that you need to feel confident and motivated. A stressful situation can seem less daunting once you have given yourself a good pep talk. After all, no one knows what you are capable of better than yourself.

2. MANAGE YOUR EMOTIONS

By talking to yourself, you have a greater impact on how you are able to manage how you are feeling. Stress can be overwhelming, and can cause you to feel panicked and distressed. By talking to yourself, you are able to more easily work through your emotions and see things from an outside perspective when you couldn’t before.

Self-talk can easily take a situation that seems threatening and turn it into one that is more of a challenge, such as a nerve-wracking job interview or your first time giving a presentation to your boss. When you can manage your emotions through self-talk, you will feel calmer and more prepared for the task at hand. This can work for any kind of emotion, whether it be frustration or anxiety or even sadness. Talking yourself through how you feel means you will be less likely to be overwhelmed by those emotions.

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3. PSYCHOLOGICAL DISTANCING

Removing yourself from the stressful situation can help calm your down more quickly than anything else. But what if you can’t physically walk away? That’s where self-talk comes in. By using second and third person language while talking to yourself, you are able to psychologically distance yourself from the situation by referring to yourself as someone else.

This technique can help you manage your anxiety at a higher level, and allow your head to be more clear so you can make logical decisions about the next step to take. Problem solving can become almost second nature when you start talking to yourself as if you are talking to another person. After all, someone else’s input always seems more valuable than our own.

There you have it! Three really amazing reasons to give self-talk a try. Even if you feel a little silly at first, you will be sure to notice the differences in how you face stressful situations and problems that need solving. If you find yourself stuck on a problem, being able to talk to yourself out loud will help you come up with a solution, rather than just sitting there and wracking your brain for information.

You will also notice a marked difference on how you can handle your emotions and your anxiety. The more you talk to yourself, the more you will be able to self-motivate and self-soothe your anxiety. So, who cares if you look a little silly? You will be the best-prepared and calmest person in any situation!

5 Things to Never Change About Yourself In A Relationship

A relationship. It’s more than just the dates, holding hands and kissing. It’s about accepting each other’s weirdness and flaws. It’s about being yourself and finding happiness together.
It’s about seeing an imperfect person perfectly. ~ Unknown

To find someone who loves and accepts us as we are is a dream come true. Going further, settling for anything less than that often ends up in suffering and heartbreak.

The truth is that if your partner loves you, they’ll love all of you, including imperfections. They may not necessarily love all of your behaviors, but they’ll love you as a whole person.

Here are five traits you shouldn’t have to change about yourself in a relationship:

1. Your Relationships with Family and Friends

Surely, tussles with extended family (read: in-laws) and members of one’s social circle happen, right? Sure, but there’s tussling, and then there’s division. The former is unacceptable, says Christine Wilk, a marriage therapist in Easton, Pennsylvania:

“You can’t give up special friendships or relationships with family members at the behest of your partner. It’s going to be hard to have a truly authentic relationship with your partner if they force you to pick sides.”

2. Your Goals and Ambitions

While we don’t have to have the same interests as our partner (as many of you surely know), it is essential to respect our significant other’s goals and ambitions. In other words, we should hold sacred that which drives them.

Never allow someone to discourage you from chasing your dreams – even if it’s someone with whom you’ve developed feelings. If you get the slightest hint that they aren’t on your side when it comes to things you want to achieve, ending the relationship is a far better option than losing your life’s purpose.

3. Your Means of Self-Expression

When we’re in a relationship with someone, all of our emotions eventually come out. We get frustrated. We get angry. We get anxious. We may break down in tears or scream at the top of our lungs. This is part of the human experience – and if your partner can not appreciate that, they’re not your true partner.

We’re all different people who feel different things. Our personality meshes better with some than it does others, and that’s okay. Loving someone means loving what makes them unique, and your emotional experience is one element of your personality that makes you unique. Don’t shut yourself down just because your significant other doesn’t understand. Move on.

4. Your Beliefs and Valuesrelationship quotes

If you’ve ever fallen for someone only to have them try to instill their “beliefs and values” into you, then you can probably sympathize here. There is no rational excuse for such pedantic and disrespectful behavior; and the longer that the relationship goes, the worse it will likely get.

But alas, things aren’t so simple. When you’re single, it’s relatively easy to stick to your guns about things like your religion and spirituality, political views, and other things. When you’ve committed to a serious relationship, there is always the chance that your partner will make a big deal out of these things. When they do, it can come as a shock.

If a relationship is to thrive, it is imperative that each person’s opinions on sensitive topics are respected. Disagreement and debate are healthy. Trying to force someone to believe something against their will is abuse.

5. Your Hobbies and Interests

How many stories have we heard about the husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend who “forbids” their significant other from doing something that they love? (Dramatic example: think the disgruntled husband who has his golf outings taken away, or the wife who can’t have a “girls night.”)

A relationship does not – and should not – mean that someone has the right to deny you the things you love. Demanding that the person we supposedly love give up the things that make them happy indicates a severe fracture of the relationship.

Depending on the underlying problem, the situation may or may not be fixable. Are you willing to sacrifice the things that give life meaning? Why allow someone to dictate what you can and can not do?

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