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Are you an Introvert or an Extrovert?

January 14, 2015 by Power of Positivity

“(Carl) Jung was the first to propose the model of psychic energy, suggesting that for introverts, energy flows inward, while for extroverts, energy flows outward…” – Sophia Dembling, author of The Introvert’s Way: Loving a Quiet Life in a Noisy World

Introversion and extroversion are two different personality types. These types arise from the theories of Carl Jung. He noted that the two personality types stem from where you focus your attention and direct your energy. Furthermore, the two personality types are classified as preferences. That’s because nearly everyone spends at least some time in their secondary “mode.”

In addition, a small minority of people spend roughly equal amounts of time introverting and extroverting. These interesting folks are “ambiverts.” However, scientists classify the personalities of most people into one of the two main types.

The differences in personality types result from how our brains are wired and the variances in brain chemistry. Our environment can also influence how much we alternate between types.

The brains of introverts and extroverts are activated (aroused) under different circumstances. Extroverts require more stimulation from the outside world, which is where these individuals gain their energy. Introverts are stimulated internally and quickly deplete their energy with too much social interaction.

Primary Traits of Extroverts

Here is the basic breakdown of Extroversion from the Myers & Briggs Foundation, administrators of the infamous Myers-Briggs Typology Indicator (MBTI) test. According to Myers & Briggs, extroverts:

– Get their energy from active involvement in events and various activities.

– Become excited and energized around other people.

– Prefer to take action first and think later.

– Are often seen as “outgoing” or as a “people person.”

– Have a wide range of friends and know many people.

– Are often seen as great motivators who inspire those they are around.

– Often dive into a project, hoping to figure out the details as they go along.

Terms that are often used when describing extroverts include:

Sociable; warm; friendly; happy; enthusiastic; inclusive; aggressive; forthright; impulsive; thrill-seeker; interactive; engaging; open; charismatic; networker; attention-seeker; energetic; risk-taker

In general, extroversion is viewed more positively in Western society than elsewhere. The reason for this? Perhaps because extroverts outnumber introverts by about 3 to 1 in the United States and a few European countries. This number drops significantly as you move eastward from the U.S. on a map.

Extroverts also have higher levels of subjective happiness than introverts do. In fact, the often display more positive, outward emotions. Because of this, the group is well known for making people feel welcome, comfortable, and cared for. Also, due to this disposition, extroverts make excellent managers, coaches, leaders, politicians, counselors, and teachers.

Famous extroverts include:

– Bill Clinton, 42^nd President of the United States

– Margaret Thatcher, Britain’s first female Prime Minister

– Michael Jordan, Basketball great and Hall of Fame inductee

– Boris Yeltsin, Russian president from 1990 to 2000

– Muhammad Ali, former professional boxer and 3-time heavyweight champion

– Winston Churchill, British Prime Minister and Nobel Prize winner

– George W. Bush, 43^rd President of the United States

– Oscar Wilde, famous Playwright

– Martin Luther King Jr., Civil rights activist

– Oprah Winfrey, famous talk show host and philanthropist

Primary Traits of Introverts

According to the Myers & Briggs Foundation introverts:

– Get their energy from ideas, pictures, memories, and other thoughts

– Energy is quickly depleted by socializing too much.

– Prefer to take reflect first and take action later.

– Are often seen as “reflective” or “reserved.”

– Have a smaller circle of friends, but have deeper relationships.

– Often spend too much time reflecting; sometimes regretting not “taking action” sooner.

– Often lay out a project in detail before diving in.

In addition, terms that psychologists frequently use when describing introverts include:

Reflective; reserved; quiet; aloof; shy; creative; thoughtful; risk-averse; individualistic; lone-wolf; idea-producer; introspective; deep; listener; methodical; solitude-seeker; planner; conflict-averse

Introverts are the minority in Western society, especially in the United States. As a result, they often feel out of place. In other parts of the world, especially in Asia, introverts constitute the majority. Additionally, countries with a significant introverted population include Austria, Belgium, Czech Republic, Denmark, Finland, Iceland, Sweden, and Switzerland.

