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90 Year Old Woman Refuses Chemo. What She Did Next Is The Best EVER

Norma is 90-years-old this year, and has suffered her fair share of tragedy and heartbreak. Just last year, her husband of 67 years passed away, and just days after, doctors found a deadly, cancerous mass in her uterus, and told her she had to undergo chemo to have any chance of survival.

However, instead of undergoing chemo, she decided to take a totally different path that would allow her to live out her days to the fullest.

Instead of choosing cancer treatment, which would have involved major surgeries, several rounds of radiation and chemo, and a whole lot of pain, Norma just decided to leave and explore the vast world around her.

She checked out of the hospital and said goodbye to all her friends at the nursing home, and then, with all her closest family members, hit the wide open road in an RV camper.

For the past six months, they’ve been traveling the country, going to national parks and discovering beautiful new places.

Keep on reading below to hear more about Norma’s inspiring story, and view photos of her global adventures!

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90-year-old quits cancer treatment to travel world

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90-year-old quits cancer treatment to travel world

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So, going backwards a bit, doctors told Norma she’d need chemo and radiation therapy to get rid of the cancerous mass in her uterus. They asked her what she’d like to do moving forward.

Already feeling exhausted with the whole process, Norma paused for a moment, and looked the doctor in the eyes to give her answer.

“I’m 90 years old. I’m hitting the road.”

 

90-year-old quits cancer treatment to travel world

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She had already informed her son, daughter-in-law, and the rest of her family about the decision she would make.

No one – not the doctors, her family, or anyone else – could deter her from following her heart and refusing chemo to explore the world!

90-year-old quits cancer treatment to travel world

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“As doctors, we see what cancer treatment looks like everyday,” one of Norma’s doctors told GoodNewsNetwork.

“ICU, nursing homes, awful side effects and honestly, there is no guarantee she will survive the initial surgery to remove the mass. [She is] doing exactly what I would do in this situation.”

So the doctor felt happy for Norma about her decision, and wished her all the best on her trip.

90-year-old quits cancer treatment to travel world

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At first, Norma’s family felt uneasy about her decision to leave the nursing home behind and refuse the cancer treatment. They also didn’t want her to travel alone, so they decided to accompany her on her adventures. 
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For the past six months, Norma and her family have been exploring the U.S. in an RV, visiting beautiful sites and going to places they’ve never been before. They’ve even gone to other countries, including China!

Fortunately, Norma feels no pain from the cancer, and believes she might actually be in remission. 

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So far, Norma and her family have gone to several national parks, the Rocky Mountains, New Orleans, and have even participated in a Native American ceremony.

Norma also took a ride in a hot air balloon over central Florida, and got to take in the stunning views!

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Although she has been through so much in life, she displays so much positivity and gratitude in her everyday life.

“Keep praying every day, and God will take care of you, even when it feels like you can’t care of yourself,” she told GoodNewsNetwork.

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She says that talking about the days gone by can really help to maintain a good attitude about life.

“Storytelling is really, really helpful,” she said, advising everyone to talk about the good times.

“I’m pleased to know that I can be an inspiration to so many,” she added after finding out that her Facebook page has drawn so many followers to read her story.

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Her final piece of advice for us? “Just keep on going every day, that’s about it.”

Visit Norma’s Facebook page for regular updates on her travels!

8 Signs Your Spirit Guide Is Trying To Contact You

We arrive in this world with our own assignments. We also have a spirit guide, or spirit guide committed to making sure we don’t deviate too far from our highest good. Sometimes your spirit guide whispers a word, conjuring a thought and idea, while other times it screams through many different signs. There are no coincidences. Pay attention to repetition in things. Be open to witnessing the signs through serendipity and synchronicity. This is your guide desperately trying to connect with you.

Here are 8 signs your spirit guide is trying to contact you:

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1. A passage through words.

