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What Advice Do You Need To Hear, According To Your Zodiac Sign?

There’s no doubt about it – last year was a trying year for many of us. We had to endure financial hardships, relationship troubles, mounting stress, and, in general, simply a collective exhaustion about the current state of affairs globally. We all want change, but until it comes, we all have to work to enjoy our lives the best we can. Fortunately, your zodiac sign can help guide your life path.

So we hope this article will help you this year and put things in perspective for you, according to your zodiac sign. Everyone needs advice sometimes, and we certainly don’t mind giving it when you might need it the most.

What Advice Do You Need To Hear, According To Your Zodiac Sign?

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Aries (March 21st to April 19th)

Don’t make any decisions until you’ve had time to thoroughly think things through. Aries tend to jump the gun in many situations, either out of excitement, frustration, impatience, or all three. However, it does pay off to think about a choice before you act on it, because as we know, every action bears a consequence. Sure, taking risks can result in huge rewards, too, but even risk-takers weigh the pros and cons of their decisions before making them.

Just remember to think about how the decision will affect your life, and if it will benefit it positively, then we say: “Go for it!”

Taurus (April 20th to May 21st)

You might expect others to treat you how you treat them, and that would hold true in a perfect world, but it doesn’t always work that way here. You can give someone your whole heart, only to have it crushed and broken. However, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t love with your entire being, because holding back could mean missing out on your one true love. Love everyone you come across; the right one will never want to throw your love away.

Gemini (May 22nd to June 21st)

While you have a free-spirited aura about you, dear Gemini, you also tend to weigh other people’s opinions too heavily in how you choose to live your life. Remember that only you can decide how you want to live, not others. No one knows but you what truly makes you happy, so always follow your heart, even if other people don’t see your vision. You aren’t here to please others; you’re here to find your route to happiness and success, even if you have to venture into uncharted territory.

Cancer (June 22nd to July 22nd)

As a fellow Cancer writing this article, I completely relate to the complex mind and heart of the crab. I know living in these times here on Earth can feel suffocating and exhausting, but we must rise with the tides and learn to brave the impending storms. This zodiac signs shows that we cannot blame others or force them to see things our way. Indeed, we must own our responsibilities and weaknesses, and learn to fend for ourselves. We also have to look at our strengths, and see how they can help us navigate turbulent seas. Use your sensitivity as a strength, because the world desperately needs our compassionate hearts right now.

Leo (July 23rd to August 22nd)

Those under the Leo zodiac sign tend to compare their lives to others, or wish their life looked a little different. However, this does nothing but allow depression to set in, and sucks the joy right out from under you. Learn to love your life now, and improve upon it as you go. Set goals and go after them, because complaining about your life won’t get you anywhere. Use your confident, cheerful attitude to your advantage, and do whatever your heart guides you to. Water your own grass, and don’t worry about how it looks on the other side of the fence.

Virgo (August 23rd to September 22nd)

Virgo, you tend to put people on a pedestal quite easily, and can fall victim to their mind games. You have a big heart, but don’t let people take advantage of that. Remember to set boundaries, and if someone can’t respect them, then show them the door. You deserve the best, so don’t settle for less than that.

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Libra (September 23rd to October 22nd)

Libra, you can flit from one thing to another quite quickly, as your mind feels like an Energizer bunny running at full speed constantly. Give your mind a rest, and learn to enjoy the silence for a bit. Go deep within yourself this year to figure out what you really want to do with your life, and how you can make a living out of it. You may not enjoy conventional jobs as much, so let your entrepreneurial mindset take over in 2017. The effort you put in now will certainly show later on.

Scorpio (October 23rd to November 22nd)

Scorpio, you have innate creativity about you that can take you far in life. However, you sometimes wait around for other people’s approval instead of just forging ahead and trusting your own instincts and what makes you happy. Remember, you don’t need permission to be awesome, so just go ahead and light the world on fire with your brazen spirit, and the rest will fall into place naturally.

Sagittarius (November 23rd to December 21st)

Sagittarius, you have an adventurous, infectious personality, but you can get hot-headed pretty easily when things don’t go your way. Your zodiac sign reminds you to just go with the flow, and use the roadblocks as an opportunity to take a detour and enjoy the view from a new path. It isn’t always the situation, but how you react to it that can really make or break you.

Capricorn (December 22nd to January 20th)

Capricorn, you have an amazing work ethic, but you can get burnt out if you don’t learn to slow down and take time out for yourself. You don’t have to rush to accomplish your goals; in fact, you can enjoy that victory a lot more once you stop to smell the roses and treat life as an adventure rather than a race.