Due to the common misconceptions of introverts, we sometimes view them as not a “happy” group. However, introverts are “happy” – just under different circumstances. This means that too much social interaction drains introverts of their relatively limited energy supply. On the other hand, solitude and quiet environments recharge them. In fact, it’s the exact opposite of their extroverted counterparts.

Because of their ability to work independently, meticulous attention to detail, and ability to concentrate for long durations of time, introverts often make great scientists, writers, engineers, architects, librarians, and analysts.

Famous introverts include:

– Abraham Lincoln, 16^th President of the United States

– Albert Einstein, renowned theoretical physicist; developed theory of relativity

– Barack Obama, 44^th and current President of the United States

– Mahatma Gandhi, leader of the Indian independence movement

– Charles Darwin, founder of the theory of evolution

– Rosa Parks, African-American Civil Rights activist

– Warren Buffett, business magnate, investor and philanthropist

– Joe DiMaggio, former Yankee and Hall of Fame baseball player

– Edgar Allen Poe, famous author and poet

– Vladimir Putin, President of Russia

So as you may see, introverts and extroverts have very diverse personalities. Of course, there is no “right” or “wrong” personality type – just different. Your brain and environment both shape the tendency to lean towards one end of the spectrum. Thus, the strongest influence being is simply the chemical makeup of your brain.

Finally, researchers conclude that there is no significant difference in intelligence or ability. Despite the misconceptions that each type may or may not have about the other, both types have important roles to play in society, at home, and in the workplace.

In closing, we hope this article provides you with great insight into where you fit along the introvert/extrovert spectrum. Furthermore, you can learn some more about your specific personality type (there are 16!). Because it offers tremendous insight to your psyche, we recommend taking the free HumanMetrics Jung Typology test.

8 Things to Stop Telling Yourself Right Now

January 14, 2015 by Power of Positivity

Do your thoughts empower or deflate you? Are you telling yourself lies?

Of the 60,000+ thoughts which humans have every day, most of us have at least a few demeaning ones. Those little cold and prickly things you tell yourself, however, can do more damage than you think. They can sabotage your relationship with family, friends, and even yourself.

To prevent these “negative affirmations” from creating a life you do not want, you must first become aware of negative thought patterns. If you tell yourself any of the following statements habitually, stop them in their tracks and replace them with encouraging things instead!

8 Things to Stop Telling Yourself Right Now

1 – “I’m not good enough.”

Sorry to say it, but that’s the biggest lie ever told in history. If you weren’t good enough, then why are you here? All of us incarnated on Earth at this time in order to fulfill our ultimate purpose, and if we didn’t have what it takes, we wouldn’t be here in the first place. You must first establish a sense of self-worth before you can accomplish what you want in life.

What to say instead: I am a capable, powerful being. I have everything it takes to live a life I envision for myself.

2 – “That’s impossible.”

How do you feel when you tell yourself this? Every time you convince yourself that something is impossible, you make it so – simply because of your beliefs! We create our own reality. If you label something as impossible, it will become unattainable. You have to believe wholeheartedly in something if you really want to achieve your wildest dreams and get out of a limiting mindset.

What to say instead: I overcome my limiting beliefs, knowing that ALL is possible on my journey toward abundance!

3 – “I’ll start tomorrow.”

“Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today.” – Benjamin Franklin

Imagine what you could get done today if you nip the habit of procrastination in the bud. Tomorrow becomes the next day, or the next week, or even the next month or year if you let the time slip away. By putting off your plans or goals, you tell yourself that other things in your life take precedence over them. Whether you want to lose weight, write a book, become an actor, or fly to the moon, the best day to start is always today!

What to say instead: I am vigilant in achieving the things that are important to me.

4 – “My life sucks. It will never get better.”

Listen to the limiting language here. If you say that your life sucks, then you can’t possibly see all the good things that you have to cherish. If you tell yourself it won’t get better, you automatically put up an invisible barrier that keeps you getting your life back on track. You have already created the future with your thoughts and words, and it won’t change unless you align your thoughts with a positive outcome.

What to say instead: I can always change my circumstances, and I know this is only temporary. Life is my teacher.

5 – “I can’t.”

This can apply to almost anything, whether you want to cut out junk food, go to the gym at least four times a week, or ask your boss for a raise. Most people limit their outcomes because they put up walls between them and positive thinking. Of course, life comes with many challenges, but deciding to overcome these challenges will only make you stronger and show you that you can literally achieve anything you set your heart to!

