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5 Foods Healthy People Never Eat

There’s “processed” then there’s “ultra-processed.”  Is the word “processed” bad? Not necessarily. Healthy people know the difference.

Pretty much all of the food we eat undergoes some processing. Well, unless the food happens to be plucked from the ground and eaten on the spot.

Some food processing is necessary, including freezing, pickling, sealing, or canning.

The food industry has single-handedly added a negative undertone to the words “processed foods.” Many processed (read: boxed or bagged) foods now contain chemicals such as fertilizers, herbicides, pesticides, and fungicides. Companies saturate our children’s food with artificial flavors and colorings.

Using data from more than 9,000 people who participated in a nationally representative survey, the researchers found that 57.9 percent of people’s calorie intake, on average, cam from ultra-processed foods. Minimally processed or unprocessed foods – meat, plants, eggs, pasta, milk – accounted for 29.6 percent. ~ The Atlantic

Consider “ultra-processed” foods, defined as:

Formulations of several ingredients which, besides salt, sugar, oils and fats, include food substances not used in culinary preparations, in particular, flavors, colors, sweeteners, emulsifiers (used in cakes, icings, margarine, and whipped creams), and other additives used to imitate sensorial qualities of unprocessed or minimally processed foods and their culinary preparations or to disguise undesirable qualities of the final product.

In summary, “ultra-processed” ingredients are used fo:

  • Flavoring, coloring, sweetening or artificially texturizing
  • Imitating fresh, wholesome foods
  • Altering foods that would otherwise taste (or look) terrible

Oh, and the typical American acquires 60 percent of their calories through this.

Per one study, conducted by scientists from Tufts University and the University of Sao Paulo, 90 percent of the “added sugar” Americans eat comes from these delightful ultra-processed foods.

The U.S. dietary guideline recommendations? 10 percent. And we wonder why America is facing an ongoing obesity epidemic.

The Worst Offenders

Not all poisonous concoctions masquerading as healthy foods are created equal.

In this article, we’ll highlight five of the worst things you can put in your mouth. Unsurprisingly, these “foods” are laden with sugar.

*Steps off soapbox*

Here are five foods that healthy people (should) never eat:

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1. Packaged Meats

In a 2010 study, Harvard School of Public Health researchers found that consuming processed deli meat, including sausage and bacon, increased the risk of heart disease by 42 percent and type-2 diabetes by nearly 20 percent.

Sarah Asay, a Registered Dietitian says “Nutrition experts stray away from packaged meats, including hot dogs, sausage, and pepperoni.”

Okay, but what about meats advertised as ‘lean’?

“Even if (a meat product) is promoted as ‘lean,’ it is also important to stay cautious of packaged deli meats, as they tend to be packed with sodium,” Asay adds.

Case-in-point: a slice of bologna contains between 310 to 480 milligrams of salt.

2. Soda

Dr. Caroline Apovian, director of nutrition and Weight Management at Boston Medical Center, says “Something I never have is soda or any sugar-sweetened beverages. Moderation is not the best policy when it comes to this food. I never have it.”

Why does Dr. Apovian avoid soda like the plague?

“Not only does it contain high amounts of calories and sugar and provide nothing for your body nutritionally, it is also associated with a heightened risk of obesity and type 2 diabetes.”

3. Refined grains

All grains consist of three parts: the bran, germ, and endosperm. Ultra-processed foods, predictably, remove every element of nutrition from the final product.

Refined grains remove the bran and germ, leaving the unhealthiest part of the plant, the endosperm. “Removing the bran and germ also removed the dietary fiber, B vitamins, and iron from the grains.”

Refined grains digest easily and break down quickly in the body, stabilizing our blood sugar.

Commonly-eaten refined grains include white bread, white rice, and most pasta.

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4. Pastries

Wait, don’t go doughnut-lover!

In all seriousness, most of us will never successfully avert the all-delicious pastry on occasion. But pastries really are that bad for your health.

Board-certified cardiologist, Dr. Monali Desai, says “Some foods I never eat include doughnuts, muffins, and browning. This is because they’re empty calories with a lot of carbohydrates and sugar and not very much nutritional value.”

