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20 Signs of An Autoimmune Disorder (And How To Reverse It)

In the United States, we are currently experiencing an autoimmune disease epidemic. Here are a couple of statistics to consider:

  • Autoimmune disorders have increased by three hundred percent over the last fifty years.
  • Autoimmune disorders affect between 50 and 75 million Americans.
  • It is the third leading cause of chronic illness (besides heart disease and cancer).

Sometimes, it’s necessary to construct a health article that, on the surface, may seem depressing!

Please understand that we wish to inform all of our readers about the risks of certain diseases; and, more importantly, provide some valuable insight on the prevention and (when possible) treatment of health disorders.

Affirmation for Living With an Autoimmune Disorder

Here’s a beautiful phrase applicable to autoimmune diseases, found on Pinterest:

I fight for my health

Every day in ways

Most People Don’t Understand.

I Am Not Lazy.

I Am A WARRIOR.

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What Is an Autoimmune Disorder?

Although there are many types of autoimmune disorders and diseases, they all have one thing in common: an immune system that attacks itself.

The immune system is an intricate structure that has evolved to safeguard our health from foreign substances, e.g., toxins, that we encounter.

When some foreign material, whatever it may be, enters the body, our immune system immediately analyzes it and determines whether it is “friend or foe.” If foe, the immune system will produce antibodies to neutralize them.

Autoimmune disorders develop when the body is trying to fight off an allergen, infection, food, or toxin; and fails to distinguish between the intrusive substance and those naturally produced by the body.

The immune system is no different than most other parts of the body – it can change if exposed to prolonged stress. If this happens, our immune system may begin attacking healthy cells and tissues, triggering specific symptoms.

Twenty Common Signs of a Developing Autoimmune Condition

“I have recently been diagnosed with Sjogren’s Syndrome, an autoimmune disease which is an ongoing medical condition that affects my energy level and causes fatigue and joint pain.” ~ Venus Williams

As autoimmune disorders are wide-ranging in both the number and types of symptoms experienced, we will classify the signs according to body area. In this case, we will list symptoms that affect the adrenal glands, brain, gastrointestinal (GI) tract, joints and muscles, sinus, mouth and lungs, skin, and thyroid gland.

Brain signs:

1 – Anxiety: a persistent feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease.

2 – Attention deficit: difficulty sustaining attention, hyperactivity, impulsiveness.

3 – Brain fog: lack of mental clarity and decline in cognitive performance.

4 – Headaches: continuous pain around the head area.

GI tract:

5 – Bloating: swelling of the abdomen by fluid or gas.

6 – Constipation: an inability to pass stool.

7 – Stomach cramping: painful sensations around the abdominal area.

Joints & Muscles:

8 – Muscle Pain and Weakness: general muscle or muscle area pain.

9 – Joint and Muscle Stiffness and Pain: Might indicate fibromyalgia or rheumatoid arthritis.

Sinus, Mouth, & Lungs:

10 – Allergies: response by the body to a substance.

11 – Asthma: a condition marked by spasms in the lungs’ bronchi.

12 – Dry Mouth: reduced production of saliva within the mouth.

13 – Frequent Colds: increased susceptibility (usually, frequency) to colds.

Skin:

14 – Acne: a condition characterized by red pimples on the face.

15 – Dermatitis: skin that is red, swollen, and sore, sometimes containing small blisters.

16 – Eczema: skin that becomes rough and inflamed, with blisters that cause itching and bleeding.

17 – Psoriasis: a skin disease marked by red, itchy, scaly patches.

18 – Rosacea: enlargement of the facial blood vessels, giving the cheeks and nose a flushed appearance.

Thyroid (besides anxiety and fatigue, mentioned earlier):

19 – General malaise: a general feeling of discomfort, illness, or uneasiness.

20 – Weight fluctuations: rapid weight gain or loss in short periods.

Tips on Reversing Autoimmune Diseases and Disorders

Some estimate that environmental factors contribute about 75% to an immune disorder, while 25% are genetic. The environmental factors are definitively within our control.

Amy Myers, MD, and former Grave’s Disease patient, says:

“Through my experience as a functional medicine physician and working with thousands of autoimmune patients, I have identified five environmental factors that play a key role in the creation of autoimmune diseases:

  • Leaky gut
  • Diet
  • Toxins
  • Infections
  • Stress”

Dr. Myers explains that all of the above factors are a burden on the immune system; and that by addressing them, it is possible to return your immune system to its optimal state.

For example, leaky gut – a condition wherein the digestive tract experiences bloating, cramps, gas, foods sensitivities, aches, and pains – can be helped by consuming more probiotics.

