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5 Calming Techniques That Reduce Anxiety In Less Than One Minute

Per the National Institute of Mental Health, anxiety disorders affect approximately forty million adults in the U.S. alone, representing only the diagnosed. The actual number is likely around 65 to 66 million, or about thirty percent of the population.

Numbers only tell part of the story. People who struggle with anxiety often cannot understand what’s happening. Only those who have felt the fear of constant anxiety can relate.

Our goal in this article is to describe five quick ways of reducing anxiety. In this hustle-and-bustle world of ours, few can afford the time or resources necessary to undergo “proper” treatment.

Here are five proven ways to reduce anxiety in minutes (in no particular order):

“Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.” – Buddha

1. Meditation

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“Research suggests that daily meditation may alter the brain’s neural pathways, making you more resilient to stress,” says Robbie Maller-Hartman, Ph.D.

Contrary to popular belief, one needn’t be a sage to experience meditation’s tremendous anxiety-relieving benefits. (Of course, additional practice only strengthens one’s ability to combat stress/anxiety.)

The method is simple. For instruction, we’ll assume you’re at work or parked in a car somewhere. Here’s what to do: sit up straight with both feet on the floor and close your eyes. Recite – silently or aloud – a mantra, such as “I am at peace” “or “I love myself.” Dismiss any distracting thoughts without prejudice or judgment.

2. Deep Breathing

When it comes to easing anxiety, focusing on the breath is (by far) the most efficient, timely method. All you need is a 5-minute break and some patience.

Again, the practice is simple. Sit up straight with your eyes closed. Place a hand on your belly as you slowly inhale through your nose. Feel the breath fill your abdomen and travel upwards as if the breath reaches the top of your head. Hold the breath for a couple of seconds, then naturally (and slowly) exhale through the mouth.

How refreshing is that? All in just five minutes!

3. Be Present

To “be present” is to notice all sensations as they surface – to exist for this moment and only this moment.

The beautiful thing about being present is that you can practice it anywhere, doing anything, at any time. Washing the dishes? Notice how the dishes’ surface feels in your hand as you apply the dish soap. Walking? Feel the air as it flows onto and past your face and body. Typing? Listen to the sound of each click of the keyboard as you work.

Being present is extraordinarily powerful, as the practice renders mute (or at least “muffles”) the brain’s money-minded antics. You’re focusing all of your awareness on your senses instead of impulse.

4. Prioritize Your Time

At the risk of sounding cliché, our time on this Earth is limited. The (sometimes uncomfortable) truth is that we don’t know how much of this precious resource we have. Sadly, too many people act as if they’re immune to time’s passing.

The founder of Apple, Steve Jobs, who would ultimately succumb to cancer, gave his perspective on time: “If today was the last day of your life, would you want to do what you are about to do today?”

The lesson? Evaluate how you spend your time. There is no “right” or “wrong” way – only your way. If you’re fortunate enough to work at a job you love, by all means, invest your time there. Consider creating a schedule if you feel your “work-life-other” balance is out of whack. If you’re happy just “going with the flow” and cherishing each experience.

To value time is to spend it enjoying your life while dismissing any external expectations.

5. Write things out

Journaling your thoughts is a powerful anxiety reliever. Stressful thoughts that are allowed to accumulate inevitably result in anxiety.

Writing down what you’re thinking and feeling can provide a profound sense of relief. You are no longer relying upon your cognitive faculties to store and interpret every little impulse.

Journaling, in essence, is transferring your thoughts to something tangible. In doing so, you’re freeing up your cognitive resources and neutralizing anxiety. As a result, you’re more relaxed – and a relaxed mind is a peaceful mind.

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5 Behaviors That Cause Anxiety

Even if you’re not genetically predisposed to the condition, certain habits and behaviors can contribute to anxiety. We will go over a few common causes of stress and how to avoid them below.

1.     Spending Too Much Time on Technology.

Modern life requires us to use technology to a certain extent. However, many of us spend far too much time scrolling through social media feeds, watching Netflix, or other mindless hobbies. That’s not to say you should never enjoy technology, but rather consume media more mindfully. Many studies link excessive smartphone use with higher rates of anxiety, depression, and stress, for example.

Our brains haven’t evolved to handle all the stimuli from technology, so the demands of modern life can seem threatening or overbearing. As a natural consequence, we feel anxious until the stimuli either goes away or we learn to manage these feelings better. However, even if you’re used to spending hours on technology, the sheer amount of smartphone information and apps can heighten baseline anxiety.

Therefore, it’s wise to limit your use or change how you view technology. If you look at technology as a tool to use when necessary, you will drastically cut back your time on smartphones, TV, and other devices.