What to say instead: My self-confidence is a strong foundation of support. I can do anything!

6 – “I’m afraid I’ll fail.”

“Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.” – Albert Einstein

If you never try, you will never know how far your imagination can take you. You can’t ever reach new heights if you keep your feet firmly planted in the ground. Most, if not all, revolutionaries of our past and present reached the summit because they failed over and over again. However, they didn’t let their failures stop them. They used them as a learning tool and motivated themselves to keep climbing the mountain, no matter how many times they fell.

What to say instead: I visualize myself succeeding at my goals. It is my time to succeed!

7 – “My friends and family won’t agree with me.”

Anytime you seek approval, you will never feel satisfied. There will always be someone that doesn’t agree with you, but that doesn’t mean you should value their opinion more than your own. Only you truly know what’s best for you, so asking others to validate your plans only take you further away from your goals. Placing your worth in the hands of others only detracts from your own self-worth, and will make them think they can manipulate your choices.

What to say instead: I will stand confidently behind my choices and follow my heart regardless. I deserve to reach my full potential!

8 – “I am too [insert negative adjective here.]”

When you allow negative self-talk, your mind, body, and soul become infected with self-defeating, harmful energy. Describing yourself in a negative light or attributing yourself to undesirable labels only create more distance between you and who you want to become. Remember all the positive things about yourself, and flood your mind and heart with loving thoughts about yourself. Keep in mind that what you think, you become.

What to say instead: I am a wonderful, beautiful, vibrant being who is forever worthy of my own love and respect.

9 Signs You’re Letting Your Ego Run Your Life

January 12, 2015 by Power of Positivity

Sigmund Freud, considered to be the father of psychoanalysis, studied a very complex set of theories about the human ego. He surmised the following basic precepts.

Psychological problems are rooted in the unconscious mind.
Psychological symptoms are the result of hidden (unconscious) thoughts.
Most cases of psychological problems are directly attributable to issues during development (childhood) or repressed trauma.
Treatment focuses on bringing the unresolved, subconscious conflict into consciousness; allowing the patient to deal with the problem.

In layman’s terms, the ego is responsible for mediating impulses and desires with responsible, socially-acceptable actions. But those with excessive egos do not adequately balance their desires with action; instead, they act on what is most self-serving, instantaneous, and beneficial – otherwise known as immediate gratification.

“We must go beyond the constant clamor of ego, beyond the tools of logic and reason, to the still, calm place within us: the realm of the soul.” – Deepak Chopra

Here are nine signs your ego is in control of your life:

1. Too much is never enough

Greed can bring down an individual, a family… even a society. It’s normal to want to achieve success, possess nice things and have some security. It isn’t normal to have an insatiable desire to attain the most of something– money, cars, homes, power, etc. In fact, such behavior is included in the textbook definition of narcissism.

If you want to see what greed can do to an individual, type ‘Bernie Madoff’ or ‘Charles Ponzi’ into a Google search. To see what insatiable greed can do to a society, type in ‘Great Depression’ or ‘2008 financial crises’. While these may be considered extreme examples by some, such events began with one person’s gluttonous thoughts and actions.

Takeaway: Attempt to rein in your impulses to always acquire a more, while showing gratitude about what you already have.

2. Disliking when people succeed

Can you remember when someone was promoted at work? What was your reaction? Were you happy for the person or envious of what they’ve attained?

People with large egos don’t appreciate when someone achieves success; especially success that they feel was rightfully theirs. This is seen quite often in the workplace where two co-workers vie for a coveted promotion, only to have the envious one feeling that they were wronged.

Takeaway: Even if you don’t want to congratulate someone, do it anyways. You’ll feel better and likely find that more doors open up for you.

3. Redirecting the attention back to you

Here’s something interesting: attention seekers are likely to have inflated egos. Actually, that’s really not all that interesting. It actually makes perfect sense because everything is about them!

The need to always be the center of attention no matter what – in meetings, at parties, during conversations, etc. – is a telltale sign that the ego has become a little too big. Everyone should have the chance to be seen and heard.