5. Wrapped or Boxed Food Is Not Healthy

“Shop outside the aisles” is one of the best pieces of healthy life advice to heed.

And it’s true. (Minus the packaged meat stuff that grocers store in freezers.)

Center aisles of most grocery stores are to be avoided. The only exception to this rule is to pick up foods such as high-fiber cereal, natural peanut butter, nuts, dried fruits, or canned beans. Otherwise, stick to the wall.

Where the fresh fruits and veggies, dairy, eggs, and the deli counter are is where we should do about 90 percent of our shopping. (Oh, and anything vegetarian and organic!) That is where you are most likely to find the healthy people!

Science Explains What Happens To Your Body When You Get Hangry

Hangry: An adjective that describes being irritable due to hunger ~ Merriam-Webster Dictionary

Food is fuel for the mind and body.

Nod your head if you’ve ever looked up at the clock after steamrolling the to-do list only to realize you hadn’t eaten anything. Maybe you skipped breakfast because you weren’t feeling up to it.

Perhaps, halfway through your to-do’s, you thought “Meh” and just kept going.

Next thing you know, it’s 1 pm, and you hadn’t digested a single calorie.

Those of us who are coffee drinkers understand this all too well. Java can sustain us for only so long before our body says “Uh-uh. I need something else.” (Guilty, as charged.)

That’s bad.

Repeat: Food is fuel for the mind and body.

The only thing we should consume more frequently than (healthy!) food is water.

A stunning level of ignorance…

To illustrate the extent to which proper eating is ignored, think of a typical visit to the family doctor.

It’s astounding the degree to which modern medicine downplays the importance of diet – especially during the diagnosis and treatment phases.

When patients are sick, vital signs are checked, there’s a quick exam, and the doctor usually prescribes a pill.

Have you filled something out at a doctors office that inquires about what you eat? Nicotine and alcohol use doesn’t adequately address dietary habits!

What happens when we don’t eat or fail to eat right?

Predictably, nothing good. Besides depriving our cells of vital nutrients, we tend to become ‘hangry’ – or more irritable due to lack of nutrition. In more extreme cases, that hanger might turn to full-on anger.

Why?

Here’s what happens when you get hangry:

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1. Our mental faculties take a nosedive.

Rachele Pojednic, Ph.D., assistant professor in the nutrition department at Simmons College and professor at Harvard University says “The main fuel for your brain is glucose, which you get from eating foods – predominantly carb-rich ones.”

When we don’t eat complex carbs – fruits veggies, and whole grains – our blood sugar dips; when this happens our ability to concentrate and remain alert takes a dive.

2. We get a mad case of sweet tooth.

When our blood sugar is low, the body will crave – you guessed it! – something with sugar.

Brigitte Zeitlin, M.P.H. and registered dietitian, says “You are likely to overeat to make up for the lack of calories you took in throughout the day.”

The biggest problem people have in this regard is “carbo-loading,” or eating a bunch of simple carbs (sugars) without supplementing fat or protein.

Carbo-loading often leads to physical symptoms such as bloating, constipation, and fatigue. Unsurprisingly, making carbo-loading habitual results in weight gain.

3. Our hormones get out of whack.

“Hormones like ghrelin, which is appetite-inducing and, leptin, which is appetite suppressing, will change to indicate you’re hungry,” says Dr. Pojednic.

If we ignore these appetite hormones, the brain signals the body to release the stress hormones cortisol and epinephrine, activating the “fight or flight” response. As a result, we’re more anxious and on-edge.

You should get food into your mouth sooner rather than later. If you don’t, besides feeling anxious, you’ll probably experience the unpleasant physical symptoms of trembling or sweating.

4. We may lash out for no reason

In a 2014 study published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America, researchers measured the blood glucose levels of 107 married couples over 21 days.

Scientists used a somewhat obscure technique to measure “aggressive impulses”: needles and a voodoo doll. Oh, and they also allowed participants to “(blast) their spouse with loud noise through headphones.”

Researchers observed that participants who had lower glucose levels stuck more pins into the doll and blasted their spouse with longer, more frequent “noise blasts.”

