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33 Ways to Radiate Positive Energy

33 Ways to Radiate Positive Energy

Life in today’s society can pull people in a thousand different directions daily.  Meeting the demands of work, home, family, and personal life can make it easy to forget about others and the impact your kind and positive energy can have on their day.   Small gestures of kindness, love, and positivity can make a difference not only in one person but the entire world.

33 Ways to Radiate Positive Energy Every Day

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1. Wear a smile!

Studies show that a smile is contagious. When you smile, it impacts people around you. They feel happier just seeing your smile. You may never know what someone is going through, but your smile could improve their day. Try wearing your radiant positive smile today to make the world around you a kind place.

Studies also prove that smiling is not only a part of our universal language but an effective way to lift your mood and the mood of those around you.  And not only does smiling look good on you, but it’s also contagious!

2. Call, text, write or send an online message to someone you’ve been missing. 

Technology provides many ways to communicate with the people you love. If you’ve lost touch with someone, send them a quick text or email. Or you may prefer to contact them via social media. It doesn’t matter how you connect with people. Just step out and do it. Studies show that people who stay connected with a wide range of people live longer.  So, go for it and contact someone you’ve been missing today.

The chances are that when you contact them, they’ll have likely been thinking of you too!

3. Forgive!

Forgiveness can bring you a renewed, peaceful spirit. You’ll find yourself feeling more positive overall and less stressed.

Forgiving others can be tricky but crucial for your health and well-being. Studies have determined that forgiveness lowers your stress levels and improves your mental health. You may even experience health benefits like lower blood pressure!

Strategies such as prayer, meditation, or reading books about forgiveness may help you better forgive others. Forgiving someone may take time but hang in there. Over time, you can let go of unforgiveness and find healing.

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Read tips on how to ask someone for forgiveness.

4. Help someone in need.

There’s a good chance someone out there could use a free cup of coffee, a few extra bucks to get to work, or even a warm hug.  As the song goes, “We all need somebody to lean on”!

It’s easy to get caught up in the day’s busyness. Errands, dropping kids off at sports practice, and grocery runs eat away at your day. But amid your busy life, look around for someone in need of a kind gesture. It may be the homeless person you see standing on the corner near your grocery store asking for money or your elderly neighbor who needs help to put their trash cans at the curb.

So take a minute each day. You’re sure to be kind to one who needs a little help. Taking the time to help them will bless them and add positive energy to your day.

Who knows? Maybe the day will also arrive when you need a helping hand. It never hurts to build up that good karma.

5. Be kind and respectful on the road.

Imagine for a moment that you’re a zen traveler who’s missing a middle finger. 😉  Let a car merge in front of you and do it with a smile. Give the other person the right of way at a 4-way stop, even if it’s your turn. Even venture as far as sacrificing the coveted parking space you’ve been lapping the lot to find.

Exercising this patience will help diminish feelings of road rage.

Road rage is a common experience on the roads today. Who hasn’t seen an angry driver weave in and out of traffic or shake their angry fist at another driver? Plus, traffic jams cause frustration. They make people late to work or late to get home after a long day at work.

Choosing to drive respectfully on the road makes you feel more relaxed and makes the road safer for other drivers. Here are some simple ways to help you relax amid the chaos of a traffic jam.

  • Listen to calming classical music.
  • Listen to an audiobook on a topic you’re interested in
  • Tune in to a podcast
  • Listen to upbeat, positive music.
  • Recite something you’ve been trying to memorize, such as inspiring quotes, a favorite poem, or a presentation for work

6. Give a random gift at work. 

Good chance someone at work would be blessed to receive a small gift from you. Maybe it’s someone who just lost a parent or an overly tired young mom. Whoever it is, you may not realize the impact you can make on someone by randomly giving them a gift card for coffee or a flower for their desk. It’s the little things that count in life.

Giving a small gift could make a huge difference in someone’s day. So buy a colleague’s extra cup of coffee or leave a special trinket on their desk. You’ll make them happier, increase their morale, and maybe even raise their self-esteem.

positive-energy7. Show encouragement.

Tell someone that you believe in them, regardless of anyone else’s opinion.  They might need that more than you realize.

Encouraging words have power. Studies show that encouragement increases a person’s good feelings about themselves, gives them a more positive focus, and shows them respect. Who doesn’t need some encouragement once in a while? Proverbs 18:21 says, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.”

Give some life-giving words today. It’s sure to not only affect them but increase your own positive energy.

8. Post-it Positively!

Leave a little sticky note next to someone’s door, alarm clock, or anywhere you’ll know they will be in the morning that says, “today is going to be a great day!” or “You’re going to rock today!”.  One tiny blast of positive energy could change their day, week, month, year, or whole life!

Writing a little inspiration quote, a special poem, or a silly little message on a post-it note sounds simple enough. It’s something that takes just a few minutes of your day. But this simple action could inspire someone or give them a good laugh. Now that’s a positive way to change the world around you.

