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11 Relationship Tricks That Make You Fall In Love Again

All romantic relationships take work to make it last.

Both parties need to keep watering the plant of love on a daily basis; otherwise, that plant will wither and die. Your question is: “How does one maintain and improve the relationship every day?” I thought you would never ask.

11 Tips to Enhance Your Relationship and Fall in Love All Over Again

These are eleven ways to improve your relationship no matter what:

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1. Turn off all phones (or at least keep them on silent with vibrate mode off)

In the realm of human connection, presence is paramount. Every relationship, whether budding or time-tested, thrives when individuals are truly attuned to one another. Consider those moments when you’re engrossed in profound conversation, sharing vulnerabilities, or simply enjoying shared silence. These instances of genuine connection hold immeasurable value. Yet, in our digitally saturated era, distractions are omnipresent. A single ping from a device can fracture a moment, diverting attention and diluting intimacy. It’s not just about etiquette; it’s about fostering depth in our interactions. By consciously minimizing digital intrusions, we prioritize human connection, creating a sanctuary where relationships can flourish. Whether in a tranquil natural setting, a cozy living room, or a bustling cafe, the principle remains: be wholly present and watch your connections deepen and thrive.

2. Going to bed at the same time can boost a relationship

The act of retiring to bed simultaneously is more than just a routine; it’s a symbolic gesture of unity and intimacy. Much like the tenderness of spooning or the vulnerability of post-intimacy conversations, aligning your sleep schedules fosters closeness. Erin Leyba, a contributor to Psychology Today, emphasizes that “when sleep patterns diverge, maintaining a connection becomes challenging.” Beyond the scholarly insights, one must introspect: What activities or habits prevent you from aligning your bedtime with your partner’s? While work obligations like night shifts are unavoidable, other choices, such as late-night television or personal indulgences, can be reconsidered. If circumstances allow, prioritizing shared sleep schedules can greatly enhance relational bonds. Your partner will undoubtedly appreciate the gesture and the shared moments of tranquility it brings.

3. A small gesture telling them you are thinking of them

The power of feeling valued often emerges from the most understated of actions. Realizing that you hold a special place in someone’s mind elevates one’s sense of self-worth and connection. This space offers ample room for creativity and personal touch. A spontaneous message like, “Good morning, dear. Sending a burst of sunshine your way. Cherishing you always,” can be the highlight of their day. Or, the timeless elegance of a handwritten note or card conveys a depth of emotion that words alone might not capture. Such gestures, no matter how small, speak volumes about the depth of your affection and the intention behind your relationship.

4. Trying something new together

Venturing into unfamiliar territories together is a potent way to fortify your relationship. It’s not about seeking extreme adventures or high-stakes endeavors. It could be as intimate as attending a dance class, trying a new cuisine, or picking up a shared hobby. The joy lies in the novelty of the experience and the memories you create together. By immersing yourselves in fresh activities, you not only discover new facets of each other but also strengthen the bond through mutual growth. Remember, every new experience is a chapter added to the unique story of your relationship.

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5. Withhold that criticism within the relationship

Offering feedback within a relationship is an art that demands finesse. Criticism, if not approached with care, can inadvertently erode the foundation of trust and affection. Before articulating your thoughts, pause and reflect on the impact your words might have. It’s essential to communicate in a manner that fosters understanding rather than defensiveness. Instead of direct criticism, consider framing it as a suggestion or alternative perspective. This approach not only promotes growth and understanding within the relationship but also underscores mutual respect for each other’s feelings and viewpoints. Remember, effective communication is less about correcting and more about connecting, ensuring that the warmth and harmony of the relationship remains intact.

6. A little gratitude goes a long way in a relationship

Gratitude, though seemingly simple, carries profound significance in the tapestry of relationships. The words “thank you” are not merely an expression of politeness; they convey acknowledgment, appreciation, and recognition of one’s efforts. Each gesture, act of kindness, or sacrifice made in a relationship is a testament to one’s commitment and care. Failing to acknowledge these efforts can lead to feelings of being undervalued or overlooked. Conversely, consistently expressing gratitude reinforces the bond, creating a positive feedback loop of appreciation and mutual respect. In essence, gratitude is the silent architect of enduring, harmonious relationships.