Takeaway: Understand that attention-seeking behavior is counter-productive; it’s also obnoxious, rude, and annoying. Even when you may not necessarily feel like it, give others the chance to be seen and heard.

4. Constantly comparing yourself

Here’s the thing: no matter what you do; the skills you have; the talent you’re born with; the look that you’ve got; the intelligence that you possess – you’ll find someone, somewhere that is “more” talented, attractive, smarter, and successful.

Comparing yourself only succeeds at one thing – making you upset and potentially undermining any progress that you’ve achieved in the process. It’s an absolute waste of time and energy. Being the best possible at what you’re attempting to achieve is all that you should need.

Takeaway: Instead of likening yourself with others, focus on what you can control – your effort, progress, and persistence. You’re a special, unique person, and you shouldn’t require validation by comparing yourself with others.

5. Craving respect and recognition

The need to feel appreciated is normal and healthy. We all want to feel that our contributions are recognized and valued. Egotists take this need to another level by always needing to feel validated through excessive acts of respect and recognition.

You’ve likely seen this in the workplace at one time or another; maybe a co-worker or boss who incessantly sought recognition for virtually everything they achieved from the time they clocked in.

Takeaway: The only respect that you should require is self-respect. The fact that you’ve done a good job and gave your best effort is enough. People will recognize your efforts and contributions, while in turn giving you the respect and recognition that is due.

6. Always being defensive

The ego is something that will protect and defend itself from unpleasant feelings. For those with an excessive ego, they will take any subtle disagreement and turn it into an argument. They perceive any resistance to their thoughts and actions as “attacks”.

Being defensive continuously can damage relationships, career and personal growth, and make them more critical – of themselves and others. It’s simply a bad personality trait to have.

Takeaway: Make the attempt to actively listen while accepting resistance and constructive criticism. People who resist a thought or idea are often not doing so out of contempt, so don’t take it personally.

7. Rarely (if ever) helping others

Our culture, at least in America, is very individualistic and self-serving. Unless we make a conscious decision to disregard this influence, it is very easy to think and act this way by default.

People who have ego problems are very individualistic; if a situation or circumstance does not pertain to them then it’s not worth their time or effort. We see this often in societies defined by class and status. The result has been the degradation of the social contract, the indifference to suffering, and the increased emphasis on materialism.

Do something positive for those that are less fortunate by donating or volunteering. Don’t buy into the notion that the accumulation of wealth and possessions will place you into another “class”.

Takeaway: Do something to help others instead of focusing on your own gains.

8. Setting unattainable goals

Setting goals is a powerful, productive action that empowers us to strive for excellence. It is human nature to desire accomplishment and the rewards that come with achieving a goal.

However, setting unrealistic goals is counterproductive; often done out of pride or ego. No matter how unachievable or unrealistic, egotists set these goals to internally demonstrate their superiority.

Takeaway: Goals are great, but be realistic when constructing them. Further, set mini-goals that will provide immediate, actionable things that you can do to achieve the desired outcome.

9. Manipulating others

Egotists not only have high expectations for themselves; they have high expectations of everyone else. They believe they’re more intelligent than everyone else, so it should be easy to control them.

When it comes to manipulation and control, egotists are not afraid to throw a compliment or two someone’s way to get what they want. They think of it like throwing a bone or an eager dog; the person on the receiving end should be extremely grateful. Mind you, this is all in their head.

Takeaway: Regardless of the situation, don’t use manipulation as a way to get what you want. Not only will you likely be unsuccessful, but people will quickly lose trust and respect for you.

7 Things That Can Cause Anxiety (and How to Prevent It)

January 12, 2015 by Power of Positivity

Anxiety is a normal human emotion that everyone feels from time to time. Anxiety is often a by-product of stress; which is something that we are all familiar with.

Battling anxiety on a daily basis can be exhausting and even result in an anxiety disorder.

“Anxiety is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it doesn’t get you very far.” – Jodi Picoult

Anxious feelings generally consist of the following:

-Feelings of panic, fear, and uneasiness

-Problems sleeping

-Cold or sweaty hands and/or feet

-Shortness of breath

-Heart palpitations

-An inability to be still and calm

-Headache

-Numbness or tingling in the hands or feet

-Stomach ache

-Muscle tension

– Dizziness

Neurochemical changes in the brain and environmental factors are considered the two biggest contributors to anxiety. Scientists have vehemently rejected personal weakness, character flaws, or a lack of maturity as being legitimate causes of anxiety.