Your spirit guide may use written material to get a message to you. Have you ever read a sentence and it brought you into tears? You find yourself needing to highlight the passage and doggy ear it in a book or magazine. When you ask for guidance, spirit guides love to provide them through something that will emotionally move you. Words are powerful. They are the greatest source of communication. Have you ever asked for something and then you see a bumper sticker or a billboard sign with your answer? Words force you to stop for a second and truly recollect.

2. White feathers.

Have you found white feathers in the most unusual of places? This is a beautiful token from your spirit guide. These delicate and lovely gifts are known as your guide’s “calling card.” To receive one is to be awarded the comfort of knowing you are watched over and there is a blessing nearby. Your spirit guide gives a reminder that you are never alone. Honor their gifts.

3. Pennies and dimes.

Monetary change, especially these, are found in the oddest of places. You may find a dime while hiking in the dirt, or inside the freezer. Your spirit guide may leave these coins to cheer you up. Usually these come when you are a bit sad or depressed. It’s a token of their love for you as if saying, “Here is a penny for your thoughts.”

4. Special scents.

Aromas arrive in the most peculiar times. Have you ever been driving and suddenly you smell gardenias or roses? Your spirit guide will delight you with flowery smells to get your attention. They will also utilize scents from childhood memories. During these times remember that you are being nudged to make a decision, to focus on letting go, and trust in something greater than yourself for guidance.

“The soul at its highest is found like God, but an angel gives a closer idea of Him. That is all an angel is: an idea of God.” ~Meister Eckhart

5. Dreams.

The spirit world love to use the dream state to convey messages. This is one of their favorite tools. They are free to create scenarios with colors, magic and fantasy. Your spirit guide will arrive in many forms. They can send a message through the drama of another telling you something that will undoubtedly be remembered the next morning. When you want divine answers, ask before retiring to bed. Keep a notebook and pen next you and when you awake, write your messages. You will be surprised at how mysticism unfolds through these little movies of dreamland.

When you trust your inner guidance and begin moving in the direction of your dreams (aligned with your individual gifts) you will be cloaked in an armor bestowed upon you by your guardian angel.” ~ Charles F. Glassman

6. Orbs.

These are fantastic. Have you ever taken a picture and seen little flashes of light or orbs in your picture? These are messages from your spirit guides. They are nearby, making sure you do not feel alone. Orbs have tremendous shapes within shapes. They also come in many colors. You might not be able to see with the naked eye what a camera captures. Your spirit guide wants you to trust that things are working in the order that they are suppose to. These are magical tokens of presence.

7. Songs.

Music is a way to reach the heart quickly. Your spirit guide will speak to you through songs from the past or through lyrics you never heard before. Music is enlightening through its energy. The vibration of music is the highest frequency we can reach in this dimension. It will conjure up emotions and answer desires. These moments when you hear a song that is answering your calling, please know that your angel is confirming your wishes. They want you to know that they hear you. They are near.

Music is the universal language, because it is the language of the universe.” ~Charles F. Glassman

8. Touch.

We are moved by caress. In moments of sorrow and desperation, your spirit guides will lightly touch you. If you are in danger of getting hurt, you may feel a push or tug. At other times you will feel the gentleness of a feather rubbing you, bringing a chill up your spine. A good practice to connect with your spirit guide is through prayer and meditation. Allow for reassurance. You are always loved. You are never alone. Their touch is a nurturing way of clarifying that in this mystical world you have someone always watching you.

Doreen Virtue says, “There are two steps to experiencing signs from above: (1) believe in them, and (2) notice them. Amazing life transformations occur when we learn to see and use the messages guides give us in everyday life, in all situations, big or small.”

Our spirit guides arrive in many forms, and all you have to do is be willing to accept their presence. Always have gratitude for all the divine intervention. Ask for guidance and then be willing to truly pay attention to what’s around you through complete presence and awareness.

Disclaimer: This article is for entertainment purposes only

10 Signs You Have An Omega-3 Deficiency

“Research shows that omega-3 fatty acids reduce inflammation and may help lower the risk of chronic diseases such as heart disease, cancer, and arthritis. Omega-3 fatty acids are highly concentrated in the brain and appear to be important for cognitive (brain memory and performance) and behavioral function.” – University of Maryland Medical Center

Omega-3 fatty acids are crucial to the development and function of the human body. Additionally, omega-3’s deliver powerful health benefits that make omega-3’s an important part of our daily diet.

