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20 Habits That Improve Mental Health

June 17, 2017 by Power of Positivity

Some argue that mental health is just as important as physical health; fair enough, but one could make a strong case that the former supersedes the latter. Without proper mental faculties, no level of physical prowess will overcome this weakness.

“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” –Khalil Gibran

Our mental health state is dynamic in that it affects everything in every experience. For example, when our mental health is good, our job performance, relationships, and overall quality of life are also good. When we suffer, we cannot effectively navigate our daily life.

As important as mental health is, it’s pretty easy to take for granted. It is easy to succumb to social pressures that place physical attributes (e.g., appearance, body weight) over the mental. Furthermore, those seeking consolation for any mental health problems fear being stigmatized, perceived as “weak,” or otherwise being negatively judged.

The truth is that mental health problems are not a character weakness – they are a chemical imbalance in the brain. Plain and simple. Nothing less and nothing more.

Whether we realize it or not, we are responsible for maintaining our mental health. This responsibility should be second-to-none.

This brings us to the topic of this article: ways to maintain and improve your mental health. We sourced these ideas from the expert team at the University of Michigan University Health Service.

Ten Habits That Improve Mental Health

Try these new habits to help boost your mental resilience.

1. Value yourself.

It’s natural to be our “own worst enemy” at times, harshly criticizing any (real or perceivable) mistake and continually punishing ourselves psychologically.

Despite this default mechanism, make every attempt to practice some self-compassion (there are many ways of doing this, meditation among them.) Allocate time for the things you enjoy, such as your favorite hobbies.

Put: do things that make you feel good about being you!

2. Care for your body.

The connection between physical and mental health is well-established. As such, it is essential to take care of your body. Here are some things you can do:

Do not smoke
Drink a lot of water
Get at least 30 minutes of exercise
Sleep at least 7 to 9 hours per night
Eat a well-balanced diet, avoiding high-fat and sweet foods and drinks.

3. Watch your social circle.

Not everyone is blessed to have solid family ties, which (unsurprisingly) helps with mental development. However, it’s our responsibility to allow the “right kinds” of people into our life. This means supporting family members or friends and searching for social events that can bring good people into your life.

4. Give what you can.

You don’t need to give away half your paycheck to reap the mental health benefits of generosity. Volunteer your time and energy to help someone else; find a worthy cause you can fully support and stick with it.

5. Understand and practice stress management.

Here’s an uncomfortable truth: some of us are atrocious at managing stress. These types of people face significant disadvantages in physical and mental well-being.

Several structured stress-management systems exist, and many of them are pretty compelling. Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn’s Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) program is worth mentioning. There are also plenty of simple stress-reduction techniques that can help, such as moment-to-moment mindfulness.

6. Silence your mind.

Our minds possess exceptional powers. Unfortunately, our minds can also be a liability. We can develop habits such as overthinking that threaten our mental states. As such, it’s important to practice techniques to counteract our “monkey mind.” Among them: mindfulness, prayer, deep breathing, relaxation techniques.

7. Look at your job

Job-related mental health problems are attributed to their inherent stressful requirements. Certain professions, according to health.com, are associated with higher levels of depression. Think of the jobs that work with the public–nurses, teachers, salespeople.

Should you suspect that your job is taking a dramatic toll on your mental health, it may be time to consider your options. Not many jobs are fun, but they shouldn’t be stressful as to threaten your mental stability.

8. Get rid of alcohol and other drugs

Sure, booze and pills can offer some temporary stress relief. However, when this behavior becomes habitual, it manifests into other severe problems.

The challenge lies in making people “see the light” regarding alcohol and drug use. More specifically, the long-term consequences of their use are NOT worth it.

9. Shake things up

Monotony is an inductor of stress. When we do the same thing, accumulated stress can pose a (sometimes severe) threat to our mental health daily. Find a way to mix in something enjoyable, or find ways to “switch up” your approach to work, hobbies, and other routine activities.

10. Get some help

Many employers in the United States offer an employee assistance program or EAP. EAP helps employees “with personal problems and/or work-related problems that may impact their job performance, health, mental and emotional well-being.” Other advanced countries offer something similar.

Regardless of whether it’s a board-certified psychiatrist or someone you look up to, find an outlet. Remember: getting help is not a sign of weakness. It is a sign of strength and courage.