Anxiety, if left unchecked, can affect our entire being; affecting how we feel, think and act, while having evident physical symptoms. Mild anxiety is relatively vague and uncomfortable, while severe anxiety can become debilitating. Therefore, it’s important to know what causes anxiety in order to limit or prevent it.

Here are 7 things known to cause anxiety, and ways to prevent it:

1. Stress

Without a doubt, stress is the biggest contributor to anxiety. Stressful situations happen to nearly everyone; as a consequence so does anxiety. Anything that poses a threat or challenge to our well-being is a stressor. While some stress is indeed good for us, battling frequently with stress can destabilize our mental and physical health.

Mental health professionals generally recommend three ways of coping with and treating stress: self-management, self-help, and medication.

Self-help methods include exercise, a healthy diet, being assertive (not saying yes to everything), breathing techniques, and expressing your thoughts and worries to someone.

Self-management techniques include learning about stress and anxiety (books, medical journals, etc.), stress management courses, and natural therapies such as aromatherapy.

Medication should be considered a last resort, but if physical and mental symptoms are in advanced states, doctors may prescribe an antidepressant or a beta-blocker, which helps to counteract the physical symptoms of anxiety. From there, you can begin to work your way backward through the other two methods, with the goal to end any medicated means altogether.

2. Caffeine

Caffeine is a stimulant that increases blood pressure, heart rate, and respiration. These symptoms are common when experiencing anxiety. Caffeine also fuels your “fight or flight” response, which can make anxiety much worse and even trigger an anxiety attack.

Moderate amounts of caffeine can bring some mental benefits – increased alertness, motivation, concentration, memory, and attention. The keyword here is moderation; no more than 400 mg over the course of a day. Too much caffeine triggers irritability, nervousness, restlessness, upset stomach, fast heartbeat, and muscle tremors.

As with nearly everything, use caffeine wisely and in moderation. This is certainly advisable if you have had problems with anxiety in the past.

3. Over the counter drugs and supplements

Common supplements such as weight-loss pills, fat burners, and pre-workout products can include heavy amounts of caffeine and other stimulants. Other products that may initiate anxiety include headache and migraine relievers, cough medicines and decongestants. Some popular herbal remedies such as guarana and ginseng may also cause or increase the symptoms of anxiety.

The best thing you can generally do here is to avoid “energy-boosting” pills and supplements altogether. Calories are consumed in food, and guess what… you burn calories when your body expends energy. The difference here is when you take into account what kinds of food you’re putting into your body. Are you running on 87 octanes or 93?

4. Dehydration

Proper hydration is essential for healthy brain function. In a 2009 study at Tufts University, researchers directly linked feelings of anger, confusion, fatigue, and tension to mild dehydration in student athletes. All of these symptoms are common in people who experience anxiety.

In addition to being an essential element in healthy brain function, hydration is also necessary for healthy physiological function. Mild dehydration can cause high blood pressure, fast heartbeat, facial tics, shaking hands, weak and shaking voice, excessive sweating and facial swelling.

Professionals at the Mayo Clinic recommend that adult males drink 13 cups (3 liters) of water each day. It is recommended that adult females drink 9 cups (2.2 liters) of water a day.

5. Nutrient deficiency

Proper nervous system function requires adequate amounts of certain nutrients. Nutrient deficiency has been directly linked with increased anxiety.

B complex vitamins, omega-3, magnesium and calcium, potassium, selenium, Vitamin D, theanine and lactium, GABA, and zinc are considered essential for proper neurotransmitters and other brain functions. A well-balanced diet will generally provide these essential nutrients, but there are substitutes available to help supplement your diet if needed.

Dietitians, naturopathy specialists, and nutritionists are all knowledgeable in this area. They may be able to provide some insight into specific actions that you can take to ensure that you’re getting the recommended amounts of nutrients.

6. Skipping meals

A healthy diet is the best way to ensure that you’re getting proper nutrition. Because of our frenzied, overworked, and stressed out work culture, it is common for people to skip a meal here and there.