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10 Impacts of Living With an Autoimmune Disorder

People who have an autoimmune disorder commonly report the following realities in their lives.  To do that, we will expand on some of the most prevalent symptoms above and explain how to deal with them.

1. Fatigue

Many people say that the first sign of an autoimmune disorder is debilitating fatigue. Fatigue is a common symptom of several different autoimmune diseases–which differs from being tired. It’s overwhelming exhaustion. Researchers aren’t clear why autoimmune diseases cause fatigue, but if you notice, even when you get a good night’s sleep, you feel exhausted. It might be good to get some blood work done to rule out the problem.

2. Gut problems

Some autoimmune disorders affect your digestive system. You may experience diarrhea, gas, cramping, or bloating. If you are experiencing changes like these in your gut, talk with your gastroenterologist. To rule out cancer, they may have you get a colonoscopy, a painless examination of your large and small bowel with a camera on a small tube that’s passed through your anus. If the scope is negative, your doctor may suggest you have an autoimmune condition, such as

  • Crohn’s disease
  • Ulcerative colitis
  • Celiac disease
  • Autoimmune hepatitis

Your gastroenterologist may prescribe a diet change or medication to relieve your symptoms.

3. Joint swelling and pain

Painful joints, swelling, and redness can occur if your autoimmune system attacks your joints. Over time, the inflammation from these attacks can cause damage to your bones and cartilage. This makes moving painful and even impossible for some people.  Medications can slow down the progression of an autoimmune disorder but not cure it. Rheumatoid arthritis is an autoimmune disorder that attacks healthy joint tissues. It can even lead to heart problems.

4. Skin color changes, rash or blistering

Skin problems are another standard indicator of an autoimmune condition. This happens when your immune system attacks your skin. Symptoms may include:

  • Swelling
  • Itching
  • Stiffness
  • Loss of pigment
  • Red patches
  • Purple bumps

Lupus is an autoimmune disorder that affects women more than men. It occurs when your body attacks your organs and tissues, causing inflammation. You can also get skin lesions from sun exposure.

5. Tingling or numbness

Don’t ignore it if you’re experiencing numbness or tingling sensations in your arms or legs. It could be an early sign of multiple sclerosis. This is an autoimmune disorder impact that can lead to death if not treated properly.  This disease damages the myelin sheath, the protective layers around the cells of your nervous system. That’s what causes the pain, tingling, and numbness you feel.  If you notice these signs, get a checkup right away.

6. Weight Gain or weight loss

If you suddenly gain or lose weight without trying, it could signify you have an autoimmune disorder. Thyroid conditions, which are common autoimmune disorders, could be the culprit of your weight changes. Women are especially at risk for thyroid problems. Other common thyroid signs include:

  • Constipation
  • Hair loss
  • Insomnia
  • Puffiness in your face
  • Hoarse voice
  • Fatigue
  • Weakness

Your doctor will do a blood test to check your thyroid levels are normal. Thyroid autoimmune disorders run in families. If other older family members suffer from this condition, there is a good chance you could too.

7. Nervousness or jittery

If you’re feeling restless and nervous, you may suffer from an autoimmune condition’s early symptoms that affect your thyroid gland. Grave’s disease is when your immune system attacks your thyroid gland. This causes your thyroid to produce too much hormone, making you feel jittery, irritable, and nervous. Your heart may beat too fast, and you feel extremely sensitive to the cold or heat.

8. Recurring fevers

Off and on fevers are common characteristics of an autoimmune disorder. These unexplained, recurrent fevers can hit at random times. Most of the time, the fevers don’t last long, but they will eventually stick around as other symptoms follow. If you experience recurring fevers, talk with your doctor about these symptoms. They will do tests to rule out certain diseases like cancer or infection.

9. Muscle weakness or soreness

Muscle soreness or weakness is joint for those who eventually develop an autoimmune disorder. The soreness may affect different muscles in your body. This soreness may feel like a deep bone type of soreness. These symptoms are hard to distinguish from overexertion or too much gardening after a workout. But if you notice the soreness persists and isn’t connected to physical activity, you may want to get it checked out.

10. Headache

Do you get headaches that tend to linger a long time? Maybe you suffer from migraines on an ongoing basis, but your doctor can’t figure out the cause. They may treat your symptoms but not get to the root cause.  Headaches are easily dismissed as stress, allergies, or weather changes. If you notice you’re getting a lot of headaches and your doctor can’t figure out the cause, you may want to see a specialist who deals with autoimmune disorders. They can run tests to eliminate other causes and discern whether you have an autoimmune disease.