2.     Lack of Exercise.

We’ve become more sedentary in today’s world due to technology and labor changes. Instead of manual labor, most of us perform mental labor behind desks, which gives our bodies a break from strenuous tasks. However, due to the lack of movement, diseases have become more common that didn’t exist in the past. Scientists have coined the term “diseases of modernity” to describe conditions such as diabetes, heart disease, strokes, and obesity.

Lack of movement doesn’t just impact our physical health, either; it has a disastrous effect on mental health. Our minds and bodies work together, so when our bodies become sick, our brains suffer in various ways. Anxiety, depression, and other mental disorders have skyrocketed in recent years due to the stresses of modern life.

As we said before, we still haven’t evolved to handle all the mental stresses with urban living. However, exercise can bolster our psychological and physical health, making it easier to deal with the burdens of daily life. Studies have shown that even a 10-minute walk can have a positive impact on anxiety levels. While it’s best to engage in exercises that get your heart pumping, such as running or swimming, any movement will improve your mental health.

Our bodies weren’t meant to sit all day, so get at least 150 minutes of moderate to intense exercise per week.

3.     Dwelling on Negative Thoughts.

How often do your thoughts make you anxious? Probably more often than you’d like to admit, but it happens to the best of us. We naturally have a negativity bias as a survival trait, but unfortunately, this doesn’t always benefit us in modern times. Focusing on negative thoughts and memories will only create more suffering in the present and make the world seem like a dark, depressing place.

But, despite all the stressors in life, we can still focus on the positives, which will naturally reduce anxiety levels. Many people with anxiety tend to think in terms of the worst-case scenario as a way to exert control over the world. They don’t necessarily want to think negatively, but they’ve conditioned their brains to anticipate catastrophes. That way, a disaster or adverse event won’t blindside them, and they will feel more prepared.

Unfortunately, this keeps them in fight-or-flight mode constantly, which isn’t healthy. If your mind wanders to negative thoughts often, try meditating or practicing mindfulness techniques to bring yourself back to the present. When you can train your mind to remain in each moment no matter what’s happening around you, you will start noticing your anxiety diminish.

4.     Drinking Excess Caffeine.

You probably don’t think twice about it when you pour your morning cup of joe. After all, most people enjoy their coffee in the mornings to wake up and feel refreshed for the day. However, drinking too much caffeine can exacerbate anxiety and make you feel jittery. If you’re sensitive to caffeine, either avoid it altogether or limit yourself to a tiny cup per day.

Coffee does have benefits, such as protecting heart health and providing powerful antioxidants. But for those suffering from anxiety, the costs may outweigh any benefits in the long term.

5.     Overworking.

When you look around the world and see how busy people have become, it’s no wonder why anxiety has reached epidemic proportions. We work ever-longer hours for less pay, have a very little downtime, and don’t know how to deal with all the stress. As a result, many of us deal with near-constant anxiety and other mental problems, making daily life more challenging to manage.

However, it’s important to remember that we still can control certain aspects of our lives, including how much we work. Most bosses will work with their employees to ensure they can adequately handle their workload. So, if you feel overwhelmed at work, make sure to have a talk with your boss. If you value you as an employee and care about your wellbeing, they will try to meet you halfway.

You could also look for other employment, if possible, or even start a side business that could grow into self-employment opportunities. You always have options, so don’t limit yourself if your job makes you overly anxious. No career or job is worth your mental health.

Of course, if you can’t get out of your job for whatever reason, you can still learn to manage anxiety. Exercise, mindfulness, healthy outlets, and supportive friends and family can make the stresses of work easier to handle. In addition to lifestyle changes and habits, medication, therapy, or a combination of the two reduces anxiety.

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Final Thoughts on Mastering These Calming Techniques for Anxiety

In recent years, mental health has become a massive topic of discussion, and for a good reason. Many people suffer in silence because of mental health stigma, but luckily, society has made significant progress. The stresses of modern life have made it difficult for many people to cope, and talking about their struggles with others provides much-needed support.

Just remember, if you’re suffering from anxiety, know that you’re far from alone. Millions of people deal with anxiety in today’s world and have found ways to manage it. Meditation, deep breathing, mindfulness, and practicing self-care can help reduce anxiety and make life enjoyable once again.

How Too Much Sugar Affects Your Brain And Body

“Brain functions such as thinking, memory, and learning are closely linked to glucose levels and how efficiently the brain uses this fuel source…Although the brain needs glucose, too much of this energy source can be a bad thing.” – Harvard Medical School, Department of Neurobiology

Sugar is a form of glucose, which serves as a primary source of energy for every cell in the human body. As the most nerve-dense organ in our body, the brain consumes a disproportionate amount of this energy. Approximately one-half of all glucose (and sugar) derived energy is required for the brain to function properly.