7. Focus on the positives

In every relationship, there’s a balance of light and shadow. Choosing to amplify the positive moments is pivotal in fostering a nurturing and resilient bond. It’s about consciously spotlighting the affirmative actions and gestures over the occasional missteps. For instance, cherishing thoughtful check-ins during a busy workday, savoring genuine acts of chivalry in everyday interactions, or treasuring surprise gestures at home like an unexpected bouquet. By consistently acknowledging and appreciating these moments, you not only reinforce the value of such actions but also create an environment where both partners feel recognized and cherished. In essence, focusing on the positives is the compass that guides a relationship toward harmony and mutual respect, even amidst challenges.

8. Be vulnerable in your relationship

Vulnerability, often misconstrued as a sign of weakness, is indeed a hallmark of strength, especially in intimate relationships. It entails stripping away the defenses and presenting one’s genuine self, with all its complexities and nuances. By choosing to be vulnerable, you invite open dialogue, fostering a space where both partners can safely express their fears, aspirations, and concerns. This openness can prevent misunderstandings and build a foundation of trust. For instance, if you’re grappling with feelings of insecurity or discomfort in the relationship, addressing them head-on allows for clarity and mutual understanding. While it’s essential to articulate your emotions, it’s equally crucial to do so with empathy and consideration. Navigating sensitive topics with tact ensures that the message is received with the intent it’s delivered. In the grand tapestry of relationships, vulnerability acts as the thread that weaves genuine connection, trust, and mutual growth.

9. Give a gift for no reason

Gifts, irrespective of their size or grandeur, have a unique way of speaking to the heart. An unsolicited token of appreciation holds the power to convey deep sentiment and reinforce the bond you share with your partner. It isn’t always about grand gestures; sometimes, a simple act, like bringing home their favorite treat or penning a heartfelt note, can have a profound impact. Such gestures underscore the thought and care you invest in the relationship, making your partner feel treasured and valued. While extravagant gifts have their place, it’s often the unexpected, thoughtful offerings that resonate deeply. As a guiding principle, aim to surprise your partner with these acts of kindness regularly. By doing so, you continually nurture the foundation of trust, understanding, and affection that your relationship is built upon.

10. Plan a holiday (or holistay)

Setting aside dedicated time for one another is the lifeblood of a thriving relationship. While grand global adventures have their allure, the essence lies not in the magnitude of the getaway but in the shared experience. A weekend retreat, perhaps to a serene beach or a tranquil lakeside, offers an opportunity to reconnect and rejuvenate. If a staycation is more your speed, curate a cozy evening at home with cherished movies and comfort food, creating an atmosphere of intimacy and relaxation.

Ultimately, the destination or activity matters less than the intention behind it. The goal is to immerse yourselves in moments of togetherness, celebrating the joy, understanding, and love that define your bond. It’s about cherishing the present, creating memories, and deepening your connection.

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11. Make your intentions known (again)

Remember the start of your relationship? All those sweet words and promises? It’s important to keep that going, even after the newness fades. Think of it like this: just because you’ve been together for a while doesn’t mean you should stop trying. You should still “court” or date your partner like you did in the beginning.

“Courting” means showing love and wanting a future together. So, make your partner feel special. Do little things for them, tell them you love them, and show them they matter to you. It’s all about making sure they know you’re still all in, just like you were on day one.

Keep showing your partner you’re there for them, and your bond will only get stronger. Thanks for reading, and here’s to keeping the love alive in your relationship!

11 Ways to Teach Children To Stay Away From A Toxic Life

The first five years of a child’s life are critical for development. The experiences children have in these years help shape the adults they will become. More than anything else, your relationship with your child shapes the way your child learns and grows. – Australian Government, Department of Social Services

The years that span childhood are disproportionately formative on the type of character a human being will develop. Early childhood years, in particular, play a key role in determining the child’s outlook on the world.

Sadly, it can be very difficult to raise children in society today, the reason being that our world is inundated with toxicity from seemingly innumerable outlets. So, the question becomes: “How am/are I/we supposed to raise a child in this toxic environment?”

The answer is not nearly as simple as the question. The simplest way to answer would be: with diligence. As a parent, you must understand the type of environment that your child is exposed to – both in and out of your presence.

As you investigate this environment, you will no doubt encounter people that are harmful to your child. While it is not our place to judge, we do believe it is imperative that a child is not exposed to such people at an early age; an age when they are growing, learning, developing. As they mature, they’ll be in a better condition to counter these dangers themselves.

We’ve come up with 11 ways that you can teach your child to keep toxicity away from them:

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1. Limit the amount of mass media exposure.