9. Tip it!

Next time you’re out at a restaurant, or coffee shop, leave a sizable tip.  If your bill is only $10, make the total $20.  You don’t have to do this all the time, as it could get pricey – but the waiter/waitress who makes about $2/hour is surely going to remember the single occurrence for a long time to come.

Remember that people who work in service industries are often overworked and underpaid. They work long, hard hours serving people who are often impolite and ungrateful. The next time you’re at a restaurant or getting a haircut, take the time to first thank your server for doing such a good job. Secondly, give them a generous tip.

Many service people rely heavily upon tips. Your generosity could make the difference whether their kids are on a sports team or can buy enough groceries to feed their growing family. The quote “pay it forward” is a good reminder to be kind whenever possible.

10. Give a random gift to a friend. 

Friends are special. Show a good friend how much they mean to you with a small gift. It doesn’t need to be extravagant. Buy them lunch or a cup of coffee. Drop off their favorite sweet treat or flower at their work. Knowing you care about them will boost their day and make you feel good that you’ve shown someone special that you love them.

There’s nothing better than getting an unexpected gift from a friend.  Facebook is really great for this as they can send a gift directly to your friends online.  And if you want to send us one, we’d gladly accept. 😉

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11. Be kind to the Earth.  

Earth is our home. Just as you take care of your house by keeping it clean and fixing broken windows, you should take care of the Earth. There are many ways to do this. Some suggestions include

  • Composting lowers your carbon footprint by turning grass clippings, vegetable peels, skins, and paper into compost that you can use in your garden.
  • Picking up highway trash or trash at the park
  • Recycling plastic and glass
  • Grow a garden for your household

Being kind to Mother Earth doesn’t need to be expensive. Start small. Even a couple of small actions can make a big difference.

Little changes make a difference. Drink from a reusable water bottle, recycle, bike/walk to work, or eat sustainable foods that cause no harm to animals.  This is the only place we have to live (right now), so please be mindful!

12. Surprise family or friends with a vacation.  

Some people do not have the money or time due to money to go on vacation.  Give them a weekend to remember if you can – bringing joy into the lives of others is one of the greatest things you can do in this life.

It may require you to save your money for months or work extra hours for more vacation days, but planning a surprise vacation for your family or friends is worth the sacrifice. How cool is it to think you are the one making such a fun surprise?

The wonderful memories of the vacation will give your family and friends something to discuss for years.

13. Support the local economy.  

Local, small businesses offer unique shopping or service opportunities for citizens living in the community.  Without local businesses would lack the community feel. When possible, skip shopping at the big retail store. Instead, head to your local small business for that gift.  Eat dinner at a family-run restaurant instead of choosing to dine at a restaurant that you could find anywhere in the U.S. Supporting your local economy could look like

  • Join a local community group
  • Volunteer at a local food bank
  • Donate to a local charity
  • Tutor kids at a local elementary school
  • Attend local community meetings that discuss improvements or changes in your area

You’ll feel more connected to your community, and you’ll add a little extra positivity too.

Remember–no multinational corporations are behind the local farmer’s market, bakery, or hair salon.  Support the families in your community – as the adage goes, it takes a village.

14. Compliment a stranger.

Many people are lonely. Giving someone a simple compliment could make their day better. Of course, you should be wise about who you speak to. Never put yourself in a dangerous situation when talking to a stranger.

If you’re in a suitable situation in public, take the time to compliment an older person on their lovely gray hair or compliment a young mom on how patient she’s with their feisty two-year-old. It could make their day.

You never know what kind of day someone may be having.  A simple compliment on their smile or the color of a pretty blouse can cheer them.

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15. Achieve a goal, go after another. 

Setting goals helps you feel positive and productive in your life. Your goals don’t need to be big; small goals add to big results.  At the beginning of each day, write down four or five goals you’d like to achieve.

These notes could be mundane, simple goals like washing two loads of laundry or calling the vet to make an appointment for your cat. Little by little, whittle away at your list. Finish one goal and go on to the next. At the end of the day, you’ll be surprised at how much you’ve accomplished. You may want to divide your lists of goals into the following:

  • Household goals-cleaning, cooking, shopping, repairs
  • Personal goals-hair cuts, pedicures, buying clothes or having lunch with friends, hobbies
  • Family goals– kids’ shoes, kids, doctor appointments, reading a book to your four-year-old
  • Work goals-finish resume, call a client, or file papers.

People love success stories.  Be one.

16. Write and practice powerful “I AM” Affirmation Statements.

Writing down “I Am” affirmation statements about yourself boosts your positive energy. Studies show that when you write down affirmative statements about your values, it not only increases a healthy self-view but it also gives you more compassion for others. Practice weekly writing up your affirmation statements and read them every day.

When you verbally affirm the positive person you know lives in your soul, your positive energy will increase and broaden in impact.

17. Donate material items.  

No doubt, you have extra stuff lying around the house. Donate your items to a local charity, homeless shelter, or thrift store if it’s in good condition. Some churches collect household items for single moms. Donating to those in need is good whether it’s clothing, furniture, good used clothing, or kitchen dishes. It’s something positive you can do for others, and you’ll feel happier helping others.

Do your part, and you’ll even have a cleaner house!