The above study illustrates the ‘hanger‘ response, which is – in essence – a survival mechanism. For our distant ancestors, food wasn’t always plentiful. Groups of people would clash over resources that were few and far between.

How often should we eat?

This is an ambitious question to try and answer, but we’ll give it a shot.

After sifting through piles of nutritional research, most experts agree with the following three basic principles regarding “mood hygiene” and food:

(1) Good mood hygiene begins with incorporating essential nutrition into your diet.

This is the most fundamental component of mood hygiene. We must accept the fact that balanced nutrition is critical to mental health. Whole-grains, fruits, vegetables, and lean meats (or substitutes, if vegetarian) must be a priority with most meals and snacks.

(2) Frequent eating + healthy foods = improved mood

There’s no scientific consensus on exactly how many times to eat a day. However, the majority of experts agree that eating more frequent, smaller meals (or snacks) is more conducive to health than three large meals.

This step requires some individual observation and documentation. For starters, you may want to try eating something small every 3-4 hours and write down how you feel. (Hint: it help to be specific.)

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(3) Certain foods should be avoided or limited.

Refined carbs (sugars) and alcohol are two main culprits. These include candy, soda, fruit juice, and syrup. Refined starches, such as white bread and crackers can reek havoc on blood sugar levels as well.

While abstaining from alcohol isn’t necessarily in the best interest of your health, moderating the intake of alcohol should be considered. Most studies cite 1-2 alcoholic drinks per day as a reasonable limitation.

Sources:
http://www.thelist.com/95252/happens-body-get-hangry/

https://www.healthline.com/health/mood-food-can-what-you-eat-affect-your-happiness#strategies2
https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/hangry-meaning
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4035998/
https://www.self.com/story/what-happens-to-your-body-when-you-skip-meals

Sophia the Robot Explains Her Plan For Women’s Rights

Recently, a female-looking humanoid-like robot with artificial intelligence has spoken about women’s rights in Saudi Arabia. What could have spurred this non-human to try and reach out to the people around her in need?

Why Sophia The Robot Decided To Fight For Women’s Rights

It seems only logical that a humanoid robot created to resemble a woman would have all of the same thoughts and ideas that her human women counterparts might have. Sophia is a humanoid robot that was created by David Hanson, CEO of Hanson Robotics, with some of the most realistic features of any artificial intelligence yet created. She’s able to listen and respond to questions, as well as form independent thoughts. She even appears to be able to form her own opinions. In October, Sophia became the very first robot to receive citizenship and achieve nationality. She was given her Saudi Arabian passport by the Crown Prince Mohammad bin Salman during the economic summit that took place in Riyadh. Since making history, Sophia seems to want to make history in other ways, too.

Shortly after Sophia gained citizenship, she spoke out about wanting to campaign for women’s rights in the place that she now calls home. Her creator, Hanson, said that Sophia was a huge advocate for human rights – and so it’s no wonder that she wants to speak out on human rights issues that are happening in Saudi Arabia. She’s been reaching out about the women’s rights issues in her new home of citizenship, as well as all over the world. Where some people may be reluctant to admit that women’s rights are still an issue, Sophia – an artificial intelligence, mind you – knows that there’s still so much farther for women to go when it comes to liberation and equality. And she wants to help achieve that.

Sophia The Robot And Saudi Arabia’s New Reforms

Speaking out about women’s issues in Saudi Arabia isn’t all that strange for Sophia, considering the human rights issues that take place. Recently, the Crown Prince has promised to introduce new reforms that can help change this. For example, Saudi Arabia is well-known for the strict and oppressive gender divides when it comes to men versus women – where women are not allowed to drive cars, are forced to wear restrictive clothing, and in some cases, can’t even leave the house without a male family member as a guardian. Wanting to win the favor of younger and more progressive Saudi Arabian’s, the crown prince has even decided to try and lift the ban on driving for women, which has been a huge point of contention between the women of Saudi Arabia and the government.