Much of the media produced in society is laden with negative energy. This includes television, music, video games, and movies. As such, it is important to limit a child’s exposure to such media until they are of age to understand and interpret its meaning.

2. Take your child out into nature.

If you were to look inside many homes today, you’d see children planted in front of the T.V. After all, it’s easy for a parent to simply say “Go watch TV,” effectively minimizing any “distraction” the child may be. However, taking the child out into nature, where there can see animals, plants, trees, etc. is nourishing to their soul. Make it a point to get out into beautiful nature often.

3. Keep your child away from drama.

Speaking of media, have you ever noticed just how much drama makes up modern “entertainment?” We’re not here to judge; if this is something you enjoy, by all means take it in. However, as mentioned prior, a child does not have the capacity to separate what they see in-person from what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior.

4. Do not drink heavily/do drugs around the child.

Again, we’re not here to judge. Our society has taken some progressive steps in terms of marijuana use; whether or not you desire to teach your child about this is up to you. However, drinking heavily and engaging in heavy drug use around a child probably isn’t the best example to give.

5. Be responsible about your own conduct.

This one really doesn’t require too much of an explanation. As adults, we should be mindful about our conduct around children, as they will say and do what is seen and heard. Try to set a good example for acceptable behavior.

6. Abstain from swearing around your child.

During early childhood years, your little one is acquiring and interpreting language at exceptionally high levels. It is important, then, to minimize the amount of cursing and other negatively-charged language around a child. If need be, simply step out of the room and continue on.

7. Be generous, and teach your children likewise.

Can you imagine what this world would be like if all adults raised their children to be generous? Much different than today, almost assuredly. Generosity is one of the most beautiful human acts; warming the heart of both giver and recipient. What better way to teach your child to be generous than to allow them to see you being just that?

The first five years of a child’s life are critical for development. The experiences children have in these years help shape the adults they will become. More than anything else, your relationship with your child shapes the way your child learns and grows.

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8. Embrace truth. Always.

Truth is positive energy; lies are negative energy. The simple act of telling the truth should be commonplace in our society, but it isn’t. Always tell and teach the truth, and demand that your child does the same.

9. Diligently choose the people allowed around your children.

Of course, toxic people are devastating to a child’s positive energy. As such, it is crucial to limit a child’s observations and interactions with people who are positive and that you know well. As the child develops, they’ll be in a better position to evaluate character.

Related article: Research Reveals Parents Who Raise ‘Confident’ Kids Do These 10 Things

10. Teach your child about energy forces.

At this age, you’re probably not going to lecture the child on the Law of Attraction. That said, it is tremendously beneficial to teach your child the rudiments of positive and negative energy. Exactly how you go about this is completely up to you, and there are many ways to do this.

11. Always send and receive love to and from your child.

We saved the best for last. Nothing can come close to replacing the power of giving and receiving your child’s love. We’d go so far as to state that this, in itself, it the single most important element of teaching your child how to mitigate toxicity as it manifests throughout their lifetime.

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Why It’s Healthy To Miss An Old Relationship (Even If You Don’t Want It Back)

Do you reflect back and miss an old relationship?

Say what?!

Why on earth would you miss Ed if you broke up six months ago? Then again, you did spend last year’s spring break in the Caribbean with him. In fact, it was the wildest time ever and you just cannot get the good times out of your head. Not to worry, lads, you can substitute ‘Ed’ for any other name. You did receive imagination as standard, after all!

Is this OK? Of course. So, where do I draw the line? The old road has too many potholes to be traveled on, which is why you left it in the first place. Therefore, getting to Miss-Him City is fine but reaching Lake Want-Him-Back further on is a no-no.

Why do you miss Ed?

The old saying goes, “Sometimes, it’s not the person you miss. It’s the feeling you had when you were with them.” Like last year’s spring break is one small example of this, you miss the sharing of everything: laughter, crying, talking, falling out, making up, making out, that late “false alarm” (phew!), and plenty of others. You may have spent years or even decades with Ed; all of this cannot and should not be forgotten, for it has helped you grow and become the person you are today.

Why It’s Healthy To Miss An Old Relationship (Even If You Don’t Want It Back)

It is natural to miss the “routine” of your old relationship. You had a certain comfort, a familiarity, a home. But not every home provides a healthy and nurturing environment. You know you deserve better; still, moving on is a struggle. That’s typical human behavior.