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Final Thoughts On Understanding the Signs Of An Autoimmune Disorder

Autoimmune disorders are challenging to diagnose. Their symptoms are very similar to so many other illnesses. It may take years before you get a complete diagnosis of your condition. Fortunately, an autoimmune specialist can do blood tests to look for specific blood markers to show you have an autoimmune disorder. This test may not tell you which autoimmune disease since they are similar. Here are some things you can do to help get an accurate diagnosis of an autoimmune disorder

  • Please keep track of your symptoms: How long they last and when they occurred. Be sure to share this information with your doctor.
  • Learn if certain health conditions run in your family: Many autoimmune disorders are genetic. Learn your family’s health history. Talk to your grandparents, aunts, uncles, and parents. Sometimes people mention a condition you never heard of until you asked.
  • See a specialist who deals with your symptoms: See a dermatologist if you’re losing the pigment on your face.

25 Amazing Uses for Witch Hazel

Witch hazel is an extract from the bark and leaves of a plant called Hamamelis virginiana, a wildly versatile substance. And it’s cheap, too! You can use it in your daily beauty and bathroom routine, on your skin, and all kinds of other things. Some of the most popular uses for witch hazel are for beauty routines, but there’s no end in sight for what witch hazel can do.

25 Incredibly Amazing Uses For Witch Hazel You Didn’t Know About

“Witch hazel is a mild astringent. It cools the skin, relieves redness, and tightens the pores. It is also antimicrobial, so it helps to fight breakouts.” – Robert Hensley, Aesthetician and Celebrity Makeup Artist

1. REMOVE YOUR MAKEUP

Instead of buying make up remover or dirtying another washcloth, use some witch hazel in a handmade makeup remover recipe! It’ll save you time and money at the end of the day when you’re getting rid of all your hard to remove makeup.

2. CLEAN YOUR SKIN

Witch hazel is perfect for getting rid of all the excess oil on your skin and sweat and dirt. It doesn’t dry your skin out, either! Use some witch hazel once a day to clean your face and you’ll be amazed at how great you feel. According to aesthetician and celebrity makeup artist, Robert Hensley, “Applying witch hazel to the skin with a cotton round after a shower or after physical exertion helps to save your complexion in the summer months.”

3. ACNE TREATMENT

When you clean your skin with witch hazel, your acne will start to clear up because you’re already getting rid of all that excess oil that irritates your skin and causes breakouts. It’ll unclog your pores and let your acne dry out and heal up.

4. SHRINKING PORES

Open pores are the bane of anyone’s existence. A bit of witch hazel is the best way to close them up and make them smaller. This is especially good if you suffer from acne or overly oily skin.

5. DANDRUFF TREATMENT

Dandruff is both annoying and a little embarrassing. If you’re struggling to figure out the best way to get rid of that dry, flaky skin on your scalp – just massage some witch hazel into your scalp! Wash it off with your regular shampoo and conditioner. It’ll help clear your dandruff right up.

6. PREVENT OR REDUCE STRETCH MARKS

This is perfect for pregnant women, or anyone who struggles with fluctuating weight. Stretch marks can be prevented altogether, or their appearance of them reduced with just a bit of witch hazel. It tightens the loose skin around the marks and makes them smaller.

7. REDUCE VARICOSE VEINS

Varicose veins often pop up in pregnant women, and they can be uncomfortable and unsightly. Witch hazel can help reduce their appearance as well as alleviate the discomfort that they may cause.

8. REDUCE DARK CIRCLES UNDER YOUR EYES

When we’re tired, bags tend to form under our eyes. This is especially true for people who work busy hours or are still students! Witch hazel tightens the skin, which will help reduce the appearance of those dark, baggy circles under the eyes.

9. REDUCE PUFFY EYES

Allergies, exhaustion, crying, or any other irritant can cause your eyes to get a little puffy and red. This can be uncomfortable, so the best way to get rid of them is to dab a cotton ball with witch hazel and set it on your closed eye. Wait about ten minutes, and there should be a marked reduction in inflammation! Dermatologist Dr. Ellen Marmur stated, “Witch Hazel has an astringent in it, kind of like alcohol, so what it does is, it shrinks things down. It can shrink down the puffy bags under the eyes, constricting the blood vessel, we call that vesoconstriction.”

10. CONTROL FRIZZY HAIR

Does your hair get out of control frizzy when you let it dry? Mix a bit of shampoo in with some witch hazel before washing frizzy hair, and the results will be stunning. It can help tame the frizziness!