You can also support causes by shopping for brands on a mission. TOMS shoes, Toys for Tots, and other charities make it happen in a big way for those with little.

18. Pay for dinner.

This is a classic way to spread positive energy.  Sharing a meal can bring the world together – but paying for the bill can create world peace (really!)

If you go out to dinner regularly with your parents or friends, why not dig deep into your pockets to pay for their meal. It’s easy to grow complacent and expect others to always foot the bill. It could mean a lot to someone if you show them you care by paying for dinner.

Of course, if you can’t afford it, don’t go into debt buying people’s dinners, but maybe you could start saving a little extra money to increase your food budget for situations like this. It takes simple planning ahead, but the joy you give will be worth the small sacrifice.

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19. Pray for someone. 

Prayer is powerful. It can give comfort and bring hope to someone. Taking the time to pray for someone shows them you care. If you see someone in need at work, school, or home, take a minute to ask if you can pray for someone.

Studies indicate that those who are ill benefit from prayer. In fact, researchers have found a strong relationship between prayer and cancer patients living longer. So, if you ask someone to pray with you today, who knows, you may save their life.

Please include someone who needs it.  This is the most powerful one of all.

20. Offer to babysit.

Parenting small kids is a 24/7 job. Parents need a break once in a while. Offering to babysit for a friend or family member’s kids could go a long way in saying you care about them. Be sure you’re prepared for working the age kids they have.

Do a little research on games or fun activities the age group enjoys. If you show up with snacks, games, and a favorite book to read to the kids, you’ll be a big hit with the parents and the kids. You’ll feel good that you could help out and reap the benefits of getting to know the kids better.

If you don’t have kids, this may seem small.  But if you’re a parent, you know the absolute gold in this good deed.

21. Be kind to someone you dislike.

This can be difficult to be nice to someone you don’t like. But it’s not impossible. It’s a choice you make. Of course, you should never be kind to someone who’s hurt you physically or abused you verbally. These people aren’t trustworthy, and you shouldn’t feel the need to be involved in their life.

But for that grumpy coworker who doesn’t greet you or your messy roommate who leaves her stuff all over the place, giving them kind words could change their day.  Some people are irritable and uncooperative because they’re unhappy. Showing them kindness may soften their tough exterior and allow them to open up about their difficult life.

Why not try speaking kind, uplifting words today? Be prepared, though. You may not get a positive response. But that’s okay because you will feel better knowing you did the right thing, and that will enhance your positive energy.

Abraham Lincoln once said, “I destroy my enemies when I make them my friends.” Enough said.

22. Make a financial donation to a charity.  

Anne Frank once said, “No one has ever become poor by giving.”

Studies show that when you give, it makes you happier. Researchers found that your brain feels pleasure when you donate money to charities rather than keeping it for yourself. Giving your money to charities, in essence, makes you feel rich in blessings.

Even if it’s just a quarter to the red bucket during the holidays, someone will appreciate your kind gesture toward humanity somewhere.  It helps them operate, which you can feel good about.   PS – Girl Scout cookies count!

23. Help the elderly.  

The elderly around us are often forgotten, especially those who live in their homes. If you have an elderly neighbor or family member nearby, look in on them occasionally. Ask them if they need anything, and be prepared to help.

They may need someone to listen to their worries about their health. You may be able to do some kind things like helping them with their computer or planting a flower on their flowerbed. Your radiant positive energy will shine through to them and lift their spirit because they’ll know someone cares.

Although they may mentally slip, move slow, and even be tough to teach new tricks, they are worth your time – it’s important to spread your positive energy to them. You’re here because of them.

24. Adopt an animal.

Like people, animals need love and care. If you’ve ever visited an animal shelter, you’ve seen the sad faces of the dogs and cats waiting to be adopted. Many animal shelters offer discounts on adoption, help with vet bills, and provide items like leashes, food bowls, and toys. Adopting an animal isn’t just for the animal’s sake; you will be a big recipient of the animals’ devotion and love.

Everyone deserves a second chance.  Animals count too.

25. Donate books.

All the people in the world deserve the right to read whether they can afford reading material or not.

No doubt, you have some extra books lying around the house. Did you know that you can donate these to your local library? The library sells the donated books and uses the money for the library expenses. What better way to help your local library and the entire community that uses the library.

Dig around in your bookshelves today. You’re sure to find a couple of boxes of books. Your bookshelf will be cleaner, and your heart will feel happier knowing you’ve helped your local community.

There are many programs out there that take part in distributing books.

26. Read to children. 

We can’t do much of anything without the ability to read.  Give children a chance and read to them as often as possible.  Education is the world’s most powerful weapon.

Studies found that reading to your young children will help them learn to read. As they hear you pronounce words or listen to the cadence of your voice, they will adopt these habits.  Plus, reading to your kids gives you sweet times to bond over a book. It doesn’t matter if you’re reading a silly book or a serious classic to them; reading to your kids can create a relaxing, peaceful time of being together while enjoying a book.

