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25 Reasons Why You Should Eat A Whole Avocado Every Day

Although the term “superfood” doesn’t exist medically or legally, everyone from fitness experts to doctors uses the term to describe “nutrient powerhouses that pack large doses of antioxidants, polyphenols, vitamins, and minerals.”

“The myriad of healthy fats and nutrients found in an avocado – oleic acid, lutein, folate, vitamin E, monounsaturated fats and glutathione among them – can help protect your body from heart disease, cancer, degenerative eye diseases, and brain diseases.” Dr. Frank Lipman

Indeed, Dr. Lipman “ranks” avocado as the #3 superfood (behind leafy greens and cruciferous veggies.)

In this article, we give you not one, not two, but 25 reasons to eat an avocado daily!

Let’s get going.

25 Reasons to Eat An Avocado Daily

#1 Avocados are nutrient-dense

Avocados are among the richest sources of vitamins and minerals; offering up nearly 20 in each serving. In a small 3.5 ounce (100 gram) serving, an avocado contains the recommended daily amount (RDA) percentages of these vitamins and minerals: vitamin K, 26%; folate, 20%; vitamin C, 17%; potassium 14%.

#2 A rich source of healthy fats

Avocados are a “fatty” food. The good news is that nearly all this fat is healthy, or monounsaturated fat.

#3 Helps maintain a healthy weight

Avocados, despite being “high in fat” may actually promote and help maintain a healthy weight. One reason is the fruit is high in fiber, which promotes feelings of satiety (fullness).

#4 Fights inflammation

As avocado is high in oleic acid – a fatty acid that reduces the inflammatory response – the fruit is effective at fighting off inflammation.

#5 Promotes eye health

Avocados contain the nutrients lutein and zeaxanthin, two nutrients that fight macular degeneration.

#6 Prevents diabetes

Studies show that people who eat half an avocado with lunch stabilize blood sugar levels.

#7 Increases nutrient absorption

Eating a lot of minerals, nutrients and vitamins is all well and good, but your body needs to absorb them too! Avocados help with this, as well.

#8 Lowers bad cholesterol levels

Research shows that avocados reduce total cholesterol, blood triglycerides, and LDL (bad) cholesterol.

#9 Promotes hair and skin health

Everyone wants fabulous hair and skin health. A combination of the fruit’s high vitamin E and healthy fat content can help create more youthful-looking skin and hair.

#10 An effective pain reliever

Much of the pain we experience is due to inflammation. As mentioned, avocados suppress the inflammatory response. This, of course, helps to mitigate pain caused by inflammation.

#11 Strengthens your bones

Avocados contain good amounts of copper, folate and vitamin K – all important nutrients for bone strengthening.

#12 May help fight off cancer

The cancer-fighting properties of avocados are still being researched. However, some research has been promising; this includes the slowing of cancerous prostate cells.

#13 Improves digestive health

Fiber is a critical nutrient for ensuring proper digestive health. Fortunately, avocados have plenty of this nutrient to spare!

#14 Regulates blood pressure

Potassium sources serve an important role in regulating blood pressure, and one avocado contains 28% of the RDA of potassium.

#15 Helps ensure a healthy newborn

Vitamins B6 and C, and folate and potassium are some of the most important nutrients of expecting mothers. Avocados, of course, are rich in all four.

#16 Enhances your state of mind

Potassium and folate are known “brain foods.” Lack of both nutrients has been linked to depression and like-symptoms. As mentioned, avocados are rich in both.

#17 Provides an energy boost

This is an oft-overlooked benefit of avocado. Of all macronutrients (carbs, fat, and protein), fat is the most concentrated for boosting energy – this is particularly true of healthy fats. Thus, an avocado provides a slow but steady supply of energy that can last a full workday.

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#18 Fires up the immune system

C vitamins, along with B and E, are all natural immune boosters. An avocado provides plenty of all three.

#19 Helps brain power

Copper is a brain stimulant that is often disregarded. It is no surprise, then, that many people have a copper deficiency. An avocado contains 20% RDA of copper, which may help with your cognitive functions.

#20 Is an incredibly versatile fruit

There are so many ways to enjoy an avocado. You can slice, peel, mix, or dice it; it can be added as an ingredient or a side dish. As you probably know, that tasty guacamole (which can be made healthily) is almost all ‘cado.