 

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Learn the difference between giving up on love and letting go (in a healthy way!).

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Hold a funeral in your mind and “mourn” the death of the relationship. It can be as short or long as you want, within reason. You do not want it too short not to let him go completely, nor too long to cling to the last thread of hope that you will get back together with him. Removing items that remind you of him is also important. These are props only for the lovesick, emotional hooks to reel you back. To be free from this torture, you must burn, delete, throw in the trash, and do what is necessary to release yourself. This can be part of your “ceremony” or after it. At the end of the day, they were a part of your life, but not anymore.

The Rewards for Moving On

Unlike on a laptop, there is no “undo” option for the past. Once it is done, it cannot be undone. Moving on is so painful but so rewarding. When you allow it to pass, you let a new world of dating possibilities into your life. Fred has liked you ever since you met a few years ago at the coffee shop, but you friend-zoned him for some reason. Ted keeps texting, but you “love him like a brother,” and Ned went to that concert with you just after your break-up, but it “was not the right time to start dating again.” Think Penny and Leonard of The Big Bang Theory.

Remember, the word ‘miss’ signifies this: The relationship missed the target set by you.

This ‘Stomach Vacuum’ Exercise Can Melt The Most Stubborn Belly Fat

Stomach vacuuming? No need to worry, it does not involve taking a vacuum cleaner and sticking it to your abdomen. The only thing you will get there is an abdomen free of belly button lint!

This is actually a highly effective exercise for getting rid of belly fat. It works on the transverse abdominals, the innermost abdominal muscle at both sides of and below the better-known six-pack. This muscle group is “a significant component of the core”, according to the Wikipedia page dedicated to the muscle. In his younger bodybuilding days, Arnold Schwarzenneger has been pictured doing the stomach vacuum.

Piqued your interest, have we? Here is the stomach vacuum exercise explained.

The “Stomach Vacuum” exercise is “the easiest way to shrink your waist and melt belly fat”. Here’s how to do it:

We highly recommended that you do this without eating or drinking anything for at least an hour. After a deep five-second inhale, you bring your belly button inside towards your spinal column exhaling as you go. You hold that in for a count to between three and five, before letting go of it and breathing in again as normal. It is possible to do it standing, on all fours or lying down tummy up. You can control this particular workout by either intensity (how hard you pull in the belly button), by a range of motion (how far the belly button is pulled in), or by duration (how many pull-ins you do per set and how long each pull in lasts).

When you do the exercise, it does feel like an actual vacuum with the big exhale and hold. You may do this in conjunction with lifting objects, lifting your arms above your head, sitting down, or on its own. But the exercise by itself is the only one that is not disputed.

What else do we know about the ‘stomach vacuum’?

In yoga, it goes by the name of “Uddiyana Bandha” (UB) or abdominal lock. Authors mention UB in three important yogic texts: Hatha Yoga Pradeepika, Gheranda Samhita, and the Siva Samhita. It is said that it activates the Manipura Chakra, situated behind the belly button.  It is also the centre of vitality, controlling the energy balance to heal and maintain health and, being in the position it is in, plays an important role in the function of the pancreas and digestive organs.

Blockages of this chakra could result in diabetes, blood pressure fluctuations, digestive complaints, and circulatory conditions. When energy from this chakra flows in a free manner, it will always supply the body with vitality and good health. Activating this chakra is not only the gateway to a smaller waist. But it also gives the yogi qualities like clarity, self-confidence, wisdom, knowledge, and more.

Related article: This Simple Exercise Melts Stomach Fat

In simpler form, this practice helps to counteract a big belly by releasing the physical distress caused by the stated possible ailments and replaces them with a body that runs like clockwork healthwise. And, it strengthens the innermost abdominals. It also gives psychological benefits, along with a feelgood factor that was not as present or even unheard of in the past.

Think of it like squeezing an orange. You squeeze out all of the impurities with the help of this simple exercise. Thus, the orange, now lacking its juice, is more svelte because of the squeezing – just like your body.

Therefore, if it is good enough for the bodybuilders and the yogis among us, So why shouldn’t we all suck in that gut?

8 Hidden Things That Can Affect Your Mood

When it comes to moods, humans go through plenty of different ones throughout the course of the day. One moment, we find ourselves sitting in traffic and getting annoyed and impatient, and the next, we make it home to find ourselves relaxed and peaceful once again. Plenty of situations and events can affect our moods, but there are a few smaller things that can alter our emotions and mindset as well.