The negative effects are cyclical in that people who live a frantic lifestyle are much more prone to anxiety and stress – symptoms which may cause them to not feel hungry. Not feeling hungry leads to skipping meals which throws off the body’s blood sugar levels. A prolonged drop in these levels results in increased anxiety and stress. This cycle is continuous until the person either: (a) alters their diet, or (b) stops feeling anxious and stressed.

Since ‘b’ is usually not an option, the only other answer is to change your eating habits. If you find it difficult to eat a full meal for whatever reason, make sure to have at least a healthy snack available. Snacks that contain healthy carbs and proteins are highly recommended.

7. Nicotine and alcohol

Nicotine is a stimulant that raises blood pressure and heart rate, which can lead to anxiety. Further, cigarettes and vapes contain carbon monoxide which can result in breathing problems – this can lead to the body reacting in a way that resembles oxygen deprivation. When we are deprived of oxygen, neither the brain nor the body can function properly.

As with most of the causes listed, the use of nicotine and alcohol is an incessantly negative cycle. People that have continuous stress and anxiety lean more on these substances than the rest of the population. According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, people who suffer from an anxiety disorder are two to three times more likely to abuse legal and illegal substances.

Multiple studies have shown the detrimental effects of nicotine use, especially smoking. Quitting any kind of nicotine use is the only viable alternative to counteract these effects. Medical experts recommend that if you choose to drink alcohol that you do so in moderation. For healthy adults, this means no more than two drinks a day.

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10 Things Money Can’t Buy

January 11, 2015 by Power of Positivity

When you reach a certain age, you begin to realize the importance of money. While true that “money can’t buy happiness”, it at least provides some security. Being poor is never something that one strives to attain. Many people who become extremely wealthy often grow up in poor households, which strengthens their resolve to never again relive the experience.

There isn’t anything wrong with having money, per se. Many affluent people have worked diligently to achieve the success necessary to accumulate wealth. It’s the prioritization of accumulating money at all costs that is the problem. In this relentless pursuit, many people realize that money is not, and never will be, the answer to what makes a person happy.

If you need further proof, look to Hollywood, California. How many actors, actresses, singers, and performers have we seen destroy themselves because of drugs, alcohol, depression, and other addictions?

Robin Williams, one of the best actors and comedians of all-time, committed suicide – attributed to depression and allegations of drug addiction. Williams was extremely wealthy and successful, yet the wealth was not enough to spare the great performer his life.

Money cannot buy happiness. What else can money not buy?

Here are ten things money cannot buy:

“Money has never made man happy, nor will it; there is nothing in its nature to produce happiness. The more of it one has the more one wants.” – Benjamin Franklin

1. Love

Money can buy lust, attraction and power…but it can’t buy love. This is because love is something intimate; something heartfelt; something mysterious. Money is none of these things. Money is simply a method of exchange – no more and no less. It’s used to pay for a product or a service; its convenience, comfort, and luxury – none of which typify what human beings truly need.

Many of us find this lesson out the hard way. We accumulate more, only to feel emptier. This is because we are raised in a culture that glamorizes wealth; which, in effect, leads to misconceptions and false beliefs.

2. Truth

Money may be able to buy influence, but truths are the most influential of all. Oftentimes money is spent to push beliefs or an agenda and can even be spent to create biased research to bolster an opinion. And oftentimes, the money wins… in the short term.

In the end, no matter how much money is spent on stifling or skewing the truth, it will always be revealed.

3. Time

Each passing minute is time that you will never get back; you are one minute closer to dying. This is meant to be morbid or depressing but truthful. Our life starts to fade away from the moment we are born.

Despite all of the scientific and medical advances, no practical way exists to extend life significantly. The extremely wealthy have spent countless amounts of money in the vain attempting to extend their lives, only to discover that they die around the same age as everyone else.

No amount of money will be able to turn the clocks back. We must take life in, moment-by-moment while experiencing it to the fullest.

4. Peace

Culturing your thoughts is the only thing that will ever bring you true peace. One aspect of this is accepting when bad things happen and turning it into a positive experience.

Look at the countless amounts of money governments and individuals have spent in the name of “peace”. These vast sums have never been able to come close to what we would define as “peaceful”.

