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9 Signs You Love Your Partner “Too Much”

When you fall in love, your partner becomes the center of your universe. You think of that special someone all day long, sending texts, messages, and showering them with affection. Sometimes the giving becomes overwhelming for that person. Contrary to all the chick flicks, romance novels, and stories out there, loving someone “too much” can hurt a relationship.

Here are 9 signs you love your partner “too much:”

1. You have put them on a pedestal

It’s wonderful to fall in love and put your partner in the shining light. Another thing is to put them up on some pedestal at all times. While your partner will enjoy this in the beginning (who doesn’t like attention), it can turn on you later on. No one wants to be seen as perfect. It’s hard to live up to that. When you show too much attention, it can be exhausting. It’s a real turn-off. For one, your mate might feel as if he/she is being rushed into something that doesn’t feel right at the moment. In some cases, your constant adoration can just fuel an-already-big ego. Love takes time to grow.

2. You have put yourself last

When you put someone first, you are obviously forgetting about you. If you are constantly thinking about your “one” and not taking care of you first, you have jumped into obsession. You must take time to do those things you still enjoyed before this person entered your life. Make time for you to keep doing your sports, hobbies and other interests. Your mate will appreciate you giving him or her that time as well. Eventually you can both find interests to share together.

3. You have abandoned your friends

The worst thing you can do is abandon your support group of friends. You can incorporate your relationship with your friends and his/her friends as well. You don’t have to alienate from all those who have been there for you in the past just to make this person yours alone. If you are only contacting friends when your partner isn’t around, your friends will eventually lose interest in you.

4. You have put your goals on hold

When all that you’ve worked for comes to a halt for another, you have lost yourself. You can’t appreciate your partner’s goals unless you continue with yours. A healthy relationship requires the giving and sharing of plans, goals, and dreams. If it’s one-sided, there is an imbalance that can turn toxic quickly. You contribute as much as your counterpart. Don’t put his or her needs way ahead and forget all the things that have brought you to this point. You matter!

5. You smother them

Love is about respect and requires no insecurities. Smothering is a sign that you fear losing this person. You will go above and beyond to make sure this person knows how much you love him/her. Loving someone is allowing them to be who they were before you came along. They need to still partake in their other activities. When you smother, you are sucking the air out of the relationship. It’s great to get texts and sweet cards, but when it becomes a bombardment of those things, the person might lose interest. Keep it simple!

6. You entice them with sex all the time

You enjoy making love, but when you start using sex as an escape to entice your partner, you are not being honest. Sex is an amazing form of bonding, but to use it as a weapon is toxic. Addiction can lead to other destructive behaviors. Giving into sex can lead to feelings of being used. Also, using sex to fix an argument, or blindside your partner, is malicious. Making love is a natural act of relationships. Using it for everything can lead to feeling used later on.

7. You are jealous of everything.

True love is secure. There is no chances of cheating when there is respect and trust. But, if you are constantly checking your mate’s phone, emails, social media and pockets, you have a serious obsession. This is bordering on a personality disorder. You cannot expect your partner to be questioned all the time. Eventually he/she will leave. Nothing says disaster more than a jealous mate. Jealousy displays a sign of pure desperation.

8. You try to control everything

Micromanaging in a relationship is not showing trust. It’s a behavior that stunts growth. Relationships are made up of partnership, giving and taking, sharing, and deciding together. If you are the one making all the decisions, your partner will eventually get tired of this because he/she will feel that their opinion is being bulldozed. Psychologists at the University of Cumbria, led by Dr. Elizabeth Bates, questioned 1,104 young men and women to determine aggression and control in relationships. In conclusion, women have become the more aggressive and controlling subject in a relationship, whereas years ago, the women were submissive and victims to the abuse.

9. You are constantly showering with gifts

We all like to feel special, and receiving gifts is delightful. However, when you are the only one giving, it becomes too much. It’s not a sign of love. It’s a sign of insecurities. Over pampering becomes a smothering act. You can suffocate your mate with too much of anything. Giving of yourself is just as important as material things. You can slowly show your appreciation with small things.

Too much of anything is unhealthy. You begin to scare people off because most folks don’t handle the overwhelming response. Rushing into anything is a sign of past traumas and desperation. Take your time. Allow love to grow in a healthy manner.

