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10 Ways to Use Eggplant in a Low Carb Diet

Eggplant, also known as aubergine, is a purple, delicious, and versatile vegetable. You can cook them in many ways and pair them with most other foods. They are low in carbs, making them perfect for a low-carb diet.

Like a tomato, it’s skin and seeds are normally eaten but, like a potato, it is normally eaten cooked. It’s important to note that it can be eaten raw, however. It absorbs oils and flavors very well, which is what makes it such a versatile vegetable for cooking.

The benefits of eggplant include the following:

-rich in many nutrients

-low in calories

-high in antioxidants

-low in carbs

-helps reduce the risk of heart disease

-lowers and helps maintain blood sugar levels

-can help prevent and fight cancer

While this vegetable is versatile and easy to incorporate, you may need some ideas if you aren’t used to it. Luckily, there are many recipes that aubergine can be easily added to. Plus, Plus, many recipes include it in the main course of the meal.

Ways to Use Eggplant in a Low Carb Diet

1. Eggplant Parmesan Bites

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There are many recipes you can find for eggplant parmesan bites, but most have the same idea and ingredients. You’ll need one sliced aubergine, salt and pepper, one egg, flour, rosemary or thyme, and shredded or grated cheese.

Oil a baking tray and sprinkle it with salt and paper. Grill or bake it at 350 degrees Fahrenheit and bake until it is browned. While you wait for them to get done, mix your herbs of choice, flour, and cheese.

When the vegetable is browned, remove it from the oven. Then, turn each slice over and add more salt and pepper, if you choose.

Next, beat the eggs and brush them over the top of the aubergine. Then, sprinkle with the herb and cheese mixture. Once everything is evenly covered, put them back in the oven until the cheese is melted.

2. Use it to Make Pizza

If you love pizza but are trying to avoid carbs, this is the perfect option. Instead of using a pizza crust, you can use this as a substitute.

You’ll bake the vegetable for a little bit before adding your sauce and toppings. Then, you’ll bake it a little longer.

There are many recipes for this, depending on your exact preference. You can sauté your toppings and sauce together before putting them on. Or, you can add them in layers like on a traditional, pizza.

3. Eggplant Lasagna

This lasagna is just like regular lasagna, just without the noodles. Eggplant lasagna is a staple in a low-carb diet because it’s filling and delicious. Plus, it gives you a large amount of aubergine, allowing you to get the full effect of the nutritional benefits.

You’ll use most of the same ingredients that you use in your favorite lasagna recipe. In most of the recipes, the only difference is that there are no noodles. The total cook time is much less than with traditional lasagna, too.

For the meat sauce, you’ll need olive oil, garlic cloves, ground beef, salt and pepper, marinara sauce, and Italian seasoning. For the vegetable portion, you’ll need eggplant, olive oil, sea salt, and pepper. Then, for the cheese filling, you’ll need ricotta cheese, grated parmesan cheese, and an egg.

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4. Add Them to Your Salad

You can be creative when adding this vegetable to your salad. It would pair well with any other ingredients, and you have options on how you want to add it.

You could choose to add it fresh and chop it up. Or, you could roast it, let it cool, and chop it up to add it. Either way will be delicious, it just depends on your preference of texture.

5. Caprese Grilled Vegetable Roll-Ups

With a total cook time of 13 minutes, these roll-ups are the perfect appetizer or healthy snack. You’ll need one aubergine, four ounces of mozzarella, one large tomato, two basil leaves, and olive oil.

You will cut the ends off of the vegetable and then cut it into thin slices, longways. Then, slice the mozzarella and tomatoes into thin slices, and shred the basil leaves.

Then, warm a griddle pan. While you’re waiting for the pan to warm, brush the vegetable with olive oil. If you don’t have a brush, you can drizzle the olive oil instead, and then rub it in.

Once the griddle pan is warm, grill the vegetables on each side for a couple of minutes. When the second side is almost done cooking, add a slice of mozzarella to the thick part of the vegetable. Then, top with tomato and add another slice of mozzarella to the thin part.

Sprinkle them all with basil and then drizzle with a little more olive oil. You can add more pepper at this step if you’d like. Allow it to cook for another minute before removing it from the pan and draining any liquid that comes out.

Finally, you’ll roll the vegetable from the thinner end, where it is only cheese. Hold it together with a toothpick and serve warm or at room temperature.

6. Add it to Your Soup

This vegetable tastes delicious in any kind of soup. Since it is so versatile, it can complement any other ingredients.

Simply dice it and add it in with the rest of the ingredient. If you like it a little crunchier, add it when the soup is almost done. On the other hand, if you like it soft, add it at the beginning or towards the middle of the cooking time.

7. Make it Into a Dip

For an appetizer or a snack, you can use this vegetable to make a creamy dip. You can do this by baking an aubergine for one hour until the skin has collapsed. Let it cool and then scrape out the insides.

Then, you’ll mash the insides or use a mixer until they are mashed. Then, add the other ingredients you want in your dip. A popular mixture includes minced onion and garlic, chopped dill, lemon juice, plain Greek yogurt, olive oil, salt, and pepper.

Once all of the ingredients are combined, you’ll want to cover it and chill it overnight. Then, serve it with crackers or vegetables.

