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25 Ways to Show Your Partner You Love Them (Without Leaving The House)

Many of us today are on tight budgets due to rising costs of, well, pretty much everything. So, naturally, this means we spend less on entertainment and other “frivolous” expenses so that we can cover our basic needs. This might sound depressing, but hear us out.

Just because you don’t have much disposable income doesn’t mean you can’t still show your partner you love them at home! In fact, after a long day at work or school, a quiet night in might be just what the doctor ordered.

Relationships benefit from this one-on-one quality time as well, because it allows two people to bond and have fun without the strain of spending money, getting from point A to point B in traffic, etc.

So, if you’ve been looking for some unique things to do with your partner that don’t require you to go anywhere, look no further!

Here are 25 ways to show your partner you love them (without going out):

1. Give them a massage.

I mean really, who would ever object to that?! You can even add in their favorite massage oil or lotion for extra relaxation.

2. Have a movie night (with awesome snacks, of course).

It is as easy as 1, 2, 3.

  • Grab your favorite movies, or look up some on Netflix
  • Prepare snacks such as popcorn or candy.
  • Cuddle up and enjoy!

3. Make a blanket fort.

Who says adults can’t have a little fun, too?! Better yet, bring your laptop and snacks in the blanket fort to have movie night!

4. Cook a new recipe together.

What better way to show your partner you love them than create a delicious meal together from scratch?

5. Set up your tent and go camping!

No one said you can’t go camping in your living room, so why not pretend you’re in the great outdoors with all the comforts of modern living?

6. Make your hunny breakfast in bed.

Pancakes, an omelette, french toast…the possibilities are endless, and your partner will surely appreciate the gesture.

7. Color!

Ever seen those “adult coloring books” that have all sorts of cool designs in them? They are meant to be meditative and get you to focus on one thing at a time, and you’ll get to relive a part of your childhood all over again!

8. Have a candlelit dinner.

Put that delicious meal from point #4 on a table with a couple lit candles and maybe put on some romantic music. This makes for a nice ambiance and will really set the mood as well.

9. Take a relaxing bath together.

Add in your favorite essential oils or maybe some Epsom salt, and both of you can destress and smell great, too!

10. Buy some body paint and turn each other into works of art!

They even make glow in the dark kinds now!

11. Play boardgames!

I’m sure you have a few boardgames lying around, so why not wipe the dust off them and get to playing?!

12. Bake dessert together.

You can’t really cook a nice meal without having a sweet treat to wash it all down with. Even if it’s just pre-cut cookies, that’ll do the job just fine.

13. Do a puzzle.

Go to the boardgame section of any big store, and you’ll see dozens of choices ranging from 150 to 1,000+ piece puzzles. Take your pick!

14. Have an at-home karaoke night!

You don’t even need a microphone; just put on some music and sing your heart out.

15. Write your partner a poem.

Nothing says “I love you” like a handwritten poem straight from the heart.

16. Do yoga together.

Just search “couples yoga” on YouTube, and pick whichever one you’d like. There are tons to choose from.

17. Have an at-home spa day.

Grab some face masks, pedicure and manicure items, foot and hand scrubs, and massage oil beforehand, and enjoy some pampering together!

18. Learn something new together.

You can use YouTube to get ideas – maybe you both want to learn how to draw, sew, play the guitar, etc. Spend the evening learning together and show off your newfound skills!

19. Play card games.

If you have an old deck of cards somewhere, grab them and play poker, blackjack, or whatever card game you like.

20. Play video games.

Call of Duty, Mario Kart, Donkey Kong; whatever floats your boat!

21. Make hot chocolate, grab some blankets, and stargaze.

What a romantic evening indeed.

22. Do crafts together.

Maybe make something that you need around the house. You’ll feel good about it because you made it yourself!

23. Order in food.

Not in the mood for cooking? Just get some takeout and take away the hassle.