Related article: 10 Signs You Have An Emotionally Unavailable Partner 

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If Your Intuition Feels Blocked, This May Be Why…

Does your intuition feel blocked often, like you don’t know what decision to make or where to turn next? It feels as though you can’t get a clear picture on the future, like you don’t know your vision or purpose in life. Or, you may also feel that you can’t get out of the daily grind or see the bigger picture for your life.

You just feel a bit lost and disconnected from yourself, and may reject all spiritual notions simply because you cannot see past the mundane chores and responsibilities of daily life. If this sounds like you, you might have a blocked third eye chakra. The third eye chakra, or the sixth chakra, is located between the eyebrows, right above the bridge of the nose. This chakra represents the combination of all the chakras below it, and allows us to use our vision and intuition to bring positive change and momentum into our lives.

Below, let’s talk a bit more about the third eye chakra, and what you can do to get it unblocked.

IF YOUR INTUITION FEELS BLOCKED, THIS MAY BE WHY…

The Sanskrit name for the third eye chakra is “Ajna”, which means “command” or “perceiving”. It literally represents all the elements in their purest form, a culmination of all the energies of the chakras. We can infer from the Sanskrit name that this chakra can help us to take charge of our lives by trusting our intuition, or highest self.

Characteristics of the third eye chakra:

  • Vision
  • Intuition
  • Perception of subtle dimensions and movements of energy
  • Psychic abilities related to clairvoyance and clairaudience especially
  • Access to mystical states, illumination
  • Connection to wisdom, insight
  • Motivates inspiration and creativity

Ultimately, the third eye chakra represents our ability to trust that voice telling us where to turn next, and to use our natural talents to progress in this world. The third eye chakra blends the functions of all the chakras below it. When balanced, we will feel the subtle energies of the universe guiding us along and enabling us to pursue our highest vision for our lives.

A second function of the heart chakra deals with balancing our natural biorhythm, as it sits right in front of our pineal gland, which helps to regulate sleep and wake times.

SIGNS OF A BLOCKED THIRD EYE CHAKRA:

A blocked third eye chakra can make you feel unexcited and disengaged from life. It can also make you feel as if you have no purpose, and can’t get out of the daily grind even if you tried. Being out of sync with the third eye means that you have either an underactive or overactive sixth chakra. You either feel too in-tune with the current reality, which therefore depresses you, or so disengaged from the world that you get lost in fantasies and visions in order to escape. If you have an overactive third eye chakra, you have a hard time separating reality from fantasy.

The following are symptoms of an imbalanced third eye chakra:

  • Feeling stuck in the daily grind without being able to look beyond your problems and set a guiding vision for yourself
  • Overactive third chakra without support from the rest of the chakra system may manifest as fantasies that appear more real than reality, indulgence in psychic fantasies and illusions
  • Not being able to establish a vision for oneself and realize it
  • Rejection of everything spiritual or beyond the usual
  • Not being able to see the greater picture
  • Lack of clarity

A blocked third eye chakra can seriously affect your motivation and zest for life, which will lower the vibration of all your other chakras. A third eye chakra blockage can make it difficult to see the meaning in life, and feel grateful for the experiences that you have during your time here. This blockage usually means that some of your other chakras have blockages, as the energy of these moves upward through the third eye and ultimately through our crown chakra. Upon opening this chakra, you will find that you regularly have visions and can see beyond this earthly realm into the higher dimensions. You will trust yourself more and make decisions based on that “inner knowing.”

Some common physical symptoms of blockage include:

  • migraines
  • sinusitis
  • seizures
  • poor vision
  • sciatica
  • insomnia
  • high blood pressure
  • compromised immune system

EMOTIONAL SIGNS OF THIRD EYE CHAKRA BLOCKAGE

  • delusions
  • depression
  • anxiety
  • paranoia
  • vivid dreams
  • nightmares
  • skeptical of everything

An imbalanced third eye chakra can lead to two extremes; either being so consumed with the negatives in this reality that you feel depressed, or feeling disillusioned and lost in fantasies. If you feel that you have a blocked third eye chakra, read on to find out how to clear this blockage so you can live from your intuition and feel comfortable with listening to your higher self.

WHAT TO DO ABOUT A BLOCKED THIRD EYE CHAKRA

Related article: 7 Signs You Have Blocked Chakras

Clearing the third eye chakra involves a lot of energy healing and learning to listen to what your heart truly wants.