#21 Can be enjoyed in many ways

It’s worth mentioning again the different ways an avocado can be eaten. Here are some more creative avocado dishes: banana and avocado bread, pineapple/avocado smoothie, avocado hummus, avocado pesto, avocado/tomato bruschetta, and chilled cucumber & avocado soup.

#22 Protection benefits are wide-ranging

Eye, skin and hair, brain, immune and arthritis protection are just a few protective benefits of avocado. For such a delicious fruit, the multiple protective benefits are astonishing.

#23 More potassium than bananas

Yeah, this one is quite surprising. Most people’s primary potassium source is a fresh banana. One avocado has more than twice the amount of potassium than a banana (975 milligrams). Even a few slices will probably beat the Minion’s favorite fruit in potassium count.

#24 Very heart healthy

As avocado consumption is linked to lower blood triglycerides and LDL measurements, has potent anti-inflammatory properties, and helps normalize blood pressure; it’s one of the most heart-healthy foods around.

#25 Regular avocado eaters are healthier

According to an analysis of over 17,500 people, regular avocado eaters were found to be much healthier than others. More specifically, the former group had lower rates of heart disease, diabetes, and obesity.

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Teacher Punishes Entire Class, But Never Expected The 11-Year-Old Girl’s Response That Followed

“No protected person may be punished for an offence he or she has not personally committed. Collective penalties and likewise all measures of intimidation or of terrorism are prohibited.” – Geneva Convention (IV) relative to the Protection of Civilian Persons in Time of War. Article 33: ‘Individual Responsibility, Collective Penalties, Pillage, Reprisals’

The Geneva Conventions and an 11-year old’s words to her teacher

You are probably wondering what the heck the Geneva Conventions has to do with an 11-year old girl, right?

Sit tight. It’s a kicker.

Per Cornell University’s School of Law, the Geneva Conventions “is a body of Public International Law, also known as the Humanitarian Law of Armed Conflicts, whose purpose is to provide minimum protections, standards of humane treatment, and fundamental guarantees of respect to individuals who become victims of armed conflicts.”

Well, a smart 11-year old girl believes Article 33 of the Fourth Geneva Conventions applies to a classroom of young kids as well. Come to think of it, would a parent want their child to be punished for something another kid did? (Tell us your thoughts).

Young Ava Goes Viral

When a teacher gives their students a survey, it’s probably wise for them to refrain from using collective punishment as a disciplinary technique. Mason Cross, an acclaimed and award-winning author, posted a snippet of the survey on Twitter. Here it is, verbatim (grammar errors gladly overlooked):

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Source: Mason Cross/Twitter

Mason Cross @MasonCrossBooks

“My daughter actually submitted this feedback at school. Not sure if I should ground her or buy her ice cream…”

(Survey) Things my teacher(s) can do better.

Ava Cross: “Not use collective punishment as it is not fair on the many people who did nothing and under the 1949 Genva (sic) Conventions it is a war crime.”

Replies: 8,500

Retweets: 122,000

Loves: 398,000

Creativity and Smarts: Plenty

Ice cream…a lot of it

As for Mr. Cross’ predicament over grounding or buying young Ava some ice cream, the public was quite clear. Here were some (G-rated) responses:

“The ice cream. For sure.” (@KiranManral)

“I’m game to crowdfund her entire year’s ice cream needs tbh.” (@PedestrianPoet)

“Buy her ice cream for the full school year…” (@calamur)

“That is BRILLIANT. Buy her ice cream. Biggest one in the shop.” (@katehelencarter)

“Ice cream and a framed copy of the convention mate.” (@NW6Penguin)

“I say bonus points for her creative thinking and excellent example. I say ice cream sundae, which she deserves.” (@loverofmusic9)

 “Why would you ground her for speaking her mind – and frankly I agree.” (@ron_miller)

“Serious question – why would you ground her? Teacher asked for feedback, she gave it. Can’t see even theoretically what’s punishable here?” (@karinjr)

And the whipped cream with a cherry on top – pun intended:

“Ava for Prime Minister!” (@GenStans)

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It didn’t end on Twitter

Let’s look at the following media outlets that featured a story on young Ava:

– BBC (yeah, that BBC!)