11. Get outside

You’ll feel happier and less stressed outside into the sunlight and fresh air. Being outside causes your brain to release serotonin, a natural mood-stabilizing chemical. It’s a healthy escape to recharge your brain and get energized. Try getting out doing an activity such as:

Going for a walk
Gardening
Swimming
Having a picnic
Birdwatch
Taking a bike ride

12. Get enough sleep

People who get enough sleep have less depression and other mental health problems. Sleep recharges your body and mind. It boosts your mind and body, including the following:

It helps your ability to learn
Boosts your memory
Protects your heart
Improves your ability to decide
It helps you avoid weight gain

13. Eat well

Your mental health connects directly to your physical health. When you eat well, you feel good physically and boost your positivity. Choose whole foods rather than processed. Eat lots of crunchy veggies, fresh fruits, lean meats, and whole, fibrous grains to experience your best health.

14. Read

Reading is an inexpensive way to improve your mental health. It strengthens your brain function lowers blood pressure and heart rate. A study conducted with college students found that the students who read daily felt less stressed. It reduced their psychological distress and improved their overall mental health. It’s thought that reading fiction is the most effective genre to reduce stress. When you’re fully engaged in the story, your muscles relax, and you concentrate. Your breathing and heart rate slow down similarly to when you meditate.

15. Laugh

Laughing lightens your mood and relieves your anxiety levels. Spontaneous and even “fake” laughter make you feel more positive about life. Laughter is a natural activity that boosts your mental health and relieves stress in your life. Watch a funny movie, read a funny novel or listen to your favorite comedian’s podcast.

16. Express gratitude

When you are grateful, it can reduce your stress. Gratitude helps you to let go of negativity. It allows you to be thankful to the people around you. As you express gratitude to others, you’ll be surprised at how it improves your outlook on life and mental health.

17. Look for the good

Focusing on your life’s bad things makes you feel weighed down. It harms your mental health. Try focusing less on your problems. There’s always some good, even in the most challenging situations. Take some time today to look for the good that’s going on around you.

18. Be creative

Did you know that creativity can improve your mental health? As you focus on your creative activity, your mind is stimulated, lowering your stress. Creativity helps you solve problems. Studies found invention produces positive emotions and can give you a greater sense of well-being. Individuals who practice creativity say they feel happier and have more energy.

19. Get some exercise

Exercise increases the health of your mind and body. Taking time to exercise relieves your anxiety, helps you sleep, and reduces overall stress. On average, strive to get around 30 minutes of exercise at least three times a week. You don’t need to do the thirty minutes all at once. Break it up with different activities, such as:

Yoga
Walking
Strength training
Push-up
Swimming
Biking

20. Get a pet

Owning a pet gives you a sense of purpose and reduces stress and anxiety. Dog owners get more exercise because their dog needs to go for walks. You’ll have a better sense of security and feel less lonely when you have a pet. Pets boost your self-confidence and give you a chance to meet new people in your neighborhood.

Final Thoughts on Developing Habits That Improve Mental Health

If you struggle with depression or anxiety, try incorporating some of these suggestions into your daily routine. Of course, these won’t remove all your issues, but they can help lower your anxiety and boost your overall well-being. Remember, you’re not alone in your struggles. If you struggle with depression, be sure to see your doctor.

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How to Make a Home Spa to Treat Anxiety and Depression

June 17, 2017 by Power of Positivity

The word ‘spa,’ helps you visualize the luxury of some me-time. Alone, it’s enough to help the tension in your shoulders start to relax. With minimal effort, it is possible to have a spa experience at home. So, you can naturally treat stress, anxiety, and minor depression.

1. Rid yourself of tech stress and set aside alone time

First, turn off your hand-held media devices, television, radio, and other information sources, before your home spa session. That’s right, all of them!

It is at times difficult to remove ourselves from constant connectivity, but this is necessary to reduce stress, which will help alleviate feelings of anxiety. Then, schedule a minimum of 30 uninterrupted minutes for your home spa time.

When you need to relax in your home spa for your anxiety or depression, interruptions are unacceptable. Make sure you tell your loved ones to leave you alone and tell them for how long. Schedule a minimum of 30 uninterrupted minutes for an effective home spa treatment for depression or anxiety.