A few beginner steps to clear the third eye chakra include:

  • Let go of the ego. Learn to live from compassion, understanding, and the energy and vibration of love. Forgive yourself and go within to heal negative energy and old, destructive thinking patterns.
  • Get rid of as much stress as possible. Being overly stressed too often can negatively affect this chakra, so see where you can reduce stress in your life.
  • Incorporate purple colors into your life to help boost this chakra’s energy. Wear purple clothing, eat more purple foods, such as purple cabbage, red onion, beets, etc, and place purple items around your home.
  • Do different types of energy healing, such as aromatherapy, sound therapy, crystal healing, etc.
  • Meditate on this chakra. Imagine the purple lotus flower in the middle of your chest, and hold this image in your mind. Remember to breathe deeply, and practice positive affirmations as well.

When you open and balance your third eye chakra, you may notice the following symptoms:

  • Seeing life clearly and accurately
  • Knowing what you want in life and how you will get there
  • Heightened intuition

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How to Make A Drink For Pain Relief in 1 Week (Joints, Legs & Back)

Muscle and joint pain is a pain. Back, leg, and joint pain are some of the most common complaints by people as they age. But everyone is susceptible to the miserly discomfort brought on by body pains at times.

One of the most common things people do when experiencing this pain is pop pain relievers. A lot of them. Consider this number: fifty million: how many people take acetaminophen (e.g., Tylenol) each week. Not each month. Not each year. Every week. Guess whose pockets are getting lined?

Imagine how many other people are popping dangerous painkillers (e.g., Vicodin, Oxycodone)? You don’t have to imagine because we have another statistic to share: 1.7 million. This isn’t the number of people that take painkillers; it’s the number of people – in 2007, keep in mind – that abused painkillers.

Please be aware that we are not assailing that many people are in severe pain and, at times, need strong medication to alleviate that pain. Nor are we attacking people that buy over-the-counter drugs or other alternatives. Instead, it’s the degree to which we’ve become dependent upon them when other, natural alternatives would suffice.

The Connection of a Healthier Lifestyle to Pain Relief

Fortunately, we are witnessing a sort of “awakening,” which puts natural health in its rightful place. The truth is that we will never, nor should we ever, abandon traditional medicine. Vaccinations, prescription medications, medical apparatuses… all of these products have prevented illness and saved and extended countless lives. But why not take advantage of natural alternatives when able?

Bear in mind that nearly every type of bodily pain can surface from poor, unhealthy life choices. Further, stress and bad posture are other reasons that one may suffer from various body pains. It is necessary to practice proper posture and abstain from unhealthy and dangerous activities to prevent pain.

That said, this brings us to the article’s focus: an excellent, natural alternative for back, leg, and joint pain. It’s practical, quick, and healthy – and there is no reason not to try it.

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5 Things That Cause Joint Pain and Inflammation

Joint pain and inflammation can occur for myriad reasons, such as aging, illness, or underlying medical conditions. Below, we’ll go over some of the most common causes of joint pain and tips on combatting inflammation and discomfort.

1.     Osteoarthritis or rheumatoid arthritis

The most common culprit behind joint pain is arthritis, defined as inflammation of one or more joints. While over 100 different forms of arthritis exist, the two most diagnosed conditions include osteoarthritis and rheumatoid arthritis.

According to the American College of Rheumatology, osteoarthritis occurs most commonly in older adults and affects the hand joints, spine, hips, knees, and great toes. Obesity, joint injuries, and a family history of arthritis can increase the condition’s risk of developing.

Osteoarthritis causes joint pain due to inflammation of the joint lining, or synovium, along with the deterioration of tendons and ligaments.

Rheumatoid arthritis affects about 1.5 million Americans, with women about three times more likely to develop the condition than men. Many people with RA experience pain, inflammation, and difficulty moving the joints as fluid builds up in surrounding tissues. As with osteoarthritis, RA causes the synovium to thicken, making it painful and difficult to move the joints.

Treatments such as physical therapy, medications, or in some cases, joint surgery can reduce symptom severity. In addition, lifestyle habits, including healthy eating, low-impact daily movement, and heating pads, can help arthritis.

Supplements like curcumin, turmeric, and omega-3 fish oil supplements may also alleviate morning pain and stiffness. However, please talk with your doctor first before taking any supplements as they could interact with certain medications.

2. Physical or emotional stress

You might wonder how stress could cause joint pain and inflammation since stress happens in mind. However, our minds and bodies are intricately connected, so that any emotional pain will cause disruptions between the two.