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8. Grill It

There are so many options when it comes to grilling this vegetable. You can cut it and grill it to add as a topping on your burgers. Or, you could cube it and add it as a topping on a hotdog, or for a kabob.

Otherwise, you can slice it into long strips, drizzle it with olive oil, and eat it as a side dish. When you do this, you could sprinkle it with seasoning or a little cheese.

9. Stuff Eggplant

This is a delicious recipe that makes a filling, low carb meal. Aside from the vegetable, you’ll need olive oil, sea salt, pepper, parsley, cilantro, scallions, and pine nuts. You could cook ground beef or shredded chicken to fill them with, too.

Preheat your oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit, and then slice the vegetable in half lengthwise. Score the vegetable halves diagonally, avoiding cutting through the skin. Then, drizzle with olive oil before seasoning with salt and pepper, plus a little garlic powder if you’d like.

Bake them with the cut side facing upwards for 45 minutes. While they are baking, chop the parsley and cilantro and toss it with the meat, if you are using any. Then, top the mixture with scallions, pine nuts, salt, and a little more olive oil.

When the vegetables are finished cooking, spoon the mixture on top of them. You can add more pine nuts or any other toppings if you desire.

10. Use Them to Make French Fries

Everyone needs to indulge in a tasty snack or side dish sometimes, and this helps keep it healthy. To do this, you’ll need to cut the vegetable into wedges. Then, add panko and a little salt into a large plastic Ziplock bag.

Next, which egg whites in a bowl and then dip the vegetable wedges in. Transfer the dredged wedges into the bag of panko mixture and shake them to coat.

Once they are coated, arrange the vegetables in a single, even layer on a baking sheet that has been coated. Then, bake them until they are golden brown, which will take around 20 minutes. You will want to flip them halfway through.

eggplantFinal Thoughts on Ways to Use Eggplant in a Low Carb Diet

As you can see, eggplant is easy to add to your low-carb diet. It is versatile, easy to cook, and can be made to fit any flavor you are looking for.

With all of the different recipes and cooking ideas, you’ll never get tired of eating it. So, embrace the nutritional benefits and stick to your low-carb diet by enjoying this vegetable as often as you can.

From meals like eggplant lasagna or eggplant parmesan to side dishes and dips, you’ll find something you love. You can make it more unique if you add a personal twist to recipes, or experiment with new recipes.

Neuroscience Explains What Happens to Your Brain As You Age

“The human brain contains some 100 billion neurons, which together form a network of Internet-like complexity. Christof Koch, chief scientific officer of the Ammen Institute for Brain science, calls the brain the most complex object in the known universe.’” ~ National Public Radio (NPR)

Stages of Brain Development

Our magnificent brain continues to undergo changes throughout its lifetime.

Just four weeks after conception, the neural tube of a baby begins to close. After seven weeks, the very first neurons (chemical & electrical transmitters) and synapses (neuronal connections) start to form the spinal cord and brain.

Between conception and age 2, the brain will add up to 1 million neurons every minute. Fast-forward to age 2, and the brain is roughly 80% the size of an adult’s.

A child’s development is truly something to behold. It’s during these early periods when the youngster is learning the fastest; absorbing and finding meaning to the huge world they find themselves in.

The brain’s potential for growth is so extraordinary that it doesn’t reach full development until around age 22. The cognitive gains, according to scientists, last for approximately 5 more years.

Around and after age 27, memory, processing speed, and working memory begin to slowly decline slowly.

So, what does this process look like?

Truths and Myths of the Aging Brain

Per Emory University’s Alzheimer’s Disease Research Center:

A commonly held misconception is that aging results in an inevitable loss of all cognitive abilities and nothing can be done to halt this decline. Research, however, does not support these claims. While certain areas of thinking do show a normal decline as we age, others remain stable.”

One of the most maddening untruths that have infiltrated society is that our ability to think faces an inevitable downward spiral as we age. (Chalk another one up to media madness. *Sigh*)

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While we do lose some of our neurons naturally, the effects on our cognitive abilities are much less severe than what is commonly repeated.

Moreover, evidence suggests that cognitive training can facilitate the growth of neurons and neuronal connections over time. (More on ‘brain training’ later.)

First, let’s discuss the physiological effects of an aging brain. (Bad news, good news, folks!) Usually, these changes are visible to neuroscientists after the age of 60:

– The brain slowly shrinks in volume. This slight yet steady shrinkage occurs in the cerebral cortex, which is responsible for executive functions (movement, mental operations, etc.)

– The white matter of the hippocampus begins to shrink slowly. This is the part of the brain responsible for long-term memory, complex mental activities, and navigation.

The following are the possible cognitive effects:

– Taking action as a result of signaling within the brain (processing speed) slows down.

– Precise coordination and complex movements become more difficult. (Walking and talking on a cell phone, for example.)

– Attention becomes more difficult to sustain; multitasking (which we are already bad at) is more of a burden.

– Ability to learn new material begins to slowly deteriorate.

No More ‘Senior Moments.’

Dr. Michael Merzenich, in his book “Soft-Wired: How the New Science of Brain Plasticity Can Change Your Life,” says that it’s never too late to rewire an aging brain.