24. Just cuddle and talk.show your partner you love them

No need to get fancy; just make things simple and enjoy each other’s company.

25. Plan a trip together.

Get out a pen and paper and start planning a big adventure!

Sources:
https://collegelifemadeeasy.com/50-budget-friendly-creative-stay-at-home-date-ideas/
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/coloring-benefits-meditation_us_55b7c9c1e4b0074ba5a6724f

Nervous Breakdown Symptoms: Experts Reveal 7 Warning Signs Of A Nervous Breakdown To Never Ignore

What is a ‘nervous breakdown’?

The term “nervous breakdown” was considered a medically legitimate condition. It was once used to describe an array of mental illnesses, including acute stress disorder, anxiety, and depression.

Today, the term “nervous breakdown” describes intensive symptoms of stress and an inability to cope with life challenges. Often, these symptoms stem from an underlying mental health disorder (e.g., PTSD, chronic anxiety.)

A Nervous or mental breakdown is a term used to describe a period of intense mental distress. During this period, you’re unable to function in your everyday life.” ~ Healthline

If individuals lack internal and/or external means of coping with stressors, they are more prone to a severe anxiety-related disorder. Severe anxiety disorders (e.g., panic disorders and some phobias) and their symptoms can feel as if one is experiencing a “nervous breakdown.”

7 Early Signs of a Nervous Breakdown

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Prolonged periods of stress will eventually inhibit one’s ability to function normally. Higher stress levels over a protracted period will almost certainly have psychological effects. Of course, the earlier one detects symptoms and takes appropriate action, the better. Sans treatment, the risk of developing a lifetime mental illness increases drastically.

Obviously, we don’t want this to happen. It benefits us, then, to understand some early signs of a “nervous breakdown.” Here are seven:

1. Abusing Alcohol or Drugs

Mental breakdowns and substance abuse often go hand-in-hand. Both are used as a method of coping, and both serve only to exacerbate the problem. Chronic abuse of drugs or alcohol will rewire the brain, damage the body, and intensify all other symptoms.

2. Sleeping Too Much or Not Enough

Sleep, like alcohol and drugs, is often used as a coping mechanism. While excessive sleep may not be as dangerous as illicit substances, it reinforces avoidance behavior (used as an “escape.”) Insomnia-like symptoms may surface for many reasons: overthinking, substance abuse, and hormonal changes are three common ones.

3. Constant Fatigue

The body and brain are not designed to withstand neverending stress. Continuous distress saps our cognitive energy, draining our bodily energy. Fatigue may also show up as a noticeable physical weakness. This may make it hard to do the things we need to do.

4. Anxious or Depressive Symptoms

No surprise here; anxiety and depression are two catalysts of a nervous breakdown. As mentioned, doctors used to refer to both as a nervous breakdown, and they are indeed similar. Mental breakdowns, like anxiety and depression, are slow to form. For example, one may first notice a slight inability to concentrate or a bit more difficulty getting out of bed.

5. Brain Fog

Brain fog, also referred to as ‘clouding of consciousness,’ is an unofficial medical term denoting an abnormality of the overall level of consciousness. The brain’s executive functions – attention, planning, self-control, decision-making, and memory – are regularly the first to experience the brunt of brain fog.

6. Panic Attacks

A panic attack is a terrible experience that involves a sudden urge of overwhelming anxiety and fear. The patient/victim may feel like they’re losing their mind, perhaps even dying. Symptoms comprise difficulty breathing, a racing heartbeat, chest pains, and extreme dizziness.

7. A Sense of Overwhelm

Dr. Heather Monrow, MSW, LCSW, a director of mental health treatment at Newport Academy in Connecticut, says, “Even small everyday tasks begin to feel like too much to cope with, and social situations seem overwhelming.” Monroe attributes this overwhelming sense to an “ongoing buildup of worry and stress.”