Aquarius (January 21st to February 18th)

Aquarius, you love to live in the clouds and daydream to your heart’s content, but unfortunately, you have to come back down to reality sometimes and deal with real life issues. You can get what you want in life, but you have to learn to deal with the less fun “adult” problems while still striving toward your dreams.

Pisces (February 19th to March 20th)

Pisces, you have an amazing sense of intuition, so why don’t you listen to it more often? If something doesn’t feel right in your gut, then make sure you listen to your instincts. The longer you ignore them, the worse the problem or situation will become, your zodiac sign warns.

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15 Good Ideas For A Bad Day

“Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present.” – Jim Rohn

Not one of us is immune to the occasional bad day; it happens, it sucks, now what?

While we may not be responsible for everything that contributes to a bad day; it is our responsibility to control what can be controlled. At any point, we can decide to do something different and make each day better. Too many people nowadays cede their inner happiness to outside influences – at work, home or elsewhere; but happiness is not determined by our environment unless we allow it to be.

Miyamoto Musashi, widely considered to be among the best warriors of all time, once said: “There is nothing outside of yourself that can ever enable you to get better, stronger, richer, quicker, or smarter. Everything is within. Everything exists. Seek nothing outside of yourself.”

The purpose of this article isn’t to dwell on the philosophies of happiness or lack thereof. In retrospect, citing the master swordsman and philosopher Musashi may have been aiming a bit high (sorry!) It is a great quote, though, isn’t it?

Anyways, we’re simply going to list 15 things that we can do to make each day better. It is our sincere hope that, by implementing one or more of these, that you have a better today, tomorrow, and future.

15 Good Ideas For A Bad Day

1. Breathe mindfully

Breathing is life, and life is breathing – an all-important facet in today’s crazy world.

Modern society embraces “the rush” of consumption, competition, improvement, 24/7 news…constant activity, in other words. We don’t necessarily “want” culture to influence how we behave, and we don’t have to.

Solely taking 5 deep, mindful breaths relaxes our body and mind; taking us away from the circus for a bit.

2. Drink plenty of water

Can you survive on one or two glasses of water a day? Sure. Is it a good idea? Absolutely not. Drinking at least 8 to 10 glasses of water daily is a natural elixir to both mind and body.

Make a habit of carrying a full water bottle everywhere you go. You’ll discover that maintaining proper hydration may just be enough to turn a bad day into a good one.

3. Make your bed

Admittedly, there is nothing fun about making your bed; so why do we include this monotonous activity? Because mindfully making your bed a daily habit provides a sense of accomplishment. Small victories matter in maintaining a positive outlook throughout the day (more on this later.)

4. Take a shower

Or, if you’re pressed for time, splash some cold water on your face. Both have a way of rejuvenating a lethargic body and mind. For added benefit, take a shower or wash your face with mindfulness (unwavering attention).

5. Get outside

Research has shown that immersing yourself in nature is one of the most powerful stress relievers there is. For one, the body is exposed to sunlight which can naturally replenish energy reserves. Also, you’ll be getting a bit of exercise; this will provide some needed oxygen and blood flow to the brain and body.

6. Get a snack (no junk food)

Consuming a natural, well-balanced diet is key to maintaining a healthy mind and body. When our blood sugar levels drop, we’ll inevitably feel sluggish and irritable. While it may be tempting to reach for some candy, snacking on healthier alternatives – nuts, dried fruit, or seeds – provides vital nourishment that sugar-laden snacks do not.

7. Change your environment

Today’s office environment can be depressing and stifling. If you have the option of taking some of your work elsewhere, take advantage. If not, use your break and lunch times to get away.

8. Listen to some upbeat music

Music has a wonderful way of instantly changing our mindset to a more positive one. There is a physiological reason for this; the brain releases “feel good” chemicals called endorphins when exposed to the music we enjoy.

An Oxford University professor explains: “Psychologically, endorphin release is experienced as a mild opiate ‘high,’ a corresponding feeling of well-being, and light analgesia.”

9. Accomplish something small

Upon awakening, it is not unusual to run a “to-do” list through our head before we even get out the door; this can quickly manifest into a sense of overwhelm.

One way to circumvent this response is to accomplish some small task with our full attention. This can be packing your kid’s lunch, brushing your teeth, shaving, driving to work, and so forth. This prepares the brain for more challenging things ahead – and with a more optimistic mindset.

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10. Get some exercise!

Exercise can be a brisk 10-minute walk in the morning or a full-fledged workout. We needn’t rehash the abundance of research proving the benefits of exercise. Suffice to say that little else, if anything, is better for health and promoting a positive frame of mind.

11. Watch or look at something cute/funny

Similar to exercising and listening to music, laughter and joy causes our brain to release feel-good hormones. Watch some short YouTube clip that gets you rolling, or find some cute pictures of dogs on your phone.