Merzenich, a co-inventor of the Cochlear implant and winner of the Kavli Prize in neuroscience, says:

“Your brain is plastic. You have the power within, at any age to be better, more capable, continuously growing a progressively more interesting life. If you’re in decline, you have great resources that can help you sustain – indeed, even regrow – your neurological abilities in ways that can help assure that you active brain shall last as long as your physical body.”

In other words, the commitment to lifelong learning can preserve, protect, and recover cognitive abilities. Dr. Merzenich, by the way, is over 70 years of age – and is still contributing vastly in the arena of brain science.

(Do yourself a favor and watch Dr. Merzinich’s TED talk on brain plasticity. The man is a genius of the highest order.)

Training Your Brain

(We advise you to look for ‘peer-reviewed,’ ‘double-blind’ research studies on brain training providers websites like the ones mentioned in this article. Some organizations claim their methods are ‘proven by science’ when they’re not.)

The pioneer of neuropsychology, Dr. Donald Hebb, said it back in 1949:

“Neurons that fire together, wire together.”

Hebb meant that connections between two neurons might be strengthened if the neurons fire simultaneously. If you’re willing to learn, your brain is ready to grow.

So, what are the best methods of ‘brain training’?

There are a bunch of things you can do, some better than others. Reading material that is somewhat challenging can spur neuronal growth, according to science; as can crossword puzzles and games like Sudoku.

Additionally, there are plenty of free games to play online that can stimulate your gray matter. Some companies offer subscription-based services, though it’s best to do a bit of research about the company’s claims.

In reality, doing something to keep your mind occupied can only benefit your marvelous brain!

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15 Online Dating Rules Every Person Should Know

Online dating has become a way to meet new people.

Virtual dating platforms receive high praise from the individuals that have met and married from using their site. However, what they don’t tell you is all the people that they remove daily for fraudulent accounts and catfishing.

If you have little social interaction in your life, then the online world opens a wide variety of options. When you don’t have an abundance of fish in the sea where you live, the ocean is swarming with potential guppies online. How can you be safe, yet give yourself the chance to meet someone amazing?

There are some basic rules and etiquette that you should follow when online dating. Done right, using these virtual dating apps can help you meet Mr. or Miss Right, but you need to be careful.

Here Are 15 Online Dating Rules Every Single Person Needs to Know

1. Be on Guard

While most people on these online dating sites are like you, there are always a few bad apples that spoil the whole bunch. Catfishing is a genuine problem on these sites, and the best way to avoid it is to not get swept into the web of deceit, but there are really good apps online such as this free sex app that let you meet people online for hookups.

There are plenty of online scammers that prey on vulnerable people. If someone tells you they are in the military and are stationed in a foreign land, be careful. Also, if anyone starts off their story that they’re a widow with a child in a boarding school, just go ahead and block them.

Virtual dating is a great way for people of all ages to meet others, but it’s a great way for scammers to make some money. Don’t be the next victim, no matter how good the story.

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2. Never Meet Someone Unless You’ve Talked for More Than Two Weeks

There’s a little back and forth about how long a person should “text date” before they meet. You don’t want to get into a situation where you only have a person that will text. You need to call and meet in person.

Allow at least a couple of weeks to go by before you schedule that in-person meeting. Two weeks is plenty of time to see if anything alarming comes up. You don’t want a text-only situation.

3. Always Do a Little Snooping

Before giving away your heart, you need to do a little digging. If they’re a real person, then they have a social media account. At least get their full name and then look them up in the city where they live.

Thanks to Google, you can’t hide anywhere these days. Do a bit of research before meeting them in person. Sadly, this could be someone else’s husband or wife you’re talking too.

4. Never Send Cash

Never, under any circumstances, send cash to anyone. Additionally, don’t send i-Tune gift cards or any other gifts they want. These are scammers, and your relationship is built on lies. They will lure in your heart and use you for every dime you have.

5. If They Seem Too Good to Be True, Then It’s a Lie

If it seems like you’ve met the perfect person, be leery. There is no such thing as perfection in human beings. If they look too good, their story is unbelievable, and they seem to want the same things as you, then be careful.

6. Use an Image Locator to Verify Their Pictures

Catfishing is so frequent these days that you must protect yourself at all costs. Get pictures and run them through Google’s image locator. If they took someone else’s photo from social media or anywhere else on the web, then this tool will identify them. Don’t believe everything you see or hear until you’ve met in person.

7. Video Chat Before Meeting in Person

It’s exciting to meet that special person that you’ve been talking too. However, before you make a date and schedule the place, you should video chat at least once. Video chatting takes away a little bit of the element of surprise.

You can see them face-to-face and make sure that what they say is true. If they’re using old or fake pictures, then they won’t want to have such a chat. However, if they have nothing to hide, then they will welcome it.

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8. Ask Personal Identifying Questions

While you don’t want to get too personal, like asking how much money they make, don’t be afraid to ask a few identifying questions. You don’t want your whole conversation to be in generalities.

To get to know someone, you need to know about their family and if their parents are still alive. Plus, these questions will help you to establish if they’re real or a scammer.

9. Don’t Use Old Pictures

If you expect the other person to be upfront and honest, then you must do the same. Make sure that you only use current pictures on your profile. While you may want to show them pictures of days gone by later, make sure your profile is accurate in how you look today.