2. Know what works for you

Think about these senses; smell, touch, and hearing. What pleases each of these senses for you is what you should be sure to add to your home spa treatment for your depression and anxiety. Making an at-home spa is about surrounding yourself with what you feel is tranquil and soothing.

For example, if lavender is not your favorite scent, it may not feel relaxing to you. Think about the scents that uplift you and remind you of pleasant times. Decide to do what feels the most comforting to your body; a self-massage, a warm or hot steam bath, a soft comforting robe to wrap up in. Relaxing classical music or something that feels spa-like to you is another way to treat stress during your spa session.

3. Keep the treatments short and simple

Researchers studied spa treatments for their effectiveness in treating stress and depression. Many of the techniques used in this research can be reproduced at home. The relaxation techniques studied included an underwater massage bath, a jet massage from a whirlpool spa tub, mud wraps or herbal wraps, and hydrotherapy.

The study found that spa therapies like these treatments induce mental relaxation, reduce anxiety, and help create a feeling of well-being. The spa research also indicates that treatments like these reduce pain progression and chronic disorders because they improve the quality of life.

4. Enjoy the present moment

Anxiety can be said to be worrying about things that haven’t yet happened, while depression is about reliving the past that can’t be changed. Improve your mood by focusing on here and now. Identify things you can see, smell, taste, hear or touch right now. Inhale for a count of four and exhale for a count of four. Do this for several breaths. Now increase the count to five.

5. Review your mood before and after a home spa

Consider some easy yoga moves or try a walk outdoors in sunlight to add these effective therapies to your home spa relaxation treatment. According to a study in the Canadian Journal of Psychiatry, exercise, light therapy, St. John’s wort, omega-3 fatty acids, SAM-e, and yoga were all found to be alternatives to medication to treat anxiety and depression.

If the spa treatment was helpful to reduce your anxiety or to improve your depressed mood, make a note of this. If an Epsom salt soak worked well to help you relax, would candlelight and music make it even more beneficial for you? How about adding aromatherapy? Tracking what you tried and how it helped will help you learn what works best to improve your mood.

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5 Differences Between Choosing the Right and Wrong Words in Life

June 17, 2017 by Power of Positivity

“The difference between the almost right word and the right word is really a large matter – ’tis the difference between the lightning-bug and the lightning.” – Mark Twain

As human beings, we have crafted the astounding ability to use language. Language allows us to communicate openly and honestly with those around us. Language also allows us to wield power, to ignite laughter, so cause wars and to make peace. The words we use every day make changes to everyone we speak to. Whether those changes we make are positive or negative largely depend on our choice of words, and the way we use those words. Sometimes, our honesty may come across as cruelty.

Other times, our tough love can be read as disheartening. Word choice matters, not only to those around us but internally, as well. The words we choose to say or repeat can have just as much of an effect on ourselves as they do on other people. Especially when we are in a position of power over other people, just as a leadership role, or the role of a parent or guardian. When you are in that leadership role, no matter what it may people, people will look to you for guidance.

Making the right word choice can change someone’s course of action, their decisions and their lives. Here are several ways that the words we choose matter, and how choosing the right and wrong words in your day to day life mean something.

5 DIFFERENCES BETWEEN CHOOSING THE RIGHT AND WRONG WORDS

MOTIVATION

Word choice can mean the difference between properly motivating someone to do their very best, and making them believe that they might as well not even try. This is true for all types of people, whether you are a leader talking to your workforce or a friend giving advice.

The words you choose can change a person’s internal drive and their ability to be properly motivated. Rather than allow your word choice to reflect negatively, you will want to take great care to make sure the words and phrases you use benefit someone’s motivation.

PERSPECTIVE

Someone’s worldview can’t always be easily shifted. However, the right choices of words can change someone’s perspective drastically if they are open to the idea of change. The right word choice can help change their perspective for better or for worse. You may be one word away from turning someone’s pessimistic outlook into a positive one, or vice versa.

Perspective is an important part of someone’s ability to make decisions, and make choices that are beneficial to both them and those around them.

EMOTIONS

Someone’s emotional state is just as important as their intellectual one. Emotions are what make us human, and someone who is in a positive emotional state is far more receptive that one who is in a negative state. Choosing your words carefully can help keep someone’s positive emotions to the forefront, or dreg up negative emotions.