Watch out for these lesser-known things that can affect your mood, so that you know how to deal with negative feelings the next time they strike.

8 Hidden Things That Can Affect Your Mood

1. Hanging around negative people

We often don’t think about how other people can affect our mindset and emotions, but it’s about time we start. Not only do negative people drain your precious energy, but it makes it that much harder to maintain a positive mindset when you’re surrounded by this type of energy. You may wake up one day and find that you’ve become the very thing you despise, just because of the company you keep.

Make sure you pay attention to how you feel around different people, and adjust your friendship circle accordingly.

2. Watching too many news programs

While the news can provide valuable information about current events, for the most part, news just promotes fear-mongering and dwelling on the negative. If you spend all evening catching up on the latest in the news, you will probably find yourself in a terrible mood afterwards. News programs rarely show any of the positive things happening in the world, so if you want your daily dose of negativity, make sure to tune in.

If you want to steer clear of these feelings, however, simply don’t turn your TV to the news or anything else that dwells on problems and negativity. Or, allot a certain amount of time each day to watching news, so that you don’t become exposed to too much of the toxic information that many news outlets spew.

3. Spending too much time on social media

Of course, social media sites such as Facebook and Twitter have their perks, but spending too much time on these sites can prove detrimental to your mental and physical health. Not only does social media promote laziness and lack of productivity, but it also disconnects you from others. It puts up walls between you and the rest of the world while you live in a bubble, totally uninterested and unplugged from your environment. It creates a very real barrier between people and can cause plenty of relationship problems as well. Not to mention, science backs up what we’ve thought all along: social media does more harm than good.

In a study from the University of Gothenburg in Sweden, researchers discovered that social media leaves users feeling unhappy and unsatisfied with their own lives, and this only worsened the more time they spent on these sites.

However, another study found that users who shared more of the good things happening in their lives on their social networks had an increase in happiness and self-esteem overall.

4. Disorganization

You probably already know that external clutter leads to internal clutter, and it only makes your life harder in the end. Having things scattered all over your apartment or desk means that you’ll have to take more time to find what you need, which will result in lost productivity and extra frustration.

Try to commit to cleaning your space at least a few times a week to keep it organized and free of clutter. You’ll thank yourself next time you need a pen or sheet of paper, and find it within only a few seconds of searching on your desk.

5. Staring at screens all day

This sort of ties in to point about social media, because many of us do more online than just scroll through Facebook. We spend time emailing our clients or boss, texting friends, sharing photos, looking up information, watching videos, playing Pokemon, and the list goes on. Many of us could benefit greatly from reducing our screen time and increasing time with friends, time outdoors, time for ourselves, etc.

If you experience technological overload and need a break, then make one. Commit to putting down that phone after a certain amount of time and doing other things instead. Remember the days before smartphones and computers? Of course you do. Pull out that sidewalk chalk or go down to the rope swing at the creek and have a blast. Who needs technology to have fun, anyway?

6. Staying up too late all the time

Staying up late into the night may seem fun and exciting, but it will take a toll on your health before you know it. We need sleep to survive, and many of us don’t get enough of it. Of course, there are conflicting studies out there about staying up late vs. going to bed early, but we all know that too much of something is never good. Staying up late can lead to depression, anxiety, increase in appetite, lethargy, and other pretty serious problems.

If you have a habit of staying up late, try to push your bedtime back by at least thirty minutes or an hour each night. You won’t regret it when you wake up feeling refreshed in the morning!

7. An unhealthy diet

We won’t tell you how to eat, but you want to avoid certain foods in order to have optimal mental, physical and emotional health. Eating too many fried, salty, sugary, processed, or pesticide-ridden foods will negatively affect your health in the long-run, so try to opt for whole foods as much as possible.

Our diet affects our moods more than you’d think, so try to eat like your grandparents did in the good ol’ days, before mass production took a hold of society. Pay attention to how you feel when you eat foods with fewer ingredients, and compare it to your moods and emotions when you eat a lot of unhealthy foods. You’ll likely notice a huge difference.

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8. You don’t challenge yourself enough

If you don’t push yourself enough in life, you’ll fall into a state of complacency, and that can lead to stagnation. Challenges and goals serve as a way to keep us excited about life and encourage us to constantly push the limits. If we don’t continue to get better, then what are we doing with our lives? This doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough right now, but all of us could always improve on something.