10. Be 100 Percent Honest

Don’t put anything on your profile that could come back to bite you later. Make sure everything you write is 100 percent honest. Don’t put that you’re a chef when you’re a grill cook at a fast-food restaurant.

Many little white lies may come back to haunt you if you develop a relationship with this person. People feel free to embellish their attributes a bit when they’re hiding behind a virtual platform.

11. Don’t Share Anything Too Personal at First

When you first meet, you don’t want to give them too many details of your life. Please don’t share the names of your kids, where they go to school, or the name of your ex. These details can be used against you or to help with a scam.

Any identifying information should be reserved for conversations at a later date. Please stick to your basics, and leave everyone else out of it.

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12. Always Meet in a Public Place

The online dating world is full of people that want to hook up for one-night stands. You can identify these people quickly. However, even if you agree to such an event, make sure you first meet in a public place.

So many people get hurt physically while using virtual dating apps, and you want to make sure that safety is a priority. Let someone know where you will be and who you will be with, as it can help should there be an incident.

13. Use Proper Grammar in Your Communication

You want to use proper etiquette when dealing with the online dating world. While it may be cute to use abbreviations and emojis, try to stick to proper grammar and talk like an adult. You can loosen up a bit once you’ve been talking for a while, but you want the person or people you’re interested in to at least think you know how to have a civilized conversation.

14. Don’t Be Too Quick to Add Them as Friends To Social Media Platforms

Social media platforms are all the rage these days, and you may be eager to add people to your list. You can never be too careful. Once you add them as friends, you are letting them into your inner circle of information. Remember, they can post things to your wall and see something that you may not want them to see.

It would be best if you had been on a couple of dates before considering adding them to your social media accounts.

15. Avoid Fiery Topics

Finally, there are two topics that you want to avoid initially, which are religion and politics. These are very private and sore subjects to discuss, and you don’t want to come out of the gate with such controversial subjects. If they bring them up, then it’s giving you the green light for talking about these things, but you should never discuss them unless they seem okay with it.

Avoid virtual arguments and debates over religion and politics as it’s not worth your time. You shouldn’t care what some random person in the online dating world thinks about such things. The only time it affects you is if you decide to take the next step.

online datingFinal Thoughts on Trying These Online Dating Rules

Online dating has become the best way to meet people with American’s busy lives. While you may want to talk to that guy or gal from a foreign land, try to stick within a certain distance of your home. The chances of meetings someone real are better when you are shopping within a 100-mile radius.

Make sure you read through their entire profile before chatting. Don’t be afraid to tell them precisely what you’re looking for, and don’t leave out any details. You want this person to want the same things and like you for who you are, not what you tell them.

In the online dating world, honesty is still the best policy. Try to have fun and mingle a bit. Every person you talk to isn’t going to end up in a face-to-face encounter, but you can have fun just mingling with new people.

Researchers Reveal The Impact of Negativity And Stress on Kids

It’s a common misconception that stress does not significantly affect children. This statement couldn’t be further from the truth. Children who experience negativity and stress early on in life don’t just temporarily suffer. They could develop health problems of all kinds that follow them well into adulthood.

But how does this work? Why do these issues impact kids so severely? Don’t kids retain little to no memories before the age of 4? To clear things up and answer your burning questions, here is how researchers reveal the long-term impact of negativity and stress on children.

1.    Stress and Children

Researchers sought answers about the harmful effects of stress over the years. We are all now well-aware of the many consequences of being exposed to stress and negativity, especially over a prolonged period. But most of the most widely publicized studies focus on adults – and that does a good deal of disservice to research done into childhood stress.

Parents and guardians will often try to shield their children from the negativity in the world as much as possible. This can often involve trying to protect them by blocking out their knowledge of stressful events, such as the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic. This means that, to some degree, we are aware of the fact that stress is bad for children.

At the same time, many adults also believe that kids will forget about stressful situations quickly. This includes domestic fights or violence, the deaths of loved ones or pets, illness involving family members, and similar scenarios. But do they not know what’s going on? Will they forget?

Unfortunately, more and more science is revealing that though children may not remember all the details of adverse events – or understand what they remember – they are still able to perceive them as unfavorable and experience stress as a result. This stress, as it turns out, can be harmful in the long run.

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2.    The Formative Years

Most experts now agree that the earliest years of our lives are some of the most important. And, some of the first experiences of an individual will vary significantly shape who they become as an adult – and even what their health will be like.

One of the most significant factors that influence a child’s future is now recognized to be stress. This vital mechanism, when left unchecked in childhood, can dramatically change the wellbeing and overall health of that person in the future.

Examples of stress that can be present in a child’s life include overly strict or harsh parenting, neglect, abuse, and more, and the child who experiences these stressors can grow up to carry on the negative cycle with their children. Even below the age of three, these factors can affect a child. In-utero stress has adverse effects on children, not yet born!