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Final Thoughts on Getting Help for a Possible Nervous Breakdown

It’s common for someone to feel unable to deal with life’s stressors at some point. If you suddenly experience a sense of overwhelm, panic, or any of the abovementioned symptoms, please seek the advice of a medical doctor.

Your doctor will treat the physical symptoms and may refer you to a psychologist or psychiatrist, who will then decide the best course of action in addressing your behavioral, emotional, and mental symptoms. Caregivers should also contact a doctor as soon as possible if they’re worried about a loved one’s behavior or psychological state.

Altering one’s lifestyle may help prevent a nervous breakdown. Good lifestyle habits lessen the severity and frequency of symptoms and increase the likelihood of recovery. Here are a few ideas:

– get regular exercise: at least three times a week, for 30 minutes
– learn about and practice mindfulness meditation (perhaps the best self-help advice!)
– avoid drugs, alcohol, caffeine, and other stress-inducing substances
– set a regular sleeping schedule and stick to it (even on weekends)
– get 6-8 hours of quality sleep per night
– learn instant relaxation techniques (e.g., “the relaxation response.”)
– incorporate deep breathing into your daily routine
– pace yourself, take mini-breaks, organize your environment and daily activities, and keep a daily to-do list
– stretch or take a brisk walk during break times
– delegate or get someone to help with taxing work

Per mentalhealth.gov, trained crisis workers can talk 24 hours a day, 7 days a week at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).

A live chat option is available at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org – or you can dial 988 for immediate help.

Researchers Reveal 4 Triggers of Stress Eating (And How to Stop It)

It turns out that “emotional eating,” or “stress eating” is a very real phenomenon.

“The problem that we’re trying to address is that the success rates for long-term weight loss are not (good) … Stress eating may be one reason why people don’t do as well in behavioral weight loss groups, because (they) don’t address stress eating or any of its contributing factors.” ~ Temple University

(A quick note: the contents of this article do not pertain to medically-recognized eating disorders – a potentially severe health condition. If you feel that you may fall into this category, please seek professional help immediately!)

The hormones released during periods of stress, combined with the mental and biological effects of eating high-fat, sugary “comfort foods,” causes many of us to overindulge.

Strangely enough, feelings of hunger are suppressed by the stress response in the short-term. Hormones released by brain and kidneys create an excited physiological state that often results in delayed eating. The same cannot be said of chronic stress, however.

During prolonged periods of stress, the body churns out the stress hormone cortisol, which can create intense feelings of hunger. If the body is unable to “switch off” the stress response, as is the case with chronic stress, then cortisol continues to be produced.

Numerous studies have shown that emotional or physical distress increases the consumption of foods high in sugar, fat, or both. Researchers attribute this response to the body’s overproduction of cortisol, insulin, and ghrelin – another “hunger hormone.”

“Comfort” foods really do create feelings of comfort.

During and shortly after the consumption of fat- and sugar-laden foods, the part of the brain associated with stress is restrained. In other words, these foods really are “comfort” foods in that they do counteract the brain’s stress response – something that contributes to a habit of overeating.

Several studies demonstrate the link between repeated intake of comfort foods, elevated stress levels, and obesity. Additional research shows that individuals who engage in this cycle are more likely to suffer from diabetes, heart disease, obesity, and stroke.

Additionally, stress eating can undermine weight loss. Per the Mayo Clinic:

“Stress eating can sabotage your weight-loss efforts. It often leads to eating too much, especially of high-calorie sweet and fatty foods. The good news is that if you’re prone to stress eating, you can take steps to regain control of your eating habits and get back on track with your weight loss goals.”

It’s worth keeping the nasty effects of “comfort” foods in mind going forward.

Stress eating study

It’s apparent by now that negative emotions encourage stress eating. Understanding this is the first step; the second is being able to identify the triggers of stress eating.