12. Write down your thoughts

Writing down our thoughts serves as a “release.” Instead of compartmentalizing and revisiting the same thoughts (a lovely trait of the brain), writing things down – or better yet, keeping a journal – allows us to organize our many thoughts and release the stress that often accompanies them.

13. Get to bed!

Having and keeping a consistent, healthy sleep schedule does more than ensure a good night’s rest. Research has shown that quality, routine sleep improves concentration and memory; mood and energy levels, and helps maintain a healthy weight.

14. Exercise your mind

If you’re like everyone else, you have to work for a living. Work can be monotonous, boring, and downright stressful. Too often, our brain development stagnates as a result.

Related article: 5 Ways to Get Out of A Bad Mood In Less Than 5 Minutes

Do something you’ve always wanted that requires an active mind: learn a foreign language, take up an instrument, do a crossword puzzle, download a “brain training” app, learn how to draw…the opportunities are endless.

Your brain will sharpen; your confidence will increase, and you’ll be anxious to tackle the challenges in days to come!

15. Be mindful

We touched on this a bit earlier, but mindfulness can completely change your outlook and your life.

Jon Kabat-Zinn, the founder of Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), explains: “Mindfulness is awareness that arises through paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, non-judgmentally. It’s about knowing what is in your mind.”

The key phrase: non-judgmentally. Not allowing negative thoughts to derail your happiness; and promoting feelings of relaxation, positive affect, and happiness.

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Resources:
Douglas, S. (2013, January 15). Study: Performing Music Gets Us High. Retrieved March 21, 2017, from https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/01/study-performing-music-gets-us-high/267138/
Foundation for a Mindful Society. (2015). Jon Kabat-Zinn: Defining Mindfulness. Retrieved March 21, 2017, from http://www.mindful.org/jon-kabat-zinn-defining-mindfulness/
Main, E. (2012, March 9). The Natural Way To Calm Down. Retrieved March 21, 2017, from http://www.prevention.com/mind-body/emotional-health/spending-time-outside-relieves-stress
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10 Smart Ways To Respond To A Negative Person

Negative people are similar to black holes in outer space – appearing from nowhere while attempting to engulf everything else around them. Negative as a person they may be, it is paramount – if not only for our own health and sanity – to resolve the situation in an intelligent and healthy way.

First, it may be helpful to understand what constitutes a potentially negative person. Negative people have a way of draining energy from others around them. They’ll cause demean, attack, and defame you. They will make you feel unsafe, on guard, or tense; they’ll send negative energy through an unwanted vibe, or just flat-out dehumanize you. For some reason, if they cannot “reach you,” they’ll attack someone or something else you care about.

So, how can you appropriately handle such people while still respecting their humanity? It’s certainly not easy, as the negative among us would enjoy nothing more than to witness an emotional outburst of frustration and discontent. The problem is that by engaging in the behavior mentioned earlier, you simply feed their motivation.

In good conscience, we cannot (and should not) pretend to have the ultimate solution as it pertains to negativity in our lives. There are, however, ways that you can (constructively) handle negative people and their shenanigans without inflicting any type of self-harm.

Here are 10 ways of dealing with negative people:

“Don’t destroy yourself by allowing negative people to add gibberish and debris to your character, reputation, and aspirations. Keep all dreams live but discreet, so that those with unhealthy tongues won’t have any other option than to infest themselves with their own diseases.” – Michael Bassey Johnson, The Infinity Sign

1. Don’t take things personally

To not “take things personally” is much easier said than done. Some negative people after all will – at times – concentrate all of the vitriolic behavior onto you.

The problem with taking things personally with a negative person is that it doesn’t lead anywhere. The only possible outcome is a perceived “victory,” that they’ve managed to “hook” you.

2. Do not rationalize their behavior.

Many people do not like conflict; this is something known as conflict avoidance. As such, people on the receiving end of negative behavior will attempt to reason with a negative person. It’s important to remember that many negative people do not want to be “reasoned with.”

They may need a compassionate ear at some point or another, but they’ll most likely make such motives known in a more constructive manner.

3. Let them hear you

Not every negative person intentionally acts negatively. For whatever reason, they’ve simply adopted a pessimistic mindset. That said, when negative behavior repeatedly surfaces, it is time to make your voice heard.

Sometimes, those that are acting negatively without thought will perceive your forthrightness as something not to be trifled with.

4. Be compassionate

As mentioned, not everyone who behaves negatively intends to do so. When we consciously attribute their negative acts to potentially extenuating circumstances (personal problems, work-related stress, finances, etc.), it’s easier to see their behavior for what it truly is – an act of desperation and impulsiveness.