3.    Studies That Indicate The Impact Of Negativity and Stress On Children

As we’ve previously mentioned, research has shed plenty of light on what happens to kids who are exposed to toxic levels of stress in early life. Here are some studies that have found answers as to the long-term impact of adverse circumstances on children:

·         Disturbances Of Attachment And Parental Psychopathology In Early Childhood

This study was published in the Child and Adolescent Psychiatric Clinics of North America journal in 2010. It reaffirmed the concept of attachment theory and urged proper psychological evaluation of parents, guardians, and children, as well as the relationship between children and their caregivers. Interventions are more essential to be provided to caregivers in this scenario, as encouraging guardians to be more supportive and parental to their children boosts the social relationship between them and their child as well as the child’s wellbeing.

·         Early Life Programming As A Target For Prevention Of Child And Adolescent Mental Disorders

This study was published in the BMC Medicine journal in 2014. It found that the mental and emotional state of pregnant women could affect the development of their developing babies. Adverse mental health could produce neurotic and teratogenic factors that could result in psychiatric disorders in the resulting children and teenagers.

·         Early-Life Stress and Adult Inflammation

This study was published in the Current Directions in Psychological Science journal in 2014. It found that toxic stress or prolonged stress experienced in the early stages of life, including childhood, could add risk factors to inflammation in adulthood. This inflammation puts the adults in question at a higher risk for severe physical health conditions.

·         Effects of Stress and Negativity on the Developing Brain

This study was published in the Cerebrum journal in 2011. It found that uneven or chaotic behavior and emotional tone in parenting and family life could result in impairment of a child’s emotional regulation and self-control later in life. Conversely, supportive care from parents, provided consistently, provides a child with a sufficient foundation for positive development over time.

·         The Lifelong Effects of Early Childhood Adversity and Toxic Stress

This study was published in the Pediatrics journal in 2012. It drew multiple damning conclusions, including linking maternal health to prenatal stress responses in children that could have lifelong effects. It also showed how the architecture of the brain is shaped by a mix of predisposition via genetics and the influence of the environment around a growing child. Toxic stress specifically disrupted the development of the architecture and even derailed the development of regulatory systems and organ function.

·         Parent Psychological States Predict Changes in Inflammatory Markers in Children With Asthma and Healthy Children

This study was published in the Brain, Behavior, and Immunity journal in 2008. Its findings suggested that children are not only aware of and sensitive to the psychological negativity of their parents but also that they can internalize that lack of positive thinking and have it manifest in their biology. This is seen through higher inflammatory markers noticed in children around distressed parents, which could lead to higher morbidity rates later in life.

·         The Science of Early Life Toxic Stress for Pediatric Practice and Advocacy

This study was published in the Pediatrics journal in 2013. This study reaffirms previously believed knowledge that toxic stress is harmful to children and urges pediatricians to learn to identify signs of this stress in their patients to intervene.

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4.    The Physical Response Of Stress

When you think of “stress,” you might attach mental health and psychological states to the word. What you may forget is that stress, especially in the case of its impact on children, refers to the physical responses of a child’s body to unfavorable, complicated, or negative situations.

To protect themselves, when a child (or anyone of any age) perceives a specific circumstance as threatening, frightening, or challenging, the body releases several different chemicals and triggers a few responses. This affects:

  • Metabolism
  • Heart rate
  • Blood pressure
  • Nervous system response
  • Hormones

When needed, these changes are beneficial and have nothing but positive benefits. They help you to overcome stressful and dangerous situations and survive difficult times. Unfortunately, frequent triggering of these chemical processes –  a “stress response” – does quite the opposite.

Children are still developing their stress responses. When that response is triggered too often, it stops being well-tuned and becomes impaired. This can cause excessive stress responses akin to a traumatic stress disorder. It can also cause the opposite – a too-low stress response that doesn’t fire when needed.

Children who have their stress responses triggered too often early in life can develop serious health problems in their adult lives. This includes:

  • Cardiovascular disease
  • Diabetes
  • High blood pressure
  • Obesity
  • Depressive disorders
  • Anxiety disorders
  • Post-traumatic stress disorder

5.    Is All Childhood Stress Dangerous?

We’ve harped pretty hard on childhood stress and its dangers – but is it all bad? First, let’s consider the three types of stress, which are as follows:

·         Type One: Positive Stress

Positive stress is a “healthy” and completely normal stress response. In children, it is entirely essential and necessary for proper development. These types of reactions are mild, not frequently triggered, and don’t last for a long time. Usually, children who receive parental support and protection while experiencing stress are experiencing positive stress. This allows them to get mentally stronger and gain resilience, intelligence, and motivation while positively learning new things.

·         Type Two: Tolerable Stress

Tolerable stress refers to slightly more frequent and severe stress responses that last longer than positive stress. This means that the triggered chemical responses have the chance to have negative effects on the brain. This type of stress refers to things like the passing away of someone close to you, the divorce of your parents, or something similar. In most cases, once the problem is removed or lessened, the brain can recover to a certain degree. In children, that can be more difficult, but with supportive relationships and guidance, it is possible.

·         Type Three: Toxic Stress

This type of stress is the most dangerous and harmful. It refers to a long activation of biochemical stress responses, often with the result of the body being unable to recover. Usually, in children, this type of stress comes about due to a lack of support from guardians or parents. Parents and guardians with mental disorders, substance abuse, and aggressive or negative behavior can predispose a child to develop toxic stress.

The kind of stress we’ve bashed most today is toxic stress. Positive stress, on the other hand, can be helpful. It’s a standard part of a child’s development, teaching them to think, overcome problems, and face obstacles head-on.