A 2010 study points to certain emotions and moods that most often precede stress eating. The rationale given for the study is as follows:

“Obesity prevention is a number one public health research priority. It is clear that stress eating may play a significant role in the (development) of obesity … it is necessary to study potential determinants of behavior leading to weight gain (to) identify methods of prevention … stress eating poses a good point of intervention because it appears to be a (changeable) risk factor.”

The researchers anticipated that all negative emotional and mood states are associated with stress eating and that females are more likely to eat emotionally than males.

Here’s some background on the research:

– Total of 666 participants, of which 74 percent were females.

– Data were gathered via a paper-and-pencil survey.

– Stress eating was measured using a 13-item, 5-point Likert scale, in which participants reported how often they engaged in said behaviors, from “never” to “very often.”

After analyzing the data, researchers found the following triggers to be strongly related to stress eating behaviors:

1. Perceived Stress

Perceived stress is defined as “the uncontrollability and unpredictability of one’s life, how often one has to deal with irritating hassles, how much change is occurring in one’s life, and confidence in one’s ability to deal with problems or difficulties.”

Some of the items included on the survey: “Had to keep secrets from my friends or parents,” “Have been worried about my social life,” and “I just have too much work to do.”

2. Worries

Worries, as measured in the survey, are similar to those of anxiety and stress. Researchers inquired as to how frequently the person had worried about things such as self-image, relationships, and performance.

3. Tension and anxiety

The study determined a correlation between anxiety, tension, and stress eating. It is unclear as to why the authors included tension along with anxiety, though one can reasonably assume they did so because anxiety often evokes the feeling of tension, and vice-versa.

4. Confused mood

Stress eating stemming from confused mood is more likely to occur in males than females, according to researchers. A more “diffuse” state of mind, confused mood involves an overall lack of clarity rather than a distinctly reactive psychological episode.

How to stop stress eating

Fundamentally, the act of stress eating hinges on (a) an individual’s sense of self-control, and (b) identifying psychological states that induce stress eating.

Try these easy tips for changing emotional eating habits:

– Keep a food diary: Jot down what, when, and how much you eat; along with your mood. Over time, you may see a pattern to change.

– Lower your stress levels: Try managing stress with something like deep breathing, meditation, or yoga.

– Remove temptations: The best advice here is to keep comfort foods out of your cupboards. Don’t go shopping while hungry either.

– Snack healthy: If the feeling that you must eat arises, choose a low-fat, low-calorie food like fresh fruit, vegetables with low-fat dip or unbuttered popcorn.

– If necessary, seek help: Eating disorders can be a severe medical condition, particularly if caused by a mental health condition. Often, such a case can not be resolved using self-help methods.

A mental health disorder is not your fault. Don’t be ashamed to ask for help!

7 Differences Between A Good Friend And A Bad One

“Friends are the siblings God never gave us.” – Mencius

Ever wonder what the difference between a good friend and a bad one is? We are often surrounded by friends every day, but the level of friendship varies from person to person. There are going to be things that a good friend does differently than just a regular run-of-the-mill friend, or even a bad friend. You will most likely see the differences in all kinds of ways, from the way they talk to the way they interact with you and your loved ones. If you’re looking to figure out the difference between a good friend and a bad one, here are some of the best signs.

Here Are 7 Things A Good Friend Does Differently

1. They accept you – flaws and all

They accept you for who you are, no matter what, even if you’re really bad at showing up on time, or if you tend to accidentally say the wrong things. “Trying to change a person never works. People know when they are not accepted in their entirety, and it hurts.  A real friend is someone who truly knows you, and loves you just the same,” says coach and author Marc Chernoff.

They’re going to adore you even if you have a couple of flaws that need to be worked on. They won’t ever make you feel bad for being human, and they’ll even help you work on your flaws by being so kind and compassionate to you in the first place.

2. They help you move forward

They’re always going to be there to support you in all of your endeavors. They’re going to push you forward toward your goals no matter what. Even when things seem tough, you never have to worry about a good friend leaving you behind. They’re always going to be your number one cheerleader and they’re always going to help you move forward.