11. NATURAL DEODORANT

Making natural deodorant is easy as pie with a half cup of witch hazel, quarter teaspoon of baking soda, quarter cup of aloe vera, and ten drops of any essential oil you like! Mix together and put in a spray bottle for natural, chemical free deodorant.

12. RELIEVE DIAPER RASH

If you have a baby who’s prone to getting a sore bum, witch hazel is a great and natural way to soothe that diaper rash. Apply it to your baby’s skin with a cotton ball for quick relief.

13. SOOTHE CHICKEN POX

While there’s no real cure to chicken pox other than to wait them out, the best way to help soothe your child’s discomfort is a bit of witch hazel! Mix it in with some water and dab it on the itchy area. It should soothe discomfort and alleviate the itching.

14. TREAT RAZOR BURN

This is great for any area that you’re shaving, be it your legs, underarms or face. Applying some witch hazel to your skin after shaving will reduce the inflammation, which can soothe and even prevent razor burn. Dr. Ellen Marmur mentions that, “A lot of people use Witch Hazel after shaving, also to make the redness go away, because it is an anti-inflammatory. And lastly, it’s an antioxidant.”

15. SOOTHE SUNBURN

If you end up out in the sun without sunscreen, you may accidentally find yourself with a bit of burnt shoulders. Witch hazel’s anti-inflammatory nature is perfect for treating the discomfort of sunburn, as well as speeding up the healing process and preventing too much peeling.

16. SOOTHE A SORE THROAT

Gargling with salt water is usually the tried and true method of getting some relief from a sore throat. If that’s not doing the trick, try making a special tea out of witch hazel, cloves, and myrrh. Don’t drink it, though! Gargle the tea and let the witch hazel do its match.

17. RELIEVE BUG BITES

Us humans are tasty treats to summertime bugs, especially mosquitoes. It’s hard not to get a bite or two when spending the day outside. Witch hazel is perfect for relieving the inflammation and reducing the itchiness of those persistent bug bites.

18. SOOTHE POISON IVY

Outdoorsy people can attest to the inconvenience of accidentally stumbling over some poison ivy or poison oak. Kids tend not to know the plants on sight and can get covered in itchiness. Witch hazel will relief that itchy feeling and reduce the swelling.

19. TREATING WOUNDS

If you have a small cut or scrape, witch hazel is the perfect way to clean out the wound. Witch hazel is an antiseptic, so it’s useful for cleaning and disinfecting small wounds to reduce the chance of an infection.

20. CLEAN YOUR CAT OR DOG’S EARS

Cleaning your pet’s ears can be tricky, especially since they’re so sensitive. A great way to clean those little ears is to get a rag and soak it in witch hazel. Scrub around the outside or inside of the ears to clean it up.

21. STAIN REMOVAL

Tough and stubborn stains don’t always need an expensive product to get them out! Witch hazel will work just fine. Mix your witch hazel with some white toothpaste and get to scrubbing.

22. CLEAN THE BATHROOM

Again, no need to break out the expensive products! Mix lemon juice, baking soda and witch hazel to make your at-home cleaner. Scrub out mildew, stains and even soap scum without all the added chemicals of bathroom cleaner.

23. CLEAN THE FLOORS

Once more, forget the expensive cleaning products. Witch hazel is a fraction of the cost and does a better job. Pour half a cup of witch hazel into a gallon of warm water. This is perfect for mopping tile and linoleum floors.

24. NATURAL DIY AIR FRESHENER

Like making your deodorant, witch hazel can also be used as an air freshener. Just mix one cup of water, half cup of witch hazel, and fifteen drops of your favorite essential oil. Mix that all together and stick it in a spray bottle of eco-friendly air freshener!

25. EYEGLASS CLEANER

One-part water and one part witch hazel, with just a drop of soap, will make a glasses cleaner that’s way less expensive and full of less chemicals than your regular glasses cleaner.

Witch hazel has a variety of uses, and this is just a handful! It’s natural, cheap, and better for you, your home and the environment! Get a load of these easy witch hazel tricks and enjoy how much better life is on the witchy side.

References
Skin Experts Spill Their No. 1 Summer Skin Care Tips https://verilymag.com/2017/06/skin-experts-share-their-summer-skin-care-tips
How Is Witch Hazel Used to Treat Skin? https://www.sharecare.com/video/sharecare-experts/ellen-marmur/how-is-witch-hazel-used-to-treat-skin

The Singlemost Important Phrase To Never Say Around Your Kids

“Sometimes I despair for the kids these days, I really do…I was supposed to think they were having too much sex or doing too many drugs and not listening to their wiser elders. Instead, I’m worried that they are not getting themselves into enough trouble.” – Megan McArdle, “Why kids today aren’t getting into enough trouble.”