“The brain is dependent on sugar as its main fuel. It cannot be without it,” states Vera Novak, MD, PhD, and associate professor of medicine at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center – a teaching hospital of Harvard Medical School (HMS).

In short, without glucose, our brain cannot perform even the most basic of functions.

Too little glucose (or sugar) can lead to hypoglycemia, a common condition among pre-diabetics and diabetics. Also, glucose deficiency can interrupt neuronal production and transmission, which can manifest into various cognitive disorders.

As you’ll soon see, excessive amounts of sugar in the blood can also lead to a variety of cognitive problems. It is important, therefore, to determine what makes up a deficient and excessive amount of glucose in the brain, along with repercussions of each state. In this article, we focus on the latter: excessive glucose levels and the subsequent impact on the brain.

Besides describing the effects of inordinate glucose levels, we’ll also provide some helpful information pertaining to the appropriate levels of glucose in the body and brain – and how it can be healthily attained and maintained.

Why too much sugar is a bad thing

Simply put, too much glucose as sugar speeds up cellular aging and stunts cell growth. When cellular development is thwarted, a variety of medical problems may manifest.

Here are just some of the damaging effects of excessive sugar intake on the brain:

1. Faster cellular aging

Per a 2012 study at the University of California at Los Angeles (UCLA), research results “indicated a positive relationship between the consumption of fructose, another form of sugar, and the aging of cells,” according to HMS.

2. Memory problems

High glucose levels are linked to memory and cognitive deficiencies, according to a 2009 study by a team of scientists at the University Montreal and Boston College.

3. Same effects on brain as stress

Per a study by the University of New South Wales in Austria, high sugar intake is “as damaging the brain as extreme stress or abuse.” (Abuse? Really? Didn’t see that coming.)

4. Difficulty responding to stress

In another study, consuming too much sugar “led to lower expression of (brain) receptor that binds the major stress hormone cortisol, which may affect the ability to recover from exposure to a stressful situation.”

5. Shrinks hippocampus

Research shows that excessive sugar levels may shrink the hippocampus. Located within the brain’s medial temporal lobe, the hippocampus “forms an important part of the limbic system, the region that regulates emotions…(it) is associated mainly with memory, in particular long-term memory. The organ also plays an important role in spatial navigation.”

6. Increases risk for diabetes

Studies show that, although high levels of sugar aren’t solely responsible for developing type 2 diabetes, it increases the risk of the disease. Type 2 diabetes is a medical condition in which cells “become overwhelmed by insulin and fails to properly respond; they become resistant to insulin.”

Insulin is a hormone required to normalize blood sugar levels. When the body lacks this hormone, glucose levels spike within the brain and body. Per HMS, “High glucose levels can affect the brain’s functional connectivity, which links brain regions that share functional properties, and brain matter.” Brain atrophy and small-vessel disease – a condition which narrows blood pathways to the brain – can lead to several cognitive problems. One such problem is vascular dementia – a condition very similar to Alzheimer’s Disease .

Sugar and Kids

The damaging effects of sugar is extremely disturbing when one considers the largest consumers of sugar: children.

Per the USDA Economic Research Service, the average child under 12 years consumes 49 pounds of sugar per year. Adults? 46 pounds. This means that our most vulnerable demographic consumes more sugar than a full-grown man or woman – and with an undeveloped body.

Dr. Jennifer Shu, a board-certified pediatrician states: “Eating too much (sugar) can make kids gain weight, which then puts them at a greater risk for diabetes, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol – three major contributors to heart disease.”

In other words, parents should taper their child’s “sweet tooth.”

The above list is not exhaustive. It’s quite astonishing that medical experts have been warning about sugar’s negative effects on the waistline for years; yet these same experts had little to nothing to say about its effects on the brain.

The all-important question is “how much sugar should I be eating?”

According to the American Heart Association (AHA), recommended sugar intake is:

For men: 38 grams (9 teaspoons)

Women: 25 grams (6 teaspoons)

Children (ages 2 to 18): 25 grams (6 teaspoons)

Children (under 2 years): Zero added sugars

References:
Harvard Medical School. (2017). Sugar and the Brain. Retrieved from http://neuro.hms.harvard.edu/harvard-mahoney-neuroscience-institute/brain-newsletter/and-brain-series/sugar-and-brain

Mandal, A., M.D. (2014, January 14). Hippocampus Functions. Retrieved from http://www.news-medical.net/health/Hippocampus-Functions.aspx
Maniam, J., Morris, M. (2016, February 17). High-sugar diet is as ‘damaging to your brain as extreme stress or ABUSE.’ Mail Online. Retrieved from http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3450298/High-sugar-diet-damaging-brain-extreme-stress-ABUSE.html
Mercola, J., D.O. (2016, September 7). How High-Sugar Diets Speed You Toward an Early Grave. Retrieved from http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2016/09/07/recommended-sugar-intake.aspx#_edn7
Remnarace, C. Sugar Shock (n.d.) Parents Magazine. Retrieved from http://www.parents.com/recipes/nutrition/kids/sugar-shock/

10 Times You Need to Be Quiet In Life

Do you often feel the need to slip away for some quiet?