Stress increases inflammation in the body, and when it becomes chronic, it can lead to severe complications. Researchers have found that stress can worsen autoimmune diseases such as rheumatoid arthritis.

To keep your stress low, make sure to have a daily relaxation or meditative practice. Before and after work each day, take time to decompress, check in with your emotions, and be for a while. In our “always-on” world, it’s vitally important first to take care of your health.

Other responsibilities can wait, but nothing can get accomplished if you’re not physically and mentally well. Please don’t neglect your emotional health since it affects every other aspect of your life.

3. Unhealthy lifestyle choices

Certain bad habits can negatively influence your mind and body, causing excess inflammation and even chronic pain.

Do you engage in these habits?

  • Smoking cigarettes puts a lot of unneeded stress on the body and can lead to many chronic conditions. Research shows that smoking triggers an immune response to vascular injury, which causes rising levels of inflammatory markers such as white blood count and C-reactive proteins. This could result in cardiovascular events, including strokes and heart disease, chronic lung disease, and cancer.
  • Alcohol consumption. Drinking moderately doesn’t normally cause health issues; however, excessive drinking can cause many diseases. Studies reveal a link between alcohol consumption and gout, a painful form of arthritis that develops when uric acid builds up in the body. It most often affects the feet and toes. Alcohol can also increase inflammation in the gut and liver, potentially causing organ damage in the long run.
  • Poor diet. Most people know that eating whole, fresh foods such as fruits, vegetables, and grains will improve their health. An unhealthy diet filled with processed foods lowers the immune system and causes an inflammatory response. Since your body doesn’t recognize these food-like substances, it increases inflammation to combat a foreign substance. Eating high amounts of packaged, sugary foods with empty calories can lead to obesity. And being overweight can put a lot of pressure on the joints, causing pain and immobility.
  • Lack of exercise. According to research, a sedentary lifestyle can cause “visceral fat accumulation-induced chronic inflammation.” Coupled with unhealthy eating habits, it’s a recipe for diseases such as obesity, diabetes, heart disease, and other conditions of modernity.

So, if you want to reduce inflammation and joint pain, focus on adhering to the basics of health. Getting proper sleep, eating a balanced diet, exercising, and refraining from smoking and drinking will do wonders.

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4. Sprains or strains

Of course, injuries will inevitably cause inflammation as your body tries to heal the affected area. Stretching or tearing a muscle or tendon, called a strain, can cause swelling and bruising of the joints. Tearing a ligament, also known as a sprain, causes joint pain as inflammation increases to heal the injury.

5. Underlying medical conditions

Finally, medical conditions such as osteoporosis and fibromyalgia can lead to inflammation and joint pain. Osteoporosis connects to low immune functioning and chronic inflammation in several studies. Over time, this can result in deterioration of the bones, especially as a person ages. While fibromyalgia isn’t characterized by increased inflammation or joint pain, people with the condition have a greater pain sensitivity. It’s a complex condition, and doctors still aren’t sure what causes it. However, current research shows that an overly active nervous system may play a role.

If you have pain and inflammation due to medical conditions, it’s best to seek your doctor’s advice for proper treatment. They may recommend certain medications or physical therapy to lessen the pain.

Miracle Drink – NO PAIN in 1 Week (Joints, Legs & Back)

If you can make Gelatin, you can make this remedy. You need the following ingredients:

  • 1 cup of water
  • ½ cup of sugar substitute (real sugar causes inflammation and pain)
  • One large box of Gelatin (grass-fed, organic, etc. is preferred). Make sure not to mistakenly purchase the individual packets, which come in a large box!
  • A pan or mold

No gimmicks, no tricks, that’s every ingredient: water and gelatin…

Here are the simple instructions:

  • Filter one cup of water (for best result, use cold and filtered water) and boil.
  • Mix the boiled water with the sugar substitute and stir until dissolved. Pour into a glass or mold.
  • Mix one-half of the box of gelatin into the boiled water mixture and stir.
  • Refrigerate the mixture until jelled.
  • Tightly seal the leftover gelatin with plastic wrap

This mixture should be taken every day for approximately 30 days and on an empty stomach. After about a week, there should be a lessening of the pain experienced. You may consider adding honey, juice, or yogurt for added flavor.

Why is this mixture effective at relieving pain?