– Mashable

– Teen Vogue (which she was apparently really proud of, being as she’s not a teen)

UK Mail Online

– Independent News

– Huffington Post UK

– ABC (Australia)

– Business Insider

– Miami Herald

– New York Daily News

Ava, ever the class act, adamantly explained that she loves her teacher – but is not a fan of group punishment. Duly noted.

Mr. Cross’ Reply

“I thought [the online response] was really funny and absolutely typical of Ava, who I haven’t managed to beat in an argument since she turned six.”

Cross, a writer who’d just received widespread acclaim for his series of books, later pictured Ava holding two large ice cream cones. The caption? “The people have spoken.”

The fact that the 11-year old is absolutely adorable probably helps.

Psychologists Explain How to Get Rid of Relationship Stress

“Happiness is a choice. You can choose to be happy. There’s going to be stress in life, but it’s your choice whether you let it affect your relationship or not.” – Valerie Bertinelli

Being the social creatures that we are, seeking out a relationship is only natural. Relationships can be a great source of strength, happiness, and positivity. Like everything, though, relationships can become stressful. Maybe the stress is from an outside source, like long work hours or business traveling.

Stress can also form internally within the relationship and cause health concerns. Tension in relationships can be a daunting thing to deal with, but there are ways to effectively handle that stress and make sure your relationship continues to stay a source of strength and love for both you and your partner.

SEVEN POSITIVE WAYS TO DEAL WITH RELATIONSHIP STRESS

Here you’ll find seven useful techniques to work out your relationship stress and build a stronger relationship.

1. YOU ARE IN THIS TOGETHER

Situations that arise in relationships that cause stress and tension can make it easy to feel like one or the other is to blame. When it gets tempting to put the blame on your partner, or even yourself, take a moment to reflect on if either of you has done something worth blame, or if the situation is out of your hands. Dealing with stress means that you are dealing with it together. You and your partner are both on the same team, and remembering that can help both of you continue to be sources of strength for one another.

2. BE FLEXIBLE

Being open to change in your relationship can go a long way to dealing with stress. If you find yourself too set in your ways, completely rigid and unwilling to change, it can create even more problems on top of the ones you already have. Being flexible in your relationship, whether that means changing plans to meet or expending emotional labor to help your partner through a difficult time, can work wonders in a stressful situation. Relationships work through communication and compromise. Find what works best with both you and your partner.

3. STAY CONNECTED

When stress hits a relationship, it can be hard to feel emotionally or physically connected with your partner. Practicing small ways to stay connected can help both you and your partner weather the storm of stress. This could be taking time at the beginning or end of your day to be physically affectionate or intimate, or doing something small like sending a text to remind your partner that you are thinking of them and sending good and positive thoughts their way. Staying connected with your partner is the most important thing in dealing with relationship stress.

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4. ASK YOURSELF: IS THIS A RATIONAL REACTION?

When something stressful happens, it can be easy to allow your emotions to take over the rational part of your brain. No matter what the situation is, try taking a moment to pause and ask yourself if you are dealing with the situation at hand in a rational way. Allowing yourself to have an emotional reaction is important, but it’s also important to make sure that emotional reaction isn’t superseding the most logical course of action to dealing with the stressful situation.

5. PRACTICE TOLERANCE AND COMPASSION

People deal with stress in different ways, and you and your partner are not always going to have the same reaction to a stressful situation. While one partner may be able to roll with the punches, the other may react with fear and anxiety. Understanding how one another deals with stress can make it easier to help each other through the current situation.

6. MAKE A PLAN–AND STICK TO IT!

Sitting down together and making a concrete plan of what needs to be done can turn a stressful situation around within hours. Make sure that both you and your partner are aware of each other’s expectations, and whether or not you can meet them. If you can’t, then you’ll need to adjust your expectations and make compromises. Figure out what can wait until the situation passes. Having a game plan can turn any stressful situation on its head, and give both you and your partner some much-needed relief.

7. HAVE A SUPPORT SYSTEM

Even though the stress is stemming from your relationship, you and your partner don’t have to be the only ones to handle it. Remember, you have an outside support system as well through family and friends. Utilize your support system. Being able to go to someone else outside your relationship for help, comfort, and advice will take some of the emotional strain off your partner and ultimately allow you to better deal with the stress together.

Stress in relationships happens. It’s an unavoidable reality in adult relationships. But it doesn’t have to be overwhelming, and it doesn’t have to be detrimental. Learning how to deal with stress properly can make your relationship stronger than ever. It can also make the situation less stressful in the first place.