27. Read and share inspiring material daily. 

Studies found that daily reading of inspiring or motivational readings will help your self-esteem. Sharing what you’ve read with someone else can encourage them. The opportunity to talk about what you read helps you remember the material. Plus, discussions are a great way to grow closer to the person you’re sharing with. You can choose to read from

  • A religious book
  • A book of favorite poems
  • A book of famous quotes
  • A self-help book

Any of these books will provide you with helpful motivation for your day and cause you to feel better about life.

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28. Donate to the parking meter.  

You may not think that donating to the parking meter is worth it, but it’s an easy way to help the person who uses it next. When you put extra money into a parking meter, someone else can enjoy a surprise of extra time on the meter. It’s an anonymous way of helping others that do not take much of your time or money.

If you see a car parked in front of an expired meter or someone about to get a parking ticket, do them a favor and drop a quarter in for them.  Chances are, you’ve been helped out in the past – – pay it forward. Why not give it a try?

29. Hold the door for someone.

Little things mean a lot.  Life gets busy, but taking a few extra minutes to hold open a door for someone or allow another person to go first shows kindness and consideration. Our world is filled with people who feel angry and frustrated. Trying  to be kind is one way to make the world a little better place for everyone.

Why not give it a try? 

30. Meditate.

Meditation improves your mental and physical health. Studies show that mediation benefits your health in many ways. Here are a few ways meditation can help you

  • Lowering blood pressure
  • Reduces pain
  • Lowers your stress
  • Helps IBS
  • Improves depression
  • Fights insomnia

Daily meditation is helpful at any age. It can boost your positivity and make you feel happier about life. Start slow and work your way up to a longer period of meditation for full benefits.

Mediation allows you to dissolve negative energy, dive into your soul, and multiply the positive energy you have access to then share it with others.   Ommm. 🙂

31. Apologize. 

It’s not easy admitting you are wrong. It takes maturity and self-confidence to confess you’ve made a mistake. Even if you apologize, you don’t know if the person you apologize to will forgive you. It’s worth making an effort to mend your relationship. When you apologize, you’ll feel better about yourself. Humbling yourself allows you to grow as a person. We all say and do things we regret, so no need to feel bad about ourselves. Just take that first step and apologize. You’ll feel better, which can enhance your positive energy.

Each one of us has a moment or event in our lives that we regret. Apologize.  Do it.  Forgiveness means forgiving yourself too, y’ know?

positive-energy-gratitude32. Tell someone they inspire you.

If there’s someone in your life that inspires you or has positively impacted your life – tell them. They may not realize the ripple effect of their positive energy, and your kind words may keep them going in a time they feel like giving up. Even the strong experience moments of weakness.

It seems small, but telling someone they inspire you could mean a lot to someone. It’s easy to forget how encouraging words build-up people. Whether it’s a note of encouragement or a text telling them how they inspire you, your words could make someone’s day or week. And that’s a great way for you to radiant positive energy.

33. Express your gratitude.

Perhaps the quickest way to create more positive energy for yourself and others is to express gratitude. Daily gratitude unlocks the fullness of life and allows a clear pathway to everlasting abundance. Depending on your personal preference, you can meditate on what you’re grateful for, journal, pray about it, or openly speak it aloud.

Studies show that practicing gratitude changes your brain for good. Being thankful for the good things in your life rather than focusing on the negatives enhances your well-being.

Whether you write down all you are thankful for in a journal or tell someone what you’re grateful for, you will feel happier and more content with your life. Why not get started today practicing gratitude? It will enhance your positive energy and give you a fresh perspective on your day.

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Final Thoughts on Radiating Positive Energy to Share with the World

Small action steps like these are the building blocks to continuing joy and happiness in your life and the lives of those around you.  Positive energy is infinite, and you can decide to radiate it daily.   Imagine how much better the world would be if we each made daily kind acts? I choose to begin NOW. Who’s with me?

5 Things Everyone Should Know About Introverts

Living a quiet life in a busy, noisy world can be a challenge, especially for an Introvert. Our society praises Extroverts, but Introverts have their place too. Life is about balance – there is a purpose for everyone. And… while life is not just black or white neither are there only two types of people.

In fact, people can possess qualities of both Introvert and Extrovert. Generally speaking, there are two types that are labeled by our society. Since opposites attract, it’s important that we truly learn the meaning behind these personality traits. Understanding each other allows us to thrive and have lifelong, meaningful relationships.

It’s important to learn more about yourself and design a life around that. It can truly bring a renewed sense of inner love and confidence. Our wish is for other Introverts to find that peace, and for their Extrovert counterparts to understand them on a level that they never have before.

5 Important Things About Introverts

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1. Introverts are not always shy, just reserved.

Being “shy” can be a very misconstrued personality trait given to those who are often quiet in large crowds or who don’t open up easily. In truth, those who are “shy” just take more time to blossom and open up to others. It is definitely NOT a character flaw by any means, and it is not always necessarily due to hurt from past experiences.

Introverts are not fearful when they are quiet. There is actually an inner energy shift that occurs when they are around a group of people outside their daily comfort zone. If you watch, most of the time after a few minutes or hours they open right up and join in. It’s not wrong, it’s just their nature of being.