It’s pretty simple. Our bodies are composed of bones, cartilage, collagen, and tendons; the consumption of gelatin (after digestion) can effectively decrease the amount of inflammation in these areas of the body. Furthermore, gelatin contains properties that are good for the immune system. The inflammation-reducing properties of gelatin are terrific for preventing painful ailments such as osteoarthritis and osteoporosis.

You must prepare the gelatin correctly. It is also vital to seal any leftovers tightly to prevent deterioration. When the mixture begins to deteriorate, the properties that help combat hip, joint, and back pain are further reduced; hence making it essential that the leftover product is stored properly and not left out. Jell-O and other prepared gelatin products have a shelf life of about two weeks when the product is properly sealed and refrigerated.

Use the above recipe, which should be suitable for about a two-week supply. Repeat the process and take ten grams daily on an empty stomach–for up to six months.

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Final Thoughts on Ways to Heal Joint Pain

In general, pain and inflammation can be traced back to lifestyle habits such as lack of exercise, poor diet, or high stress. Our bodies and minds protect our survival, so the slightest perceived threat can increase inflammation. In the modern world, many people live with low-grade inflammation, leading to numerous physical and mental illnesses.

To reduce your inflammation and pain, try the drink recipe above and lifestyle changes like working out and eating a balanced diet. You’ll start feeling more vibrant and youthful before you know it!

5 Signs You’re Dealing With Someone With Extreme Mood Swings

From frustration to anxiety and back again, knowing someone with extreme mood swings can be just as frustrating and anxiety-inducing for you. These highs and lows can be frightening because they can happen with no warning.

5 Signs of Someone With Extreme Mood Swings

We all experience a variety of moods in a day, which is perfectly normal. It is also perfectly normal to switch from happy to sad to happy again, in response to things that make you happy, sad, and happy.

What is not normal is having unpredictable highs and lows that aren’t necessarily in response to something that would make you happy or sad. There is really a sliding scale when it comes to mood swings from what is normal to what is clinically diagnosable as bipolar disorder.

Bipolar disorder is the most severe form of an extreme mood swing, and the depressed phase of a bipolar mood swing can last up to 2 weeks and may require hospitalization to treat the severe depression and keep the person safe from self-harm.

A less severe form of bipolar disorder is cyclothymic disorder, which can start in childhood. In cythlothymic disorder, these ups and downs happen more frequently than normal but are not as severe as in bipolar disorder.

Let’s look at 5 signs that someone you know may have a mental illness causing these emotions.

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1. They have a creative side

They know what it’s like to feel the extreme loneliness of the lowest depression and the exhilaration of extreme joy. Of course, they want to tell the world about what it feels like to feel these extreme emotions.

People with extreme mood swings tend to be creative with either language, art, or dance, and sometimes all of the above. Researchers at Harvard Medical School and Laboratories for Psychiatric Research found that there was a correlation between mood experiencing moodiness and measures of creativity. If you know someone with extreme mood swings, encourage them to find an outlet for their pain, fear or joy.

2. They are the life of the party, sometimes

Mood disorders and extreme mood swings tend to go from super high happiness to super low depression and everywhere in between. Someone who is sometimes the most energetic, outgoing, fun-loving, wild, party girl or guy but who isn’t always like that, is very likely showing you a sign of having extreme mood swings.

Extreme mood swings on the high side can be frightening after the person returns to a normal mood. Sometimes, they go on binges with alcohol, spending, drugs, or other dangerous or self-destructive behavior. During an extreme mood swing high, the person experiencing it feels invincible and may do things that could hurt them but they won’t be aware of the risk.

3. They are afraid of everything, sometimes

Panic disorder is common in someone who has extreme ups and downs because their emotions are out of their control, and they don’t know when the highs or lows will strike them. General anxiety or fear of having a panic attack is also common with people who experience extreme moodiness.

Fear of having an uncontrollable outburst due to a mood swing can make people fearful of being judged by others. Researchers studying panic disorder found that more than 23% of the patients with anxiety were clinically diagnosable as having bipolar disorder. 34% of the patients with anxiety problems in the study had a less severe mood disorder.

A normal mood swing is brought on by a change from a basically positive mood to a negative one after something upsetting happens. One of the signs of someone with extreme mood swings is that they fear having a mood swing.

4. They can really be a downer, sometimes

This depressed part of the extreme mood swings is the most difficult, potentially life-threatening, and scary for those who know someone with mood disorders. It is very hard to talk someone out of a depression. Therefore, most medical professionals do not recommend it. Instead, try supporting someone out of depression or listening to them out of depression. Ask questions and listen; don’t advise.