“There is time to be quiet and a time to talk.” – Aung San Suu Kyi

Odds are most people reading this do not recognize the name Aung San Suu Kyi. Ms. Suu Kyi is the first and current State Counselor and Leader of the National League for Democracy of Myanmar – formerly known as Burma. In 1991, “The Lady” as she is known by her compatriots, was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize. The committee that nominated Suu Kyi called her “an outstanding example of the power of the powerless.”

From 1948 to 2010, then-Burma had been engaged in a civil war consisting of approximately 30 insurgent groups (today, just five remain.) Suu Kyi spent most of the time throughout the late-80’s to 2010 in some form of “detention” for her vocal democratic views.

Now the country’s de-facto leader, Suu Kyi has made non-violence her priority. Citing her role models like Martin Luther King Jr. and Mahatma Gandhi, the leader understands – and steadfastly demonstrates – her strongly-held belief that quiet is as important, if not more so than talk.

Indeed, there are times when it’s more beneficial to remain quiet than speak up. (A lesson that many of our politicians at home could use.)

In our personal lives, we needn’t be a politician or another prominent figure to recognize the time and place for quiet.

Here are ten times we’d do well to be quiet in life:

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1. When you don’t have the necessary facts

Harlan Ellison, one of history’s most prolific writers, once said “You are not entitled to your opinion. You are entitled to your informed opinion. No one is entitled to be ignorant.” You may or may not agree with Ellison’s sentiment, but speaking about a topic of which you have no facts or evidence may well be perceived as absentmindedness.

If it’s a sensitive issue, we’d do well to hold our tongue until we know all the facts.

2. When you have a feeling the words will hurt

In the midst of a heated discussion, most (all?) of us have said something that unfairly hurt someone else. Being honest with ourselves, we felt the aftereffects of the words before they were said. In other words, we knew the sting that those words would produce – and said them anyway.

When tempers are high, our talk-to-quiet ratio should be low. Speaking of which…

3. When you have a sense you’ll be ashamed

#2 and #3 are often inclusive. When we replace coolness and logic with hotheadedness and impulsivity, the changes of us hurting someone else and ourselves skyrockets.

Feeling ashamed of something that shouldn’t have ever been said isn’t worth it.

4. When it’s not our place to speak

The truth is that focused, fully attentive listening (i.e. active listening) is rare. Too many people would rather be heard than hear – and this is something that can kick us in the rear in every part of life.

Understanding and being skilled in active listening can lead to new insights, expand knowledge, and improve our relationships.

5. When we have nothing to say

It’s ironic that “uncomfortable silence” is unbearable, but small talk is a social skill. Chatter among friends is nice, but why should we feel obliged to say something when there is nothing?

(Silence)

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6. When you’re being taunted

Nobody is immune to not being liked for no good reason. Nobody is immune to bullying, even as we age. There’s not one good reason to respond to anyone whose objective is to taunt you. You have the self-control to end a conversation – use it.

7. When you’re trying to change a related behavior

Understanding and making an attempt to break a bad habit is a noble act. Changing our behavior can also be quite difficult at times. Habits often repeat themselves because we don’t actively watch and intervene.

When it comes to changing how we speak to ourselves and others, an influx of conflicting thoughts and feelings will arise. It is important to remain silent until we’re able to regain control.

8. When your negative emotions are high

Once again, there is no unwritten law that you must speak to people. There is certainly no unwritten law that says you must talk to people when in a bad state. As mentioned, negative emotions have a way of clouding our judgment – and this can lead us down a path we don’t want to go.

9. When you could be doing something productive

Why are you chattering 100 words a second about nothing-in-particular when you could more wisely invest this time? Unsurprisingly, engaging in a random conversation is a common means of avoiding responsibilities.

What could you be doing instead that will better your life?

10. When your words will poorly reflect on someone

Speaking about someone with intent to inflict harm upon their character is a foolish act. It’s a no-win situation. This is particularly the case when this “someone” is a spouse, relative, friend, or colleague.

If a problem exists between you and someone else or vice-versa, take it up with them personally. Rise above the negative talk and show some character.