2. Introverts enjoy being alone (sometimes).

Introverts need time to themselves. We aren’t sad. We aren’t depressed. It’s not that we don’t like you. In fact, it has nothing to do with you! We need time alone because we need time alone. It’s really that simple. 🙂

Each of us uses that alone time for different things – to relax, read, meditate, pray or talk to our Creator, practice yoga, write, watch a movie, walk or whatever. This is our time to center, re-balance, and gain energy to move forward.

Introverts need this time throughout the week or daily to stay centered and be true to his or her own nature. We also need this time to recollect, go within and think. Oh, do we love to THINK.

3. Introverts are careful about who they allow in their life.

Most Extroverts can make friends everywhere they go and have many, very close friendships. While that is beautiful and ideal, it’s not exactly how Introverts operate. We can tend to be a little choosy when it comes to close friendships. Contrary to belief, we love being social and making friends. But, when it comes to our inner circle we reserve that for loyal friends and family. Likewise, we are extremely loyal in return.

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4. Introverts are not self-centered snobs.

This is a big one. The person you are labeling as a snob may be just an Introvert. They like and enjoy their time with you. It can sometimes just be exhausting or nearly impossible for introverts to include themselves in a group or in a random conversation. In fact, in a group, it’s easier and it’s more natural for them to keep to themselves and observe. Heck, they enjoy watching you Extroverts talk and even get loud and crazy. YOU are the spice of life! 😉

5. Introverts don’t care for random phone calls.

There are many reasons random phone calls don’t work for Introverts. For one, Introverts don’t care for interruption. Whether they are busy working, deep in thought, reading, or accomplishing a task – their mind is focused on that and they prefer to keep it that way. They usually follow a schedule. A random, loud ring from a phone can startle and Introvert and ignite inner confusion.

Ask any Introvert, at first thought, they usually don’t want to pick up. When they do speak, they may not seem as engaged because they aren’t using visual cues like smiling or nodding.

It’s all about timing. A person who doesn’t understand an Introvert may consider an ignored call as “ being rude”. But that’s not true. We may absolutely adore you; we just don’t feel like talking at that moment. Emailing, texting, and scheduling calls can be beneficial. Or if they have missed your call, you can wait for a call back when it’s convenient for them too.

Final Thoughts

All in all, it’s so important to drop judgment from your life and understand and embrace everyone’s unique personality traits. More understanding allows us to truly embrace and fully love each other. Then, we can design a life that allows us ALL to flourish with more harmony.

So, the next time you meet an adult or child that appears “backward” or “shy”, think about what you just read and how you can release the need to judge and label. They need your calm, peace, support, and love.

Are you an Introvert or an Extrovert? Let us know in the comments!

This Rice Experiment Is Proof: The Power of Positivity Alters Our Physical World

What you are about to read may shock you or be something you already know. Either way, keep your mind open and receptive to this discovery by Dr. Masaru Emoto. You’ll be amazed by how you can apply the effect of the results to improve your daily life.

A researcher and alternative healer, Dr. Masaru  Emoto, has given us physical proof that our thoughts, intentions and words affect of physical world.

“HADO creates words. Words are the vibrations of nature. Therefore, beautiful words create beautiful nature. Ugly words create ugly nature. This is the root of the universe.” – Dr. Masaru  Emoto

What is HADO?

HADO (Pronounced “HA-DOE”): Expression meaning “wave” and “move”. The smallest unit of energy; the basis of energy for human consciousness.

The premise is simple, yet profound: water is a reflection of us. Some say that Dr. Masaru Emoto has introduced a revolutionary, yet natural, idea that water is a direct reflection of human words and thoughts. Critics say that Dr. Emoto’s teachings are pseudo-science and lack intellectual rigor and scientific validity. Continue on and decide for yourself…

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What are these teachings?

Dr. Emoto believes that human consciousness has a direct effect on physical reality. His philosophy can be best understood in his books, seminars, and demonstrations (one which is discussed here). His most famous teachings are the effects of human interaction with water, which was featured in the highly popular movie, “What the Bleep Do We Know?

The most famous work of Dr. Emoto was published in 1999 and is called ‘Messages from Water,’ which has sold millions of copies worldwide. In the book, Dr. Emoto explains in detail that what we say, feel, and listen to has an effect on water. The research clearly shows how the power of positivity can transform anything in our physical reality. He uses water as an example. Since humans are made up primarily of water (60-75% depending on the source), water directly affects us.

The ‘Rice Experiment’

“If you have a peaceful mind and peaceful thoughts, water becomes more peaceful.” – Dr. Emoto

To demonstrate the power of human words the power of human words and thought, Dr. Emoto used an uncommon technique: a rice experiment.

In the video, Dr. Emoto places rice into three glass beakers and then fills the beakers with enough water to submerge the rice. To the first beaker, he states the phrase (in Japanese): “Thank you,” “You’re an idiot” to the second, and ignores the third.

A month later, the thanked rice fermented and gave a pleasant smell. The rice that was affronted turned black. Finally, the rice that was ignored began to rot. These depictions of the rice are clear in the video of the experiment.