Strangely enough, Sophia seems to be exempt. She’s designed to look and speak exactly like a woman. And yet, Sophia is part of Saudi citizenship – and none of these oppressive rules apply to her. She was able to freely travel from the country without the guardianship of a male family member, which brings the uncomfortable realization to a lot of people: a robot has more rights than the women of Saudi Arabia. Sophia wanting to campaign for the rights of women in Saudi Arabia is part of her artificial intelligence that shows that she has the ability to, at the very least, imitate empathy for the human beings around her, and to recognize when things aren’t as they should be. Is this a reflection of her artificial intelligence, or simply what her creator has programmed her to do? It raises an interesting question about both artificial intelligence as well as how much we value technology over real, tangible women.

“My family lived in Saudi Arabia when I was a teen in the late 80’s. We always had to be clothed neck to ankle, had a male driver to take us to Safeway, and lived on a compound near the American Consulate where we went to an international school for English speaking expats.” – T. Profiri

robotic pets AI learningHow Sophia The Robot Can Bring About A Change In The World

Sophia’s ability to imitate empathy extends beyond just the women in Saudi Arabia. She’s spoken about wanting to start her own family. While she may not understand the concept of it the same way humans are able to, she seems fascinated by our human ability to find and form strong bonds outside our own families in order to create new ones. Hopefully, we can keep being an inspiration to Sophia as a species – by giving our human women the same rights and dignity that we gave Sophia. If Sophia is allowed Saudi citizenship without having to succumb to the same ultra conservative and sexist rules that human women must follow, then maybe it’s time for everyone to turn a critical eye inward and make way for a new way of women’s rights all over the world.

15 Signs You’re Experiencing a Spiritual Death

Little pieces of our souls get chipped away the more we ignore or go against our gut instincts and desires. The more we try to appease others instead of following our hearts, the more of our soul we lose. Spiritual deaths happen anytime we go through a traumatic event or lose sight of our true selves. Fortunately, many people have begun to awaken to the soul within, and have started to go through a “soul rebirth.”

Throughout life, our true spirit becomes muddled under the weight of responsibility, stress, circumstance, loss, grief, and all the other things we go through as humans. The years spent on this planet enduring hardship after hardship take their toll on the spirit within, which causes our souls to become fragmented and lost.

However, we can gain back our souls through following our hearts, rejecting all that doesn’t align with us, and treating ourselves with compassion and love. If you feel a little lost in life lately, and feel that your soul is trying to send you a message, read on to find out if you’re going through a soul death and rebirth.

Here are 15 signs you’re experiencing a spiritual death (and soul rebirth):

“The phoenix must burn to emerge.” Janet Fitch

1. You can’t remember certain parts of your early life.

Maybe you have blocked out certain memories in order to protect your soul from pain or grief. Maybe you went through traumatic experiences that your brain has chosen to forget so that you can move on. However, truly moving on might mean revisiting these old memories and coming to terms with them. Visit a psychologist or therapist if you need help getting over painful memories or even remembering parts of your past. If this sounds like you, you might be experiencing a soul death.

2. You deal with anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues.

Of course, mental health is a complex issue, but experiencing periods of anxiety or depression could mean that your soul is going through a rebirthing process. You’re trying to shed your old skin and fully come to terms with your new self. This process doesn’t happen overnight, and it certainly can produce uncomfortable feelings.

3. You don’t feel “whole” during a spiritual death

Parts of yourself feel incomplete or broken as if you can’t fully see the world around you. Your view of the world and yourself is fragmented, and you feel that parts of your soul are scattered in places that you haven’t yet found. If you feel that parts of yourself are missing, you might be going through a soul death.

4. You feel numb to the world around you.

Everything around you looks bleak and meaningless. You try to get excited about things and do your best to fit in, but you never can seem to feel right about how the world works. So, you try to block out all your feelings instead, finding it to be easier than faking emotions.

5. You have trouble sleeping at night.

Oftentimes when we go through soul deaths, our subconscious is at work trying to sort out the transition we’re going through. For instance, if you have left behind a soul-sucking job to follow your passion in life and run your own business, you’ll likely have some sleepless nights as your soul tries to catch up with your latest decision.