5. Separate yourself if needed

Being exposed to negative behavior on a frequent basis can be mentally and physically exhausting. We’ll instinctively know when a person is pushing us past comfort zone. It is at this point that it’s necessary to get away, if possible. We all have our limits; it’s nothing to be ashamed of or ignore.

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6. Smile

Sometimes a negative person’s perception of the world around them is skewed. This can be attributed to anything, from childhood experiences to their experiences at home or work. The simple act of smiling and maintaining a positive disposition may be enough to challenge these perceptions indirectly.

7. Be mature

When a negative person presents themselves as a challenge or threat, it is far too easy to “stoop” to childish behavior such as being impulsive or insulting. In a way, this is a natural response, as no one appreciates being in the company of someone with a negative outlook; however, it is counterproductive, and only enables their (sometimes) immature mindset.

8. Do not judge or assume

The truth is that we all develop differently, and negative people are sometimes given the short end of the stick. Being judgmental or assumptive is evident through both verbal and non-verbal cues; it is important to personally refrain from these signals, no matter how tempting, when trying to resolve the situation posed by the negative person.

9. Set positive boundaries

We all heard the adage a million times: “control what you can control.”

Indeed, establishing and maintaining an environment of positivity often leads to one of two results: (1) it protects you from their negativity, or (2) helps them feel – and possibly act – in a more positive manner. Either way, either you create a positive impact.

10. Maintain a realistic POV

As compassionate and caring people, we’ll often try our best to accommodate and influence others that hold a more pessimistic, negative frame of mind. It is important to remember, however, that your healthy outlook empowers you to help others. As such, in the event that a negative person is trespassing and violating your positive frame of mind, it may be necessary to end ties.

While such a recommendation may seem harsh, it is important to understand that many others will come along that may need your help. You cannot (and should not) allow the unfavorable influences of one person to compromise this.

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5 Warning Signs Someone Has Dementia

Like most illnesses severely affecting cognitive functioning, dementia is a tragic, gut-wrenching condition. This article will discuss what dementia is (and is not), some warning signs, and treatment methods.

“Can I remember exactly when I ‘lost’ my husband? Was it the moment when I had to start tying his shoelaces for him? Or when we stopped being able to laugh with each other? Looking back, that turning point is impossible to pinpoint. But then, that’s the nature of dementia.” – Judy Parfitt, English Actress.

What is dementia?

Per the Alzheimer’s Organization, dementia is “a general term for a decline in mental ability severe enough to interfere with daily life.” Loss of memory and Alzheimer’s – the most common form of dementia – are two examples. Dementia is, generally, a gradual decline in memory, thinking, and reasoning skills.

Dementia itself is not a specific disease. Instead, the term applies to several symptoms indicating a severe cognitive disorder. Due to the disorder’s complex nature, Dementia can only be diagnosed by a licensed medical doctor (usually a neurologist).

Types of Dementia

This broad term covers several specific diseases, including these.

Alzheimer’s disease

alzheimers disease and dementiaAlzheimer’s is a progressive brain disease that erodes memory and thinking ability. Doctors aren’t sure what causes Alzheimer’s disease, but they think it is related to three things that can happen as you get older.

  • Inflammation of the brain
  • Oxidation stress in the brain
  • Build up of toxic proteins (called beta-amyloid or tau)

Over time, your brain cell connections can degenerate, eventually dying and destroying all or most of your mental functions. Currently, there’s no cure for Alzheimer’s, but there are medications and strategies to help improve the individual’s lifestyle. Alzheimer’s disease is considered the 3rd leading cause of death in the United States for older people.

Symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease

  • Memory problems-One of the first symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease is often a loss of memory. Forgetting where you are, confusion over rooms in your house, or forgetting names and faces.
  • Poor brain function-Trouble doing regular problem-solving activities like paying bills, driving a car, or cooking.
  • Lack of smell-Problems smelling some things can be a symptom of Alzheimer’s disease.

Vascular dementia

The second-leading cause of dementia is called Vascular dementia – a form of dementia resulting from a stroke.

Vascular disease causes brain function problems and dementia. This can be due to a stroke or brain-damaged blood vessels. These conditions can cause memory and thinking problems. There are two kinds of vascular dementia:

  • Vascular dementia
  • Vascular cognitive impairment

Other contributing factors to vascular dementia include

  • Atrial fibrillation
  • High blood pressure
  • Diabetes
  • High cholesterol

Symptoms of vascular dementia

The symptoms may show up suddenly. If you have symptoms of VCID, talk with your doctor right away. They can do an MRI to see what’s going on in your brain, especially if you’ve suffered a stroke.