Tolerable stress, while not favorable, is usually unavoidable. Protecting a child when they experience tolerable stress is key to preventing it from developing into toxic stress later on. Tolerable stress can also help children experience mental growth or learn mental resilience and strength as they overcome the difficulties they face with guidance and support.

negativityFinal Thoughts On The Long Term Impact Of Negativity And Stress On Children

Negativity and toxic stress can have severe long-term consequences on children, but it doesn’t have to be that way. If you’re a guardian or caretaker, do what you can to ensure that the child in your care is equally protected and supported. Your aid will give them the positive thinking they need to avoid toxic stress responses!

Science Explains 10 Ways to Get Laser-Sharp Focus

The human brain is both exceptionally adaptable and resilient. Scientists have coined a term for these innate qualities of the brain: neuroplasticity.

Neuroplasticity can be defined as: “The brain’s ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural connections throughout life.” There’s an emphasis on the words ‘throughout life’ here. The reason is that most people think that brain development is stagnant after a certain age.

We now know this to be untrue.

Indeed, it is this neuroplasticity with which we are going to hone our focus abilities to their peak – regardless of age.

But we must first acknowledge that neuroplasticity is a double-edged sword. Our brains will absorb the bad just as much as the good. As such, we must do our best to eliminate the former to maximize such outstanding benefits like enhanced focus.

We’re going to define focus as ‘the ability to direct and hold our mental resources onto a task.’ That is, we direct our attention to what requires it – and hold it there until the task is complete.

This focusing ability may be the biggest differentiator between individuals who achieve what they set out to do – and those that don’t. In other words, a strong focus will almost assuredly lead to goal achievement.

Before getting into the ten scientifically-backed ways of achieving laser-like focus, let’s discuss what must first be overcome: distraction.

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Understanding Distraction

“By prevailing over all obstacles and distractions, one may unfailingly arrive at his chosen goal or destination.” ~ Christopher Columbus

When it comes to focusing, we must all deal with multiple distractions, all of which fall into one of two categories – internal distractions or external distractions. To truly focus requires that these disturbances be overcome or, at the very least, minimized.

Internal distractions are those that cloud the mind and stir the emotions. This inner frenzy is perhaps the biggest obstacle to doing what needs to be done. For referential purposes, here are just a few of the myriad internal distractions that we must overcome:

  • Lethargy
  • Laziness
  • Anxiety
  • Procrastination
  • Fear
  • Doubt
  • Hesitation
  • Boredom
  • Impulsiveness
  • Insecurity
  • Low self-worth

An internal distraction is one that originates from the mind or body that has nothing to do with the task at hand.

An external distraction is one that originates in your environment, and may include:

  • Chatty coworkers
  • Loud noises
  • IM notifications
  • Cell phone notifications
  • Chit-chat
  • Clutter (especially around your desk)
  • Kids playing
  • Pets
  • Poor lighting
  • Music
  • Email

An external distraction is one that originates from an outside stimulus that has nothing to do with the task at hand. Without recognizing and eliminating (or minimizing) these distractions, any attempts to become more focused will prove fruitless.

Now’s a good time to bring in the neuroplasticity effect.

If you remember, neuroplasticity can be thought of as a double-edged sword. In this case, distractions are one side of the sword – and focus is the other. What side of the blade are we going to choose? Also, keep in mind that once we want, it’s challenging to stop the brain’s powerful momentum!

Now, let’s get to the juicy part. Here are ten scientifically verified ways to achieve laser focus:

laser-sharp focus10 Approaches to getting Laser-Sharp Focus

“Concentrate all your thoughts upon the work at hand. The sun’s rays do not burn until brought to a focus.” ~ Alexander Graham Bell

  1. Eliminate distractions

This can not be repeated enough, which is why it’s again repeated here. We simply cannot focus optimally amidst a din of distraction.

Please make sure that you understand (really understand) this point before moving on.

In case you wanted to know the scientific ramifications of continuous distraction, consider the following findings by the London Institute of Psychiatry:

  • Emails produce an “addictive, drug-like grip” on our attention.
  • The average IQ loss caused by distractions is about 10 points.
  • Compulsive activity tires and slows down the brain
  • A study revealed an “almost complete lack of discipline” in how we handle emails and virtual communications.

Move away from that chatty coworker. Deal with any internal conflict. Put on some headphones. Pop in some earplugs. Show some restraint in how you handle emails and text messages.

Get rid of or minimize distractions, and your focus will automatically be enhanced.

  1. Monotask

Almost (but not quite!) as important as eliminating distractions is doing one thing at a time.

The simple fact, which is uncomfortable to some, is that multitasking is mostly a myth. For emphasis: multitasking doesn’t exist.

Task-switching, on the other hand, does exist, and it couldn’t be any different from “multitasking.” Task-switching is precisely that: we engage and disengage our attention with multiple tasks – sometimes very quickly. We’re not handling two tasks simultaneously, ever.

If it sounds like task-switching is inefficient, that’s because it is. First, there’s a sort of attention residue that remains as we move on from a task. Per Science Direct, attention residue “refers to cognitions about a [task] that persist even though one has stopped working on [the task]… and is now working on Task B.”