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Which One of the 16 Personality Types Are You?

Isabel Myers and her mother, Katharine Cook Briggs, are developers of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). Cook-Briggs devoted her entire life to “(enabling) individuals to grow through an understanding and appreciation of individual differences in healthy personalities and enhance harmony and productivity in diverse groups.”

Upon the passing of her mother, Isabel Myers continued her mother’s important work. Myers efforts are commendable and have advanced her mother’s pioneering theories (based on Carl Jung’s observations) to millions around the world.

The MBTI instrument in its current form is the product of years of painstaking psychological research and testing. The groundbreaking psychological assessment has been officially translated into 30 languages.

The MBTI “describes differences in how people approach the world, take in information, and make decisions.” The MBTI instrument is currently implemented by numerous organizations, e.g., government, business, and academia.

Most importantly, the MBTI provides individuals with invaluable knowledge about how their mind works.

“The understanding of your (personality) type can make your perceptions clearer, your judgments sounder, and your life closer to your heart’s desire.” – Isabel Briggs Myers

Factors

The determination of one’s personality “type” – of which there are 16 possibilities – is the result of individual preferences in four areas (in their respective orders):

  1. Favorite world: Do you prefer to focus on the outer world or your inner world? This is labeled Extraversion (‘E’) or Introversion (‘I’).
  2. Information: Do you prefer to focus on the basic information you take in or do you prefer to interpret and add meaning? This is labeled Sensing (‘S’) or Intuition (‘N’).
  3. Decisions: When making decisions, do you prefer to look at logic and consistency or first look at the people and special circumstances? This is labeled Thinking (‘T’) or Feeling (‘F’).
  4. In daily life, do you prefer to get things decided or do you prefer to stay open to new information and options? This is labeled Judging (‘J’) or Perceiving (‘P’).

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16 Personality Types

First, it is important to understand that no “best type” exists. MBTI doesn’t measure intellect or character – it’s simply a tool to help you understand your personality and how your brain operates.

Second, everyone has some degree of each of the four traits. The instrument is designed to measure your preference and is not an absolute.

Third, MBTI personality types are represented by four letters. For example, ESTJ, INTP – and so on.

Alright, let’s get to the fun stuff. Can you identify with one of these types? (For ease and fun, we’ve used descriptive words and potential occupations.)

Which One of the 16 Personality Types Are You?

Extroverts

– ESFJ: Happy, conscientious, loyal, harmonizing, “people-person,” sociable, tactful, warm.

Jobs: Elementary teacher, Child care provider, School Administrator, Health Care Administrator, Special Needs Teacher/Assistant.

– ESTJ: Logical, organized, assertive, practical, results-oriented, analytical, systematic, responsible.

Jobs: Military/Police Officer, Stockbroker, Sales Manager, Real Estate Agent, Chef, Office Manager.

– ESFP: Accepting, cooperative, friendly, passionate, commonsensical, loving, realistic, fun.

Jobs: Social Worker, Psychologist, Counselor, Mental Health Professional, Teacher, Scientist, Journalist, Physical Trainer, Nutritionist/Dietitian, Artist.

– ESTP: Energetic, flexible, spontaneous, “hands-on,” pragmatic, tolerant, hardworking, skillful.

Jobs: Carpenter, Mechanic, Building Inspector, Landscape Architect, Surveyor, Forester, Teacher (especially shop or home economics).

– ENTJ: Assertive, critical, logical, strategic, visionary, initiating, planner, organized.

Jobs: Accountant, Community Organizer, Loan Officer, Marketing Manager, IT Professional, Executive.

– ENTP: Practical, straightforward, decisive, quick-witted, outspoken, resourceful, analytical.

Jobs: Entrepreneur, HR Recruiter, Architect, Engineer, Geologist, Detective, Public Administrator, Director, Social Scientist.

– ENFJ: Sociable, expressive, enthusiastic, idealistic, imaginative, conscientious, warm, and tactful.

Jobs: Teacher, Counselor, Therapist, Administrator, Sales Representative, Politician.

– ENFP: Warm, enthusiastic, imaginative, appreciative, supportive, spontaneous, flexible, wordsmith.

Jobs: Counselor, Non-profit executive, Trainer, Human Rights Lawyer, Community Organizer, HR Director.

Introverts

ISTJ: Dependable, serious, quiet, realistic, thorough, logical, focused, orderly, traditional.

Jobs: Military/Police, Attorney, Accountant, Manager, Economist, Farmer/Rancher, Librarian, Mortician

ISTP: Flexible, tolerant, quiet, analyzing, practical, fact-oriented, efficient.

Jobs: Carpenter, Mechanic, Surveyor, Landscape Architect, Forester, Rancher/Farmer, Quality Assurance.