You and your partner will benefit from learning how to deal with stress in your lives, both individually with internal stress as well as stress that happens from outside situations, like a job loss or a busy schedule. Don’t let your worries get the better of you. You have the capabilities to deal with anything that life throws at you, and if you don’t, then you have a partner who can help share the burdens.

4 Reasons People Procrastinate (And How to Avoid It)

Definition of ‘procrastinate’:

(procrastinated; procrastinating)

: to put off intentionally and habitually

: to put off intentionally the thing of something that should have been done

– Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary

We’re all guilty of it; we’ve all felt the dreaded presence of some unfinished task seemingly chipping away at our very consciousness. It’s uncomfortably persistent – this is procrastination.

So why do we subject ourselves to such emotions?

Well, there are a couple of big reasons. For 99 percent of the population, work sucks. Work is the antonym of fun or freedom. Work is often viewed (neither rightly or wrongly) as a means to an end – nothing less and nothing more. We have bills and responsibilities, both of which require money. Money requires work – it’s a catch-22.

The good news is that we needn’t feel this way. We need not feel the chronic, internal pain that procrastination manifests. How is this possible? By understanding the rationale behind why we procrastinate and doing something about it.

The above paragraph brings us to the topic of this article. We’ll discuss four main reasons why we procrastinate and (most importantly) what we can do about it.

Let’s go!

Here are four big reasons why we put things off:

1. We’re unorganized

Not having any semblance of structure to our routine breeds procrastination. Even in today’s “organized” workplace, it’s easier than ever to choose delay over decision making. Needless to say, technology (read: social media, smartphones, and the internet) dangles the carrot of self-gratification closer to our collective faces.

The point? We’ll sometimes override the rational mind, which subtly whispers, “get this done” for a quick shot of endorphins (via IM, YouTube, web-surfing, etc.)

This, of course, is not an organized way of living. It is also counterproductive to the utmost.

Solution: (This from a self-proclaimed impulsive who learned the hard way. Schedule things. Keep a clock or watch on your desk – and resolve to go one day at a time diligently keeping on track. This is a habit, and one that you’ll learn quicker than you think!)

2. Boring tasks

Any work that’s perceived as boring, uninteresting, or unpleasant is ripe for deferment. We’ll even attempt to rationalize why something should be put off (“I’ll have plenty of time tomorrow morning/afternoon/evening, right?”) Meanwhile, our logic is face-to-face with the sexiness of base desires.

Think of the handsome and beautiful bachelor or bachelorette who realistically knows and feels when someone is not right for him or her. Yet, this “someone” creates an inexplicable sense of exhilaration and novelty they’ve never experienced. So, they “rationalize” and “compromise” with themselves. Maybe they’re sick of dating. Maybe they’re getting older, etc.

A redundant task, whether it’s work or dating, is so easy to put off – and many of us do just that.

Solution: Gentle discipline – that’s all. Listen, we all have jobs, duties, and responsibilities that we don’t like doing. But you can make a choice to move forward in any case. Gentle discipline is nothing more than concentrating your mind on the task at hand – and (most important) gently redirecting your mind’s focus when it strays off course. Over time, your self-discipline will become stronger – and you’ll reap incredible rewards!

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3. Anxiety

Procrastination (i.e., avoidance) is a method of coping with anxiety and stress. Perhaps we feel an impending sense of failure or fear, which is the case more often than not.

Stress sucks and is potentially harmful to both mind and body. It’s only natural, then, that we seek reprieve from anxiety, stress, and worry. We all attempt to liberate ourselves of stress – in its myriad forms – to some degree or another.

Once again, our basic instincts will try to control decision making. We’ll look for immediate rewards and all the “benefits” that such rewards bring. Of course, “Option B” is often worse than if we faced the source of anxiety in the first place.

Solution: Understand that anxiety is nothing but a theatricality of the mind. Second, it is important to find an outlet to reduce anxiety that’s in the best interest of both you and your aspirations. Self-gratification is too often a recipe for both regret and lower self-esteem.

4. Lack of ability or confidence

Another universal propensity of human beings is self-doubt. For people with low levels of self-confidence, this is a potentially debilitating experience. So, rather than get to the root of the problem, some of us will avoid it altogether.