5. They don’t think they need help.

‘I’m fine, really,’ they say as they make up a logical reason for their extremely happy or sad mood. Unfortunately, uncontrollable mood swings are one disorder that could benefit highly from the intervention of a professional therapist and possibly even a medicinal helper as well.

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Final Thoughts on Mood Swings

Typically for those with regular mood swings, exercise outdoors and some social interaction will help them out of a minor depressive episode. For those with extreme mood swings, neurotransmitters in the brain may be too far out of balance, and a pharmaceutical remedy may be needed. Seek the help of a licensed doctor of psychology who can work with you to find the right prescription for your extreme moodiness.

7 Things That Can Cause A Spiritual Awakening

Experiencing a spiritual awakening through the guidance and love that positive people enjoy is fantastic to enhance your well-being. Believe it or not, a spiritual connection can help extend your life and improve its quality.

Whether you feel a general sense of something greater than yourself or follow an organized religious practice, connecting spiritually brings clarity of purpose, peace of spirit, and the strength to carry on to millions of people worldwide.

7 Things That Can Cause A Spiritual Awakening

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1. Choosing to believe in a positive, guiding divinity

A study of religious struggle and mortality in sick, elderly patients found that positive spirituality made a difference for people living longer. They identified these positive religious behaviors that people can engage in that help them to live longer:

  • Seeking spiritual support or connection
  • Collaboration with God in problem-solving
  • Religious forgiveness
  • Benevolent religious appraisals of their illness

Researchers found that not only do positive spiritual practices increase longevity, but that negative religious coping or struggling with spirituality was associated with a higher risk of mortality.

The ‘negative’ religious coping thoughts that the researchers studied included:

  • Belief in a punishing God
  • Fighting with friends and family about religious beliefs
  • Fear of demons, evil spirits, or curses
  • Spiritual discontent
  • Questioning God’s powers

2. Forgiving easily

Let go of past wrongs that have been done to you. Cheated out of money? Left at the altar? Deadbeat second parent? Whoever or whatever caused you a setback in the past gave you a fantastic life lesson.

Everything that made you who you are is part of your past, and it was all-important to get you to this moment where you are now. Love everything about your history, even the pain.

3. Allowing yourself to grieve when you need to

The pain of loss and hurt you have experienced is an emotional way to strengthen your spiritual connection. Allowing yourself to feel sadness means accepting the wrong thing that happened to you and pouring the pain out in tears.

When we grieve and suffer from depression, we focus on the past. Releasing the sadness is a process that lets you connect with what happened in the past, grieve, and move forward to live in the present moment once again.

The pain of loss is a way to connect to the spiritual because this is also a part of the life that we live as spiritual beings. The risk is that dwelling on pain leads to a negative spiral of suffering and depression challenging to climb out of. Grieve with a community to help avoid stagnating in grief.

4. Reaffirming your core beliefs and values

Focus on what feels right, sound, and proper to you in your gut. Those are the essential things to you. Take action to support honesty, justice, respect, and loving care toward your fellow man and woman. Find a spiritual bond in your community by serving others or by embracing those around you who have similar spiritual beliefs.

Creating a community of spirit, forming spiritual bonds, or the concept of ‘soul’ as the Black community uses the word, is a way of engaging with others through music, laughter, food, language, and even commerce to meet the needs of the group as well as those of the individual. This spiritual culture is a way of supporting each other through shared faith and shared values.

A study in the Journal of Community Psychology defined this spiritual connection this way; “a sense of community is a feeling that members have of belonging, a feeling that members matter to one another and to the group, and a shared faith that members’ needs will be met through a commitment to be together.”

5. Being generous with giving

Most faiths worldwide share the common belief that being generous to others is a spiritual gift that you can give, which also helps strengthen your spiritual connection.

Connecting to others, learning about their needs, and helping them where we can is a way of supporting the community around us. A positive emotional connection to others is a way to strengthen your spiritual side.

6. Receiving generously

Beliefnet.com says ‘Your faith is a gift of grace, and you get to choose if you want to receive it or not. But once you learn to surrender, and allow yourself to open up, then faith will only multiple and manifest itself in your life more, not less.’ Accept, rather than turn away from a gift of grace.

7. Being fully present in each moment

The present is a gift, and it is the easiest and most challenging way to strengthen your spiritual connection. Being present is difficult because of the tendency to be focused on what is next. What is now is so much more enlightening spiritually.