Lewy body dementia

Lewy body dementia is a brain disease where a high amount of protein is deposited in your brain. These protein deposits, or Lewy bodies, change the chemicals in your brain, leading to thinking, behavior, and moving problems. Lewy body dementia is a common type of dementia.

Symptoms

Symptoms vary from person to person. Movement problems, insomnia, and behavior are often the first symptoms. Others include

  • Lack of ability to think and do regular life activities
  • Lack of focus
  • Change in mood, poor judgment, confusion, and a hard time with speaking
  • Staring, lethargic, and fatigue
  • Hallucinations-This happens in 80% of the cases of Lewy body patients.
  • Disorganized ideas, hearing noises that aren’t there. May feel frightened easily.

Behavior changes in Lewy body dementia may include

  • Depression
  • Apathy
  • Anxiety
  • Agitation
  • Delusions
  • Paranoia

dancingHow does a doctor diagnose dementia?

Dementia needs to be diagnosed as early as possible. Sometimes this is impossible, and the diagnosis isn’t confirmed until after the person has passed away. But if you or someone close to you has symptoms, speak with a doctor. They can do tests to confirm a diagnosis of dementia. The tests include

  • Your medical history: The doctor will want to know about your personal and family medical history. The physician will also ask if dementia runs in the family. They’ll also ask you about your symptoms, when they started, and how you feel. Finally, they will ask you about any medications you currently take and let you know if they could contribute to your symptoms.
  • Your physical exam: They will measure your cholesterol, your blood pressure, and weight.
  • Your neurological tests will check your balance, reflexes, and sensory responses.

As mentioned, Alzheimer’s disease is the most common form of dementia, accounting for 60 to 80 percent of all cases. Alzheimer’s is a fatal disorder that neutralizes brain cells and cognitive functionality. Sadly, individuals with this disease often notice the changes in themselves; this makes it difficult to articulate what they’re experiencing to friends, family, and others.

What dementia is NOT

As mentioned, dementia is a complex medical condition, yet, ignorance has led people to believe that it is strictly age-related – it is not. Per the Alzheimer’s organization:

Dementia is often incorrectly referred to as “senility” or “senile dementia,” reflecting the formerly widespread but incorrect belief that serious mental decline is a normal part of aging. Changes to memory often (not constantly) occurs as one age.

The primary difference between any “age-related” memory problems and dementia is the degree to which daily life is impacted. Everyone forgets something at some time or another or experiences acute bouts of ‘brain fog.’ Many people have memory issues and trouble with thinking clearly- this does not mean that they have dementia.

Given the intricacy of the topic, we advise anyone who is or knows someone experiencing cognitive problems to seek medical advice.

Who is at risk of getting dementia?

These things increase your chances of getting dementia.

  • Your age: This is the biggest risk of dementia is aging.
  • High blood pressure: An elevated blood pressure is bad for your cognitive function. It can damage your blood vessels and cause atherosclerosis.
  • Stroke: A stroke damages your vascular system. Once you’ve had a stroke, there’s an increased chance that you’ll have another one.
  • Alcohol: Drinking high amounts of alcohol increases your chances of getting dementia.
  • High cholesterol: Too much fat or cholesterol in your arteries causes the thickening of your arteries’ walls so the blood can’t properly flow to your brain and heart. This raises your chances of vascular dementia.
  • Diabetes: People with diabetes are at a higher risk of getting dementia. Diabetes puts you at risk for stroke or heart disease, which can lead to vascular disease.
  • Down’s syndrome: This syndrome with down syndrome is more apt to get Alzheimer’s disease often in middle age.
  • Genes: The chance of getting dementia increases if more than one family member has dementia.
  • Head injury: Getting a traumatic head injury makes you more susceptible to getting dementia.
  • Parkinson’s disease: Parkinson’s disease causes degeneration of nerve cells, leading to dementia and memory loss.
  • Smoking: Smoking narrows your blood vessels, preventing proper blood flow to your brain or heart.

Here are five potential signs of dementia:

According to the Alzheimer’s Association, the following red flags are early indicators of cognitive decline:

1. Difficulty Planning or Solving Problems

Some people with dementia experience sudden changes in their capacity to develop and follow a plan. Once simple tasks, such as keeping track of bank balances or following a recipe, become much more complicated. It’s also common during the onset of dementia to experience increased problems with concentration.

 2. Trouble With Once-familiar Tasks

One of the more visible signs of dementia is a decreased ability to complete routine tasks. Perhaps the person cannot navigate a familiar route or forgets about how to play a favorite game. Executing something habitual is a deeply engrained neuronal activity; one can be completed “without thinking.” Any noticeable changes in someone’s ability to complete a common task require attention.