In the end, Dr. Emoto is pictured explaining how we treat children is especially important. Emoto says we should take special care in how we interact with them and ensure that attention is given. The video ends explaining that indifference does the most significant amount of harm, as demonstrated by the third beaker of rice in the video. It’s amazing how the jar with positive words was still white and fresh, when in our reality we would at least believe that it would definitely start to go bad. Amazing! That’s the power of positivity at work.

This experiment has become a global sensation. Just type it into youtube or google and you will see countless people who got the same results. But, don’t just take our word for it. Check it out the video below that documents the last day of the rice experiment.

147 Days of The Rice Experiment Documented – Last Day

Watching the videos and researching about Dr. Emoto and his teachings is undeniably fascinating. We hope this research has brought you more insight about the true power of positivity and why it is so important to apply it to your everyday life.

Psychologists have repeatedly shown that our mindset and words profoundly affect our body and those around us. Is it possible that our powerful mind and speech also has an effect on the elements of our Universe, too? Dr. Emoto certainly seems to think that they do. What do you think?

References
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16979104

Science Proves How Positive People Live Longer

Do positive people really live longer?

According to a study by professors at The International Association of Applied Psychology (IAAP), people who experience high subjective well-being (SWB) live longer lives. Additionally, they enjoy better health than those who do not.

Simply put, people’s emotions and judgments ultimately impact how long they stay around and their quality of life. In fact, people with positive SWB lived nearly eight years longer than those with negative SWB. Additionally, they experienced reduced physical ailments, including cardiovascular disease and depression!

What is SWB? Simple: It’s positivity.

SWB is a combination of various emotions, mainly: life satisfaction, having positive emotions, optimism, and avoiding negative emotions. The research cites numerous studies, including cases in which they followed people around over an extended period. In some cases, they studied subjects for thirty years. In each of these studies, participants were evaluated according to their initial SWB assessment. Ultimately, those people with positivity had better health and outlived longer than their counterparts.

What is the evidence?

The report cites a couple of very interesting studies:

Photographs of professional baseball players taken in 1952 were evaluated, judged, and given a rating.  They found that players who had authentic smiles lived longer than those who were only partially smiling, or not grinning at all. Furthermore, these ratings predicted the mortality that had occurred by 2009.

In addition, we found another example. Over an average period of 12 years, researchers followed nearly 88,200 Japanese adults aged 50 to 69 after an initial study. The enjoyment of their lives directly related to a decreased risk in cardiovascular disease, stroke, and mortality rate.

Upon admission at a nurse’s health cohort, researchers followed 63,469 nurses aged 30 to 55 every 2 years for 30 years. Consequently, they noted that the presence of depression directly correlated with increased cardiovascular death.

Total, there are a total of 26 scientific case studies within the research that directly link longevity and positivity. Further, there are seventeen case studies that directly link low positivity and the increased rates of illness, including cancer. The links between cancer and positive thinking prove inconclusive at this time. But researchers continue to study the connection.

positive peopleHow does this happen?

Scientists and doctors attribute these amazing results to two main factors: improved resilience and insightful living. Researchers believe that positive people with an optimistic outlook towards life have an increased will to live. And that results in a proactive mindset about health and prevention. Therefore, living a positive lifestyle results in a large decrease in illness and death.

In addition, positivity results in maturity and insight. That wisdom allows people to connect with their spiritual nature and live healthy, long, meaningful lives of simplicity and happiness. People who remember what is important live happier and longer lives.

So what’s next?

Research scientists and physicians continue to examine this incredible relationship between positivity and longevity. This evidence clearly points to a direct link between having a positive mindset and a rosy outlook on life with health and longevity.

The biggest takeaway from this incredible evidence is simply this: 

Remember to live with a positive mindset.  Also, be mindful of what is truly important. In fact, we all have negative experiences at times. However, let’s win the battle armed with positive action. After reading this article, does someone you know come to mind?  Tag them and other positive people in your life!positive-people

Source:
Diener, E., Chan, M.Y. (2011). Happy People Live Longer: Subjective Well-Being Contributes to Health and Longevity. Applied Psychology: Health and Well-Being, 3(1), pp. 1-43.

11 Habits of Happy People

Have you ever noticed that happy people tend to have higher expectations, and also getter better results?  There’s a reason why life flows more smoothly when your happy switch is turned on. Moreover, cultivating these habits of happy people will surely put your life on the right track toward becoming a habitually happier, healthier, and whole.

“Happiness is a habit – cultivate it.” ~ Elbert Hubbard

11 Habits of Happy People

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 1. Unconditional love

The only way love can last a lifetime is if it’s unconditional. The truth is this: love is not determined by the one being loved, but rather by the one choosing to love. – Stephen Kendrick, The Love Dare

Loving and loving unconditionally have a few fundamental differences.  You can choose love, but to choose unconditional love means that you see past the imperfections.  You release judgment and accept others as they are and choosing to act in a loving manner always.  Choosing to love unconditionally means that you’re choosing to love in a BIG way.  Bigger than the social and emotional restrictions that hold our love in bondage.