ISFJ: Conscientious, friendly, responsible, loyal, committed, stead, precise, sensitive.

Jobs: Dentist, Family Physician, Nurse, Speech Pathologist, Therapist, Veterinarian, Health Care Aid.

ISFP: Kind, friendly, creative sensitive, loyal, idealistic, conflict-averse, quiet, respectful.

Jobs: Artist, Chef, Cosmetologist, Interior Designer, Jeweler, Fashion Designer/Executive, Writer/Poet.

INFJ: Decisive, insightful, committed, clarity of mind, humanitarian, organized.

Jobs: Clinical Psychologist, Counselor, Speech Pathologist, Clergyman/Clergywoman, Social Worker, Poet/Writer.

INFP: Idealistic, curious, loyal, adaptable, flexible, accepting, understanding, promoting.

Jobs: Author, English Teacher, Counselor, Non-profit executive, Physical Therapist, Psychologist, Massage Therapist.

INTP: Abstract, logical, theoretical, adaptable, contained, quiet, skeptical, analytical.

Jobs: Computer Scientist, Graphic Designer, Musician, Editor, Photographer, Lawyer, Physician.

INTJ: Original, innovative, independent, skeptical, competent, driven.

Jobs: Accountant, Analyst, Statistician/Mathematician, Editor, Photographer, Technical Writer, Professor, Construction Manager.

In Closing

Plenty of free resources can “test” your personality type. If you feel that understanding your MBTI will help you in any way, please see the reference section immediately following this article.

We hope this information was fun and potentially useful! Cheers to your unique persona!

25 Weight Loss Habits of Healthy People

Suppose, for the first time, you wanted to look into a weight loss (diet) program to be healthy again. You hop on Google, type in “weight loss program” and hit ‘Search.” Immediately, you’re on sensory overload as you attempt to decide which on what link to click. (Heaven forbid you type in “easy/quick/fast weight loss.”)

The ability to lose (and gain) weight is determined by many factors:  genetics, hormones, metabolism, diet, environment (work/life, etc.), emotional state, active/sedentary lifestyle, etc.

Despite all of the information available out there, it can still be difficult to understand – much less “sign up”– for any weight loss “program” or “lifestyle.” There’s always some profit-driven company looking to sell you some B.S. product or program which, more often than not, is devoid of scientific rationale.

Individuals who are successful in their weight loss efforts (i.e. losing and maintaining a healthy weight) recognize two essential things. (1) Approaching the process of losing weight with a definite start/end date rarely works, and (2) the best “diet” program is one that fits your body, lifestyle, and tastes.

In other words: what works for you?

Answering this question is not always easy. So, we’ve taken it upon ourselves to devise a list of scientifically valid methods of weight loss from various sources – including doctors, dietitians, nutritionists, and people who’ve been successful.

Here are 25 things healthy people do to lose weight:

“Weight loss can change your whole character. That always amazed me: Shedding pounds does change your personality. It changes your philosophy of life because you recognize that you are capable of using your mind to change your body.” Jean Nidetch

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1. Believe in eating a healthy breakfast

Various studies show that individuals who skip breakfast tend to be heavier than those who eat “the most important meal of the day.” Whole-grain toast, eggs, oatmeal, yogurt are all quick and healthy choices.

2. Serve from the stove

After the meal is prepared, leave the serving dishes on the stove as opposed to a table. Research shows people eat 10 percent less.

3. Single-serve

When eating on the go, put your snacks into single-serving baggies. This simple practice will help keep you from overindulging.

4. Protein. Every meal.

Losing weight can be arduous on your muscles. Consuming protein during every meal helps to maintain muscle mass. Leucine is the amino acid responsible for this protective effect.

5. Get a healthy dose of calcium

Calcium intake is one of the most overlooked aspects of losing weight. Research demonstrates that consuming three servings per day of calcium-rich foods can increase the rate of weight loss 50 to 70 percent!

6. Exercise

Knew this was coming, didn’t ya? Though weight loss is mostly about diet, exercise plays a vital role too. A regimen that mixes cardio with weight training is best.

7. Keep a journal

WebMD lists maintaining a record of your food intake as one of the best habits for weight loss. Aside from food, it’s also recommended to write down your daily physical activity, emotional triggers and habits that lead to inactivity and overeating.

8. Eat often

Skipping meals means lack of nutrition – a big no-no when trying to lose weight. Eating every 4-5 hours helps manage your appetite and ward off cravings.

9. Slow and steady

The research is in: binge dieting hardly ever works. The healthier, more sustainable weight loss rate is 1-2 pounds weekly; which also helps ensure you’re losing real fat, not muscle or water weight.