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How to Care For Yourself During a Spiritual Awakening

It’s important to practice self-care and introspection when going through a spiritual awakening. Growing spiritually requires immense inner work and solitude to eliminate the distractions of the busy, chaotic world. So, if you feel a calling to rediscover your higher self, follow these tips below.

1.     Reconnect with Nature

Earth’s wild places offer some of the best sanctuaries in the modern world. When you reconnect with our beautiful planet, it awakens something within you. You feel more alive and in tune with yourself after spending time in the forest or mountains.

After all, we came from nature, so it makes sense that we would have a spiritual connection to Mother Earth. That doesn’t mean you can’t find inspiring places to explore your inner self within cities. However, many people feel more like themselves in nature since they can leave behind the stresses of everyday life. Nature also isn’t as distracting and chaotic as cities or urban areas.

So, to care for yourself properly during a spiritual awakening, escape into the great outdoors as often as possible. There’s no WiFi, but you’ll experience a more significant connection nonetheless.

2. Eat a Healthy Diet

Speaking of nature, eating foods straight from the source will positively impact your spirituality. Light, fresh foods such as fruits and vegetables improve digestion and eliminate toxins from the body. Making your physical body lighter makes it easier to connect with your astral and causal bodies. After all, most people’s primary goal of a spiritual awakening is to experience higher consciousness.

Therefore, eating the simplest foods possible will eliminate restlessness in the body and allow you to explore higher realms. A healthy diet will get you closer to your spiritual goals, whether you do this through meditation, yoga, prayer, or deep breathing.

3. Get Plenty of Rest

Having a spiritual awakening causes your whole outlook on life to shift overnight. Old belief systems and limited ways of thinking fly out the window, leaving you with a fresh perspective. You may not resonate with your life anymore and long for something more profound. This process will inevitably take a toll on you as you discover a grander truth to life.

During a spiritual awakening, it’s crucial to rest as much as you need to assimilate these new realizations. Prioritize sleep, have a self-care routine, and go easy on yourself. You may find that your nine to five routine doesn’t resonate with you anymore and decide to become self-employed. Many spiritual people don’t find fulfillment in routine jobs, so don’t judge yourself for wanting something different.

Above all else, do what feels right for you, and don’t overexert yourself chasing money or material things. The spiritual world offers far greater rewards, anyway.

4. Maintain a Daily Practice

Maybe you can’t ignore your responsibilities or leave a full-time job at the moment. Thankfully, living in a monastery or a secluded cave isn’t necessary to have a spiritual awakening. You can still incorporate your meditation or other spiritual practices into daily life. Set aside time to devote to your spiritual growth each morning and evening. Whether you have 15 minutes or an hour, use this time to concentrate on your higher self fully.

Staying persistent and disciplining yourself will help you grow whether you live a worldly life or decide to become a monk. Either way, you’ll have to hold yourself accountable and remain consistent to see the results of your practice.

5. Show Yourself Compassion

Many people who go through a spiritual awakening have no idea what’s happening to them. Suddenly, the world isn’t what it seemed anymore, and it takes time to process. When you see through the veneer of material life, the activities and events on Earth don’t seem to matter as much. You may scold yourself for feeling lax in other areas of your life as you embark on a spiritual journey.

While we need to attend to our duties, it’s okay to pull back for a while. Concentrate on your spiritual awakening if that’s what you feel drawn to, and have compassion for yourself. The spiritual path requires a life-long commitment, and progress will happen slowly.

Many people think that growth happens in a linear fashion, but it looks more like a rollercoaster. You’ll have plenty of ups and downs, and you may have periods where you don’t feel as spiritual. No matter what, love yourself where you’re and don’t force anything. Enjoy the journey and go with the flow, wherever your soul may take you.

6. Reevaluate Your Friend Circle

When you have a spiritual awakening, you’ll want to spend a lot alone. You may not resonate with your old group of friends anymore due to your shift in interests. Even so, you can politely decline their invitations to hang out or explain your feelings upfront. Sometimes, we have to love people from a distance if we’re on different paths in life.

As you move further along the spiritual path, you may want to surround yourself with teachers and mentors. It’s essential to find a guru or leader who can guide you down the spiritual path and support your journey.