For the purpose of this article, we’re going to define childhood as early childhood [3-8 years] to middle childhood [9 to 11 years]; Please keep this age range in mind as you read through the contents. Thanks!

Unless a child possesses both genius-level intellect and unwavering self-discipline (virtually impossible), it’s highly unlikely they’ll concern themselves too much with the so-called “social norms.”

This is a good thing. Scratch that; it’s a great thing.

Let’s ask ourselves an important question:

What are the most important things during childhood?

Hopefully, the answer doesn’t emphasize “lessons” of the 1930’s variety. We are not implying that a disciplinarian mindset isn’t sometimes unnecessary. It absolutely is. (We’ll touch on this later.)

We can and should correct acts of rudeness, potential (or real) acts of harm, disrespect, and so forth.

That said, childhood is a time for play – especially during early childhood. It’s a time for exploration; for discovering who they are in a world, they don’t yet understand. Heaven willing, the youngster will have 70-plus years of “being an adult.”

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Why this obsessive over-parenting?

The brilliant George Carlin, in a classic skit, put over-parenting in blunt terms, as he always did (expletives omitted):

“Now, speaking of parents and speaking of ********; two ideas that aren’t always mutually exclusive by the way … there’s this excessive “devotion” to children; I’m talking about today’s ‘professional parents.’ These obsessive diaper-sniffers who are over-scheduling and overmanaging their children and robbing them of their childhoods…

Even the simple act of playing has been taken from them and put on ‘Mommy’s schedule.’ Playing – something that should be spontaneous and free is now being rigidly planned.”

Carlin’s sentiments certainly don’t apply to all parents, but they apply to far too many.

Which leads us to this – the topic at hand.

The Singlemost Important Phrase To Never Say Around Your Kids

Read the following sentence and see if you can find a couple of things wrong with it:

“My child would n-e-v-e-r do that.”

Have an answer? Okay, good.

Don’t have an answer? Alright, good. Moving on.

Ok – hopefully the person making the statement mentioned above is referring to their kid running into the street. Maybe they’re talking about their child not punching or kicking some other kid on the playground. If so, kudos to them.

But there are a couple of things wrong with it:

#1 There’s a possibility that the kid would “do that” despite your best efforts.

#2 It’s completely age-biased; that is, the parent is thinking from a mature adult perspective. Children don’t always share their this outlook.

Melissa Fenton, in a piece appearing on the website Scary Mommy, writes:

“It’s ever so easy to sit back and witness life from your shielded sidelines, thinking (your children) are immune to the temptations and desires that plague the rest of us.”

This statement is ironic to say the least.

Which leads us to #3: Perhaps the thing the child would “n-e-v-e-r” do is something they should.

People of all ages – children and adults, alike – learn life’s most valuable lessons from making mistakes. Most children, of course, lack the emotional self-regulation to minimize errors. This state of mind doesn’t yet apply to them.

So, what happens when a child does something unexpected? Something they would “n-e-v-e-r” do?

Of course, the answer to this question varies. Are we talking about a kid who deliberately disrespects a teacher or peer? Or, are we talking about a kid who bypasses their homework for a video game session?

In other words, did the child’s actions violate the rights of another person, or was it a lapse of responsibility/judgment?

The latter act is a “kid being a kid” – something that all children do, whether or not they make that “something” known.

The former is (or should be) considered unacceptable, as it is a violation against (1) a recognized institution – the school, and (2) a human being – the teacher [who is also in a position of authority] or another child.

Nobody can – and nobody should – tell you how to raise your kids

Your rights as a parent are exactly that: your rights.

Bear in mind, however, that your child possesses rights as well.

Is there not something to be said about a well-balanced childhood?

A childhood that involves the proper use of discipline while permitting a healthy dose of autonomy?

A childhood where homework and play are equally encouraged?

Agatha Christie, the best-selling fiction author of all time, sums up the beauty (and importance) of our young years:

“One of the luckiest things that can happen to you in life is, I think, to have a happy childhood.”

May we contribute to the happiness of that childhood.

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References:
http://nypost.com/2015/07/10/why-kids-today-arent-getting-into-enough-trouble/
http://www.scarymommy.com/dont-say-my-kid-would-never-do-that/
https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/a/agathachri401066.html
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uhB_MYwQdkI

What Is Your Most Attractive Trait, According to Your Zodiac Sign?