The result is that we drain our cognitive resources while getting less done.

  1. Say ‘No’

Look, nobody likes to say ‘no.’ But here’s the thing: every time we say ‘yes’ to something, we’re saying ‘no’ to something else.

What are we saying ‘no’ to? Possibly those things that can improve our lives. So, in a way, we’re always saying no to something. It’s our job to make sure we’re saying no to things that bring little value.

What are those things?

They usually come in the form of ‘favors.’ To make things harder, people are pretty good at making you feel bad if you turn down their pleadings of “Pretty please…”

Ask yourself what you can afford in terms of time, then give in.

  1. Manage your energy, not your time

It’s so much easier to remain focused on something if we have adequate energy levels. Moreover, we perform at our best when our energy levels are high.

It only makes sense then to schedule the necessary things for when your energy peaks.

Unfortunately, we’re often in the habit of planning things using time as a barometer. The problem with traditional scheduling is that it doesn’t consider your energy capacity. This isn’t a big deal if the task is dull and monotonous. It is a big deal if the job requires some real brainpower.

  1. Get proper sleep

This one needs to introduction. For proper focus, it is essential to get adequate sleep. Per the National Sleep Foundation (NSF), seven to nine eyes of shuteye not only enhances focus, but also aids in decision making, productivity, reaction time, and memory.

  1. Practice meditation

Talk about something that should need no introduction. Meditation, done correctly, may just be the most useful mind and brain training there is. Quite simply, no activity hones attentional skills quite like a regular meditation practice.

In a study published in the journal Psychiatry Research, participants of two types of meditation – focused-attention (FA) and open monitoring (OM) realized improved executive attention (or ‘attentional control.’) Scientists witnessed no improvement in concentration in the relaxation-only group.

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  1. Drink some java

Here’s some good news for all of the coffee lovers! Meta-analysis research shows that drinking up to four cups of brewed coffee per day improves cognitive function, “particularly alertness and vigilance [and] … perception of fatigue.”

The research also found that up to 400 mg of tea per day (around 8 cups) produces similar cognitive benefits.

  1. Listen to Mozart

Researchers from Stanford University found that listening to classical music enhances the attentional capacity. If this sounds familiar, you’re probably thinking of the so-called ‘Mozart Effect,’ which purports that listening to Mozart increases general intelligence.

Why classical music and not another genre? Because classical music is entirely instrumental. There are no words or lyrics to cause distraction. Moreover, since much classical music features periods of silence – known as “transition points” – it helps to keep hearers alert and attention.

  1. Get some cardio

We most commonly associate exercise with physical improvements, but the effect can be mental as well. Plenty of research suggests that cardiovascular exercise (‘cardio’) increases the size of the brain’s hippocampus, the brain area involved in learning and verbal memory.

Per an article published by Harvard Medical School, exercise improves the brain both directly and indirectly. It lowers inflammation, reduces insulin resistance, and stimulates the release of growth factors known as ‘BDNF.’ It can be deduced that physical activity improves focus as well, as exercise is known to improve mood and sleep and reduce anxiety and stress indirectly.laser-sharp focus

  1. Practice relaxed concentration

To reap the full benefits of focus, you must remain relaxed and at ease. Too much tension caused by over-striving isn’t conducive to concentration and will only hinder your efforts.

Allow the mind’s focus to emerge naturally from a mind and body that’s at ease, rather than constricted or tight.

Scientists Reveal 7 Ways to Increase Your Frequency

In essence, everything you see around, you wouldn’t exist without thoughts and vibrations. Consciousness continues to live on even after we die, which shows that reality operates as a strong illusion. If we want to understand how the multiverse works, we have to go beyond the 3D world we see before us and tap into what holds it together – frequency.

We influence our reality every second based on our thoughts, energy field, and vibrations. In other words, we can create our reality according to the frequency at which we operate. By increasing your frequency, you have a much easier time attracting things and people into your existence, which positively affect you.

“If you want to find the secrets of the universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration.” ― Nikola Tesla

Below, we’ll give you more insight into how you can raise your energy levels to bring more positivity into your life.

Here are seven ways to increase your frequency:

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  1. Eat lighter foods, like raw fruits and veggies.

Dense foods such as meats, processed foods, and alcohol lower your vibration. Eating foods that don’t come from nature weigh you down and therefore decrease your frequency. However, eating lighter meals that have a lower karmic load, such as fruits and veggies, will naturally raise your energy levels. Foods that come from nature have a lot of prana, or life force energy.

Boxed foods and meats have much less life force energy, making you feel dull and unenthusiastic about life. If you want to feel more vibrant, here are some foods to include in your diet:

  • fruits
  • veggies
  • nuts
  • seeds
  • grains like quinoa and brown rice
  • raw dairy
  • eggs on occasion

You want to avoid alcohol and any mind-altering substances as well; while they will help ease your mind, they act as depressants that numb you, which will negatively impact you in the long run.

  1. Be mindful of the TV shows, books, and music you consume.

Just like the foods we eat can either increase or decrease our vibration, so can the types of entertainment we allow into our lives. While we should keep aware of current events, overconsumption of news and social media can drain our life force energy. Much of the press focuses on the negative occurrences in our world, so watching too much of it can raise cortisol levels and put us in a pessimistic mindset.