 3. New Problems When Communicating

People with dementia often have problems following a conversation. They may cease interacting, forget about something they said (perhaps repeat themselves), or have no idea how to proceed. Vocabulary challenges, such as the inability to find the correct word, are also common.

 4. Withdrawal From Social or Work Activities

When a person begins to experience the cognitive challenges that dementia brings, they may start to remove themselves from work or social activities. This withdrawal may be due to personality changes, fearfulness, or denial. Regardless of the rationale, some people living with dementia become progressively distant.

 5. Memory Loss Disruptive to Daily Life

Again, the key phrase is “disruptive to daily life.” Memory lapses happen to all of us, but rarely – if ever – do such lapses significantly handicap our day. During the early stages of dementia, forgetting recently learned information is one of the universal signs of the underlying condition. Other notable signs of severe memory problems:

  • forgetting important dates or events
  • repeatedly asking for the same information already given
  • an increasing reliance on memory aids
  • an increasing reliance on others to remember something

Healthy habits to preserve your memory

Recent studies suggest that these things can help you lower your risk of getting dementia.

  • Diet-Doctors suggest eating a Mediterranean diet.
  • Exercise-choose aerobic exercises that get your blood flowing.
  • Brain exercises
  • Lowering blood pressure
  • Lowering cholesterol

You can’t change the genes you inherited from your parents, but you can choose a lifestyle to help fight off dementia.

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Here are some easy tips to help improve your memory.

Healthy lifestyle to prevent dementia

Here are some actionable lifestyle changes to help keep your brain at peak performance.

Eat a Mediterranean diet.

Doctors recommend eating a healthy Mediterranean diet. Here is a list of healthy foods you can eat on this diet.

Eat these foods in abundance:

  • Vegetables
  • Fruits
  • Nuts and seeds
  • Whole grains
  • Seafood and fish
  • Olive oil
  • Herbs and spices

Eat these foods in moderation.

  • Chicken
  • Eggs
  • Yogurt
  • Cheese

Rarely eat

Red meat

Never eat

Sugar, processed meats, refined oils, or processed foods.

Exercise

You can do many exercises to keep your body and brain healthy.

  • Cardio exercises like walking, swimming, jumping jacks, or biking all get your heart pumping.
  • Strength training helps build strength and muscle mass. Lifting weights can also build your confidence and help prevent bone deterioration, which causes osteoporosis.
  • Dance class- Dance till the stars come out for a healthy heart and brain.

Exercise for your brain

Your brain can grow stale and stagnant, especially as your age. Inspire your brain to newer levels with some of these brain-challenging activities. You don’t need to try all of them at once, but find a couple to enjoy.

  • Learn a new language: Try a new language to keep your brain stimulated. Try using an app to learn a new language. Many are free or not too expensive and do an excellent job helping you learn.
  • Learn to play an instrument: Pick up the instrument you played when you were young, or try your hand at a new one. Take a class or find some teaching videos online.
  • Jigsaw puzzles: Your grandma knew what she was doing, always leaving a jigsaw puzzle out. Find an exciting puzzle and challenge your family to finish it.
  • Card games: Cards games are fun and fast. Learn new games or try old faithful ones like “Go Fish, War or Crazy Eights.”
  • Teach someone: Teaching stimulates your brain and helps it stay fresh.
  • Break up your routines: Break out of your routine by trying a new route to work or using your left hand instead of your right to wash dishes. Changing up your routine can stimulate your brain.
  • Tai chi: Martial arts help you gain strength and help you find a sense of peace and calm, which lowers stress that can contribute to dementia.

dementiaFinal Thoughts on the Reality of Dealing with Dementia

There is no known cure for Alzheimer’s or any of the most progressive dementias. Drug treatments may help relieve some symptoms, and there is social support for dementia patients and their families. You might eventually have no alternative but assisted living with memory care for your aging parents or loved ones.

Every year In the United States, nearly 500,000 new cases of Alzheimer’s disease are diagnosed. Because there is currently no cure for any type of dementia, you must make healthy lifestyle choices. Choosing to eat a healthy Mediterranean-style diet, exercising, and finding ways to stimulate your brain are simple but effective lifestyle choices you can make to prevent dementia from entering your future.

8 Ways Your Body Changes When You Fall In Love

During our first childhood “crush,” we all experienced butterflies in the stomach, nervousness, and a racing heartbeat. We were infatuated and couldn’t take our eyes off of the object of our budding love.

Does anyone else remember anxiously awaiting the recess bell so we could see them on the playground? Or hoping that the teacher assigned you a desk right next to theirs? Indeed, chemical reactions were taking place in our young brain and body, giving us our first (albeit immature) taste of love.

Truly, a fascinating chain of chemical reactions occurs when we’re head over heels. From the relationship’s beginning to first climbing under the sheets, and finally saying those “three words,” here’s what goes on as your body falls in love.