Once again, this is another certain facet of life. Some experiences, though they may be painful, often reap more (sometimes intangible/unnoticeable) rewards than not having gone through them in the first place.

Solution: Set small goals and do the best you can to achieve them. Acknowledge that you’re lacking confidence and move forward despite it. One of two outcomes is a certainty: (a) you’ll “succeed” and gain more confidence, or (b) you’ll “fail,” but become a stronger person as a result. Notice that option (b) is still a success!

A great quote to remember:

From legendary writer Hunter S. Thompson:

“A man who procrastinates in his choosing will inevitably have his choice made for him by circumstance.”

Choose YOUR circumstance – as this is where real freedom lives.

Adrenal Fatigue: Is It Making You Gain Weight?

Most of us are aware of the mind-body connection, or how the inner workings of our psyche can manifest into physical sensations and experiences. Weight gain related to the fight-or-flight response is just another example of this phenomenon. You might also hear others call this adrenal fatigue.

WebMD refers to the fight-or-flight response as a “survival mode” because, way back in the day, lives depended on it. If your FoF wasn’t finely tuned, you could get mauled by something much faster and stronger lurking in the bushes.

Today, while most of us are relatively safe from dangerous wildlife, we still, of course, have an FoF response hardwired into our brains. Instead of facing threats from wildlife or the possibility of starvation, we are facing bad drivers, overwork, long hours, and a 24/7 “always-on” society. Indeed, while the FoF response is activated differently, much of the effects on our body remain the same.

Here, we discuss the connection between FoF and weight gain; more specifically, five signs that this brain mechanism may be the culprit of some extra pounds. Finally, we’ll wrap up by providing some recommendations on what we can do to deal with it.

“Most of us become overeaters when we’re feeling a lot of pressure. This happens thanks to your fight-or-flight response, a.k.a. survival mode – once your body reaches a certain stress level, it does what it feels it needs to do. In most cases, that means overeat.” WebMD

Adrenal Fatigue and weight gain

When our brain is in FoF mode, our body immediately goes on the defensive – and this action requires a lot of energy. As such, the body “thinks” it needs calories to compensate for this energy expenditure when it, in fact, doesn’t. Subsequently, we believe we need more calories when we really don’t.

In FoF mode, the “stress hormone” cortisol is released, this triggers higher insulin levels as our blood sugar plummets. What is the quickest way to compensate for this? You guessed it: fatty, sugar-laden foods. Instead of a healthy option, like an apple or banana, we’ll often opt for a cookie or some ice cream.

Fatty and sugary foods instigate a chemical reaction that suppresses the FoF response and helps to calm us down. They’re also quite tasty, which explains how stressed folks get hooked on certain comfort foods.

The reaction looks something like this: “More stress = more cortisol = higher appetite for junk food = more belly fat.”

5 Signs Adrenal Fatigue Is Making You Gain Weight

Throwing a wrench into this well-oiled (no pun intended) biological machine requires conscious awareness on our part. Here are five signs that our “FoF autopilot” is leading to weight gain:

1. We put on pounds quick

Nothing packs on the pounds faster than the combination of stress and comfort foods. As mentioned, our body’s response to stress is cyclical and mechanized unless we intervene. So, if you jumped on the scale only to immediately jump back off in horror, your stress may be to blame.

2. Check your cupboards

What do you see? A well-balanced and healthy mix of foods, or something that resembles the grocery list of Willy Wonka? If your kitchen cabinets resemble more of the latter, don’t fret; just recognize your mistake and make the conscious choice to purchase more natural, healthy foods.

3. Your job can cause you to gain weight

The simple fact is that around 70 percent of Americans more or less hate their job. Another simple fact is that around 70 percent of Americans are considered overweight or obese. Correlation doesn’t imply causation, but these statistics are eye-opening – and, on an individual level, should make us take a step back and assess our work environment.

4. You lack interest in once-enjoyable activities

While this may sound like a depression-related symptom, stress can also cause us to lose interest in activities. This is a double-edged sword. First, we’re more likely to eat when idle. Second, we have less motivation to engage in activity that moves the body, which helps to keep stress (and weight) at healthy levels.

5. People express their concern

Sometimes, we’re not able to see some things about ourselves that others do. Individuals who love and care for you may express concerns about your health (e.g. weight), or about your appearance (e.g. “looking stressed” or “looking anxious.”) Listening and not dismissing other people’s observations may help get us out of the rut we find ourselves.