10. Have a support system

According to a study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association, people successful at losing weight have a workout buddy and a supportive circle of friends and family.

11. Reward yourself (without food)

Incentives are a powerful thing when losing weight. Write down weight loss goals in 5-10 pound increments – and then reward yourself with an activity you enjoy.

12. Buy a “future outfit”

Buy an outfit for your ideal size and hang it somewhere. This visual cue will help keep you motivated.

13. Feed the family healthy foods

If your partner/spouse or kids like to indulge, try buying snacks they like that you don’t.

14. Clench your fists

This one’s strange, but useful: studies show that clenching your fists for 30 seconds helps with impulse control.

15. Try some turkey

After the occasional “sweet treat,” eat a piece of deli-sliced turkey to keep from overindulging.

16. Set realistic goals

Instead of having a goal to “lose 20 pounds,” write the numbers 1-20 in a journal. After losing a pound, cross a number off and congratulate yourself!

17. Use a smaller plate

Forget about those large dinner plates. Get a set of smaller dishes and use them at each meal.

18. Eat that soup

According to researchers from Penn State University, you’ll consume 20 percent fewer calories by eating a bowl of healthy, low-calorie soup beforehand.

19. Oil up your bread

If you refuse to give up the occasional bread, we don’t blame you. Try this, though: use olive oil instead of butter. You’ll eat 20 percent less and consume 13 percent fewer calories.

20. Cut back on the meat

Lisa McRee, a former Good Morning America co-host who lost 30 pounds, has this advice: “Eat at least 80 percent things that grow and no more than 20 percent things that walk.” Makes sense.

21. Pump up the jams

Working out while listening to your favorite tunes will increase the tempo (thus intensity) of each workout.

22. Distractions are good

Well, they’re good when experiencing food cravings – which usually pass in a matter of minutes. During this time, distract yourself by reading, meditating, or going for a brisk walk.

 

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23. Get in a healthy amount of fiber

Fiber helps normalize blood sugar levels, making it far less likely you’ll reach for some sugar-laden treat.

24. Deep breathing

Become familiar with and practice the art of deep breathing. Inhale through your nose to a count of four, hold for a count of five, and slowly exhale. Repeat this a few times when experiencing cravings or stress.

25. Shop outside the aisles

A simple “dieting” rule that’s been around for a while. Go around the aisles, not through them.

10 Signs Someone is Not An Authentic Person

We value authenticity in today’s society, and for excellent reason. When someone is not authentic, they betray themselves and others and are not afraid to show their vulnerabilities or flaws. However, not everyone is as genuine as they may seem. In fact, some people are skilled at masking their true intentions or putting up a facade. Spotting the signs of an inauthentic person can be crucial in avoiding potential pitfalls or forming meaningful relationships.

The High Value of an Authentic Person

First and foremost, being around authentic people can provide a sense of safety and security. When you are with someone genuine and sincere, you are more likely to feel comfortable and at ease, knowing that they have your best interests at heart. Authentic people are less likely to be judgmental or critical and more likely to offer a kind, listening ear or a shoulder to lean on. This kindness can help create a supportive environment that encourages growth and healing.

Furthermore, being around authentic people can inspire you to be your best self. Seeing others living authentically and pursuing their passions can motivate you to do the same. Authentic people often lead by example, showing that it is possible to live a fulfilling life by being true to yourself. An authentic person can help you discover your values and goals and confidently pursue them.

Surrounding yourself with authentic people can lead to deeper, more meaningful relationships. When people are authentic, they are more likely to be vulnerable and open, which can foster deeper connections and a sense of intimacy. Authentic people are also more likely to communicate honestly and respectfully, which can help build trust and respect in a relationship.

10 Signs Someone is Not An Authentic Person

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

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1. Inauthentic people are people-pleasers

Inauthentic people may be people-pleasers for a variety of reasons. They may need to be liked or accepted by others and go to great lengths to avoid conflict or discomfort. Inauthentic people may also be more focused on external validation and on meeting the expectations of others, rather than on their own needs or desires. As a result, they may be more inclined to put the needs and desires of others before their own, even if it means compromising their authenticity or values. Inauthentic people-pleasers may also struggle to say no or set boundaries, which can lead to resentment or frustration.

2. Inauthentic people have their agenda

They may be motivated by personal gains, such as financial or personal advancement. They may also be motivated by a desire to manipulate or control others, or to further their beliefs or ideologies. Inauthentic people may use manipulation and deception in order to achieve their goals, and they may be willing to bend or distort the truth to do so. It is essential to be aware of these agendas and to be cautious of people who may be motivated by their interests rather than the interests of others.