We’ve all seen fish oil supplements at the market, and they often sell out at a pretty fast rate. The reason for this is that two types of omega-3 – DHA and EPA – are predominantly found in certain types of fish, and the consumption of fish is less prevalent than other types of foods. The third type of omega-3, ALA (alpha-linolenic acid) can be found in various plant sources, which will be discussed later.

When this important type of fatty acid is not consumed regularly, different types of symptoms can surface. These symptoms range from cognitive (e.g. depression and memory loss) to physical (e.g. inflammation and arthritis.) It’s worth noting that the degree to which this vital fat source is neglected often coincides with the severity of symptoms.

Here are 10 signs that you may have an omega-3 deficiency [also see below for some good omega sources]:

1. Depression

Researchers have discovered that countries with regular omega-3 consumption have a lower rate of depression. This could be because omega-3 is highly concentrated in the brain and normalizes the brain’s neural activity. Secondly, this fatty acid is a necessary component of the neurotransmitter serotonin. That’s the brain’s “mood stabilizer” chemical.

2. Inflammation and Arthritis

Groundbreaking studies have taken place that reaffirms omega-3’s anti-inflammatory properties. In a study published by the Institutes of Health, 125 individuals started a daily regimen of omega-3 fish oil supplements. After just 75 days of use, 60 percent of respondents reported an improvement in overall joint pain, 80 percent were “satisfied with their improvement,” and 88 percent continued their intake of omega-3 supplements.

3. Weight gain

Omega 3 increases the metabolic activity in cells. A deficiency of omega 3 in one’s diet can lower metabolism and lead to weight gain. To avoid this physiological effect, it is necessary to ensure the proper intake of omega 3’s.

4. Heart disease

In a study undertaken by the Harvard School of Public Health, 40 percent of individuals that died from heart disease had elevated levels of LDL cholesterol. Omega-3 fatty acids effectively reduce the levels of bad cholesterol in the body. Also, omega-3’s help to reduce inflammation throughout the body, lower blood pressure, and reduce blood clotting – three factors that may help reduce the risk of heart-related illness, including heart disease.

5. Difficulty learning

As mentioned, omega-3 is highly concentrated in the brain and contributes to the normal functioning of neurons. When these essential fatty acids are low, the chemicals surrounding the brain and nerve cells are insufficient, inhibiting the functioning of neurons and may lead to difficulty learning and retaining new information.

6. Unhealthy skin

Fatty acids are responsible for the health of cell membranes in the skin. This function is a barrier to things in the air that can cause skin damage. Further, omega-3 allows the skin to absorb healthy nutrients and expel harmful waste products. When omega-3 is deficient, the functioning of this entry/exit mechanism is as well.

7. Memory loss

In one study of people aged 55 or older who complained about memory loss, one group of individuals took fatty acid supplements for six months. The others received a placebo. Afterward, the supplement group tested twice higher in memory-related activity than the placebo group. This is likely the result of increased concentration of fatty acids in the brain, an essential component of peak cognitive function.

8. Inhibited immune system functions

Consumption of omega-3 fatty acid is essential to enhanced immune system functionality. Eicosanoids are hormone-like substances in the cells; some eicosanoids perform important functions in enhancing the immune system, preventing blood clots and reducing pain. Omega-3 fatty acids produce phospholipids, a building block of this important substance. Without a normal intake of omega-3, we are potentially more prone to illness as our body cannot produce eicosanoids at a sufficient level.

9. Fatigue

Those that suffer with chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS) often test for low levels of fatty acids, particularly of the EPA variety. Inflammatory cytokines (certain cell proteins) often contribute to feelings of fatigue, another physiological effect often mitigated by consuming enough omega-3.