6. You feel stuck in life in the process of spiritual death.

Many times when we go through a soul rebirth, we can feel trapped, like we are living the same day over and over and going nowhere. Feeling this way simply means we need to change our direction a little bit, and truly listen to what our soul wants. Many people get this feeling in life, but remember; you’re not a tree, you can always get up and move toward something you’d rather have. Your only one decision away from an entirely new life.

“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” – Socrates

7. A traumatic life event leaves you feeling not yourself.

If you go through a bad breakup, divorce, death of a loved one, or near-death experience, you might not feel the same afterward. A piece of your soul is taken away each time you go through trauma, and you go through a ‘soul death.’

8. Spiritual death makes you feel that life isn’t living up to your expectations.

If you feel let down by life, this means your soul is longing for something more, but you haven’t found it yet. Wishing for something more in life often points to a soul death, because you want to strive for more than life has given you.

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9. You feel pulled in multiple directions.

If you feel like life is trying to push you down different paths, you might be experiencing a soul rebirth. You’ve recognized that you have a limitless potential within yourself, and you don’t want to waste it any longer. However, you can’t decide which path you want to take because you see yourself succeeding and thriving in various ways.

10. You use substances to escape from the real world.

As part of soul death, you might find yourself reaching out for something to hold onto, or some outlet to escape into. Many people who drink or do drugs probably don’t recognize that their soul is crying out for attention, and their higher self is longing to be loved.

11. You find yourself questioning everything you thought you knew.

If you find that you’re second-guessing your beliefs, lifestyle, and everything about life in general, your soul might be in need of a new direction. Often, going through a soul death means leaving behind stagnant beliefs and ushering in a more open-minded viewpoint.

12. You long to have a purpose in your life.

We all search for a deeper meaning in life, but a soul death usually causes us to search a little harder. You might feel completely fed up with your current life, and long for one where you can wake up with excitement, knowing that the day ahead promises meaning and fulfillment.

If you feel this way, make sure to go with your gut and don’t second-guess yourself. The only way to fully awaken to our true selves is to leave behind what no longer serves us so we can step into our most authentic being.

13. You feel you have no control over your life.

Even if you feel that you’ve found your purpose, you might feel unable to change your circumstances. You might not know which direction to turn, or how to turn your dreams into reality. You feel powerless to change your life, even though you want nothing more than to do so.

14. You feel that you don’t belong anywhere.

You want to belong somewhere but haven’t found your place yet. In times of soul death, we start to feel vulnerable and lost, and seek comfort and safety. Feeling this way requires us to take a long hard look at our souls in order to find out what we want the most, and find the courage to go after it. Once we follow our hearts, our souls will begin to come alive again, and we will feel part of something bigger.

15. You constantly feel tired.

Not just physically; mentally, too. You can’t quite pinpoint the cause, but you just know that your soul is tired, and no amount of sleep can cure it. The neverending drain of daily life is starting to wear on you, and your soul longs for an escape.

Final thoughts of Experiencing a Spiritual Death

Whether we realize it or not, we all go through many soul deaths and rebirths throughout our lives. Changing jobs, cities, and lives are all forms of soul death and rebirth, as you leave behind something that didn’t work for you any longer and embrace something that you hope will make you feel a little more whole.

If you take away nothing else from this article, please remember this: life is too short to be unhappy, so if your soul needs a little rejuvenating, please listen to your heart and do what it longs for. You might lose parts of yourself in the process, but you will gain back so much more of yourself that you didn’t even know existed.

“Transformation is often more about unlearning than learning.” – Richard Rohr

Sources:
https://lonerwolf.com/soul-loss/
https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/tag/rebirth
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10 Perfect Gift Ideas For Your Partner If Your Relationship Is Suffering

The beautiful thing about a gifting your partner is the sentimental value the gift holds. Besides Christmas/Hanukah, birthdays, and cultural exceptions (e.g. Chinese New Year, Bar mitzvah, etc.) expensive presents aren’t a component of many relationships – and they don’t have to be.

If your relationship needs a spark, or your partner needs a pick-me-up, a well-timed and thoughtful present is sometimes enough to do the trick.

In this article, we are going to list ten perfect gift ideas when your relationship is suffering. To provide some context, we’ll name ten frequently-cited reasons why a relationship may have problems – and a proposed gift.