3. They never judge you

They may try to give you advice and guide you, but they’re never going to judge the choices that you ultimately decide to make. You’ll know a good friend from anyone else because you will always feel safe telling them the things going on in your life.

You won’t ever have to worry about being judged secretly, because a good friend cares about you enough not to judge you for what you do. Good friends know that “they are not in your shoes and may have no idea what you are experiencing,” adds life coach Sharon L. Mikrut.

friends-quote

4. They’re there through the hard times

When things get tough and life stresses you out, you can always count on a good friend to be there for you when you need it.

Pastor Justin Jahanshir says, “… a good friend aligns their schedule with the priority of friendship. Developing meaningful, lasting friendships is not a by-product, but is built through intentional, purposed time and energy. Thus, the starting point for any ongoing friendship will simply be time invested into the relationship.

Even if you end up getting into a disagreement, you’ll know that a good friend is going to be there for you after it’s all over. You don’t have to be afraid of arguments ruining your friendship. They’ll stick it out through the good times and the bad times.

5. They’re honest

Little white lies don’t exist between good friends.  “… a true friend doesn’t simply support our every action, but will challenge us to greater ways of thinking and action. This means there will be times for tough conversations,” adds Pastor Jahanshir.

A good friend is going to always be honest with you, even when it’s not something that you want to hear. However, they’re always going to be kind and compassionate with their honesty. You won’t feel bad after having a real talk with a good friend. Their honesty is going to be something that you always value from them.

If it’s a superficial friend or a new friend, they’re not going to say anything that may be off-putting. But if it’s a real friend — someone you truly trust — they know they can tell you exactly what’s on their mind. People who are open and straightforward are some of the most important types of friends to have,” says psychiatrist Robert Rowney, D.O.

6. They’re a good listener

We all know those friends who seem to be listening with one ear while ignoring you with the other. They will listen to you and really, really hear what you’re saying.

Whether you are relating a good or bad experience, friends listen. They don’t interrupt or try to make suggestions or recommendations. They simply listen, letting you get everything off your chest,” says Mikrut.

You won’t ever have to repeat yourself or feel like you’re just being humored when you talk about your feelings or the things going on in your life. A good friend will listen to you and you will feel listened to.

7. They always make you smile

When life gets you down, you know exactly who to go to when you’re looking to get a pick me up. They will always be the person that you’re not afraid to talk to when things are getting tough. They will know just how to make you smile when it feels impossible.

Final thoughts

Having a good friend in your life is truly an amazing experience. Thankfully, everyone has at least one person in their life that they can consider a good friend, even if that person is also their significant other, their sibling, or their parent. These are the kind of things that a good friend will do that regular friends or acquaintances won’t do. You will be surrounded by so much love and support when you have a good friend in your life.

(C)Power of Positivity, LLC. All rights reserved
References:
http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/04/23/15-things-real-friends-do-differently/
https://jamesriver.org/blog/friendship
http://www.huffingtonpost.in/entry/qualities-of-real-friends_n_5709821
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/top_eight_characteristics_of_true_friends

9 Signs You’re A Shy Extrovert

“I loved being in groups of people and sought acceptance, but I did not like talking or being the center of attention. I was very introspective, but I loved to share my thoughts with other people.” ~ A Shy Extrovert

What Is an Extrovert?

According to Isabel Briggs-Myers, founder of the widely-used Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), “Extraverts orient their energy to the outer world.” In other words, extroverts recharge their energy by interacting with people, going places, and doing things. By contrast, introverts renew their reserves through solitude. While extroverts tend to be sociable or outgoing – and introvert shy or withdrawn – this is not always the case.

It is essential to understand that introversion and extroversion affect how one increases their energy. Extroverts gain their energy by being “out and about.” This doesn’t necessarily mean that they are social butterflies, however.