Recommendations:

  • WebMD provides some excellent tips to ward of the FoF and stress response.
  • Light exercise – a brisk walk or slow jog, for example.
  • Meditation or mindful breathing. Also, exercises like tai chi and yoga may thwart some of the hunger impulses due to stress.
  • Find some support. If you’re overwhelmed, it’s important that you have someone who will listen. Look to a family member or close friend.
  • Sleep well. 7 to 9 hours is recommended for healthy adults.
  • Relax and get back into your routine.

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The 6 Most Attractive Behaviors (And How to Have Them)

“When you have confidence, that’s what becomes attractive to other people and makes them want to work with you and spend time with you.” – Emmanuelle Chriqui

Being attractive is more than just about looks – after all, those are subjective and subject to change at the whim of the latest trends of society. Attraction also greatly depends on how you act, and the types of behaviors you exhibit day to day when interacting with people. Someone can just as easily fall madly in love with your personality as they do the way you look.

After all, you are a whole person, made up of traits and flaws that round you out to be a human being. There are a number of behaviors that are attractive in a person, whether you are a man or a woman. Learning how to harness these types of behaviors can make you both more attractive, as well as an all-around more positive and happier person.

6 OF THE MOST ATTRACTIVE BEHAVIORS AND HOW TO HAVE THEM

1. GOOD LISTENERS

People love to feel heard and understood. Being a good listener is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have, because it ensures you will be able to make connections with people. When you can listen to what other people are saying and not just wait for your turn in the conversation, you will be able to create meaningful moments between you and another person.

Being a good and active listener means that you are taking in what the other person is saying, making them feel heard and understood. It’s an attractive quality, and it forms strong bonds and connections.

2. KINDNESS

This seems like a no-brainer, but being kind is another highly attractive quality that a person can have. When you exhibit kindness, people will feel drawn towards you, because you will radiate the kind of positivity that makes people feel loved and appreciated.

People are more attracted to those who engage in behaviors that are selfless, thoughtful, and kind, rather than those who are mean-spirited and cruel. You will be surprised to find that when you engage in more behaviors that are altruistic, you will feel more positive, which will make people gravitate into your orbit.

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3. SMILING

This one is easy, and it’s proven to make you feel better even when you are having a rough day! Smiling is one of the most basic and easiest things that a person can do to make themselves more attractive to people around them.

Smiling releases endorphins, which will heighten your mood, which will make you more positive, which will cause you to smile more – it’s an endless cycle! When people see you smile, they will also feel a sense of positivity, and they will associate you with those happy feelings.

4. LAUGHTER

Hand-in-hand with smiling, laughter will also help draw people in and make you more attractive to them. Laughter is another act that releases endorphins just by doing it, and it’s also healthy for both your emotional and physical health!

It will lower your stress levels, and with low-stress levels you will have better moods. And, people are drawn to those who laugh, and who make them laugh in turn! It feels good to laugh, which means people will automatically find themselves drawn to those who make them feel good.

5. CONFIDENCE

As they say, confidence is key! Being confident will make you both attractive to others, while also making you feel better about yourself. Being confident in yourself, your looks, your abilities, and your work will draw people in. If you project an air of self-shame or self-loathing, you are likely to put people off of interacting with you.

On the other hand, when you own yourself, you will be more likely to make others feel good and confident about themselves as well. People who exhibit radiant confidence are much more alluring to the people around them.

6. UNDERSTANDING NONVERBAL CUES

Being a good listener is important – but what about the things that people aren’t saying? Being able to read someone’s body language will help you be a better listener, as well as show that you are capable of understanding how they are feeling even without them having to tell you.

Empathy is an attractive quality, and empathy is all about nonverbal cues. When you are able to read someone’s nonverbal cues, you can give them what they need without them having to ask, which will bring about interactions that are healthy, positive, and long-lasting.

As you can see, beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, but behavior can be universally attractive. Taking the time to study your own habits and choices, and change them to more attractive behaviors, can do wonders for all of the social interactions you have in your life. You will not only attract people to you in a romantic sense, but also platonic, life-long friendships as well. You will also find that your attitude towards life can change to a much more upbeat and positive one once you start engaging in behaviors that are designed to make you a more empathetic, kind and compassionate person.

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