What happens to your body when you fall in love

“Nothing is sweeter than love; all other bliss comes second. And compared to it, even honest it too hotter to hold in my mouth.” – Nossis

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#1 You feel “addicted” when you fall in love

Falling in love, and its effects on the body, are strikingly similar to being addicted to drugs. Chemicals that cause a euphoric high – adrenaline, dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin, are all released at some point during intimacy. Dopamine is the brain’s pleasure chemical and is what causes feelings of elation and energy around our loved one.

Helen E. Fisher, a biological anthropologist at Rutgers University, states “Romantic love is an addiction. It’s a very powerfully wonderful addiction when things are going well.” Functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) scans of the brain in love strongly resemble those experiencing a high.

Lovers are also like drugs, in the sense that the more time you spend with them, the more hooked you become.

#2 Love lowers your inhibitions (“feeling drunk”)

Just as having one too many cocktails lowers anxiety, fear, and inhibition – and makes you more boastful and confident – the “love drug” oxytocin produces the same effect. Researchers at the University of Birmingham observed the effects of alcohol and oxytocin on the brain, and though they impact different parts of the brain, the effects are very similar.

#3 Your pupils dilate when you experience love

When you feel strongly attracted to someone, no matter the time or place, a reaction occurs within the brain’s sympathetic branch, the SNS. This stimulation causes the pupils of the eyes to dilate (become wider).

Try this out on your date, boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse – it’s fun stuff!

#4 You may experience a flushed face, sweaty palms, or a racing heart

Becoming anxious (sometimes, very anxious) before an important event (e.g. a big date, wedding day) is more than a nervous “twitch.” An influx of the brain chemicals adrenaline and norepinephrine can produce physical sensations, such as craving and desire. Also, your brain will focus intently on the person of affection.

#5 Your stomach may act up

When you really begin to like (perhaps love) someone else, the brain may release the stress hormone cortisol. Cortisol can cause the stomach’s blood vessels to constrict, perhaps leading to feelings of nausea and lack of appetite. This physiological response may explain why many couples don’t eat much on their wedding day.

#6 Love can help you experience “withdrawal symptoms”

Corticoliberin is a peptide hormone released during a stress response. Also known as the “corticotrophin-releasing factor,” separation from our loved one can exacerbate any stress response. The “withdrawal symptoms” of anxiety and depression are similar to those of an addict weaning off a drug.

#7 Pheromones are triggered – and sensed

Pheromones are “smell chemicals” that animals, including humans, excrete and sense. Biologically, this changes the behavior of another animal. In more humanistic, simple terms, we have attuned to our partner’s pheromones, which increases sexual desire.

Dr. Fisher states, “Once you fall for someone, their smell can be a powerful thing. Women will wear their boyfriend’s T-shirts, and throughout tales in history, men have held on to their lover’s handkerchief.”

#8 Our brain changes (and “lights up”)

Fisher’s first groundbreaking study was in 2005 when she analyzed the brain images of individuals in love. A total of 2,500 brain scans were taken. Each participant was shown a picture of their “special someone” and then a picture of an acquaintance. The images revealed drastic differences.

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The first noticeable effect was the flood of “feel-good” dopamine chemicals in certain regions of the brain. Other noticeable differences involved two other areas of the brain: the caudate nucleus and ventral tegmental area. The former is strongly linked with reward detection, and the latter is associated with “pleasure, focused attention, and the motivation to pursue and acquire rewards.”

References:
Deza, D. (2015). How Love Changes Your Body Chemistry. Retrieved from http://www.health.com/health/gallery/0,,20568672,00.html
Tigar, L. (2016, February 12). How your body reacts when you fall in love. Retrieved from http://edition.cnn.com/2016/02/12/health/your-body-on-love/
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11 Proven Ways To Be More Attractive

Attractiveness, beauty, allure . All are things beholden to the subjectivity of the individual. One person may think intelligence is attractive or sexy. Conversely, someone else may not care.

Even others place heavy emphasis on physical features, while some don’t, So the game goes on.

Science, particularly biology, plays a vital role in attraction. Besides that, it determines whether we find someone else attractive. Attraction “cues” may be conscious or subconscious, obvious or obscure. Indeed, psychology is funny that way.

“Beauty is a beautiful trait, which can only be sensed by beautiful people at heart and soul.” – Maria Cluston Cletus

11 methods of attraction, per science and research:

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#1 Forget playing “hard to get”

Men and women may think they’re more attractive by concealing their feelings, motives, etc.; perhaps believing this sleight of hand adds to their mystique. There is some evidence to support this, although a “brain connection” is deemed more important.