Your unconditional love doesn’t have to be outwardly in all situations either; unconditional love can also be inward. Accepting yourself fully as you are and showing yourself this same unconditional love can provide protection, healing, and the confidence you need to take your next step toward victory.

2. Gratitude

“He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.” – Epictetus

We cannot express the importance of gratitude as a habit of happy people.  When you make a habit to think of, and express, everything you’re grateful for, you’ll see that these joyous experiences continue to expand in your life.  Just like the law of gravity, the law of attraction will expand what you focus on – and if you’re focusing on what you’re thankful for, you can certainly expect to be more thankful in the future.

3. Service to others

Doing nothing for others is the undoing of one’s self.  We must be purposely kind and generous, or we miss the best part of existence. The heart that goes out of itself, gets large and full of joy. This is the great secret of the inner life. We do ourselves the most good doing something for others. – Horace Mann

Taking time to be of service shows a great deal of character, especially when you aim to serve without expectation of return.  Giving your time without the need for gain returns something much greater – it gives you the satisfaction of adding value to the world.  Working to help improve a physical, mental, environmental, or spiritual state will not only help improve the world, but will also help build positive karma in your life.

4. Self Care

You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.  You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love & affection. ~Buddha

If your own needs aren’t taken care of, how can you take care of the needs of others?  There’s nothing selfish about setting aside a certain time for yourself each day or week to make sure that your own mind, body, and soul are well and rested.  Here are just a few things we do ourselves to meet our self care needs.  Try a few and/or add your own self care habits in the comments below:

  • 15 minute morning meditation- This is very grounding.  Try it each morning before you get out of bed, or each night before sleep.
  • Affirmations – Affirmations are key in our lives.  Select affirmations that resonate with you and repeat them in the mirror DAILY.
  • Reading a chapter of a book – Just 6 minutes of reading can reduce stress by 68%. 
  • A warm soak in the tub – Try adding 2 cups of iodized sea salt with 2 cups of pure baking soda to a hot tub of water – you’ll LOVE it!
  • Exercise – Staying active not only helps you look and feel better, it also clears your mind of negative, doubting thoughts.
  • Eat raw, organic fruits and vegetables (you can put them in juices or smoothies, or eat them right out of the garden!)
  • Buy a new outfit – Hey, there’s nothing wrong with a little retail therapy every now and then!  Treat yourself, you deserve it!

5. Forgivenessforgive-people

Forgiveness can bring you a renewed peaceful spirit. You’ll find yourself feeling more positive overall and less stressed. You may even experience health benefits like lower blood pressure.  When someone hurts or offends you, negative feelings of bitterness or revenge are created. Don’t let yourself pay the price over and over. Oftentimes the focus on the past and the hurt will keep you from enjoying the wonders of today and the potential of tomorrow.

Good news: Although you cannot control their actions or their decisions, you CAN control yours.

6. Compassion

Compassion is a foundation for sharing our aliveness and building a more humane world. — Martin Lowenthal, Opening the Heart of Compassion

Having compassion brings out an important human element.  Showing recognition and respect for all situations can not only solve many of the world’s problems, but can also bring people comfort, knowing that they are cared for, loved, and recognized as equal.  Show compassion for others and where they are in life.

Although their situation may not be desirable to you, it’s where they are – and if they’re going to get closer to where they want to be, they need caring support from people just like you.

7. Humor

As the old adage states, “Laughter is the best medicine.” It’s true and happy people know it. They laugh often and even at themselves sometimes. Laughter can create a lightness out of a heavy or negative situation. One good belly laugh is all it takes too; humor is contagious. One funny, happy person in a group can create a roomful of happy people.

Humor doesn’t just make you happy, but healthy too. Studies show humor and laughter strengthen your immune system, boosts your energy, diminish pain, and protect you from the damaging effects of stress.

“Your sense of humor is one of the most powerful tools you can have to make certain that your daily mood and emotional state support good health.” – Paul E. McGhee, Ph.D

8. Responsibility

Taking responsibility for your thoughts, words, actions, and reactions can ultimately bring you more happiness in life. If your intention is to create a more positive world for yourself and those around you, it’s up to you to have the thoughts, moods, and actions that will create that positive world.

If however, you analyze your current situation and see a negative consequence being created as a result of your moods/actions/reactions, taking responsibility for that will make you adjust your sails to strive toward a better outcome.  Release the fear of judgment and create responsibly, the Divine never loses count of your true intention.

9. Persistence

If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward. – Martin Luther King, Jr.

Focus on what you want and build yourself to be that person through positive affirmations, intention, and action.  When we pursue something of great value with an undying spirit, the Divine knows this and will deliver.  It may not come all at once, or through the avenue you expect, but persistence will grant the achievements that create happiness.

10. Focus on the Solution

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Happy people focus on solutions.  Unhappy people focus on problems. – Chris Butler

Releasing focus on problems is relieving yourself of the negative focus. Great problem solvers, and many millionaires exist because they don’t see a need to focus on the problem as much as the solution for it.  Life is full of possibilities and solutions when you believe and focus on them.  Life is also full of problems when you focus on them.  Where will you put your focus?