Everyone possesses things about themselves that they could improve upon, but today, we want to focus on all the wonderful qualities humans have. Specifically, we will talk about how your zodiac sign relates to your best traits. Hopefully, this will give you a boost in confidence or maybe even some bragging rights if you have a conversation with someone about the most attractive zodiac signs.

Without further ado, here are the most attractive traits of each sign.

What Is Your Most Attractive Trait, According To Your Zodiac Sign?

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ARIES

Aries, you stop at nothing to get what you want, and you have no fear about what it takes to reach your goals. You have the drive, ambition, inner strength, confidence, and the charisma to get things done! You also have a great sense of adventure and spontaneity that makes people flock to you.

TAURUS

Taurus, you might be a bull, but you have the work ethic of a horse. You don’t stop when you’re tired; you stop when you’re done, which allows you to persevere in hard times. You don’t shy away from difficult or tedious jobs, and people can always count on you to do something right the first time, which is an attractive quality. In addition to your strong work ethic, you enjoy the finer things in life, and know how to treat a man or woman on a date. You work so hard that you feel you deserve treating yourself and others, to life’s many luxuries.

GEMINI

Gemini, you have the type of charisma that draws people to you like a moth to a flame. You are open-minded, curious, passionate, friendly, and outgoing. People love you for your endless conversational ability and fun, optimistic personality. You never have a problem making friends, because you provide entertainment and laughs to anyone who has the privilege of being in your company.

CANCER

Cancer, you might hate feeling everything so deeply, but this is your secret weapon and your greatest strength. You have the ability to listen to people’s deepest troubles and give them a shoulder to cry on when they need it most. You’re a loyal, dependable friend in people’s darkest hours, and you give them comfort and compassion. The world needs more people like you, dear friends.

LEO

Leo, you light up the room when you step foot in it, because your smile and outgoing personality put you in the spotlight instantly. People gravitate toward you because of your big personality, and they stay because of your generosity. You’re kind-hearted, sincere, and funny, and you bring people together with your great leadership abilities.

VIRGO

Virgo, you are the zodiac’s problem-solver, able to think clearly even in the midst of chaos. You don’t let your emotions get the best of you, always thinking logically and analytically. You give great advice to others because of your voice of reason, and your intellect and organization skills will take you far in life.

LIBRA

Libras hate being alone, which makes them great relationship partners. They are giving, loving, and charming people who avoid conflict at any cost. Libra, you are also the humanitarian of the zodiac, which means your big heart can help make lasting changes in this world. You stand up for injustice when you see it, and strive for balance at all times in both your personal life and surrounding environment.

SCORPIO

Scorpio, you are the mystery of the zodiac. You are actually very passionate and headstrong, but you don’t let people see that side of you until you trust them completely. You have an intense personality that carries over into all facets of your life (including the bedroom)! People might say you’re aloof and withdrawn, but they just don’t know you well enough yet. You are courageous, strong, and creative, and you are an excellent lover to whomever you choose.

SAGITTARIUS

Sagittarius, your humor, adventurous streak, and free-spirited personality make life fun for both you and anyone who crosses your path. You don’t like taking things too seriously, and don’t like being tied down. You’re always on the move, preferring to stay active and see new things rather than sit on the sidelines waiting for life to happen. People can always count on you to make them laugh and see the bright side of things! Your zeal makes you very attractive to others.

CAPRICORN

Capricorn, you work just as hard as Taurus and are headstrong like the bull too. You’re reliable and trustworthy and make an excellent leader in whatever field you work in. You’re responsible, successful, intelligent, and put your family and friends first. You don’t like letting people down, and work hard to keep your promises. People like you because they can count on you, especially in times of crisis.

AQUARIUS

Aquarius, you’re also a mystery in the zodiac with your nonchalant, dreamy personality. You are a conversationalist, yet you spend a lot of your time daydreaming. You’re both in this world and out of it, enjoying talking to others and traveling and philosophizing, and planning your next adventure when you get some alone time. You’re creative, quirky, and carefree, not caring much for guidelines or strict rules. You live life on your own terms and don’t accept limits on anything you do. You’re independent as well, marching to the beat of your own drum.

PISCES

Pisces, you’re creative, sensitive, and gentle, spending a lot of time in your own head dreaming of faraway lands and other worlds. Your empathy and caring nature allow you to connect with others seamlessly, and people can count on you to listen and give advice when they need it. That kindness is both endearing and attractive to others.