More importantly, your inner peace does not depend on your bank statement’s ‘balance’ section. It’s how you train your mind, set expectations, and define what inner peace truly means to you.

5. Talent

The gifts and abilities that you possess in your mind and body are priceless. While money can certainly help develop a talent, it will never be able to purchase a talent or skill.

Aside from innate talent, there is the ability to learn a skill or talent; this will never be able to be purchased with any amount of money. The mental processes and dexterity of the mind and body will never be purchasable…they are invaluable.

6. Health

While undoubtedly true that money can purchase healthcare and medicine, it cannot replace natural health once it’s gone. At the same time, activities like exercise, preventative medicine, and natural self-care cost little to nothing.

It’s almost depressing to see celebrities spend outrageous amounts of money in the vain attempt to keep their “natural beauty”. First off, aging is natural beauty; wrinkling is natural beauty; gray hair is a natural beauty. On the other hand, surgical procedures that implant plastic and other medicinal substances into the body? This is not at all natural.

7. Manners/Class

Rude people exist across the entire income spectrum. How to treat someone respectfully obviously does not come from money. Arguably, there are more wealthy and entitled snobs than there are those of modest means.

Money may put you into a “higher class,” but it certainly does not make you classy. Need proof? See Kim Kardashian or Miley Cyrus. Case closed.

8. True friends

Possessing money may certainly attract people who want to be friends, but it doesn’t guarantee true friendship. Most true friends love one another…and what did we discuss about money and love? The same concept applies here.

True and lasting friends are there during the ‘boom’ and still there during the ‘bust’. Money and possessions don’t matter to true friends…your person matters.

9. Knowledge

The information you accumulate, the elements of your intellect, and the ways you exhibit wisdom can never be bought. Have you ever wondered why some of the wealthiest people seem to act in the most asinine ways? This is because money or something else has influenced their thought processes.

Some wealthy people have stated how money makes them feel ‘invincible’, and as a result, have made some truly bad decisions. So it’s not only the acquisition of this knowledge that makes it invaluable, it’s the practical application of this knowledge…neither of which money can buy.

10. Presence & Acceptance

Perhaps the most important is presence and acceptance – the ability to be mindfully present and accept, without judgment, each and every situation. This tremendous, life-changing gift is not available for purchase; only to those who seek to understand and apply the concepts.

The ability to be present while accepting each moment as we navigate life is a valuable gift…more valuable than any amount of money. After all, if we are practice presence and acceptance throughout our life, what is the need for money?

10 Ways to Stay Positive in a Negative World

January 11, 2015 by Power of Positivity

Although much negativity exists in the world, you don’t have to let it affect you. Instead, you can turn your attention to a more uplifting reality and become all the positive changes you wish to see. Send out the energy you wish to receive, and negativity will not be able to attach itself to your spirit. Despite all the horrors and tragedies going on in the world, there are still plenty of ways to keep your wellspring of positivity full.

“An entire sea of water can’t sink a ship unless it gets inside the ship. Similarly, the negativity of the world can’t put you down unless you allow it to get inside you.” – Goi Nasu

10 Ways to Stay Positive in a Negative World:

1. Surround yourself with loving people who bring out the best in you.

The company you keep should inspire you, support you, and bring your best self to light. If the people you hang around don’t make you feel loved and respected, it’s time to reevaluate why you chose these people as friends. Focus on people who spread love and a zest for life, not those who perpetuate hate and fear.

2. Smile in celebration of all the good in your life.

You may not feel you have much to smile about, but even your own heartbeat is reason enough to feel happy. Despite your current circumstances, you can turn your whole life around simply by showing thanks for your blessings. Smile because you’re alive and you have the power to create greatness, and life will give you even more reasons to feel alive.

3. Have a positive accountability partner.

You can lovingly keep each other in check by keeping tabs on each other’s energy, and kindly point out when the other one starts to draw in too much negativity. If you catch your partner watching too many negative programs on TV or listening to mindless music on the radio, call them out on it and suggest some alternatives, such as going outside or reading an uplifting book. This will help keep both of your energy levels up. Additionally, it will give you a support system for becoming your best, most positive self.