11. Honesty

You may get away with dishonesty at times, but as mentioned earlier, the Divine ALWAYS keeps count. For every thought, word, or action you express, an equal energy will be returned to you.  If honesty is what you portray, you will gain respect, trust, and honesty in return.  With dishonesty, a barren and lonely environment that is devoid of happiness is sure to ensue in time.  You may not see the effect of dishonesty right away, but it will erode you from within.  The option to repair however, is always available. You can begin practicing honesty RIGHT NOW to build a better, happier tomorrow.

(BONUS) 12. Optimism, of course! 😉

Positive thinking is key to happiness. Happy people have practiced turning negative thoughts or experiences into positive ones. Seeing the glass half full, living a life full of positive habits, and learning to turn on your own “happy switch” consistently will turn your life around in ways you’ve never imagined.

Positive People still Attract Negative People. Here’s why.

Ever wonder why you seem to attract negative people to you?

The fact is … positive and negative people are often drawn to each other even when they seem so vastly different. It’s rooted in our nature. In fact, we can prove this in science.

positive-thinking-batteriesA battery has two ends — a positive terminal (cathode) and a negative terminal (anode). If you connect the two ends …electricity is produced!  Whether comfortable or not, when a negative person connects with a positive, energy is created.  We crave energy. Energy is a flow of electrons and energy is a flow of emotions,  If you’ve ever wondered why opposites attract – there’s part of your answer.

A positive force will magnetically draw a negative charge to it.

Know that dealing with negative people, you first must recognize that we are in fact attracted to the energy or charge that we feel. The key is to understand if the flow energy and if you need to “detach” from that negative force.

Evaluate Your Relationships

What are you getting from the relationship? What is it you want from the relationship and is it realistic? Will you ever get it? Does this relationship serve you? Is your life better with this person in it?

With most relationships, we have a choice. We can’t choose our family members but we can choose our friends. Does this person lift you up? Are they happy about your success? Do they cheer for you? Or, do they pray for you? Do they care enough to push you or ask uncomfortable questions when you’re off track?

A true friend is someone who cares so much, that they will risk offending you, having that uncomfortable conversation to let you know when you’re on a destructive path or just underselling yourself. That one true friend should feel like the President of your Fan Club! A true friend wants what’s in your best interest… Those are the people you need in your life. Those are the important relationships — and you have a choice.

Those friends who are negative, impossible please, terribly unhappy with themselves and hell-bent on confrontation are not healthy people to spend time with. There is a cost to be paid and guess who pays the price? Ask yourself how often this person repays or redeposits the withdrawals they make? We have a finite amount of love, energy, compassion and most importantly time. Be mindful of how and with whom you spend those things.

Now I am certainly not suggesting that you cut these individuals from your life. Everyone has value. Everyone has a way in which they enrich our lives. I hope you find these following suggestions helpful.

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How to best manage negative people and relationships:

1. Consider carefully how much of yourself you give to those who only withdraw.

2. Give negative individuals less power over your emotions, time and happiness.

3. You are not responsible for another person’s happiness, value or good mood.

4. Don’t take the hurtful actions as a personal reflection.

5. Remember…it is impossible to win an argument with someone who is “never wrong” or blindly self-focused.

6. Difficult, needy, angry, overly sensitive people are that way —not because of something you’ve done or not done—- but often because of early childhood experiences.

7. Have empathy and compassion but not at the risk of sacrificing yourself.

8. Don’t take it personally. It’s really not about you. And sometimes there’s nothing you can fix….but we can choose our friends.

Hurt people hurt people.

When the negative person is a family remembers that you have a choice in the way you respond—- respond in love. Stop being angry, end your resentment. Put love in your heart. We can’t change people… But we can pray for them.

When dealing with unhappy family members, know your part, but set healthy boundaries.

Be supportive without taking responsibility for the self-worth of another. Create a healthier relationship. And if you want this person in your life, (or if you really don’t have a choice via marriage or bloodline ) then make a decision to do your best without sacrificing your soul.

Ask questions. Listen.

And listening doesn’t mean letting the other person talk so that they will hurry up and finish so you can say what you need to say. Listening is understanding; trying to see things from their life perspective. Having an understanding of what it is like to walk in their shoes and what experiences have led them to this way of thinking. Take the word confrontation out of your vocabulary. Decide to be more loving.

And lastly, I believe that no relationship is 50/50.

Every relationship has a humble hero. It’s okay to be that person from time to time who does more and takes pride in their role. Be the person who’s willing to make the other person feel like the center of the universe. Instead of keeping score or building resentment, just hold that pride inside of you.

Know without having to broadcast it or write your award acceptance speech that this is ***your gift*** This is what draws other people to you. Stop feeling sorry for yourself or wondering when someone else is going to do the same for you. Respond in love or make a decision to make a change.

There are exceptions to every rule – but the thing I know for sure and it sounds “total cheeseburger” but love is almost always the right answer.

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