3. Inauthentic people manipulate the truth

Inauthentic people can manipulate the truth in various ways, including omitting critical information, lying by omission, spinning, gaslighting, and presenting false or misleading information. They may also use tactics such as false equivalences to present two things as if they are equivalent or equally valid, when in fact they are not. Inauthentic people may use these tactics to deceive or mislead others or to further their agendas.

4. Inauthentic people are misinformed

Inauthentic people can be misinformed in a variety of ways. They may rely on unreliable sources of information, such as rumors or conspiracy theories, rather than seeking out reliable and well-verified sources. They may also be susceptible to confirmation bias, where they only seek information supporting their preexisting beliefs or biases. Inauthentic people may also be more likely to fall victim to propaganda or manipulation by others who seek to deceive them. Additionally, inauthentic people may be more prone to cognitive biases and logical fallacies, which can lead them to draw incorrect conclusions from their information.

5. Inauthentic people are irresponsible

Inauthentic people may be irresponsible for a variety of reasons. They may be more focused on their desires and goals and less considerate of their actions’ impact on others. Inauthentic people may struggle to follow through on their commitments or take responsibility for their mistakes, as they may be more focused on avoiding discomfort or conflict. Additionally, inauthentic people may be more prone to making impulsive or irresponsible decisions, as they may be less inclined to think things through or to consider the consequences of their actions.

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6. Inauthentic people are envious

Authentic people are encouragers – they motivate and support others to do their best and to “keep going.” One big failing of our society is the lack of individual accountability. Responsibility for oneself and the encouragement of others is critical if we are to evolve as a race and society. On the other hand, an authentic person does not need the approval of random masses on social media.

7. Inauthentic people are materialistic

Materialism refers to the belief that material possessions or wealth are essential values in life. Some inauthentic people may be materialistic because they value accumulating wealth or acquiring material possessions. They find motivation in the status or power of these things. Thus, they’re often willing to manipulate or deceive others to acquire them. Inauthentic and materialistic people may be more concerned with appearance and surface-level appearances than genuine connections or authentic relationships. However, it is vital to note that not all inauthentic people are materialistic and that many other motivations can drive inauthentic behavior.

8. Inauthentic people lack empathy

Inauthentic people may lack empathy due to self-absorption. They lack genuine connection with others. They’ll often have a limited understanding of other people’s feelings and experiences and insincerity in their interactions. These factors can make it difficult for inauthentic people to understand and connect with the emotions of others. That later leads to a lack of empathy. However, it is important to note that not all inauthentic people lack empathy and that many other factors can influence a person’s level of empathy.

9. Inauthentic people are closed minded

Inauthentic people may be closed-minded for a variety of reasons. They may resist new ideas or ways of thinking and may be unwilling to consider alternative viewpoints or perspectives. This closed-mindedness may be due to a lack of curiosity or a desire to hold onto preexisting beliefs and biases. Inauthentic people may also be more prone to confirmation bias, where they only seek information supporting their preexisting beliefs and ignore or dismiss information that challenges them. This closed-mindedness may also be due to a fear of change or uncertainty, as inauthentic people may be more comfortable with the familiar and known.

10. Inauthentic people forgo self-improvement

There are many possible reasons why inauthentic people may forgo self-improvement. These include a lack of awareness, motivation, or introspection. They might also stem from a fear of change or a lack of genuine connection with others. It is important to note that not all inauthentic people forgo self-improvement, and many other factors can influence their willingness to work on self-improvement. Some people may not see the value in self-improvement or may not believe that it is possible to change. Others may be resistant to change or uncertain about how to improve themselves. Some people may also fear failure or vulnerability, making it challenging to work on self-improvement. Additionally, some people may not have the necessary support or resources to work on self-improvement. Others do not have the motivation or discipline to take action.

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Final Thoughts on Breaking Close Ties to Someone Who Is Not an Authentic Person

Many factors can contribute to a person being inauthentic. Some people may be inauthentic as a coping mechanism to avoid difficult emotions or situations. Others may be inauthentic to fit in or to be accepted by a particular group or society. Some people may also be inauthentic to protect themselves or to avoid vulnerability. Inauthenticity can also result from past experiences or traumas that have left a person disconnected from their true self. Additionally, some people may be inauthentic due to societal or cultural expectations. Society encourages them to present a particular image or persona to the world.

Conversely, enjoying the company of an authentic person can bring many benefits to your life. From feeling safe and supported to being inspired to pursue your passions, building deeper relationships, and becoming more authentic, there are countless reasons to seek out and embrace authenticity. So, reflect on the people you surround yourself with. Consider whether they are an authentic person. If not, consider seeking new connections to bring positivity and authenticity to your life.

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