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Final Thoughts on Having a Spiritual Awakening

A spiritual awakening is one of the essential aspects of existence in this earthly realm. While we’re in physical bodies, our primary goal is to grow spiritually and work out karma. This process takes many lifetimes, but yoga and meditation can help speed things up. During a spiritual awakening, many people feel drawn to practices such as these to discover their true selves beneath all the layers. Remember to give yourself grace during a spiritual journey and listen to your intuition. It will guide you down the right path if you quiet your mind and trust your heart.

9 Things You Need To Do If You Love A Cancer

If your partner was born between June 22 and July 22, then we have a list of 9 things you need to do for your love, Cancer. Watch out for those pinchers and prepare to get salty wet. The crab will grab you for the long-term if you can do these things for your Cancerian love.

Cancer, the sign of the crab, is a water sign ruled by the Moon. That means that they are all about emotions. But if you love a Cancer man or woman, you may already know that by now you need to keep the tissues handy.

Your Cancer love is going to be a fiercely loyal, loving, active, enthusiastic partner. But he or she also falls apart over the tiniest thing. We want you to be prepared for how to handle the Cancer partner with care. So let’s look at the 9 things that are in the care manual if you are the lover of a Cancer partner.

9 Things You Need To Do If You Love A Cancer

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1. You need to love that your Cancer partner is clingy

Isn’t it nice to be so needed and wanted all the dang time? Not likely, unless you have the patience of a deity. Cancer wants to be around you all the time when they love you, which is pretty obvious because you can’t go 5 feet without finding their arm around your waist again.

2. Know that you are a major contributor to Cancer’s success

In a review of Vedic Astrology published by the National Council on Geocosmic Research, chart readings for Cancer reveal that ‘Cancerians are devoted to their families, and quite often, their relatives and loved ones are instrumental in helping them achieve their goals.’ If you love a Cancer, you need to ask them what you can do to help them fulfill their dreams because they are relying on you so much.

3. Be aware of the turmoil deep under the Crab’s outer shell

The National Council on Geocosmic Research also says ‘Cancer is a cardinal, water sign that represents home, family, emotions, and often turmoil that lies beneath the surface.’ The likely hidden emotions that you will encounter if you love a Cancer are anger, resentment, betrayal, and fear. Cancer is pretty forthcoming with their emotions. But they are passive aggressive, meaning they won’t say exactly why they are so upset.

4. Channel the personality of a Taurus

Taurus is Cancer’s ideal mate for compatibility purposes anyway. So acting bullish if you weren’t born a Taurus may be a good way to win, and keep your crabby partner’s heart.

Cancer’s most compatible partner matches are Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, and Cancer. If you love a Cancer but aren’t one of these signs, pick up a few habits of the ones that are most compatible to your Cancer love.

5. If you love a Cancer, you need to put up with nagging

A recent astrological review by Geoffrey Dean cites research by Gunter Sachs who concluded that astrological signs are of particular importance when it comes to choosing a partner that you will be compatible with, but they play a less important role in predicting divorce than they do for marriage.

So no matter the sign, conflict that is severe enough to make you want a separation from a Cancer is possible because of all of their nagging. If you can put up with the constant critique and not take it personally, you will be able to love your Cancer in a long-term relationship. Otherwise, you might quickly get over this crab.

6. Do not cross a crab

The National Council on Geocosmic Research says:

‘Cancerians are very sensitive, and since their feelings often stay beneath the surface, they are accustomed to relationships that fall in and out of favor. As close and loyal as they are to those they love, they are equally unforgiving to those they feel have betrayed them.’

Trust in you is what keeps the partner loyal, and once you break that, usually it will mean the end of the relationship.

7. Sex happens when they feel love

Give your Cancer partner a long hug. As long as they’ve already had an emotional dump of their worries and frustrations, sex is on. Close emotional connection is important to intimacy with the Cancer partner. So keep your eyes open and look longingly into your partner’s eyes.

8. You need to know that for a Cancer, emotional dump mode is always on

Your crabby mate wears their heart on their sleeve and all of the emotional torment from today’s decisions that they made, from what to eat for breakfast to what to say in the meeting, are going to come pouring out of their mouths when they see you again.

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9. For a Cancer, home is where the fun is

Cancer is terribly happy at home with family in a comfortable chair. They also love people who can cater to their needs for their favorite comfort items, like their security blanket, favorite mug, favorite sweater – you get the point. Cancer is not a party animal, but they are occasionally prone to a surprise attack of spontaneous fun.

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