A shift in someone’s feelings can lead to them either opening up to you, or closing themselves off- sometimes permanently. In the end, using your words in an uplifting, positive manner can do more good than letting yourself fall prey to the tempting use of “brutal honesty”.

INTERNAL PERSPECTIVES

Even the words we use to talk to ourselves have impact on our lives. You may be speaking to someone else, but your own words can still have an effect. When we interact with people, we reinforce what we already believe, whether we mean to or not. Changing the words you use can help shift your own personal perspective to a more positive, energetic one. If you allow yourself to wallow in negativity, you will have an effect on everyone around you, not just yourself.

Changing your internal mantra from negative words to more positive ones will inevitably give you a more positive outlook on life.

SELF-ESTEEM

Whether the self-esteem is someone else’s, or your own, the words we chose to use daily can have a great effect. Sometimes, this effect can be positive. Other times, it can be detrimentally negative. A snide comment from someone about your ability to work, or even something like the clothes you are wearing, can plummet your self-esteem and cause anxiety and second-guessing.

When you choose the wrong things to say, you are putting someone through the same pain and self-doubt that you would experience. Take your time to change your language and you can save both yourself and someone else a lot of grief.

Physical Therapist Explains The Body Part That Causes Most Pain (And How To Fix It)

June 17, 2017 by Power of Positivity

When most of us have body pain, we usually attribute it to sore, tired muscles or bones. Perhaps we worked too long on the computer the previous day, which caused tension in the shoulder or neck muscles. Or, maybe we feel slight pain in our knees from picking up a box at work incorrectly. This motion may have put undue strain on the muscles and ligaments in our legs.

Since bodies are incredibly complex, pain can stem from almost anywhere, making it difficult to pinpoint a direct cause. However, not all pain results from certain movements or occurs suddenly after straining a muscle. You might feel pain for no apparent reason, making you wonder if you should see a doctor ASAP. Pains of this sort can leave you feeling unsettled and worried, justifiably so.

When you feel body pains with no obvious trigger, your fascia could be the culprit. This thin casing of tissue connects every bone, organ, blood vessel, nerve fiber and muscle in the body. The connective tissue not only provides an internal structure for the organs but contains highly sensitive nerves that respond to pain.

Below, we’ll talk more about this lesser-known body part and how it can cause pain. We will also discuss how to alleviate the pains by getting to the root cause of the problem.

The Single Body Part That Causes Most Pain (And How To Fix It)

Dr. Mary Ann Wilmarth, a world-renowned physical therapist and former head of physical therapy at Harvard University Health Services, believes many aches and pains stem from fascia complications. Even if you can’t feel it, fascia connects every internal structure in the body and plays a crucial role in mobility.

As you move, fascia stretches and conforms to your body during various activities. However, if it thickens for some reason, it can lead to painful joints and muscles.

According to Dr. Wilmarth, medical professionals and other experts in human physiology have been fascinated with this “mystery tissue” for many years. However, it wasn’t until around 2007 – at an “international fascia research conference” at Harvard – that they fully understood fascia’s importance. [Since then, numerous fascia conferences and other related events have been held at multiple venues, including Harvard Medical School.]

How Fascia Can Cause Body Pains

As mentioned, fascia consists of an intricate network of connective tissue. To comprehend how fascia impacts important physiological functions, we must understand its makeup, including a basic understanding of sensory neurons.

Sensory neurons transmit signals from a receptor, such as the eyes or ears, to the nervous system and brain. These nerve cells communicate information that they have received from external stimuli. For instance, if you touch a hot stove, your sensory neurons would transmit a pain response to the brain, activating pain receptors.

Now, consider that we have up to six times as many sensory neurons in our fasciae than in any other body tissue (besides the skin). This inordinately complex system allows communication between the brain and other areas of the body, including muscles. For instance, even having the urge to stand up and stretch occurs because of fascia communicating between nerve cells.

When you have lower back tension from sitting too long, you relieve it by arching your back. Without fascia communication, you would never get the signal from your brain to stretch your muscles. We tend to overlook this complex sensory organ, but perhaps it deserves more of our attention.

Keeping our fascia healthy improves our limberness and range of motion. When fascia become imbalanced, neural signals misfire and the brain may interpret this malfunction as pain. So, how can you fix this pain response and ensure the fascia functions properly?