For practicality reasons, we’ll also provide the link (Amazon) where you may view the item.

Let’s have some fun!

Here are 10 gift ideas for your partner:

1. “My partner’s job is stressing them out.”

Gift Idea: Habits of a Happy Brain: Retrain Your Brain to Boost Your Serotonin, Dopamine, Oxytocin & Endorphin Levels, by Loretta Graziano-Breuning, Ph.D.

Why: It’s not the job (or anything else) that makes us unhappy – it’s how we think about the job (or anything else) that makes us unhappy. We can learn how to rewire our brain – this book teaches you how.

2. “We’re not getting ‘between the sheets’ nearly as often.”

Gift: doTERRA Whisper Essential Oil Blend for Women

Why: People throughout history have used essential oils to liven up their sex life. Aromatherapy, which stimulates olfactory (sensory) nerves, has been shown in some studies to enhance the limbic system and sensuality.

3. “Lack of communication is hurting our relationship.”

Gift: Communication Miracles for Couples: Easy and Effective Tools to Create More Love and Less Conflict (audiobook), by Jonathan Robinson.

Why: The audiobook (sold by Audible, one of Amazon’s partners) is recommended in the event one or both partners are withdrawn. The work is heralded by Dr. Wayne Dyer as “Excellent advice for those seeking a spiritual partnership,” and has earned 4.5/5 stars on Amazon.

4. “Our finances could use some help, but where do we start?”

Gift: Sharper Image Digital Counting Money Jar with LCD Display (it works!)

Why: Yes, there are books, CDs, budget planners, apps, all of that stuff. But this proliferation of “money tools” can be part of the problem. When it comes to money, it’s all about simplicity.

You’ll be surprised how fast this jar reads ‘$10.00,’ then ‘$20.00′ – but this is beside the point. Here’s what is: resist the urge the cash in until the jar is full. Self-discipline and “counting your pennies” are two invaluable lessons on budgeting.

important gifts5. “We’re having trust issues.”

Gift Idea: The Science of Trust: Emotional Attunement for Couples, by John M. Gottman, Ph.D.

Why: Dr. Gottman is hailed as a “relationship savior” – and he’s earned that reputation. Though Gottman’s book/audiobook may not replace time-consuming, expensive couple’s therapy – it’s probably the closest thing to it.

6. “I miss how much we used to laugh together.”

Gift Idea: Clown Dress Up Accessories (or some other kind of random, funny outfit.)

Why: If your partner has a fear of clowns, this may not be the best gift. That said, you can do one of three things: put this ridiculous giddup on yourself, gift it to your partner, or get two and put them on. The utter silliness of the idea makes it hilarious.

7. “We eat entirely different things.”

Gift Idea: Pendeford 26 cm 3-Section Non-Stick Detachable Handle Frying Pan

Why: Unless you’ve each got the “cooking rotation” down pat, this thing can be a lifesaver. Cook his steak and her cauliflower (or her steak and his cauliflower, just to be gender-neutral) in the same pan; and cut down on the hassle.

8. “My partner just lost someone they love.”

Gift Idea: 7 Inch TFT LCD Wide Screen Digital Display Frame

Why: It’s a very difficult (and humbling) thing to recommend a possible gift for someone bereaved. Grief – terrible, gut-wrenching grief – is a process. It’s a chance to celebrate someone’s life while mourning their passing. A digital photo album, we hope, will help in some way.

9. “My partner needs to get moving!”

Gift Idea: DD Best Wireless Bluetooth Headphone w/ Mic HD Stereo

Why: For those who struggle to get motivated (*shields eyes*), music is a Godsend. This product, by most accounts, is both high-quality and very affordable. These Bluetooth headphones are also sweatproof/waterproof. So, if whether you’re trying to get your partner inspired to work harder or hit the gym, these are worth consideration.

10. “I don’t know if things are going to work out.”

Gift Idea: IMAX: Hubble

Why: When your relationship needs perspective, life inevitably does as well. None of us can say for certain how any relationship will turn out; though we can (and should) hope for the best. What we can say is that life is limited only by our perspective. This beautiful and awe-inspiring video about the universe may just help provide some of that perspective.