In a 2016 study, researchers state:

“Humans interaction with other humans must be able to understand their interaction partner’s affection and motivations, often without words…We found the better a participant thought they could understand another person’s emotion, the more they felt attracted toward that person.”

#2 Red is hot

Science has shown that women who wear red are more attractive to men. Dr. Alec Beall, a psychologist at the University of British Columbia, explains:

“This red-attractiveness link is partially explained by men’s perceptions of implied sexual receptivity among women wearing reddish garb.”

Dr. Beall emphasizes his “red-attractiveness” conclusions by noting the universality of the findings. From tiny villages in the middle of nowhere, to Paris and NYC, red draws the male eye.

#3 Don’t be a stiff

So do you ever wonder why some women love guys like Zach Galifianakis and Will Ferrell? To us guys, they’re both tremendously talented, hilarious characters. To many women, they are also incredibly attractive.

In a study published in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior, the authors explain the differences between the sexes and interpretation of humor:

“Men emphasized the importance of their partners’ receptivity to their own humor, whereas women valued humor production and receptivity equally…Women preferred those who produced humor for all types of relationships.”

#4 Prioritize self-grooming

Nobody wants to get someone who looks like a slob. Doesn’t mean you need the fashion sense of a Valentino or Versace, but some effort is in order.

Science shows that one’s perception of physical attractiveness keenly focuses on “changeable aspects of our self-representation.” In other words, combing or brushing your hair, fit and clean clothing, and a healthy weight.

#5 Lay off the makeup (a bit)

(For this male writer, a woman whose face resembles a birthday cake is appalling. Sorry.)

Anyways, across studies a few interesting discoveries were made about makeup:

– Faces with “natural” makeup are seen favorably, while those wearing excessive makeup were less desirable.

– Most women wear makeup as a confidence-booster (not just for “pleasing” men.)

– Many women overemphasize the importance and impact of wearing makeup.

Advice for women who adore makeup is similar to that of alcohol consumption: “everything in moderation.”

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#6 Go lumberjack

No guys, don’t start flaunting flannel, jean suspenders, and mountain boots.

Grow a beard.

Heterosexuals, knowingly or not, look for the most definitive traits of the opposite sex. For men, nothing is more “definitive” than a (well-groomed!) beard.

Fascinatingly, research demonstrates that beards convey not only masculinity, but health and vigor, parental ability and reproductive vitality.

#7 Show your shape

In fact, many mistakenly believe men are attracted to thinner women. However, this is not true. Research shows that men prefer a body shape with fair curves and hips.

In fashion, InStyle recommends “semifitted styles that softly follow your curves and show of your waistline.” Belted shirtdresses, sheaths, and full skirts fit this description. Classy and sexy fashion, in other words.

#8 Be kind!

Exhibiting kindness is something we should be doing, anyways…

That said, having a kind heart may have a positive effect on your attractiveness. Termed the ‘halo effect,’ physically attractive people are more likely to be associated with benevolent qualities. It wasn’t until recently, however, when scientists discovered the opposite (kind people are more attractive) may be rooted in scientific fact.

According to Dr. Beall: “Mounting evidence suggests that the ‘what is good is beautiful’ stereotype may also hold true.

#9 Get a doggy

As if we needed another reason to love dogs.

However, we must look at these survey results compiled by researchers at the University of Nevada, who studied a dog’s effect on attractiveness and dating:

  • About 50 percent of women judged their date from how the man treated his dog.
  • 35 percent of women were more attracted to a man who owned a pet.
  • 22 percent of (smart) men used their “best friend” to attract a date.

#10 “Watch your tone”

This one is pretty commonsensical: tone of voice impacts attraction levels. Men find women with a higher pitch more appealing; whereas women like a deeper-toned voice.

The rationale behind tone and attraction is also straightforward. Both men and women associate a tone of voice with femininity and masculinity; especially when it comes to body type.

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#11 Smile – or not

In a University of British Columbia study, researchers examined the relationship between expressions of happiness, pride, and shame, and sexual attractiveness.

The study, which consisted of 1,041 participants using “different images and samples” discovered: “a large gender difference…in the sexual attractiveness of happy displays.”

Here are the findings:

  • Happiness (i.e. smiling) was the most attractive female expression. On the other hand, it was the least attractive male expression.
  • Pride was the most attractive male expression. Conversely, it was the least attractive female expression.

“Beauty is a beautiful trait, which can only be sensed by beautiful people at heart and soul.” – Maria Cluston Cletus

References:
Bressler, E. R., Martin, R. A., & Balshine, S. (2006). Production and appreciation of humor as sexually selected traits. Evolution and Human Behavior, 27(2), 121-130. doi:10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2005.09.001
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