How to Alleviate Fascia Pain

Below, we’ll discuss a few fascia-related aches and pains you may experience, along with how to fix them.

Muscle Stiffness/Cramping Upon Waking

When you wake up, you may feel a bit stiff or tense due to lying in bed for 7-8 hours. To relieve this feeling, slowly stretch out both arms and legs and roll your body from side to side. Next, sit on the edge of the bed, flex out and point your feet. This will help alleviate any leg or foot cramps that may occur as you get out of bed.

Activity-Related Injury

Just as fascia can tense up without sufficient movement, it can also become inflexible due to overactivity. This usually results from repetitive, strenuous movements that overwork one area of the body. To fix this, purchase a high-quality foam roller and roll your body over it to relieve tension. You can also use tennis balls to massage fascial layers, or even do yoga poses that target painful areas.

Subtle Tension

Muscles and tissues, including our fascial tissues, can become “tense” without adequate hydration. The simplest fix here involves drinking plenty of water throughout the day to keep your joints lubricated. Also, make sure that you stand up and stretch every so often to alleviate muscle tension. Going for walks during a lunch break or after work will also do wonders for body pain.

Preventing Fascia Injury

As they say, prevention is better than a cure in any situation. In order to prevent fascia injury from occurring, it’s important to remain physically active. Whether you enjoy lifting weights in the gym or going for brisk walks, any type of movement will have a positive effect on the fascia. Also, don’t forget to stretch before and after exercising, as this will improve flexibility and prevent injury. Finally, pay attention to your posture, making sure to sit up straight while using a computer or smartphone. Slumping over at your desk can put a strain on neck and shoulder muscles, possibly causing an injury.

Final Thoughts: See the Right Professional to Relieve Your Pain

If you’ve tried all of the above and still don’t feel better, consider getting professional help. The densely interconnected nature of fascia makes some aches, pains, and discomforts difficult to remedy. Massage therapists, physical therapists, and even acupuncturists can help find the source of your pain and employ the appropriate therapeutic method(s) for relief.

10 Behaviors Toxic People Display Before Revealing Themselves

June 17, 2017 by Power of Positivity

The idea of letting go of “toxic people” in your life is a trending theme lately. And, for good reason. Recent studies show that healthy relationships lower stress and contribute to good mental, emotional and physical health.

On the flip side, in a long-term study done with 10,000 subjects over the course of over 12 years, researchers found that subjects with more negative, toxic relationships were at greater risk for heart disease than their counterparts with more positive relationships.

Toxic relationships can come in many forms. You might find parents, siblings, partners, friends, co-workers, to have these traits. Of course, no real relationship is 100% perfect at all times.

Labeling someone as “toxic” to you, doesn’t necessarily mean they are a bad person and in no way an attempt to associate a human being with contamination in the literal sense. It also does not mean that you should ditch people when they are going through hard times.

But, it does mean to evaluate the people in your life and how they make you feel on a consistent basis. Some people are just literally hardwired to be toxic. Unfortunately, that usually comes from years and years of negative rewiring. So, how do you know if someone is really a toxic person?

Here are 10 things to never ignore from toxic people:

1. Toxic people apologize to no one.

Expecting a toxic person to apologize is like asking a petty dictator to embrace diplomacy: completely out of the realm of possibility.

They’ll construct an elaborate lie before admitting any fault, no matter how obvious. The cool thing is, as rational human beings, we don’t require some faulty rationale to move on. We can choose to realize and accept toxic manipulation. The action of letting go of this behavior enables us to move forward without regret.

2. They make you “prove your worthiness”.

Unsurprisingly, toxic people bear a stark resemblance to the narcissistic. They’ll make you choose between something that’ll benefit your life, or decide to hang around with them a bit longer. In the event that you choose the former, the dramatic firework show will undoubtedly commence.

Forget it. Move on. You have one person – and one person only – for which you need to prove anything. And that individual is yourself.

3. Toxic people project, not reflect.

Projection is nothing more than psychological manipulation. Rather than take ownership of their feelings, they’re more likely to blame you as the source. This may be as simple as “You’ve been in a bad mood all day,” or “Your attitude is really bringing me down.”

Remember, this psychological manipulation has nothing to do with you. It’s all about them. It always has been and will continue to be.

4. They are hardwired for manipulation.

It isn’t uncommon for someone that’s been involved in a toxic relationship to reveal what they now recognize as deliberately manipulative acts.