Shy extroverts are a rare breed. They also tend to be highly conscientious, intelligent, diplomatic, and friendly!

Are you a shy extrovert?

Here Are Nine Signs That Reveal a Shy Extrovert

extroverted intuitive

1. You’re outgoing but not a big talker

Unlike other extroverts, the shy variety doesn’t mind some peace and quiet. While an ‘outgoing extrovert’ (‘O.E’) may feel the need to keep the convo flowing, their shy counterpart doesn’t. The shy extrovert (‘S.E’) feels no discomfort if a conversation isn’t flowing, while this delay may just drive O.E nuts.

2. You’re a better listener than most extroverts

S.E’s are very interested in those around them and what they have to say – something that enables them to listen attentively. Additionally, the shy person understands the frustrations of not being heard and tries hard to let the person know that they’re listening to their words. “Sorry, O.E’s, but your eyes dart around way too mu—” …And now you’re walking away.

3. You dislike small parties

S.E’s are observers in every sense of the word. They love being where the action is, but they’d rather people watch, satisfied knowing they’re “part of things.” The shy aspect of their personality renders them uncomfortable at smaller, quieter gatherings where people are more likely to engage in personal talk.

4. You love deep conversation

O.E’s have the “gift of gab” that allows them to connect with darn near everybody. It’s an exceptional talent that helps explain why they’re among the most gifted politicians, executives, and salespeople. The shy ones often don’t fit this bill. S.E’s take a page out of the introvert playbook in that they detest small talk. (“Please don’t comment about the weather…”)

5. You want to be alone…until you don’t

Shy extroverts can play the introvert exceptionally well…for a little while. If they’ve had a long week, the SE may just lock themselves in their bedroom for few hours. Actually, a few may be a bit too long. Two (and a half?) hours are a bit more like it. Then they’ve got to get the hell out of there.

6. You detest being C.O.A.

Ah, the Center of Attention – something that our outgoing extroverts relish. By the way, this is a good thing. While introverted folks are kind and loving, they’re typically quite terrible at entertaining a crowd. Anyways, S.E’s play part-time introvert in this respect too. Straight-up wallflowers, baby!

7. You’re an introvert’s party buddy

Extroverts love parties. Introverts do, too, albeit for a (much) shorter period. Innies are also prone to feeling all types of awkwardness, which creates a dilemma. They’d hang out with other innies, but they’d already left. They’ve already said “hey…” to the loud people and – oh, there you are!

8. You’re a great confidant

Shy extroverts have great empathy. They love listening to other people and, as mentioned, don’t need to be at the center of attention. That means that people (introverts included) confide in them. When engaging in an authentic, deep conversation, nobody may be more up to the task than our shy extroverts.

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9. You’re the perfect friend

Regarding personality traits, you’re about as perfect an in-betweener as it gets. While there are plenty of smart extroverts to hang with, you may not feel like keeping up with the conversation. No problem, your innie friend wants to talk about a book she hasn’t finished. An hour later, your O.E. buddy comes along and wants to do a jello shot and go work out. Wait, what?

Sources:
http://www.lifehack.org/315307/9-signs-that-you-are-actually-shy-extrovert
http://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/better-life/shy-extrovert
http://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/extravert-and-introvert.htm

10 Marriage Tricks That Make You Fall In Love Again

Marriage isn’t an easy endeavor; it’s one of the hardest, yet potentially rewarding, things someone can experience.

‘Love is a smoke and is made with the fume of sighs.’ ~ William Shakespeare: Romeo & Juliet

Sometimes, one or both people question whether or not they should stay in the relationship. This sense of inner conflict can feel torturous at times; because though one may not love the other as they used to, there’s often a deeply-felt sense of care and responsibility.

Relatedly, perhaps the most challenging moment comes when the person questions whether they’re still in love. It’s very, very hard because love is what defines marriage and, without it, there’s really no marriage at all.