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Sources:
https://www.rd.com/advice/relationships/attractive-trait-zodiac-sign/
https://thoughtcatalog.com/erin-cossetta/2017/05/these-are-the-5-best-personality-traits-for-each-zodiac-sign/

6 Physical Signs of A Spiritual Awakening

A spiritual awakening means something different to everyone, but most of us have a few signs in common when we do go through changes on this level. Awakening spiritually has a lot to do with shedding your old self and beliefs and coming into a fuller understanding of who you are on a deep cosmic level. It doesn’t mean you’ve changed, as the wise Chopra said above, but rather, you’ve shifted your perspective and no longer see the world and yourself through a limited lens. You see the big picture, and understand that you’re a small part of a grander plan and the whole plan at the same time. With all of these spiritual changes and new understandings come changes both mentally and physically, as well.

We’ll go over some of the symptoms you may experience as you go through a spiritual awakening.

Here are 6 physical signs of a spiritual awakening:

“Awakening is not changing who you are but discarding who you are not.” – Deepak Chopra

1. Your senses are magnified.

You’ll feel, hear, see, smell, and taste everything much more vividly. You might taste more flavors in the foods you eat, and actually be able to distinguish between them. Colors will seem more vibrant to you, and the world may seem “sharper.” You might hear more conversations going on with other people in public than you had before, simply because your hearing is amplified. Smells, both good and bad, are more apparent to you now.  All of these changes occur because your vibration, or frequency, is rising rapidly, which comes with the ability to sense everything more intensely.

2. A desire for a healthier lifestyle.

As you continue to go down your spiritual path, you might have a desire to feel “lighter.” You’ll want to eliminate everything from your life that weighs you down, including poor diet and lifestyle habits. The foods we eat have a great impact on how we feel mentally and emotionally. As a result, you will likely have an inclination to eat a much more clean diet. Your vibration is increasing, so naturally, you’ll want to give your body the foods it needs to keep your energy levels up. Even if you haven’t been much of a fan of exercise, you might find yourself engaging in more physical activities, as well.

3. Weird sleeping patterns.

With all of the energetic changes happening to you, you might find yourself having odd sleeping routines. Some nights, it could take you hours to go to sleep, and other nights, you might get into bed and fall asleep immediately. You may find yourself waking in the middle of the night for no apparent reason and have difficulty falling back asleep. If you’ve never suffered from insomnia before, you may find that it’s now becoming an issue. Simply put, you’ll have nights where you can’t wait to get into bed and go to sleep, and others where you don’t feel tired at all. It’s all a normal part of your spiritual awakening, so don’t worry too much. If you do have difficulty getting to sleep, try to have a relaxing bedtime routine and stay off electronics a couple hours before bed.

4. Tingling sensation in your head.

As your consciousness literally expands, this will cause inevitable changes in your brain. New information and knowledge is passing through your brain every day, and this may result in “funny” feelings in your brain. As long as you don’t have co-occurring migraines with the tingling sensations, you shouldn’t have anything to worry about. The pressure in your head is simply trying to balance itself out due to the expansion of consciousness that you’re experiencing.

5. Your emotions are more turbulent.

You might ask “How is this a physical sensation?” Well, emotions have a very real physical response in our bodies. You might feel exuberant one day, leading to increased energy and more feel-good chemicals being released. However, you might feel moody and depressed the next day, which would result in low energy and more cortisol in your body. All of these chemical reactions in your body will also have an effect on your emotions, which creates a vicious cycle indeed. Don’t try to fight your emotions; just go with the flow and allow them to pass through you without judgement. Then, release them gently and make sure to take time for self-care and healing during this time.

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6. Cravings for certain foods.

As you become more in touch with your mind, body, and spirit, you’ll start to know exactly what your body needs to function optimally. If you find yourself craving salty foods, this means you need to include more vegetables in your diet. If you crave something sweet, go for an apple or banana. You will start to learn the ins and outs of your body and will begin to listen to it for information about what it requires nutritionally. You might also have a sudden distaste for foods you used to love, such as pizza, ice cream, or anything “heavy.” Food intolerances might creep up on you as well, due to your DNA literally changing as you continue to evolve spiritually.

Sources:
http://www.wakingtimes.com/2013/03/21/51-symptoms-of-spiritual-awakening-how-many-do-you-have/
https://corbiemitleid.com/spiritual-awakening/spiritual-awakening-physical-symptoms/

9 Signs Your Partner Is Mature Enough To Handle A Relationship

“If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on.” – Steve Jobs.

The beginning of a relationship can be a whirlwind of excitement. Glances across a crowded room, flirtatious chats, all that intimate tension. Unfortunately, many of us have had these honeymoon stage feelings and only found out later that our partner wasn’t anywhere near ready to handle a relationship.