10. Eyesight problems

Omega-3 fatty acids are important to protecting eye health. Macular degeneration, dry eye syndrome, and glaucoma are just three ailments potentially preventable by ensuring proper intake of omega-3. In a European study, subjects who often ate oily fish (source of DHA and EPA) were half as likely to develop macular degeneration.

Sources of Omega-3

Fish and fish oil supplements are obviously the best sources of omega-3. Salmon, mackerel, and sardines contain the highest levels of both DHA and EPA omega-3s.  Plant-based foods, including flaxseeds, leafy greens, beans, cabbage, and squash are also excellent sources. Here is an itemized list of plant-based foods that contain healthy amounts of omega-3s:

  • Flaxseed
  • Chia seed
  • Hempseed
  • Romaine
  • Arugula
  • Spinach
  • Navy, kidney and soybeans.
  • Cauliflower
  • Broccoli
  • Bok choy
  • Brussels sprouts
  • Winter squash

10 Foods You Should Never Refrigerate

When we bring home big and heavy bags of groceries, our first instinct is to just “put everything away.” Don’t be mistaken, this is a good idea when we bring home a bunch of perishable foods.

Often, we’re programmed to shove things into our refrigerator. This makes sense on some level – the refrigerator is the usually the biggest appliance in the kitchen, and storing things in it is relatively easy. In some ways, this is a good habit. For example, the sooner we refrigerate perishable foods such as milk, eggs, cheese, butter and meat, the better.

However, not all foods are meant to be refrigerated. In fact, refrigerating the foods on this list can result in a bunch of undesired effects: bland taste, alteration of texture, reduced freshness, and even rotting.

Here are 10 foods you should never refrigerate:

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1. Honey

When you put honey in the fridge, you change its chemical makeup. In turn, you completely alter the texture. After a while, the honey will become crystallized, stiff, and thickened. Anyways, honey will stay good almost indefinitely when outside of the fridge. The best practice is to ensure that the product’s container remains tightly sealed.

2. Tomatoes

Tomatoes, when stored in the fridge, are exposed to cold air. When the cold air saturates the fruit, it halts the ripening process. Further, refrigeration alters the texture of the product and likely affects the tomato’s flavor. Simply put, store tomatoes outside of the refrigerator in their natural state.

3. Garlic

Garlic is another food that is commonly refrigerated under the false impression that it will enhance the lifespan of the product. Actually, the opposite is true – it shortens lifespan. Refrigeration also stunts the product’s flavor, can cause mold to grow and reduces the usability of the product. Instead, keep garlic stored loosely and make sure to consume any garlic within 10 days after the head is broken off.

4. Coffee

Many people refrigerate or freeze coffee, thinking that it keeps the product fresh. Actually, this does nothing for the preservation. Additionally, refrigeration alters the coffees taste because of condensation. The best way to store coffee is in a tightly sealed container in the pantry or on a shelf.

5. Olive Oil

The only type of oils that need to be refrigerated are nut-based oil products. When olive oil or another other type of oil is refrigerated, the product actually takes on an unnaturally thick texture. The oil also begins to appear murky and loses its consistency. In the future, simply leave olive oil (or any oil) on the shelf or in the pantry.

6. Bread

Bread is yet another product which people love to stick in the fridge. However, this doesn’t do much to extend the products usability. Also, refrigerating bread will quickly dry the product. It’s perfectly fine to refrigerate or freeze bread – it just reduces the quality of the breads flavor.

7. Basil

Basil is a food that is adept at absorbing the smells of its environment. When placed in a refrigerator, that’s exactly what happens. This may be a problem for some people, because most thoroughly enjoy the refreshing aroma of basil. Instead, store basil in a cup of fresh water outside of the fridge. Also, there are plenty of internet tips on how to freeze this product.

8. Avocado

When avocados are purchased ripe, there is no issue with refrigerating the product. However, cold air will stop avocadoes from ripening. Keep in mind that an avocado will last for up to about a week in the fridge after it ripens. Also, ensure that avocados are refrigerated whole, as the exposed interior of an avocado will brown quickly when exposed to cold temperatures.