Related article: 5 Ways to Turn a Bad Day Around

Set goals for yourself regularly, and try your hardest to achieve them. Not only will this increase your mood, but it will hold you accountable for improving your life, and make you a more well-rounded, resilient person.

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10 Things Men Should Never Tell Their Pregnant Partner

“It is the most powerful creation to have life growing inside of you. There is no bigger gift.”

­– Beyoncé Knowles

The 9 months that a woman is pregnant is an emotional Pandora’s Box. Elation, acceptance, fatigue, anticipation, sadness, and even depression often occur during pregnancy. Indeed, for many woman, pregnancy is a time of celebration; but, the three phases that make up pregnancy often bring about a number of challenges emotional and physical challenges.

As men, it is our job to be our utmost supportive and helpful during our woman’s pregnancy. First, it is essential that we are willing to understand what pregnancy entails. Second, we must use this knowledge to emotionally support our partner during a difficult time. Lastly, we need to watch the hell out…

Seriously.

Many a men have found themselves nearly castrated for saying or doing something perceptibly offensive during a woman’s pregnancy. We’re here to help with this. Don’t become castrated.

With that joyful note, here are 10 things that men should never tell their pregnant partner:

1. “You are getting big!”

Uh-huh…good luck with that, bro. This really shouldn’t have to be said: don’t comment on a woman’s body during pregnancy. Pregnancy involves a human being growing inside of an expandable womb – of course she is going to get bigger.

Just do yourself a favor and don’t say anything about it.

2. “You shouldn’t be exercising/standing up/doing anything.”

The woman is pregnant, she is not incapacitated. Your partner knows exactly what she should/shouldn’t be doing at any given time. Women have procreated for millions of years; having evolved a keen intuition concerning how/what her body is doing.

No need to advise her on this.

3. “Don’t eat (insert food here).”

This is nearly as bad as #1. Your partner is pregnant, so she needs to account for both her nutritional needs and those of the developing child. It’s perfectly normal – in fact, healthy – if she eats a bit more than she did pre-pregnancy.

Again, if you want to avoid being verbally castrated, stay away from anything involving her diet and/or food.

4. “I wish you could drink with me.”

Guess what? Your partner probably wishes she could have a cocktail or two, as well. But there’s this whole “birth defects from alcohol” thing that is preventing her from doing so. Most times, this is said with genuine intentions; we do miss enjoying the little things, like having an adult beverage, with our significant other. That said, stay away from saying this.

5. “I wish you could eat (insert food here).”

There are some foods (e.g. seafood, poultry) that women are best abstaining from while pregnant. The simple reason is that contracting food poisoning, although the risk is small, can be deadly to the developing child. She may or may not want these foods, but it’s best just to not mention them.

6. “Why is the house such a mess?”

It’s no secret that a woman’s energy is often depleted during pregnancy. It’s much, much easier to become fatigued or exhausted during pregnancy, as the body is undergoing drastic changes. This makes it more difficult to keep up with routine work both in and out of the home.

Instead, just help your partner pick up once in a while…she’ll appreciate that.

7. “Baby names? Again?”

It’s common for pregnant women to discuss baby names with their partner. Sometimes, the woman wants to discuss them quite often. There really isn’t an excuse for a man not engaging in this conversation.

For God’s sake man, she’s carrying around another human being 24/7 for 9 months…the least you can do is indulge her with some good baby names.  

8. “I don’t want to shop for baby stuff.”

That’s too bad, bro, you’re going to be a dad. Get used to sharing some shopping responsibilities once in a while. We guarantee that she truly appreciates the efforts you’re making to lessening her burden during pregnancy.

If this doesn’t matter to you, then look at it this way: if you’re shopping for baby stuff, and you’ve been a good boy, maybe she’ll let you pick something out for yourself. Just sayin’.

Related article: 10 Things to Look For In A Life Partner

9. “What’s taking so long?”

Ohhh, man…you’re asking for it. Hopefully, these words are never uttered from your mouth.

Can you imagine having a developing, moving child – often wreaking havoc on your body – with you, constantly, 24/7? Us men find it difficult to get moving when there’s a football game on T.V…so, we probably wouldn’t do too well carrying around another human being.

10. “You’re sleeping too much.”

This one is commonsensical. You probably don’t come close to uttering this phrase. You’re much too intelligent; understanding that a woman’s body needs to constantly recharge during pregnancy. You know that sleeping often during pregnancy is an overall health benefit for both her and the child…Right?

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