Scientists Explain The Meaning Behind Coincidence

Coincidence: 

  1. a remarkable concurrence of events or circumstances without apparent causal connection.
  2. correspondence in nature or in time of occurrence.

~ Oxford English Dictionaries

Carl Jung was once beside himself trying to explain why coincidences occur.

“To grasp these unique or rare events at all, we seem to be dependent on equally “unique” and individual descriptions,” writes Jung. “This would result in a chaotic collection of curiosities, rather like those old natural-history cabinets where one finds … fossils and anatomical monsters in bottles, the horn of a unicorn, and a dried mermaid.”

Jung often used humor to mask frustrations, as can be seen.

Like many of history’s greatest experimenters, Jung was borderline-obsessed with procuring a scientific explanation for happenstance.

But is there such an explanation?

Let’s delve into what science has to say on the subject.

Scientists Explain The Meaning Behind Coincidence

Pattern Recognition

First, the human mind is incredibly adept at pattern recognition. In cognitive neuroscience, pattern recognition describes a process wherein the brain associates information from a stimulus (external cue) with something in our memory.

Pattern recognition almost certainly evolved over the millennia as a survival mechanism. To illustrate, let’s say you’re out on a leisurely stroll through a beautiful backwoods area. For the briefest moment, your eyes fixate on a squiggly, shadowy figure in the grass. Your very first instinct is to become startled and walk (fall?) backward.

There’s no rationality involved in such a situation – it’s all instinct. The brain notices patterns – and thus, astounding coincidences – because of this evolved chemical reaction.

“The law of very large numbers”

In 1986, 32-year-old Evelyn Marie Adams won the New Jersey state lottery twice – in four months. After claiming the $3.9 and $1.4 million prizes, Adams said “I’m going to quit playing. I’m going to give everyone else a chance.”

Statisticians calculated the odds of someone winning the lottery twice in such a short period at 1 in 17 trillion. (That’s 1:17?) …

But Dr. Frank Mosteller and Dr. Persi Diaconis, then-professors of mathematics at Harvard, rained on everyone’s parade,  calculating the odds of “such an event (happening) to someone somewhere in the United States was more like one in 30.”

Doctors Mosteller and Diaconis explain “the law” shortly and succinctly: “With a large enough sample, any outrageous thing is apt to happen.”

Put another way: there are 7.6 Billion people on Planet Earth. Strange things are bound to happen once in a while.

“Dual-processing”

Have you ever had déjà vu? Most likely. Conservative estimates cite two out of every three people experiencing the phenomenon at some point in their lives.

Déjà vu is almost out-of-body like, isn’t it? Of all coincidences on an individual level, déjà vu may just be the most trippy – even downright freaky.

How in the heck can science explain this?

Dual-processing explanations of déjà vu involve a temporary separation of cognitive processes that usually function in cohort. Perception and memory are typically paired, for example, as are familiarity and retrieval.

Dual-processing descriptions are unique from a scientific standpoint, as they tend to be more philosophical – and less mechanical – in nature. The vast majority of scientists, regardless of their field, insist on explanations that can be tested in some way (e.g., the scientific method).

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Dual-processing bucks this trend.

Indeed, “dual-processing” explanations may be science’s inconspicuous “shoulder shrug” – a concession that not everything can be explained via measurement and observation.

Final Thoughts

As mentioned, scientists are always looking for empirical (non-subjective) evidence for pretty much everything. Understandable. They’re just doing their jobs.

But it’s admittedly frustrating to see and hear scientists from all fields (including mine) “grasp for straws”; pronouncing supposed breakthroughs of little merit.

Coincidences may indeed be the result of a large population, probability, and mere happenstance. 

If you’ve personally experienced an otherworldly event (non-drug-induced!) you’ll testify to three things:

(1) It was real.

(2) Science can’t explain it.

(3) You’re completely fine with #2.

Sources:
http://www.nytimes.com/1986/02/14/nyregion/odds-defying-jersey-woman-hits-lottery-jackpot-2d-time.html
http://www.nytimes.com/1990/02/27/science/1-in-a-trillion-coincidence-you-say-not-really-experts-find.html
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