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9. Onion

It is important that onions remain in an area that allows for air to circulate – a refrigerator is not a viable option for this. Refrigeration of onions will make them soft and the cold temperatures can produce mold. The storage of onions is the same as potatoes – keep them in a dark and cool place in the home. Also, nix any idea of storing potatoes and onions together – this can cause each product to deteriorate faster when mixed together.

10. Potatoes

There is a common mistake that people make – storing potatoes in a cold place instead of a cool place…this makes a big difference. The starch of potatoes is more quickly converted to sugar in a colder environment, which reduces the lifecycle of the product. Instead, potatoes should be stored in a paper bag and the bag placed in a dark, cool spot in the home. This method of storage will slow the potatoes rate of deterioration. As mentioned above, do not store potatoes and onions together.

5 Lessons You Can Learn From A Tree

Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Adopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience.” We would benefit greatly if we only took the time to pay attention to the simple lessons a single tree has to offer. We can learn so much from the way it reacts, conforms and moves on. Almost every part of it can be related to our own human nature, and we can become greater when we allow the awe-inspiring elements of our world to guide us through this journey of life.

Here are five lessons you can learn from a tree:

1. Change is inevitable.

Each season brings with it mystical components. Spring and summer take us back outdoors, feeling hopeful and recharged. Fall turns us into children again with hot cocoa, marshmallows, and bonfires. Winter forces us to move inward reconnecting with our emotions. Every season has its own enchantment. We resist change. We live through cycles, ups and downs and the endless array of roller coaster rides. Make the most of them. Transformation is part of our existence. Mountains have stood gracefully for millions of years. Rivers flow regardless of rain or sunshine. Trees are resilient. They sway with the wind, bend with storms, and continue to flourish in their environment. This resilience is often supported with the help of ISA-Certified Arborist Tree Services similar to this Certified Arborist in Dallas. These experts ensure trees remain healthy and strong, protecting both the environment and nearby properties.

The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open. Do it. Throw yourself.” ~ C. JoyBell C.

2. Even the strongest tree eventually falls.

If a tree of hundreds of years can tumble over, roots and all, what makes you think you are invincible? Curiosity is the one thing impossible and invincible in nature. Our perception of strength and endurance sometimes is overly ridiculous. You are not a cement pole. You are deeply rooted in your beliefs and through the walk of your life. However, you do not have to remain steadfast. You can choose to say “no” when things get hard. Just like a tree might need the expertise of a tree removal company when it’s no longer safe, you can ask for help when you need it. You are not here to prove anything to anyone but your soul. Vulnerability is not a weakness. I was recommended a lafayette tree removal company to trim my old oak tree.

This life is yours. Take the power to choose what you want to do and do it well. Take the power to love what you want in life and love it honestly. Take the power to walk in the forest and be a part of nature. Take the power to control your own life. No one else can do it for you. Take the power to make your life happy.” ~ Susan Polis Schutz

3. Don’t ask permission to break down.

A tree doesn’t ask the other trees for space or time to fall. It just does it. When it’s time to let go just do it. It’s part of life. We have been conditioned to carefully wait for others to give us the okay to cry, get angry, or show any kind of emotional release. You are only responsible for your emotions. You cannot expect anyone else to understand your trials and tribulations. Don’t just breakdown. Have a breakthrough and return to your own happy garden.

Don’t be ashamed to weep; ’tis right to grieve. Tears are only water, and flowers, trees, and fruit cannot grow without water. But there must be sunlight also. A wounded heart will heal in time, and when it does, the memory and love of our lost ones is sealed inside to comfort us.” ~ Brian Jacques

4. Everything is seasonal.

We all move through seasons just like nature but we are hard on ourselves. We don’t cut ourselves any slack. As we shed emotional baggage we do not allow ourselves recharge and renew. Listen to the wind. Close your eyes and allow the sound of nature to dictate your breath.