According to therapist Randi Gunther, in a piece published in Huffington Post:

“By the time they come to me, they have usually struggled with their feelings for a long time, wanting to make absolutely sure they are not prematurely leaving. They’ve tried everything they can do to stay in love with their partner but just can’t seem to bring back the feelings … if they’re going to cause pain and sorrow to someone they once loved, maybe they should question themselves before giving up.” (Emphasis mine.)

Before delving further into this admittedly tough scenario, please remember this: if you’re the one who fears that you’re falling out of love, do not blame yourself. Dr. Gunther agrees: “Your feelings did not change overnight, and you might even have not realized it was happening.”

Every relationship, no matter how strong, includes phases of self-doubt, self-questioning, and passivity. If, deep down, you believe that you still love your husband or wife (or boyfriend/girlfriend) there are things you can do to rediscover your love bond.

Here are 10 ways to fall in love again:

1. Make The Choice

Nothing else on this list will matter if you aren’t committed to change. If you want to work towards what you once had as a couple, then there’s a good chance at making things work. On the other hand, if putting forth the effort required sounds more arduous than potentially rewarding, it may be time to consider other options.

2. Apologize If Needed

It’s common for one or both people in a hard relationship to become cold and distant. Though it may feel more comfortable and safer to ignore rather than resolve problems, this isn’t an option when trying to work things out. So apologize for the past and move forward!

3. Appreciate The Small Things

In today’s world, most of us experience frenzy and overwhelm. Add in any one of the countless numbers of distractions (technology!) – and there’s little wonder as to why we, at times, lack mindfulness. Pay attention to the details of your partner – their appearance, body language, mannerisms, and so on. Try to appreciate the little things.

difficult times in relationships

4. Look For The Positive

Evolution has left us with a negativity bias, or “the notion that … things of a more negative nature have a greater effect on one’s psychological state (than) neutral or positive things.” In other words, we’ll slowly begin paying more attention to the negative things our partner says or does. Look for and accentuate the positive things too!

5. Put Them First

Time moves on and relationships evolve. The place in your heart and mind once reserved for your love is impeded by something else (work, kids, etc.) Sound familiar? It should, as this appears to be the norm nowadays. During this time of transition, it is necessary for you to put them first to make things work again.

6. Set Date Nights

You’ll probably never be able to entirely escape the hurry of everyday life; which is precisely why date nights with your love are so important. Alone time doing something enjoyable allows you to both recharge and reconnect as a pair.

7. Disconnect the Tech

Get off of the damn smartphone/computer/tablet/phablet/Smart TV. Seriously, shut it down for an hour or two (try 24-48 hours; it’s great, really!) Technology is by far the most significant distraction in relationships.

8. Stop Being So Sensitive

If you’ve lived through any serious relationship for an extended period, the odds are that you’re quite attuned to disparities in the sense of humor, quirky mannerisms, and other things that can test your temper. Regardless, it may be time to toughen up a little and stop being so touchy-feely.

9. Practice Active Listening

Here’s another one where many couples (and people in general) experience their fair share of difficulty: paying 100 percent attention to a person when they’re talking – or active listening. Active listening is perhaps the most vital relationship component; especially when you’re trying to mend fences.

10. Start Dwelling on the ‘Do’s’

Here’s the negativity bias rearing its ugly head again. There are probably a few things that your wife or husband ‘doesn’t do.’ Here’s a question: When is the last time you’ve sat down and thought about what they DO for you? Try to override your innate biases once in a while – and appreciate the things your man or woman does for ya!

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(C)Power of Positivity, LLC. All rights reserved
Sources:
https://confessionsofparenting.com/2018/02/06/10-ways-to-fall-back-in-love-with-your-husband/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negativity_bias
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/randi-gunther/falling-out-of-love_b_6942680.html
https://www.nosweatshakespeare.com/quotes/shakespeare-love-quotes/
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