Attribute such realizations to entitlement, lack of self-esteem, or outright selfishness. The chances are that this manipulation is so deeply ingrained that even the most selfless and benevolent among us are unable to appease such outrageous and devious behavior.

5. Their “true self” is never revealed.

One day, the person is loving and attentive; another, they’re distant and abusive. In fact, they rarely display their true selves upfront. That’s how they want it to be. That’s how they maintain control.

Good-hearted people will almost always attempt to understand someone else’s problems – and contribute to some kind of solution. The problem is that there is no real “problem,” and a “solution” is nothing more than a mirage. Most of the time, their thought process is filled with toxic thoughts.

6. They’ll ruin the occasion.

Have some great news to share? You’re better off not involving someone toxic. Did you receive a raise? Plan a vacation? Adjust your schedule to become more available?

Toxic people have a way of contorting any positive news into something negative. That’s their nature. It sucks. But again, you don’t have to participate.

7. Irrelevancy is irrelevant.

Solving a problem that involves more than one person requires cohesiveness. Unfortunately, toxic people are utterly incapable of reciprocating what is, to most of us, a natural and fair response.

Instead, they’ll (once again) deviate from any sense of responsibility while redirecting your attention to an unrelated matter that may (but probably did not) result from your actions. Solving a problem is not important to toxic people. They’re more at home creating one of their own.

8. Mannerisms matter all of a sudden.

On a related note, toxic people have a way of pointing out any and all acts of “division.” Sigh at the dinner table? Convey a frustrated tone over the phone? Anticipate and expect a toxic person to, all of a sudden, display memory of someone with a 160-plus IQ.

9. Disparagement…

Though you could likely allocate hours (days?) droning on about a toxic person’s offenses, you don’t. Why? Well, because you’re a decent human being with a good heart.

On the other hand, toxic people refuse to allow such “transgressions” to fall by the wayside. In their disillusioned sense of reality, they’ll insist on making any perceived shortcoming a pain point. Why? Well, to get their way, of course.

10. Exaggeration…

How we could go on and on about this last one…but we’ll desist.

Shockingly, toxic people embellish their accomplishments while depreciating anyone else’s. It’s not about them…so they don’t care. (The previous sentence may indeed explain human toxicity in the most accurate, concise way possible.)

15 Psychology Tricks That Will Change Your Life

June 17, 2017 by Power of Positivity

Hello there. It is Q&A time on Power of Positivity now. But these answered questions about psychology may just change your life…

15 Psychology Tricks That Will Change Your Life

1. How do I get more information out of someone?

You asked someone something but the other person is not very forthcoming with their answer, just keep eye contact and stay quiet. More often than not, you will get the other person to spill more beans and it will eliminate any awkwardness.

2. How can psychology make me feel confident in an instant?

The short answer is to take up as much space as you can with your arms and legs. A good example of this is the “power stance”, adopted by rockers such as James Hetfield of Metallica and Freddie Mercury of Queen. After just a couple of minutes, testosterone will flow through your body and you will feel confident within.

3. How do I know if someone is watching me?

Look at your watch, yawn, cough, or something like that. The chances are that if another person is watching you, they will normally do the same. As we all know, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

4. How can I take the sting out of a situation?

Should you believe that someone you know will be on your case at a social event or a business meeting, make sure you sit next to them. That way, that person will think twice about giving you a hard time.

5. How can I tell how closely-knit the group and its members is?

When everyone laughs within the group, have a look to see who is looking at whom while the laughter erupts. Whoever a person looks at first is the person with whom they feel the most affinity. It can also work while you use this very technique with yourself.

6. How do I get people to like me more?

Ask them to do a favour for you. Really? Is that it? Yes, that is it. The method behind the madness is that if you ask them a favour, it is because there is trust from you and you value that person highly. Naturally, the other person will oblige in your request because you have made them feel good about being trustworthy and valuable.

7. Here is a brainteaser, how do I convince someone to agree with me?

Nodding while speaking. It is a subconscious action towards the listener to make agreement in his/her mind more probable. This can be done in a whole host of situations, from asking for a raise at work to convincing someone that your start-up is worthy of the heavy investment needed to get it off the ground.