Live in each season as it passes; breathe the air, drink the drink, taste the fruit, and resign yourself to the influence of the earth.”~ Henry David Thoreau

5. Everything has its own perfect timing.

Every leaf on a tree knows when to release. Each seed that falls into the ground has a connection with the earth to grow. There are no coincidences in life. You can call it divine intervention, synchronicity, serendipity, or destiny. There is something greater out there that moves us. The universe is always working in our favor. The environment knows the secrets of allowing and accepting. You are the creator of your life.

Climb the mountains and get their good tidings. Nature’s peace will flow into you as sunshine flows into trees. The winds will blow their own freshness into you, and the storms their energy, while cares will drop away from you like the leaves of Autumn.” ~ John Muir

Most of us walk through life watching out for everything that is ahead of us. We don’t take the time to enjoy what is right in front with each passing step. Life is all about the small wonders. Add them to your intentions and you have a recipe for contentment. Be like a tree: constantly swaying and moving with the seasons. Allow nature to provide you with the simple gifts of living.

5 Reasons Introverts Make The Best Relationship Partners

There is a lot of relationship advice regarding the introvert and the extrovert. There is a beauty to being in a relationship with an introvert–the excellent demeanor, loyalty, and calming effects in a relationship.

Here are five reasons introverts are some of the best relationship partners:

1. Introverts are great listeners.

Nothing turns a woman off like going out with someone who only talks about himself. Introverts are empathetic, and this sense of presence is priceless. They will listen to you over and over. They will let you rant and release while remaining quiet. Introverts think before they speak, so they can come across as chill while delicately using a grounding tone. The world needs both the talker and the listener.

2. They love being at home with their loved ones.

In their means to find solitude from the outside world, the introvert enjoys being with their mate. Quiet time, TV watching, reading, or even listening to music is a retreat for them. Their need for solitude gives an introvert a chance to recharge their batteries. They enjoy their privacy with the togetherness of their loved ones. There is no need to entertain them. An afternoon with their loved one while reading a novel is orgasmic.

3. Introverts are faithful.

Because it takes so much energy to enter into a relationship, introverts are conscientious of what they have. They find gratitude in lasting relationships. They will do everything to stay in a safe environment. Loyalty is number one in their books. An introvert prefers profound connection in their personal lives over the social stimulus of the world at any time.

4. Introverts are lovers of mystery.

The introvert lives in his thoughts. When you are in a relationship with this type of mind, the world is an encyclopedia. Their love for reading and knowledge is magical. An introvert can share stories and adventures from history. They love that you are there to listen as well. Introverts are great thinkers and observers of everything around them. They will notice changes and appreciate the smallest of details.

5. They are sensible and realistic.

It helps when one partner is level-headed and down to earth in a relationship. The introvert has a way of seeing all sides and making logical decisions. They think things through. They are analytical and will help their mate see the practicalities of challenges and obstacles.

Loving an introvert is opening up to a genius mind. They bring mysticism and creativity into a relationship. Their presence is in tune with nature and will always get a sense of peace. If you are in love with an introvert, you already know this!

“According to the latest research, one-third to one half of us are introverts – that’s one out of every two or three people you know. But you’d never guess that, right? That’s because introverts learn from an early age to act like pretend-extroverts. The trick for introverts is to honor their styles instead of allowing themselves to be swept up by prevailing norms.” ~ Susan Cain, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking.

6. They Value Separate Time in A Relationship.

Since introverts love spending time alone, they also know the importance of giving their partners space. Even two introverts eventually get tired of one another and need solitude to recharge. Plus, time apart greatly benefits relationships, giving couples a sense of autonomy and individuality.

Often, people refer to themselves as “we” after a while in a relationship. While this is normal and indicative of a strong relationship, you also need to retain your interests and persona.

Spending time with friends, doing hobbies you enjoy, or even lounging around the house alone can build a stronger partnership. Alone time also allows for self-reflection and introspection, two things introverts highly value.

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7. Introverts Don’t Like Drama.