4. Limit negative media and entertainment.

“The news is where they begin with ‘Good Evening,’ and then tell you why it isn’t.” – Robert Orben

Most of the time, the news, radio, latest big-screen movies, and other modern media portray the world in a shallow, depressing, and hostile way. Too much exposure to these programs might awaken anger, anxiety, or depression in you, which will affect your energy levels. Instead of turning on the evening news, read positive articles like the ones you see on our website, or watch some motivational videos on YouTube. Pretty soon, you will most likely catch yourself craving the positive outlets and keeping the negative ones at bay.

5. Replace negative habits with more positive ones.

Just like limiting your contact with negative media, you can easily replace other negative habits in your life with more uplifting practices. Ditch junk food and incorporate more fresh, whole foods into your diet, or trade shopping for helping out at the local homeless shelter. Just do anything that makes you feel good instead of subjecting yourself to things that make you feel lousy. We were meant to feel vibrant and thrive in this lifetime, so seek out activities and habits that make you feel that way!

6. Practice “flipping your focus”.

Many times, we magnify the world’s problems while forgetting about all the positive aspects of life that are right in front of us. When you catch your mind drifting to the darker parts of this world, focus on things that make you feel light instead: families playing at the park, a stranger smiling at you, or the person who complimented you on your outfit. The world is only as dark as we make it out to be.

7. Laugh more often!

According to a recent study, children laugh 200 times a day while the average adult only laughs 4. If you haven’t laughed yet today, spend some quality time with your kids, watch funny videos on YouTube, or do something silly with friends. The world presents plenty of opportunities to laugh, we just have to take them!

8. Disconnect from the world and learn to enjoy some quiet time alone.

Go to a sacred space in the woods or on the coastline where you feel peaceful and closest to the stillness all around you. Turn off your phone for a while, and just meditate, go within, and embrace some solitude. Avoid over-thinking, center yourself, and get away from all of life’s responsibilities for a while.

9. Give more hugs.

If you have to, wear a free hugs t-shirt and offer people a warm embrace as they walk into the mall or local grocery store. This will help spread the love revolution and increase your positive energy as well; we may have a lot of violence in the world, but a hug can instantly remind us of our true loving nature.

10. Cleanse your mind, body, and spirit.

Your body is your temple, and it’s vital that you keep it healthy and strong so that it can serve as your haven when life starts to throw you curveballs. If you do encounter negative energy, eating whole, raw, plant-based foods will nourish your body and help you keep calm within the storm. Also, smudging your home or body with sage or enjoying a “BLISS Bath” can cleanse your mind and spirit, and allow the positive energy to keep flowing through you.

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8 Things to Stop Telling Yourself Right Now

1 – “I’m not good enough.”

2 – “That’s impossible.”

3 – “I’ll start tomorrow.”

4 – “My life sucks. It will never get better.”

5 – “I can’t.”

6 – “I’m afraid I’ll fail.”

7 – “My friends and family won’t agree with me.”

8 – “I am too [insert negative adjective here.]”

Here are nine signs your ego is in control of your life:

1. Too much is never enough

2. Disliking when people succeed

3. Redirecting the attention back to you

4. Constantly comparing yourself

5. Craving respect and recognition

6. Always being defensive

7. Rarely (if ever) helping others

8. Setting unattainable goals

9. Manipulating others

Anxious feelings generally consist of the following:

Here are 7 things known to cause anxiety, and ways to prevent it:

1. Stress

2. Caffeine

3. Over the counter drugs and supplements

4. Dehydration

5. Nutrient deficiency

6. Skipping meals

7. Nicotine and alcohol

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Here are ten things money cannot buy:

1. Love

2. Truth

3. Time

4. Peace

5. Talent

6. Health

7. Manners/Class

8. True friends

9. Knowledge

10. Presence & Acceptance

10 Ways to Stay Positive in a Negative World:

1. Surround yourself with loving people who bring out the best in you.

2. Smile in celebration of all the good in your life.

3. Have a positive accountability partner.

4. Limit negative media and entertainment.

5. Replace negative habits with more positive ones.

6. Practice “flipping your focus”.

7. Laugh more often!

8. Disconnect from the world and learn to enjoy some quiet time alone.

9. Give more hugs.

10. Cleanse your mind, body, and spirit.

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