The entertainment we choose should uplift us and give us a sense of peace. Anything that causes discord or fear in our energy field should either be eliminated or significantly reduced to enhance our energy. Instead of spending hours scrolling social media, which tends to leave people feeling anxious and depressed, why not watch an inspirational video or TV show? What we give our attention to expands in our consciousness, so by feeding our brains positive information, our whole world will start to become brighter.

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  1. Get out into nature!

One of the best ways to increase your frequency sits right outside your front door. We evolved to spend plenty of time in the sunshine, but our modern environments filled with overstimulation and artificial lighting have far removed us from what our bodies need. Make sure to spend at least 15-30 minutes per day getting some fresh air, as Vitamin D can help alleviate depression and boost your immune system.

  1. Practice meditation and breathing exercises.

To raise your consciousness above the limited ego, you have to slow down your breathing and go deep within to access your soul. Meditation and breathwork offer some of the best ways to increase your frequency while providing many health benefits, such as better concentration, lower stress, and reduced risk of high blood pressure and heart disease, among others.

Meditation involves quieting and the mind and paying attention to the breath, which will ground you in the present moment. Eventually, you’ll notice your racing thoughts will start to dissipate, and you’ll have much less attachment to them. Many people allow their thoughts to torment them, but in meditation, you’ll realize that you exist beyond your mind. You have opinions, but they don’t define you.

You should perform the breathing exercises before meditating to prepare the mind and body for deep concentration. Below, we’ll go over some of the best breath techniques that will relax you and raise your frequency at the same time.

depression memeBest breath exercises for raising consciousness:

– THE 2-TO-1 EXERCISE

For this exercise, you will exhale for twice as long as you inhale on a single breath. The sympathetic nervous system becomes less stimulated during this exercise while activating the parasympathetic nervous system. This will help slow down the heart rate and relax your body as your breathing becomes less shallow and more grounded.

Inhale and exhale as deeply as possible so you push out any accumulated toxins and carbon dioxide within the body, which will increase blood flow to the heart and lungs. Make sure you sit up straight in a chair or lie down on a bed for this exercise. Keep your spine aligned and your arms at your sides with the palms facing upward. Contract your abdominal muscles to push out any extra air.

– THE 4-7-8 BREATHING EXERCISE

Also known as the “Relaxing Breath,” this breathing technique especially helps people with insomnia to fall asleep faster. Creator Dr. Andrew Weil describes this breathing exercise as “a natural tranquilizer for the nervous system.” Dr. Weil developed the 4-7-8 breathing method to help people combat insomnia as well as reduce stress and anxiety in their daily lives. This exercise works so well because it helps people feel more grounded by increasing mindfulness and soothing the nervous system.

To perform this exercise, simply inhale through your nose for four seconds, hold for seven and exhale through your mouth for eight seconds. During the training, keep the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth just behind your front teeth. Concentrate on keeping your breaths consistent, and try to do the exercise at least twice a day.

– BELLY BREATHING

Most people breathe shallowly through their chests, which only increases feelings of stress and anxiety. To get the most benefit from your breath, make sure to take deep, slow breaths through your diaphragm. Harvard Health says this type of breathing will slow your heart rate, stabilize blood pressure, and allow you to fall asleep easier.

– ALTERNATE NOSTRIL BREATHING

Originating from a yoga breathing practice called pranayama, this breathing technique involves alternating the breath between nostrils. To start, place your right thumb on your right nostril and inhale deeply through the left. When you’ve inhaled fully, pause, remove your thumb and place your ring finger on your left nostril. Then, exhale slowly and deeply. Repeat this exercise for several breath cycles.

  1. Move your body.

As you can see from this list, raising your frequency mostly involves taking care of the mind and body properly. In our fast-paced world, many of us neglect our mental and physical health, which only lowers our vibration. Not only does exercise improve our physical health, but it keeps our minds healthy as well. Experts recommend getting at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity per week as well as strength training exercises for all muscle groups at least two times per week.

  1. Focus on feelings such as gratitude, love, and generosity.

Our emotions play a significant role in determining our frequency. High vibe emotions like love and forgiveness make us feel lighter and more vibrant, while negative feelings like anger and envy cause heaviness within the body. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t honor your feelings, but don’t allow yourself to dwell on them. Allow them to pass through you, and try to remain in a joyous, loving state as much as possible.

  1. Hang out with positive people.

Don’t allow people to steal your energy away; make sure you surround yourself with positive people who will uplift you. Negative people tend to drain others of power because they have none to offer themselves, so avoid these types of energy vampires whenever possible. You may attract them because of your infectious positivity, but that doesn’t mean you have to give them your energy and time if you don’t want to.

frequencyFinal thoughts on how to increase your frequency

Nothing in the universe would exist without energy and vibrations, including us! At our core, thoughts and life force energy allow us to remain in human bodies, so if we want to level up in life, we should focus on increasing our frequency.

As we said above, maintaining your health with proper diet, exercise, meditation, and immersing yourself in a positive company will help to raise your vibrations. Also, avoid overconsumption of negative media and news, and concentrate on positive emotions such as love, gratitude, and compassion.

If we all did this, imagine how much more peaceful and blissful our world could become!

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