Introverts also make incredible relationship partners because they have easygoing, low-key personalities (mostly, anyway). They steer clear of loud, boisterous people and those who gossip because they’d instead not get involved. Quiet introverts like to mind their own business and avoid getting caught up in others’ drama.

Their relationship probably won’t make a mountain out of a molehill either when it comes to their relationship. Little things like their partner leaving their socks on the floor or forgetting garbage day never ruffles their feathers.

When you’re with an introvert, you can rest assured that discussions will remain calm and civilized. If a disagreement comes up, they won’t yell, become passive-aggressive, or resort to name-calling. This quiet, collected demeanor makes them highly attractive partners for the long haul.

8. They Accept You Without Question.

Another benefit of being with an introvert is that they will love you unconditionally, no questions asked. They have done the hard shadow work on themselves and have learned to accept their flaws. So, they can easily extend this love and compassion to their partner. They know that the perfect relationship or partner doesn’t exist, so they don’t have unrealistic expectations.

As long as you love and respect them, they will hold space for you to be your authentic self. They love people who feel comfortable in their skin, so don’t feel like you have to hold back. Introverts crave authenticity and will adore you even more for showing your true colors.

9. Introverts Pay Attention to the Details.

In relationships, introverts quickly memorize all the important dates such as birthdays, anniversaries, and the day you first met. They pay attention to your favorite foods, colors, songs, and every little thing about you. As you might have noticed, your introvert lover listens intently to everything you say and remembers the minor details.

Introverts are thoughtful, deeply caring people who want to give their all in relationships. They tend to shower their partners with love, affection, and sentimental gifts to show how much they care. If you’re lucky enough to have an introvert partner, you’ve probably noticed how they dote on you.

10. They Know What They Want.

Introverts take their time getting to know someone and don’t just rush into relationships. So, if they’ve chosen you, they feel a deep connection and want something serious. Introverts aren’t known to have many casual relationships because they value intimate bonds with people.

They also are highly analytical and take ample time making decisions, which they don’t take lightly. Their reflective nature means they think long and hard about relationships before pouring their heart and soul into them. They’ve been burned many times, most likely, which helps them discern what they like or dislike in potential partners.

When they finally decide to settle down, they’ve met someone pretty special. So, if you’ve been dating an introvert for a while, know that they have your best interests at heart. They’re loyal to a fault and will always make the relationship a priority.

11. Introverts Are Authentic and Sincere.

Despite being aloof and withdrawn when you first meet them, they quickly open up to those they feel comfortable around. It isn’t that they’re being rude; they want to save their energy for a real, intimate connection. So, if you meet them at a party, they may not talk much at first. They’re trying to decide if they should take things further than small talk or not.

If you have a connection and decide to start dating, expect long nights of deep conversations, though. They crave the type of relationship where they can share their deepest thoughts without being judged or feeling uncomfortable. When you can break their walls down and truly get to know them, they’re some of the most beautiful, sincere people.

12. They’re Easy to Please.

Another bonus to having an introverted relationship partner is that they are easy to love, low-maintenance people. They don’t make a big fuss if something goes wrong and don’t need a lot in a relationship. Love, kindness, friendship, and someone who will have their back matter the most to them. They don’t require fancy dinners, flashy cars, or expensive vacations to feel satisfied.

Quality time at home with their partner gives them more happiness and warmth than any material item. Their perfect day looks like breakfast in bed, a walk in the park, and snuggling up for a movie. A home-cooked meal, relaxing music, and a cup of tea wouldn’t hurt, either. If you’re a homebody by nature, you will have a good relationship with an introvert!

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Final Thoughts on A Relationship With An Introvert

Relationships with introverts may take time to form, but they can quickly become some of the most rewarding bonds you’ll have. Introverts crave soul connections and thrive on meaningful conversations with people. They love staying up late talking about everything under the sun in relationships, from aliens to philosophy.

They’re also loyal, honest people who take their relationships seriously and would do anything for their partners. Introverts are thoughtful, observant individuals who notice the little, subtle things most people miss. Their authenticity and easygoing nature make them the best relationship partners and friends!

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