While the relationship can be fun and casual, you’ll also want to make sure that you know the signs of when your partner is really ready to take the next step into a mature and adult relationship. Some people just don’t have the experience, while others just aren’t ready to mature yet.

But how can you identify a mature partner?

Many women talk about dating a “mature man”.  What they’re really referring to is “emotional maturity.”  An emotionally mature man is a man who won’t shut you out the minute things get stressful in his life,” says author Christian Carter.

Make sure you know the signs of when your partner is ready to take that next step with you.

9 Signs Your Partner Is Ready To Handle A Relationship

1. They’re willing to show vulnerability

If your significant other is flighty, cagey and doesn’t seem to want to open up, it may be a sign that they’re just not ready for a real relationship. After all, a key component of being in a relationship is the ability and the willingness to be vulnerable with your partner. Your partner should be willing to share their feelings with you, even when those feelings are upsetting or uncomfortable.

2. They’re authentic

Your partner should act and feel like a real person. You shouldn’t have to watch them put on a show for the people around you. If your partner is authentic, it means that they’re willing to stick to their core beliefs, and don’t feel a need to fake it around other people. Your partner should be entirely comfortable with who they are. If they aren’t, how are they going to be comfortable in a relationship?

3. They’re self-sufficient

If something comes up or things don’t go their way, they’re able to handle it with grace rather than throwing a fit. You want to be sure that your partner is able to go with the flow, because life and relationships are always going to be changing when we least expect it.

You don’t want a partner who is using you for financial gain.

It is important that someone be able to take care of themselves emotionally and physically. If they can’t, they will never be able to provide the support they need to provide when that is called for,” says clinical psychologist and author Mark E. Sharp, Ph.D.

Having a partner who is flexible and easily able to handle change means that they’re definitely ready and mature enough to be in a relationship.

4. They’re intimate

Having a good sex life is a pretty important part of having a mature relationship. If your partner has troubles with intimacy, it may be a sign that they’re just not ready to take that step with you. And that’s okay! People move at their own pace. Your partner should always be intimate in ways that aren’t just limited to sex. They should be able to share their feelings with you, and share parts of themselves that they don’t with other people. That is an important part of intimacy.

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5. They have good financial habits

The hallmark of someone who isn’t mature enough to be in a relationship is their inability to handle their finances. They should be able to pay their bills on time without accidentally overspending on things that they shouldn’t. If your partner has good financial habits and isn’t constantly running out of money on things they don’t need, it’s safe to say they’re mature enough to handle a relationship.

6. They have goals and stick with them

Having goals is good, but sometimes people just put them on a shelf and forget to actually try and achieve them. You want to make sure your partner has the ability to make goals and also follow through with them. If they want to lose a few pounds, your partner should have the control to change their diet or exercise in order to do so – instead of just saying they want to without doing anything.

7. They’re a good person

Being a good person is a culmination of many things. How do they treat strangers, service workers, their friends and their parents? What are their values? How do they feel about helping others? A lot of being a good person is knowing when to be selfless. If your partner has a hard time thinking about anyone other than themselves, then they might not be ready to think about you.  

A good person is one who has “respect and kindness in his words and actions. You don’t feel belittled or less than even if he isn’t happy with you. He stands with you and has your back when you are struggling. Your priorities become important to him,” says marriage counselor and author Lesli Doares.

8. They’re self-aware

Your partner should be able to notice both their strengths and their weaknesses. You want a partner who has a balanced view of themselves. If they think too highly of themselves, they may not be able to recognize when they’re in the wrong. If they think too lowly of themselves, they may not have the self-esteem it takes to maintain a relationship. Keep an eye out for your partner’s self-awareness; it’ll be a huge indicator of when they’re ready for a relationship.

9. They respect your differences

Not only do they respect them, but they also appreciate them. Your partner should appreciate your differences, and respect you as a person enough to not try and change them. If you find that your partner can’t seem to see past your differences, it may be a sign they’re not ready to handle a relationship.

Because, “To have a great relationship, there needs to be a high level of respect on the part of both partners. Couples who are less intentional and accomplished in this area will find that their lack of respect holds their partnership down to a lower level of well-being,” say authors Linda Bloom, L.C.S.W., and Charlie Bloom, M.S.W

On the other hand, if they can accept you for who you are, then chances are they’re mature and ready.

Final thoughts

Making sure your partner hits these checkpoints of maturity is important to knowing whether or not they’re really ready for a relationship. But at the same time, it’s important that you can say the same thing about yourself, as well! Relationships take two people to work, and you want to make sure you’re not holding your partner to a higher standard than yourself.

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