8. How do I be more memorable?

“Make a good first impression” is not a cliché for nothing. Actually, it is first AND last impressions that count because we remember them much better than everything else that happened in the middle. A good trick is to be first or last in anything where you want to be remembered for anything.

9. How can psychology improve my life?

Being our specialty at Power of Positivity, it is turning a frown upside down. Indeed, smiling impacts positively on our lives and others’. Your confidence is higher, you feel better, and you can induce the same sentiment in others. Time to blast some Bobby McFerrin – Don’t Worry, Be Happy into your life. I smile every time I hear that song.

10. Ok Smartypants, you will never have an answer to this: How do I make myself seem more important?

First of all, thanks for the “Smartypants”, I feel more important now. Secondly, people with good posture are seen as being more successful or commanding. Keep your back straight and your chin up. Lastly, you can enjoy this tip at any big-wig event, business or otherwise.

11. How can I build trust and comfort with someone through psychology?

For this, you can mirror that person’s body language, copying his/her mannerisms and poses. WARNING: Do not over-do it! After all, too much salt changes the taste of the food.

12. How do I keep everyone together in one place?

If one person is or a few people are getting up to leave somewhere and you want to stay, remain seated. The majority, if not all, of your party will sit down again.

13. How do I come off as being friendly and confident?

This is done by maintaining eye contact. If you decide to do it for the sake of maintaining eye contact, you may feel awkward, so pay close attention to eye colour or in between their eyes. This makes things seem more natural with the bonus pleasure of making good connections with the other person.

Related article: Psychologists Reveal the 4 Main Elements That Determine Your Personality

14. A biggie in business, how can I use psychology to negotiate in a more successful manner?

You have heard the phrase: “Silence is golden”, now use it to your advantage. The majority of people dislike silence and will want to break it in any way possible, even by giving ground. Silence is your friend!

15. How do I remember people’s names?

There was a general in the French Army called Napoleon Bonaparte. Napoleon was so revered by his troops in the French Army because he remembered the names of all of them. Napoleon said one day, “When you meet someone, make a point to repeat their name when you greet them the next time.” Be the general of your parties or office. Be like Napoleon.

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Ten Habits That Improve Mental Health

1. Value yourself.

2. Care for your body.

3. Watch your social circle.

4. Give what you can.

5. Understand and practice stress management.

6. Silence your mind.

7. Look at your job

8. Get rid of alcohol and other drugs

9. Shake things up

10. Get some help

11. Get outside

12. Get enough sleep

13. Eat well

14. Read

15. Laugh

16. Express gratitude

17. Look for the good

18. Be creative

19. Get some exercise

20. Get a pet

Final Thoughts on Developing Habits That Improve Mental Health

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1. Rid yourself of tech stress and set aside alone time

2. Know what works for you

3. Keep the treatments short and simple

4. Enjoy the present moment

5. Review your mood before and after a home spa

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The Single Body Part That Causes Most Pain (And How To Fix It)

How Fascia Can Cause Body Pains

How to Alleviate Fascia Pain

Muscle Stiffness/Cramping Upon Waking

Activity-Related Injury

Subtle Tension

Preventing Fascia Injury

Final Thoughts: See the Right Professional to Relieve Your Pain

Here are 10 things to never ignore from toxic people:

1. Toxic people apologize to no one.

2. They make you “prove your worthiness”.

3. Toxic people project, not reflect.

4. They are hardwired for manipulation.

5. Their “true self” is never revealed.

6. They’ll ruin the occasion.

7. Irrelevancy is irrelevant.

8. Mannerisms matter all of a sudden.

9. Disparagement…

10. Exaggeration…

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15 Psychology Tricks That Will Change Your Life

1. How do I get more information out of someone?

2. How can psychology make me feel confident in an instant?

3. How do I know if someone is watching me?

4. How can I take the sting out of a situation?

5. How can I tell how closely-knit the group and its members is?

6. How do I get people to like me more?

7. Here is a brainteaser, how do I convince someone to agree with me?

8. How do I be more memorable?

9. How can psychology improve my life?

10. Ok Smartypants, you will never have an answer to this: How do I make myself seem more important?

11. How can I build trust and comfort with someone through psychology?

12. How do I keep everyone together in one place?

13. How do I come off as being friendly and confident?

14. A biggie in business, how can I use psychology to negotiate in a more successful manner?

15. How do I remember people’s names?

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